UnDoing We with Mardi Winder

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UnDoing We: Divorce and Life Conversations is not your typical divorce show. Hosted by Mardi Winder, a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach with experience as a domestic violence client advocate and behavioral consultant for schools, this show offers real talk, expert advice, and honest discussions on ending a relationship and the opportunity to redefine your life. Each episode provides practical guidance and emotional insight to help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Tune in for candid conversations with top experts on legal, financial, co-parenting, mindset, wellness, and more. UnDoing We is where your next chapter begins.

  1. 1d ago

    Divorce Coaching The Support You Didn’t Know You Needed Kelli Sedwick-Drummond

    In this episode, Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder welcomes Kelly Sedwick Drummond, Certified Divorce and Life Coach and founder of KJSD Coaching, for a conversation about the value of divorce coaching during one of life’s most difficult transitions. Drawing from her own divorce experience, Kelly explains how coaching can provide emotional support, practical guidance, and clarity alongside legal and therapeutic professionals. Together, they discuss common fears such as financial uncertainty, losing the family home, judgment, and feeling alone—and why self-compassion, support, and knowing your options can make the path forward feel more manageable.  About the Guest Kelli Sedwick-Drummond, a certified divorce and life coach and owner of KJSD Coaching, has an extensive background in fitness, wellness, and client service across various industries. She is also a proud mom to three amazing kids. Since leaving an abusive marriage and recovering from her own divorce, Kelli is determined to help others find the "up" in upheaval and build a life they love.  To connect with Kelli: Website: https://kjsdcoach.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelli-sedwick-drummond-1b1a4b260/  Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    Divorce Coaching The Support You Didn’t Know You Needed Kelli Sedwick-Drummond

  2. Aug 10

    Simple Steps To Building The Life You Love with Guest, Megan Bunnell

    Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder welcomes life coach and spark-restorer for women, Megan Bunnell, for an inspiring conversation about rebuilding life after divorce, trauma, and emotional abuse. Megan shares her deeply personal journey of leaving an abusive relationship, navigating grief and the loss of her identity, and ultimately creating what she now describes as a "10 out of 10" life. Together, they explore why so many accomplished, high-achieving women silently carry the weight of pain while believing they have to keep it all together. Megan explains how acknowledging where you are, rather than pretending everything is fine, is often the first step toward healing and creating lasting change. Throughout the conversation, Megan offers practical strategies for rebuilding confidence, developing self-compassion, rewriting the stories we tell ourselves, and intentionally creating a future that reflects who we truly want to become. She also shares insights into her Unstoppable You Assessment, a tool designed to help women identify where they are today and discover meaningful next steps toward the life they deserve. Transformation doesn't happen overnight, but every new beginning starts with a single intentional step. This conversation is a reminder that healing is possible, your past does not define your future, and your best chapter may still be waiting to be written.  About the Guest Megan Bunnell is a life coach, speaker, and unapologetic spark-restorer for women who refuse to stay broken after divorce. A former teacher and corporate professional, Megan rebuilt her life after an emotionally abusive marriage, deep grief, and a complete identity unraveling. Now, as the founder of Tantalum Coaching and host of the Empowered & Unstoppable podcast, she helps high-achieving women stop merely “coping” and start creating 10/10 lives they’re obsessed with waking up to.  Equal parts science nerd, straight-talking best friend, and bulldog with a heart of gold, Megan blends thought and emotional management with brutally honest self-reflection to help women rise stronger, softer, and more powerful than ever. Her message is simple: your past may explain you, but it does not define your future.  For Megan’s gift: https://unstoppableyouassessment.meganbunnellcoaching.com/  To connect with Megan: Website: www.meganbunnellcoaching.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meganbunnell.lifecoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MeganBunnell.LifeCoaching Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/megan-bunnell/ Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com  Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    Simple Steps To Building The Life You Love with Guest, Megan Bunnell

