UnDoing We with Mardi Winder

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UnDoing We: Divorce and Life Conversations is not your typical divorce show. Hosted by Mardi Winder, a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach with experience as a domestic violence client advocate and behavioral consultant for schools, this show offers real talk, expert advice, and honest discussions on ending a relationship and the opportunity to redefine your life. Each episode provides practical guidance and emotional insight to help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Tune in for candid conversations with top experts on legal, financial, co-parenting, mindset, wellness, and more. UnDoing We is where your next chapter begins.

  1. Breaking the Silence on Childhood Abuse - Dr. Pamela J. Pine

    3d ago

    Breaking the Silence on Childhood Abuse - Dr. Pamela J. Pine

    Mardi Winder talks with Dr. Pamela J. Pine, an international health development professional and leading advocate on preventing and addressing child sexual abuse and other adverse childhood experiences. Together, they address the often unspoken realities of how conflict, whether high, moderate, or even low-level, within families can deeply affect children, shaping their lives long after the events themselves. Dr. Pine shares her personal and professional journey, including the influence of her upbringing and her mother’s commitment to social justice, and outlines how she was drawn into this challenging and vital field. The conversation covers the broad range of trauma children can experience, from witnessing domestic violence to direct abuse and neglect, and how these experiences manifest not just emotionally, but also neurologically and physically throughout life. Dr. Pine emphasizes the importance of understanding that most instances of abuse occur within trusted circles, dispelling myths of stranger danger and highlighting the impact of family dynamics. The episode also focuses on the power of communication and honesty with children, the dangers of secrecy, and practical ways parents and communities can support those at risk. Mardi and Dr. Pine encourage listeners to increase their awareness, offer support, and push for open discussions in community spaces.  Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com  About the Guest Pamela J. Pine, PhD, MPH, has been an international health, development, and communication professional throughout her adult life, supporting the lives of poor and otherwise underserved groups, with a two-decade specialty on preventing and mitigating child sexual abuse (CSA) and other adverse childhood experiences (ACEs). She is the Founder/Director of Stop the Silence® - A Department of the Institute on Violence, Abuse and Trauma (IVAT). She is also a professor, best-selling and award-winning author, and a multimedia artist, which she uses in her work to open hearts and minds.  To connect with Dr. Pine: Website: https://www.ivatcenters.org/stop-the-silence, Website: https://www.drpamelajpine.com, Email: pamelap@ivatcenters.org

    29 min
  2. Empowered Money Conversations with Guest, Julia Shteynberg

    Jun 5

    Empowered Money Conversations with Guest, Julia Shteynberg

    Mardi Winder sits down with Julia Shteynberg, who brings her experience from the world of corporate finance to her work as a money coach. The conversation is friendly and easy-going, and Julia is quick to reassure listeners that you don’t have to be a celebrity or a billionaire to be considered a high earner. In fact, anyone bringing in over $100,000 is already facing many of the same emotional and practical challenges around money. Julia opens up about her own journey, explaining how she left her corporate job because it just wasn’t lighting her up anymore. She shares how money always seemed to “make sense” to her, and after some encouragement from family, she realized she could help others too, especially women, feel more confident and less stressed when it comes to their finances. She reminds us that so much of how we handle money is tied to the habits and beliefs we pick up as kids, often without even realizing it. Throughout the chat, Mardi Winder and Julia Shteynberg swap stories about fear, avoidance, and how people can feel stuck or overwhelmed, even when they appear to be doing well. Julia talks about things like “lifestyle creep” and the difference between spending with intention and just letting money slip through your fingers. She also breaks down the idea of creating simple systems, setting goals, making plans, and putting habits in place, so money feels less stressful and more like a tool you can actually use to support your life, whether you’re going through big changes like divorce or just trying to feel more secure day to day.  Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com  Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About Julia Shteynberg: Once in corporate finance, now a money coach, Julia Shteynberg helps high earners design a custom money system that aligns with their values and grows wealth. Through her Money Makeover program, she empowers women to manage their money with confidence and ease. Outside of talking money, Julia loves to explore the world, eat good food, drink good wine with her husband, and practice Pilates! For Julia’s gift: https://money-coach-julia.kit.com/2f6f2dcac0  To connect with Julia: Website: www.moneycoachjulia.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliashteynberg/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliashteynberg/

    16 min
  3. Master Emotional Freedom After Abusive Relationships with Kate Mayor

    May 29

    Master Emotional Freedom After Abusive Relationships with Kate Mayor

    Host Mardi Winder welcomes Kate Mayor, psychotherapist and emotional abuse recovery specialist, for an insightful discussion on healing after a toxic or narcissistic relationship. Drawing from both professional expertise and her own experience leaving an emotionally abusive marriage, Kate shares the challenges survivors often face, including fear, self-doubt, guilt, and manipulation during and after separation. Kate explains how high-conflict individuals may use tactics such as victim-playing, smear campaigns, and emotional manipulation, and offers practical guidance on staying focused, building support systems, and protecting your well-being. She also introduces The Healing Place, her app featuring tools such as CBT, tapping, hypnosis, and quantum healing to help individuals rebuild confidence, self-trust, and emotional resilience. This empowering conversation offers hope, practical strategies, and encouragement for anyone navigating recovery and reclaiming their life after emotional abuse. Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com  Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com  To connect with Kate: Website:https://rapidlifechangetherapy.com/ Bust Fear and Become Live Online Course: https://rapidlifechangetherapy.com/letgooffearandbecome

