Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free

Dustin Lea Wheeler
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Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.  Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are. Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power. But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast. Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth. Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free. Around here we explore: • Conscious creation & creator identity • Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning • Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence • Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom. If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler.  - it's time to play!  All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.

  1. 5D AGO

    🎙️ Episode #57 (Part 3 of 3) Why You Go Back to the Same Patterns (Even When You Know Better)

    Send us Fan Mail You didn’t fail. You didn’t lose your progress. And nothing is wrong with you. So why does it feel like you keep going back? In this episode, we explore one of the most misunderstood parts of personal growth: Why change doesn’t always stick — even when it feels real in the moment. You see the pattern. You understand it. You even shift for a moment… and then something pulls you back. Not because you’re weak. Not because you lack discipline. But because your system is still calibrated to what’s familiar. This conversation dives into the deeper layers of: nervous system conditioningemotional patterningidentity reinforcementand why your body resists unfamiliar statesYou’ll begin to understand why going back is part of the process — not a failure of it. And how real change happens when your body, not just your mind, catches up. Join our Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skool here. Ready to go deeper into Conscious Creation? Check out the Spiritually Kinky Academy here:  https://spirituallykinky.com/academy Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    7 min

  2. APR 26

    🎙️ Episode #56 (Part 2 of 3) You’re Not Broken… You’re Overloaded: Why Nothing Is Sticking

    Send us Fan Mail You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and tried to “fix” yourself more times than you can count. So why does it still feel like nothing is fully changing? In this episode, we explore the real reason so many people feel stuck, overwhelmed, and disconnected — even after years of personal development and healing. This isn’t about a lack of effort or discipline. It’s about the gap between awareness and embodiment. We break down: Why information has outpaced integrationThe loneliness that comes with waking upIdentity fragmentation and internal conflictThe nervous system’s role in what you can actually createHow the “healing loop” keeps people stuck in perpetual becomingAnd what it actually takes to create lasting changeThis episode is a deep recalibration. A return to truth. And an invitation to stop fixing…  and start creating. If you’re ready to move from survival into creation… Join us inside the Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skook (Click Here) Ready to go deeper into Conscious Creation? Check out the Spiritually Kinky Academy here!  Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    26 min

  3. APR 19

    🎙️ Episodet #55 The Lonely Path: The Part of Becoming No One Talks About

    Send us Fan Mail Most people will tell you that following your purpose feels aligned… expansive… exciting. But there’s a part they don’t talk about. The part where it gets quiet. Where the validation disappears. Where you start questioning everything. In this episode, we go into the lonely chapter of becoming—the stretch of your journey where you outgrow your old life… but haven’t fully landed in your new one yet. The middle. The place where: You wonder if you’re delusional for wanting moreYou question if you’re making the right decisionsYou feel disconnected from people who used to feel like homeAnd it feels like you’re building something… with no proof it’s workingThis is the part most people turn back. Not because they’re not capable— but because they think this feeling means they’re off track. It doesn’t. This episode is for the ones who feel called to create something exceptional… and are realizing that path doesn’t always feel glamorous. It can feel uncertain. Unstable. And sometimes… incredibly lonely. But this isn’t punishment. This is preparation. Inside this episode, we talk about: Why following your purpose can feel lonelyThe truth about the “middle phase” of growth and successThe internal battle between who you were and who you’re becomingWhy most people give up here—and how to keep goingWhat it really takes to love something you’re creating… without guaranteesIf you’re in this chapter right now… Feeling the tension. Feeling the doubt. Feeling like you’re walking this path alone… This episode will remind you: You are not the only one here. 💬 Ready to go deeper? Join us inside the Spiritually Kinky space—where we don’t just talk about the highlight reel… we walk the middle together. 👉 Join Our Skool Community: Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators 👉 Want to Jump in the Magnetic Shift Workshop!  🎙️ Want more? Subscribe, share, and send this to someone who’s quietly walking their own lonely path right now. Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    12 min

  4. APR 12

    🎙️ Episode #54 (Part 1 of 3) You’re Not Stuck… You’re Looping - And You Don’t Even See It

    Send us Fan Mail You don’t actually have a motivation problem. And you’re not stuck. But you are repeating something. In this episode, we break down the hidden pattern that keeps recreating the same emotional experiences in your life — no matter how many times you try to change. The cycle of starting over… losing momentum… questioning yourself… and trying again… isn’t random. It’s a loop. And until you understand what’s actually driving it, you’ll keep calling it “self-sabotage” — without ever truly breaking free. This conversation goes deeper than surface-level mindset work. We explore how your nervous system, identity, and subconscious patterns work together to keep you in what’s familiar — even when it’s not what you want. Including: why your body becomes addicted to stress and emotional patternshow your identity reinforces the loopwhy trying harder doesn’t create lasting changewhat actually shifts when you break the cycleIf you’ve been feeling stuck, inconsistent, or like you’re constantly starting over… this episode will show you why. And more importantly… how to begin steppig out of it. Join the Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skool! Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    11 min