  3. Aug 2

    When Life Forces a Reset Finding the Courage to Begin Again - Guest, J Lumen

    Sometimes life changes because we choose it. Sometimes life changes because the change chooses us. In this episode, Mardi Winder welcomes transformational trainer, certified master life coach, and bestselling contributing author J. Lumen for a conversation about rebuilding your life after unexpected change. J. shares how, from the outside, her life appeared to be on track. She had a long-term relationship, a stable career, and all the pieces that were supposed to add up to happiness. But beneath the surface, she felt exhausted, unfulfilled, and convinced she simply had to keep pushing through until life somehow got better. After ending her relationship, everything changed. Her former boyfriend unexpectedly appeared at her home and held her hostage in a terrifying ordeal that forever altered the course of her life. Looking back, J. reflects on the absence of the warning signs people often expect, offering an important reminder that dangerous situations are not always easy to recognize. Rather than allowing that experience to define her future, J. chose to rebuild. She and Mardi discuss how reconnecting with your values, rediscovering what brings you joy, and taking small, intentional steps can help create a life that feels authentic and fulfilling. They explore why confidence comes from action, not perfection, and why you don't have to have every answer before taking the first step forward.  Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com  Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com  About J.. Lumen : She is a Transformation Trainer, an International Speaker, Certified Master Life Coach and an International best-selling contributing author. J. knows first-hand how it feels to be silently dissatisfied with life. For her, this was feeling trapped in a relationship that was emotionally over and at a toxic job she hated but not seeing a way out or even what she wanted. Eventually breaking free from the relationship, she convinced herself of all the reasons to keep the job and figure out what she wanted. But two months later, an unexpected knock at her door changed her life drastically as the night ended with an arrest for attempted murder. Of her. Using her own transformation, she's on a mission to empower others to stop waiting for a life-altering event of their own and start living a life they'd never imagine possible, full of authentic joy and one they don't regret.  J.’s gift: https://resumeyourlife.com/ To connect with J.: Website: https://theunknownbucketlist.com/ LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/J.lumen8

    When Life Forces a Reset Finding the Courage to Begin Again - Guest, J Lumen

  4. Jul 26

    Unlock ADHD Strategies For Divorce Success with Leanne Gawley

    In this episode, the conversation centers around the unique challenges that women with ADHD and other neurodivergent traits may face when moving through divorce and major relationship changes. Leanne Gawley, founder of The ADHD Advantage, joins the podcast to share her personal experiences as a late-diagnosed adult with ADHD and how this discovery reshaped her approach to both her personal and professional life. Leanne discusses how her own journey, sparked by advocating for her son and later recognizing similar patterns in herself and her husband, highlighted the often-missed ways ADHD presents in women, particularly the internalized struggles and strong feelings of self-blame. Mardi and Leanne move the discussion into the practical realities of navigating stressful life events for neurodivergent individuals, particularly when organization, deadlines, and overwhelming administrative tasks become unavoidable. Leanne offers supportive strategies, including breaking tasks into manageable steps, celebrating small achievements, and designing routines that honor rather than fight against how her brain works. She also speaks to the importance of having professionals who are understanding and flexible, especially for clients whose thought processes and needs may not fit standard expectations. Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com  Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About Leanne Gawley: She is the founder of The ADHD Advantage with Leanne Gawley, a Calgary-based coaching practice serving women in leadership and neurodivergent professionals and families. A former C-Suite finance executive and late-diagnosed woman with ADHD, Leanne knows firsthand how an ADHD brain can quietly complicate the things that look simple on paper: staying on top of deadlines, keeping files organized, and communicating clearly when emotions are running high. She brings her lived experience, along with her CPA, MBA, and ICF ACC credentials, to help clients build systems that actually work for their brains, not against them. Leanne is also a Canadian Certified Inclusion Professional with deep roots in neurodiversity advocacy and workplace inclusion. She coaches virtually worldwide and is currently writing her first book, Brilliant and Wired Differently: The ADHD Advantage. For Leanne’s gift: https://adhd.leannegawley.ca/  To connect with Leanne: www.leannegawley.ca www.linkedin.com/in/lgawley/

