Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free

Dustin Wheeler
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Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth. I’m Dustin, your guide  on this delicious adventure where we ditch the rules, melt the masks, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free. Around here, we talk pleasure, power, and the path of awakening… with a wink and a whip of wisdom. So, if you're ready to turn yourself on to the life you’re truly meant to live and light yourself up—it's time to play! 

  1. 3D AGO

    🎙️ Episode #41: Your Nervous System Has a Shadow Kink

    Send us a text Your Nervous System Has a Shadow Kink (And It Was Born Out of Love) If you keep repeating the same patterns in relationships, money, work, or self-worth—this episode will change how you see yourself forever. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the concept of Shadow Kinks—the unconscious instructions your nervous system formed out of love to keep you safe, connected, and alive… even when those instructions are now outdated and costing you what you actually want. You’ll learn: What a shadow kink really is (and why it’s not something to shame or “heal away”How shadow kinks form from unmet needs + survival loveWhy so much of the spiritual and healing world is actually stuck in spiritual bypassingHow shaming or blaming your patterns keeps them locked in placeWhy integration—not “rising above”—is the real path to changeWe explore two of the most common shadow kinks in depth: The Fixer (including the “Good Girl” instruction)The Hustler (where hustle = safety and rest feels dangerous)You’ll also discover: How shadow kinks show up in love, money, leadership, and the bosses you end up working forThe hidden superpowers each shadow kink containsHow awareness allows you to begin updating unconscious instructions—without force, fixing, or shameThis episode is not about becoming someone new.  It’s about remembering who you were before survival ran the show. ✨ No spiritual cosplay. ✨ No emotional bypassing. ✨ Just awareness, integration, and embodied truth. 👉 Ready to discover which shadow kink is quietly running behind the scenes in your life? Join the Spiritually Kinky Skool Community to explore your shadow kink, its core instruction, hidden payoff, and how to begin integrating it safely and powerfully. Join Here!  #ShadowWork #NervousSystemHealing #SpiritualBypassing #EmbodiedHealing #SpirituallyKinky Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    15 min

  2. JAN 4

    🎙️ Episode #40 The Rise of the Integrated Empath & Why they are the Leaders the World Needs Right Now

    Send us a text The Rise of the Integrated Empath | Why Sensitive People Are the Leaders of What Comes Next Have you ever quietly wondered… Is this all there is? Do I even belong in this world? Why do I love so deeply — and still feel unseen? This episode is for empaths, deep feelers, and intuitive creators who are exhausted from trying to heal, fix, or improve themselves — and still feel disconnected, purposeless, or stuck. In this powerful episode, Dustin Wheeler explores the rise of the integrated empath — and why the very traits that once kept empaths safe are now suffocating their power. You’ll learn: Why empaths learned safety through scanning, pleasing, and over-attuningHow empath superpowers turned into shadow kinks — unconscious survival contractsWhy self-improvement and endless healing keep empaths stuckWhat it actually means to integrate your shadow instead of fixing itWhy empaths are not broken — they are earlyHow integrated empaths become anchored, embodied leadersDustin introduces the concept of what she's coined as Shadow Kinks — the hidden patterns quietly running relationships, money, business, family, and success — and why awareness alone isn’t enough to change them. If you’ve ever felt: Too sensitive for this worldLike you love deeper than others can meetDisconnected despite doing “all the work”Afraid to ask the question: Is this really my life?This episode is a remembering. You are not broken. You are the creative force. And you get to choose what you’d love to create. 🎧 Next Step: Inside the Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators, you can take the Shadow Kink Assessment to discover which of the 9 shadow kinks has been silently running your life — and learn how to integrate it without shame, force, or fixing. Join our Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skool Here!  EmpathAwakening #ShadowIntegration #ConsciousCreation #NervousSystemHealing #SpirituallyKinky Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    10 min

  3. 12/28/2025

    🎙️ Episode #39 Why Manifestation Isn’t Working (It’s Not You — It’s the Structure)

    Send us a text If you’ve tried affirmations, visualization, gratitude, “raising your vibration,” or acting as if — and still feel stuck, exhausted, or oscillating between hope and collapse — this episode will feel like relief. Because the truth is: You’re not failing at manifestation. You’re already magnetic. You’ve just been creating from the wrong structure. In this episode of Spiritually Kinky, Dustin Wheeler breaks down why most manifestation advice falls apart the moment real life shows up — grief, stress, sadness, burnout, or overwhelm — and why trying to “feel good” or “think positive” can actually keep you stuck. You’ll learn: Why oscillation is not a mindset problem, but a structural oneThe difference between stuck, problem, and creative structuresWhy success and failure aren’t personal — they’re structuralHow intention matters more than actionWhy “raise your vibration” and “money is just energy” often backfireHow to shift from manifesting from your past self into consciously creating from your future selfThis episode blends sexy science, nervous system truth, and grounded creation principles — without bypassing your humanity or asking you to fix yourself first. If you’ve ever felt like manifestation made you doubt yourself instead of trust yourself, this conversation will finally make things click. ✨ And if you’re ready to practice creating from the right structure in real time, you’re invited into the 10-Minute Manifest Now Accelerator Challenge inside the Spiritually Kinky community for creators. Join our Community Here! - Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skool  #ManifestationTruth #ConsciousCreation #NervousSystemHealing #SpiritualGrowth #SpirituallyKinky Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    18 min

