Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free

Dustin Lea Wheeler
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Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.  Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are. Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power. But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast. Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth. Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free. Around here we explore: • Conscious creation & creator identity • Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning • Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence • Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom. If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler.  - it's time to play!  All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.

  1. 21h ago

    🎙️ Episode #71 Attachment vs. Attraction: Why Chasing Love Pushes It Away

    Send us Fan Mail Most of us were never taught how to create secure relationships. We were taught how to chase them. In this episode of Spiritually Kinky, Dustin Lea Wheeler unpacks the psychology behind attachment and attraction, revealing why the intensity we often mistake for chemistry is frequently an activated nervous system searching for safety. Drawing from attachment theory and modern psychology, Dustin explores the three primary attachment patterns—anxious, avoidant, and secure—and why anxious and avoidant relationships often become trapped in the familiar push-pull cycle that leaves both people feeling disconnected. But this conversation goes far beyond dating. It reveals how the exact same unconscious patterns influence the way we create our businesses, our finances, our purpose, and the lives we're trying to build. Rather than teaching you how to "fix" your attachment style, Dustin introduces a different path: True choice creates security. Security creates healthy detachment. Healthy detachment creates attraction. Because the goal isn't becoming someone who cares less. The goal is becoming someone who no longer abandons themselves in the pursuit of what they desire. If you've ever found yourself overthinking texts, chasing reassurance, gripping tightly to outcomes, or wondering why the same relationship patterns keep repeating, this episode will help you understand what your nervous system has been trying to protect—and how conscious choice can begin creating a completely different reality. In this episode you'll discover: • The difference between attachment and genuine attraction\ • Why anxious and avoidant attachment styles naturally create a push-pull dynamic • How your nervous system influences the energy you bring into every relationship • Why confidence isn't something you fake—it's something you create • The psychology behind true choice, security, and healthy detachment • How these same patterns shape your relationship with success, money, purpose, and conscious creation If this landed, come find me. The Spiritually Kinky community is nine dollars — it's where we do this work together instead of you doing it alone. Link's in the show notes. Skool Community:  Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators  - Move from Surviving Your Life to Creating a Life You Love!  https://www.skool.com/spiritually-kinky-entrepreneur-5210/about?ref=35dc7df58ae145ac815eed1673d081bb  ✨ ✨ Join the Freedom Bridge Immersive where I teach you how to Unlock your superpowers of conscious creation by harnessing your powers of choice, focus and flow and walk out with a 90 Day Execution Plan! dustinleawheeler.com/the-freedom-bridge Support the show Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/dustinleawheeler/visioncall  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

  2. Aug 2

    🎙️ Episode #70 Are You Creating From Your Wounds... Or Your Wholeness? | Michael Lowe

    Send us Fan Mail Most people think they're creating their future. What if they're actually recreating their past? In this episode, Dustin Wheeler welcomes back Michael Lowe for one of the most honest conversations yet about relationships, masculine and feminine energy, intimacy, nervous system safety, and what it means to move beyond survival. Rather than chasing healing as another self-improvement project, they explore how true transformation happens when we stop creating from old wounds and begin creating from the wholeness that's already within us. It's a conversation about love, identity, presence, conscious partnership, and the subtle ways our past continues shaping our future until we choose differently. Whether you're navigating relationships, building a business, or simply trying to understand yourself more deeply, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on healing that goes far beyond traditional personal development. You'll discover: • Why we recreate familiar relationship dynamics • The role of healthy masculine and feminine energy • How nervous system safety transforms intimacy • The difference between healing and wholeness • Why awareness isn't enough to change your life • How conscious creation begins with identity Connect with Michael Lowe Website:  https://www.michaellowehealing.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michael.a.lowe_ If this landed, come find me. The Spiritually Kinky community is nine dollars — it's where we do this work together instead of you doing it alone. Link's in the show notes. Skool Community:  https://www.skool.com/spiritually-kinky-entrepreneur-5210/about?ref=35dc7df58ae145ac815eed1673d081bb Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/dustinleawheeler/visioncall  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

  3. Jul 26

    🎙️ Episode #69 What Creators Do When Life Breaks Them Open | Behind Our Lies with Corvaa