    Unlock ADHD Strategies For Divorce Success with Leanne Gawley

  5. Jul 18

    Pros and Cons Of a DIY Divorce with Guest Tracey Bee JD

    In this episode, the conversation centers around the real-life pros and cons of handling a divorce on your own. Mardi Winder talks with Tracey Bee, sharing her story as a former family law attorney turned court strategist. Listeners get a down-to-earth look at what it really takes to go through divorce without hiring a lawyer. Tracey talks about why she left traditional law to help people complete their own divorce, and she’s honest about how tough family court can be, especially when there’s conflict, complicated finances, or one party who isn’t playing fair. Throughout the episode, there’s an emphasis on knowing when a DIY (pro se) divorce might make sense, such as in straightforward situations with little drama or complicated financial matters. Tracey also highlights a few warning signs that signal you really should have a lawyer, including abuse, a language barrier, or big financial stakes. She points out that judges and attorneys have their own way of operating, which often doesn’t line up with what people expect from watching TV or reading online, so it’s important to have realistic expectations from the start.  There’s plenty of practical advice on preparing for mediation, getting clear about what you want, and not getting too caught up in specific outcomes. Tracey and Mardi remind listeners to focus on what their life could look like after the divorce, rather than just fighting for one result or another. The episode wraps with a genuinely helpful reminder: just because you can handle things solo doesn’t always mean it’s the best choice, and having the right support and information is what really makes the difference.  Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com  About the Guest Tracey Bee is the Founder of The Divorce Solutionist and a former family law attorney turned Pro Se Family Court Strategist. She focuses on helping people successfully navigate the complex Family Court system using strategy and not just the law.  Connect with Tracey: Wednesday 10-4pm ET calls: 862-800-7850 Website: https://thedivorcesolutionist.com/

    Pros and Cons Of a DIY Divorce with Guest Tracey Bee JD

  6. Jul 10

    Turning Pressure Into Power with Guest, Shairose Gulamani

    How do you know when pressure is pushing you toward your best performance and when it has crossed the line into stress that is quietly affecting your health, judgment, and confidence? In this episode, Mardi Winder welcomes award-winning executive coach and international speaker Shairose Gulamani for a thoughtful conversation about the important difference between pressure and stress, and why recognizing that difference can change the way you approach work, relationships, and life's biggest challenges. Whether you are navigating divorce, building a business, advancing your career, facing a major life transition, or simply trying to keep up with the demands of everyday life, this episode offers practical tools to help you stay calm, think clearly, and make better decisions when the pressure is on. Shairose shares personal experiences, leadership lessons, and neuroscience-based insights that explain what happens to the brain and nervous system under pressure. Together, we explore why so many high performers appear successful on the outside while feeling overwhelmed on the inside, and how learning to regulate your nervous system can help you respond with greater clarity, resilience, and intention instead of reacting in the moment.  Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About the Guest Shairose Gulamani is an award-winning executive coach, international speaker, and resilience strategist who helps high-performing leaders transform pressure into power. Drawing on decades of experience building businesses, leading teams, and developing people, she equips executives and entrepreneurs with practical tools to increase clarity, expand capacity, and sustain peak performance without burnout. Her work addresses one of today’s greatest leadership challenges: navigating relentless pressure while maintaining impact, resilience, and connection. Through coaching, speaking, and transformative programs, Shairose helps leaders unlock their next level of influence, effectiveness, and fulfillment. Her mission is simple: to help people lead with greater purpose, perform with greater confidence, and create meaningful success that lasts. To connect with Shairose: Website: www.pressurepoint.coach LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/shairosegulamani Instagram: instagram.com/calmisthenewflex