  5. APR 5

    🎙️ Episode #53 Why You Feel Like Something Is Wrong With You (It’s Not What You Think)

    Send us Fan Mail There are seasons in life that don’t make sense The quiet ones. The heavy ones. The ones where nothing is technically wrong… but everything in your body feels like it is. In this episode, I take you inside one of those days. A day where I didn’t perform. A day where I slowed down… and felt everything. A day that revealed something deeper about what so many of us carry: The belief that something is wrong with us. Through real conversations — from a woman leaving an abusive relationship to a man learning to forgive his mother — a deeper truth emerges: We’re not broken. We’ve just been living inside patterns that taught us to see ourselves that way. This episode is for the one who feels: alone in their emotionslike they’re “too much” or “not enough”stuck in cycles of self-judgment and pressureexhausted from trying to fix themselvesYou’re not alone. And more importantly… you’re not the problem. This is a conversation about presence, nervous system safety, identity, and what actually happens when you stop running from yourself. If you're ready to meet yourself more honestly,  Join the Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skool!  Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    12 min

  6. MAR 29

    🎙️ Episode #52 You Don’t Need to Heal — You Need to Decide

    Send us Fan Mail What if the reason manifestation isn’t working…  has nothing to do with how much you’ve healed? What if the real reason you feel stuck…  is because healing quietly became the place you’ve been hiding? In this episode of the Spiritually Kinky Podcast, we break down one of the biggest lies in personal development: that you need to fix, process, or heal yourself before you can create the life you desire. Because the truth is… you don’t need more healing.  You need a decision. If you’ve been stuck in the cycle of: constantly “working on yourself”feeling close… then losing momentumtrying to feel ready before you moveor looping through manifestation techniques that don’t stickthis episode will shift the way you see everything. We dive into: Why the healing loop keeps you stuck in “almost”The difference between healing vs conscious creationHow your nervous system impacts manifestation and receivingWhy you feel aligned one moment… and back in doubt the nextThe split between your “not-it” identity vs your creator identityHow decision—not worthiness—is what actually creates changeThis isn’t about becoming a better version of you. This is about remembering who you are…  and choosing from that place. 🔥 Ready to stop fixing and start creating? Join the Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators where we go beyond mindset and into: nervous system regulationidentity recodingconscious manifestationand embodied creation👉 Join here: Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skool Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    7 min

  7. MAR 22

    🎙️ Episode #51 No One Talks About This Part — When Love, Loss, and Life Collide

    Send us Fan Mail Most personal development and manifestation advice will tell you to stay positive, shift your mindset, and keep your vibration high. But what about the moments when life feels heavy… raw… and completely out of your control? In this episode, Dustin Wheeler opens up about a deeply personal experience and shares the side of growth that is rarely talked about — the part where you’re grieving, feeling everything, and still trying to navigate your life. This conversation explores the difference between suffering and being present with something that truly matters, and why so much of the advice in the spiritual and personal development space can unintentionally lead to self-abandonment. Inside this episode: The truth about emotional depth and real-life momentsWhy “high vibe only” advice can be harmfulHow to stay connected to yourself during difficult seasonsThe role of love and grief in the human experienceA powerful reflection inspired by the film Collateral BeautyIf you’ve been feeling like you have to hold it all together or perform your way through hard moments, this episode will remind you: You are not broken. You are the creative force within. And you don’t have to abandon yourself to create your life. 🔥 Join the Spiritually Kinky Community (Skool): Click Here! A space to create your life without abandoning yourself 🔥 Start the Magnetic Shift Workshop: Click Here! Learn how to shift your reality without forcing or faking it Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    6 min

  8. MAR 15

    🎙️ Episode #50 The Biggest Lie in Personal Development

    Send us Fan Mail What if the biggest lie in personal development is the belief that you must fix yourself before you can create the life you want? In Episode 50 of the Spiritually Kinky Podcast, Dustin Wheeler breaks down the hidden trap inside the self-help world that keeps people stuck in endless cycles of healing, fixing, and self-improvement. After more than 35,000 conversations with strangers and years studying conscious creation, Dustin reveals why most people aren’t broken — they’re simply operating from an outdated identity designed for survival, not creation. In this episode you'll discover: • The hidden loop that keeps people stuck in personal development • Why the survival identity fights change • The emotional tug-of-war that drains your energy • The shift from fixing yourself to consciously creating your life • How to retrain your nervous system to support expansion If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly working on yourself but still not getting where you want to go, this conversation will change how you see growth forever. You are not broken. You are the creative force within. Instead of spending years trying to fix yourself, it may be time to step into conscious creation. Join the Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skool.  Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    11 min
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Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.  Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are. Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power. But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast. Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth. Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free. Around here we explore: • Conscious creation & creator identity • Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning • Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence • Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom. If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler.  - it's time to play!  All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.

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