    Send us Fan Mail Every creator eventually faces a moment when life asks a difficult question: Are you still going to create? Not after you've healed. Not after life settles down. Not after everything makes sense. Now. In this powerful conversation, Dustin sits down with Greek-American singer-songwriter, entrepreneur, and creator Corvaa to explore what happens when your deepest pain becomes the very thing that gives your work its greatest purpose. Together they unpack Corvaa's journey through domestic abuse, the courage it took to reclaim her life, and how each song she released became another step toward reclaiming herself. Behind Our Lies. Do We Know. Enemy. These weren't simply songs. They became milestones in her healing. But what makes this conversation so powerful isn't the story of abuse. It's the story of choosing to create anyway. Because every creator eventually discovers that authenticity isn't something you perform after you've arrived. It's something you practice while you're still becoming. Whether you're an entrepreneur, artist, leader, or simply someone navigating one of life's storms, this episode is a reminder that your story doesn't disqualify you. It may be the very thing someone else needs to hear. Connect with Corvaa 🌐 Website https://corvaa.com 🎵 Corvaa Music https://corvaamusic.com ▶️ YouTube https://youtube.com/@corvaamusic?si=2SP8i3A06PAacXI 🎧 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/artist/7yC0GhLAG9jACLveeos5Zr?si=fUJWWuhXSNqER6cfkWf45w&utm_source=copy-link I encourage you to experience Corvaa's music in the order it was created: Behind Our Lies → Do We Know → Enemy Together these songs tell the story of healing, reflection, and ultimately giving yourself permission to feel every emotion on the journey back to yourself. Ready to stop surviving and start consciously creating? Learn more about Spiritually Kinky Coaching for Creators™ at: https://www.spirituallykinky.com 💬 If this landed, come find me. The Spiritually Kinky community is $9 — it’s where we do this work together, instead of you doing it alone. 👉 Join the Spiritually Kinky Community — $9 Ready to go deeper, one-on-one? Book a Vision Call. Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/dustinleawheeler/visioncall  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

  4. Jul 19

    🎙️ Episode #68 The Light Behind Michael Myers | James Jude Courtney on Shadow, Consciousness & Human Potential

    Send us Fan Mail What if the actor behind one of cinema's most terrifying characters is also one of its most conscious? In this episode of Spiritually Kinky, I sit down with James Jude Courtney, the man behind Michael Myers in the Halloween franchise, for a conversation that goes far beyond horror. We explore the paradox of embodying darkness without becoming it, the role shadow plays in human growth, and why true mastery comes from integrating every part of ourselves—not rejecting it. Whether you're an actor, entrepreneur, leader, creative, or simply someone fascinated by psychology and consciousness, this conversation offers a powerful reminder that our light becomes stronger when we're willing to understand our darkness. Connect with James: Facebook: @jamesjudecourtney Instagram: @jamesjudecourtney Continue your journey at: https://spirituallykinky.com/ 💬 If this landed, come find me. The Spiritually Kinky community is $9 — it’s where we do this work together, instead of you doing it alone. 👉 Join the Spiritually Kinky Community — $9 Ready to go deeper, one-on-one? Book a Vision Call. Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/dustinleawheeler/visioncall  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

  5. Jul 12

    🎙️ Episode #67 Knowing Better Isn’t Changing Your Life

    Send us Fan Mail Most people think their life will change once they understand themselves better. It won’t. Because knowing isn’t what changes your life. Building does. In this episode, I share a behind-the-scenes look at a week that didn’t look impressive—but revealed something most people completely miss. You can have awareness. You can understand your patterns. You can know exactly why you do what you do… …and still not change. Not because you’re broken. Because nothing around that awareness has actually changed. This is the shift from insight to structure. From knowing… to building. And if you’ve been feeling stuck, frustrated, or like you “know better” but your life isn’t reflecting it yet… this conversation will hit. 🔗 NEXT STEP Explore more at: https://spirituallykinky.com Or step into the Freedom Bridge Immersive—where we stop talking about change and actually start building it. Because you don’t need another breakthrough. You need a bridge. 💬 If this landed, come find me. The Spiritually Kinky community is $9 — it’s where we do this work together, instead of you doing it alone. 👉 Join the Spiritually Kinky Community — $9 Ready to go deeper, one-on-one? Book a Vision Call. Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/dustinleawheeler/visioncall  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

  6. Jul 5

    🎙️ Episode #66 How To Collapse The Illusion You’ve Been Building Your Reality From