    Turning Pressure Into Power with Guest, Shairose Gulamani

  7. Jul 4

    Pets and Divorce: What You Should Consider with Guest, Karis Nafte

    This episode takes a thoughtful look at something a lot of people don’t think about right away when going through a divorce: what to do about the family pet. The conversation centers around Karis Nafte, a pet custody mediator, who brings both humor and compassion to a subject that can get surprisingly complicated and emotional. With years of experience in dog behavior and working with separating families, Karis has seen firsthand how pets can get caught in the middle, sometimes becoming part of the conflict instead of just innocent bystanders. The discussion highlights how easily pets can become a source of tension, whether on purpose or simply because everyone is hurting and unsure. Karis encourages people to get honest about what their pets really need rather than letting old arguments or guilt make the decisions. She explains why not every dog, or cat, horse, or even pig, will adjust the same way to living in two homes, and why it’s important to look at the animal’s breed, age, and personality before making big changes.  There’s also a practical side to this episode, with plenty of advice about setting up healthy routines for pets during stressful times and thinking carefully before jumping into shared custody, especially if kids aren’t in the picture. Karis shares stories, tips, and a bit about her new book, all aimed at helping families figure out the best way forward for their furry family members and for themselves.  Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com  Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About our Guests Karis Nafte, is the founder and owner of Who Keeps the Dog, Pet Custody Mediation. A Certified Dog Behavior Consultant & Accredited Family Mediator, she brings 25 years professional experience as a dog behavior expert into the world of dogs and divorce. A global pioneer in her work, Karis has developed, and teaches, the first accredited pet care education course for divorce professionals to learn best practice for a dogs best interest. A passionate and engaging speaker with a unique background in the world of families divorcing with pets, Karis has presented on the subject pet custody for the American Bar Association, the Association of Professional Family Mediators, The South Africa Association of Mediators, the Kentucky Bar Association and International Mediation Week. Her work has been featured in the Associated Press, Scripps News, The New York Post, VICE News, ABC News and Australian Dog Lover Magazine. Connect with Karis: Website: https://www.whokeepsthedog.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karis-nafte-cdbc-b4b9b81a6/ IG: @whokeepsthedog

    Pets and Divorce: What You Should Consider with Guest, Karis Nafte

  8. Jun 27

    Don't Walk Into Your Divorce Mediation Unprepared

    On this episode of UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder welcomes Keri Gwynne, CEO of Starting Point by Freedom, and Ryan Finley, Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, for a practical discussion on building the right divorce team. Drawing from both professional expertise and personal experience, Keri and Ryan share valuable insights on keeping children at the center of divorce decisions, creating effective parenting plans, preparing for mediation, and understanding the financial realities of divorce. They also discuss when to investigate hidden assets, how to get organized before negotiations, and why having the right support team can make all the difference. This informative episode offers guidance, preparation strategies, and encouragement for anyone navigating divorce and planning for a stronger future. Streamed on www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About our Guests Keri Gwynne is a Certified Divorce Coach and CEO of Starting Point by Freedom, a comprehensive divorce service offering coaching, mediation, and family-focused guidance. With certifications in both High Conflict and Transitional Divorce, she has helped guide more than 550 families across the nation through the divorce process with clarity and confidence. Through her own lived experience as a high-conflict divorce survivor, Keri blends empathy, compassion, and resilience with deep professional expertise to help individuals rebuild and reclaim their lives after divorce.  Ryan Finley is the Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, a divorce finance advisory firm helping families, attorneys, and courts navigate the financial complexities of divorce. With more than twenty years of executive leadership in finance and forensic accounting, Ryan has guided hundreds of families nationwide toward financial clarity and confidence. As a CPA, CDFA, CVA, and court-approved mediator, Ryan brings both technical precision and empathy to the table—bridging the gap between financial analysis and human understanding. His ability to simplify complex financial issues and foster productive dialogue makes him a trusted resource for attorneys and clients alike. To connect with Keri and Ryan: Website: https://www.startingpointfreedom.com/ Website: https://www.freedomfsg.com/

    Don't Walk Into Your Divorce Mediation Unprepared
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UnDoing We: Divorce and Life Conversations is not your typical divorce show. Hosted by Mardi Winder, a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach with experience as a domestic violence client advocate and behavioral consultant for schools, this show offers real talk, expert advice, and honest discussions on ending a relationship and the opportunity to redefine your life. Each episode provides practical guidance and emotional insight to help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Tune in for candid conversations with top experts on legal, financial, co-parenting, mindset, wellness, and more. UnDoing We is where your next chapter begins.

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  • Creator
    WGSN-DB Going Solo Network
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    57
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