    30 min
  4. Know Your Financial Options in Divorce with Donna S. Cates

    May 22

    Know Your Financial Options in Divorce with Donna S. Cates

    On this episode of UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder welcomes Donna S. Cates, founder of Money Matters Wealth Solutions, Financial Strategist, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®). Together, they explore the financial decisions during divorce that can have long-term consequences. Donna shares practical insights on dividing retirement accounts, understanding tax implications, handling QDROs and IRA rollovers, and avoiding costly mistakes when making decisions about the marital home. She also explains why involving a financial professional early in the process can help protect your future and provide greater peace of mind. This informative conversation offers guidance, clarity, and empowering strategies for women navigating divorce, retirement, and other major life transitions. Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com More about Donna: Donna Cates is the founder of Money Matters Wealth Solutions and a Financial Strategist, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®), and retirement planning specialist who helps women become financially unshakeable. She works with women navigating major life transitions such as divorce, widowhood, retirement, and reinvention, guiding them to build real wealth, real security, and real options. Donna’s work isn’t about fear-based planning or playing small. It’s about clarity, confidence, and the power to choose on a woman’s own terms. She believes true financial security is about dignity, peace, and freedom, and that no woman should ever have to rely on someone else to protect her future.  For Donna’ book “A Woman's Guide To Financial Security And Fair Settlement: Because She Is Her Own Financial Plan (Divorce Decoded)”: https://a.co/d/0dzvMCoq  Connect with Donna: Website: https://moneymatterswealth.com/

    28 min
  5. Embrace Change and Transformation After Divorce with Pritha Dindayal

    May 19

    Embrace Change and Transformation After Divorce with Pritha Dindayal

    Host Mardi Winder welcomes transformation coach Pritha Dindayal, who shares her powerful journey through divorce, personal loss, and major life transitions. Together, they explore why many people feel stuck between endings and new beginnings, and how old fears and patterns can quietly hold us back. Pritha offers practical insights on recognizing limiting beliefs, building supportive connections, and making intentional choices that restore confidence and self-trust. She also introduces her free guide to help reframe thought patterns after divorce. This episode provides inspiration and actionable tools for anyone ready to move forward with clarity, resilience, and purpose. Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com  Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com  More about Pritha: Pritha Dindayal is a Transformation Coach who helps women navigate the in-between phase after something ends — a breakup, divorce, career shift, or identity change. She works with women who look fine on the outside but feel unsettled, stuck, or unsure on the inside. Pritha helps women recognize the invisible patterns they keep defaulting to and learn how to live from who they are now, not who they used to be.  For Pritha’s gift: https://breakthrough-with-pritha.kit.com/a2ef29790f To connect with Pritha: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakthroughwithpritha/

    30 min
  6. Release Past Pain for Healthier Relationships with Olya Piccirillo

    May 10

    Release Past Pain for Healthier Relationships with Olya Piccirillo

    In this engaging and thought-provoking episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Olya Piccirillo, an accomplished wellness practitioner whose personal journey through illness, loss, and profound transformation has shaped her holistic approach to healing. Their conversation explores the deep, sometimes overlooked connection between unresolved trauma and physical health, drawing on both Western and Eastern perspectives on wellness. Olya shares how her early experiences with chronic illness and the loss of her husband revealed a pattern and how true healing goes beyond nutrition and lifestyle changes, reaching into the layers of emotional and energetic blocks stored in the body. Together, Mardi and Olya highlight how many of us unconsciously respond to life’s stressors and losses with repeated patterns—seeking comfort in food, numbing ourselves, or struggling with chronic health issues that traditional medicine may not fully address.  The episode invites listeners to consider how their own history might be affecting their present, especially during major life transitions like divorce. Olya emphasizes the power of self-awareness and self-compassion, guiding clients to recognize old wounds and discover their capacity to rewrite their story. She also provides listeners with a free emotional detox assessment and invites them to explore support without obligation, underscoring how valuable it can be to take the first steps toward emotional and physical well-being. Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com  Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About the Guest Olya Piccirillo is Wellness Practitioner who helps people release the emotional and energetic blocks that impact their health, weight, and well-being. Her work explores the deep mind-body connection and how unresolved trauma—including ancestral and spiritual influences—can silently shape our health and life choices. Olya empowers women to heal the past so they can transform their future.  FREE GIFT: The Emotional Detox Checklist: https://emotionaldetox.bio-matrix.net/checklist To connect with Olya: Central link site for Olya: https://olya360.com