    Send us Fan Mail What if your life isn’t stuck…what if it’s reinforced? You say you want more freedom. More peace. More truth. A life that actually feels like yours. But the moment you get close to it…you hesitate. You soften your voice. You second guess your decisions. You pull back. And then you sit there wondering: “Why do I keep doing this?” Nothing is wrong with you. You’re not stuck. You’ve been rewarding the version of you that keeps this life in place. And deeper than that… you’re loyal to the identity that’s creating it. In this episode, Dustin Lea Whee;er collapses the illusion behind that loop—and walk through how to create a new one. Not by forcing yourself… but by changing what your system rewards. Because when identity becomes the reward…everything changes. And if you feel that while you’re listening…that’s your signal. You’re ready for more. Inside The Freedom Bridge Immersive, we take this beyond awareness and rebuild the structure—so your life actually starts to shift. You don’t need to leap. You need a bridge. Grab your seat in The Freedom Bridge Immersive here!  💬 If this landed, come find me. The Spiritually Kinky community is $9 — it’s where we do this work together, instead of you doing it alone. 👉 Join the Spiritually Kinky Community — $9 Ready to go deeper, one-on-one? Book a Vision Call. Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/dustinleawheeler/visioncall  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

  7. Jun 28

    🎙️ Episode #65 What Are You Afraid to Lose? The Real Reason You Keep Choosing the Same Life

    Send us Fan Mail What are you actually afraid to lose? Because it’s probably not what you think. You say you want more freedom, more peace, more truth, a life that actually feels like yours. But the moment you get close to it, you hesitate. You soften your voice in conversations where you wanted to be honest. You say “it’s fine” when it isn’t. You keep showing up for everyone else while quietly wondering why no one is showing up for you. And then you sit there thinking, “Why do I keep doing this?” Nothing is wrong with you. You’re not afraid of change. You’re afraid of losing the version of you that learned how to survive. In this episode, we go deeper into the real reason you keep choosing the same patterns and the hidden value system that’s been running your life underneath it. Because once you see it, you can change it—not by forcing yourself, but by building something new. If this resonates while you’re listening, that’s your signal. You’re ready for more. Inside The Freedom Bridge Immersive, we go beyond awareness and actually rebuild your value ladder so your life starts changing from the inside out. You’ll learn how to create new sources of safety, value, and self-trust—so you’re no longer dependent on the patterns that have been keeping you stuck. You don’t lose what you value. You expand it. And at some point, you realize: You are the life you’ve been looking for. You are the love you’ve been trying to earn. If you're ready to go deeper into this work, I’d love to walk you through it. Join me inside The Freedom Bridge Immersive : https://dustinleawheeler.com/the-freedom-bridge 💬 If this landed, come find me. The Spiritually Kinky community is $9 — it’s where we do this work together, instead of you doing it alone. 👉 Join the Spiritually Kinky Community — $9 Ready to go deeper, one-on-one? Book a Vision Call. Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/dustinleawheeler/visioncall  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

  8. Jun 21

    🎙️ Episode #64 The Cage Nobody Talks About: Why Success, Healing & Achievement Still Leave You Feeling Trapped

    Send us Fan Mail What if the thing you think is trapping you isn't actually what's trapping you? Most people spend years trying to improve the conditions inside their cage. A better job.More money.A healthier relationship.More confidence.More healing.More success.But what if the cage itself is the problem? In this deeply personal episode, Dustin Lea Wheeler explores the hidden structures that keep us feeling stuck long after our circumstances change. Through a powerful story about four philanthropists, reflections on grief, and the lessons she learned from her beloved cat Simba, she uncovers why so many people continue searching for freedom while unknowingly carrying the cage with them. This conversation is about more than healing. It's about liberation. You'll discover why freedom isn't the absence of storms, why achievement alone doesn't create fulfillment, and how presence may be the deepest form of love we ever experience. If you've ever wondered why life still feels incomplete even after you've done everything "right," this episode will help you see the door that's been open all along. Because the deepest cage isn't fear. The deepest cage is believing your life exists somewhere other than here. 💗 Connect with Dustin Lea Wheeler: Dustin@spirituallykinky.com 💗 Join The Freedom Bridge Immersive: https://dustinleawheeler.com/the-freedom-bridge 💗 Join the Spiritually Kinky Community: https://www.skool.com/spiritually-kinky-entrepreneur-5210/about?ref=35dc7df58ae145ac815eed1673d081bb   Support the show  ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/dustinleawheeler/visioncall  🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

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Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.  Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are. Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power. But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast. Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth. Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free. Around here we explore: • Conscious creation & creator identity • Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning • Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence • Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom. If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler.  - it's time to play!  All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.

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