    26 min
  7. Mortgage And Refinancing Considerations In Divorce Stacey Ellison

    May 2

    Mortgage And Refinancing Considerations In Divorce Stacey Ellison

    On this episode, we shine a spotlight on a critical, but often overlooked, part of the divorce process: mortgages and refinancing. Host Mardi Winder is joined by Stacey Ellison, a certified divorce lending professional and experienced divorce mortgage planner. Together, they demystify the financial hurdles divorcing homeowners face, including talking about assumptions, equity buyouts, and why what’s written in your divorce decree may not always be doable when the real world (and real lenders) get involved. Stacey Ellison draws on her expertise to explain how mortgage guidelines shift during divorce, what it actually takes to keep or refinance a home, and why consulting the right professionals can make or break your financial future during and after a split. Whether your house is worth $200,000 or $10 million, you’ll walk away with practical insights into protecting your assets, qualifying for a loan, and building a sustainable post-divorce life. If you’re navigating divorce and property decisions, or just want to learn what goes on behind the scenes of housing settlements, this episode is a must-listen. Join us as we dive into the details and help you prepare to make informed, empowered choices for your future!  Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com  Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com  About the Guest Stacey Ellison is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional and Divorce Mortgage Planner with a deep understanding of the financial complexities that arise during and after divorce. With over 30 years of experience in the mortgage industry, Stacey brings a unique blend of technical knowledge and compassionate guidance to individuals navigating one of life’s most challenging transitions. Since earning her CDLP® designation in 2020, Stacey has worked closely with family law attorneys, mediators, financial planners, and other divorce professionals to provide strategic mortgage guidance tailored to each client’s needs.  Her role is to ensure that both parties in a divorce understand their options when it comes to home equity, mortgage qualification, and long-term housing goals. Whether helping a client determine if they can keep the marital home, qualify for a new mortgage, or explore equitable buyout solutions, Stacey provides clarity, structure, and confidence in the decision-making process. Her goal is to help divorcing homeowners make sound financial choices that support both their immediate needs and long-term stability.  To connect with Stacey: Linked in: linkedin.com/in/stacey-ellison-694052a Divorce Lending Assoc: divorcelendingassociation.com/offices/stacey-ellison.cfm

    30 min
  8. Can You Mediate High-Conflict Divorces – Part 2

    Apr 27

    Can You Mediate High-Conflict Divorces – Part 2

    Can You Mediate High-Conflict Divorces – Part 2 Financial empowerment and emotional preparedness are at the center of this meaningful conversation with Victoria Kirilloff, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, as she joins Mardi Winder for the second part of their discussion about navigating divorce with high-conflict personalities.  Victoria recounts her own journey through a decade-long relationship with a covert narcissist, emphasizing the importance of safety, support, and trauma awareness when separating from a high-conflict partner. She highlights how having a clear understanding of the financial aspects—particularly through documentation, cash flow analysis, and setting specific goals—can serve as an anchor amid the turbulence of divorce. Mardi and Victoria acknowledge the emotional hurdles many face, from gaslighting to trauma bonding, and explore why specialized, trauma-informed guidance is critical when standard legal approaches fall short. Together, they offer practical strategies for uncovering and verifying financial information, even when the other party is uncooperative or deceptive. Victoria Kirilloff explains how working closely with professionals like CDFAs can empower those in the process, helping to minimize stress and avoid costly, drawn-out legal battles. The episode closes with a reminder about the necessity of planning, self-advocacy, and having a strong support team. Victoria introduces her Divorce Goals workbook to help listeners clarify their objectives through all phases of divorce. Throughout, the message is clear: with the right support and preparation, it is possible to reclaim confidence and security, even amidst the challenges of a high-conflict divorce. Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com  About the Guest Victoria Kirilloff, CDFA®, NCPM®, CDS®, was at a crossroads in a decade-long, financially entangled relationship that had turned toxic. To find her way out, she leveraged her background in financial analysis, creating the first Global Settlement Proposal and divorce report. This helped her and her partner reach a peaceful separation, sparking an idea: she could help others navigate divorce with financial clarity and empowerment. Victoria went on to found Divorce Analytics, a firm dedicated to making the financial side of divorce transparent and productive. By focusing on financial facts, she transforms divorce from a destructive process into one of empowerment. Victoria has also released a 9-part Divorce Planning Kit, available at DivorceAnalytics.com/shop. Along with her many financial licenses, she’s a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and Nationally Certified Professional Mediator®.  To connect with Victoria: Website: https://www.divorceanalytics.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/divorce-analytics

    30 min
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UnDoing We: Divorce and Life Conversations is not your typical divorce show. Hosted by Mardi Winder, a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach with experience as a domestic violence client advocate and behavioral consultant for schools, this show offers real talk, expert advice, and honest discussions on ending a relationship and the opportunity to redefine your life. Each episode provides practical guidance and emotional insight to help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Tune in for candid conversations with top experts on legal, financial, co-parenting, mindset, wellness, and more. UnDoing We is where your next chapter begins.

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    WGSN-DB Going Solo Network
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    48
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