  4. 12/21/2025

    🎙️ Episode #38 Awareness is the Alchemy

    Send us a text Most people believe they’re stuck because something is wrong with them. That they need to heal more. Fix more. Think better thoughts. Manifest harder. But what if the problem isn’t you — what if it’s the unconscious structure you’ve been living inside? In this episode, Dustin Wheeler, Magnetic Mind Coach and founder of Spiritually Kinky, explores the alchemy of awareness and Carl Jung’s powerful insight: “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life — and you will call it fate.” You’ll discover: Why your unconscious mind is not sabotaging you — it’s protecting youHow hidden beliefs create a mirror in your reality (money, relationships, confidence, visibility)Why most manifestation teachings keep people looping in effort and exhaustionThe difference between awareness and integration — and why awareness alone isn’t enoughHow to shift from surviving and suffering into becoming the observer, the chooser, and the youngest version of your future selfThis episode is not another “how to manifest” lesson. It’s a remembrance. A reclamation of pleasure, play, and purpose. A return to authorship. A reminder that your power was never missing — only unconscious. ✨ You don’t need to fix yourself. ✨ You don’t need to overcome parts of you. ✨ You don’t need to fight your shadow. You need awareness. And you need integration. ✨ If this resonates, your next step is joining the Spiritually Kinky Skool Community, where awareness becomes embodiment and conscious creation becomes lived reality. 👉 Join the community here!   You are not broken. You are the creative force within. And you get to choose what you’d love to create. Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    12 min

  5. 12/14/2025

    🎙️ Episode #37 Attachment Isn’t Manifestation: Why You’re Stuck (And How to Finally Shift)

    Send us a text Why does wanting more feel dangerous? Why do your manifestations stall, oscillate, or collapse? Why does manifesting a specific person ALWAYS create chaos, contraction, or confusion? Because you’re not manifesting from the superconscious — you’re manifesting from survival programming, generational patterns, attachment wounds, and a nervous system that has been trained to fear expansion. In this episode, we explore: ✨ Why your manifestation isn’t working anymore ✨ Nervous system blocks to abundance, love & overflow ✨ How trauma patterns override desire ✨ The difference between true desire and emotional survival ✨ How your body rejects the very things you journal for ✨ The fence metaphor — why you’re holding up a collapsing structure ✨ The Practical Magic warning about forcing someone into your creation ✨ The structure of actual materialization ✨ Why manifestation without identity work leads to oscillation ✨ How to break generational programming around love, money & worth ✨ How to shift into superconscious alignment RIGHT NOW This episode is for the woman who’s done the mindset work… the journaling… the affirmations… the healing… the visualization… but STILL feels stuck between desire and doubt. If you’re ready to stop shrinking, stop chasing, stop repeating the past — and start creating from your true identity… This is your turning point. JOIN OUR SKOOL COMMUNITY Shift from survival → creation. Break attachments. Recode your identity. Spiritually Kinky for Creators - Click Here  #spirituallykinky #superconsciouscreation #nervoussystemhealing #magneticshift #creatoridentitywork Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    19 min

  6. 12/07/2025

    🎙️ Episode #36 The In-Between Is Where You Become Her

    Send us a text This week cracked me open in a way I didn’t expect. When I found a mass on my cat, Simba, every survival pattern my nervous system had ever learned surged to the surface—the grief, the spiraling, the urge to “borrow tomorrow’s sorrow” just to feel in control. But here’s the truth most manifesting advice avoids: You’re not failing. You’re not regressing. Your old identity is dissolving. This episode reveals what actually happens in the in-between—the holy, uncomfortable, identity-shifting space where your future self begins to come online and your nervous system presents the patterns that are ready to be rewritten. Inside, we explore: ✨ Why heavy emotions don’t block manifestation—they activate evolution ✨ How trauma biology disguises itself as intuition ✨ The unconscious patterns that rise during fear, grief, and uncertainty ✨ Why oscillation increases right before breakthroughs ✨ What it means to hold yourself in moments of deep unknown ✨ How identity-level creation differs from mindset work ✨ A guided future-self activation to recalibrate your system This isn’t bypassing. This isn’t mindset. This is creative force becoming embodied. If you’ve been stretched, shaken, grieving, or suspended between who you were and who you’re becoming, this episode is your reminder: The in-between isn’t where you break. It’s where you become her. 🔗 NEXT STEP — Activate Your Identity ShiftThe Magnetic Shift Workshop is the 15-minute, neuroscience-backed identity recode ritual that teaches your nervous system to feel safe having what you truly desire. 👉  Spirituallykinky.com/magneticshift 🔗 Join the Spiritually Kinky TribeStep deeper into conscious creation with women who are doing this work alongside you: 👉 https://www.skool.com/spiritually-kinky-entrepreneur-5210/about?ref=35dc7df58ae145ac815eed1673d081bb The in-between is not where your life falls apart… it’s where your future self comes online. Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    14 min

  7. 11/28/2025

    🎙️ Episode #35 Wanting More Isn’t Greedy — Staying Small Is

    Send us a text Most heart-led creators aren’t struggling because they’re unworthy or incapable — they’re struggling because they were programmed to fear their own desire. This episode is a firestarter. We’re breaking down the moral lie that keeps brilliant, intuitive, spiritually-aware humans stuck in survival mode, living on “just enough,” and calling it virtue. We’re talking about the generational programming that teaches you to shrink, the nervous system patterns that clamp your expansion, and the fear-based conditioning that convinced you humility means self-denial. It doesn’t. You’ll hear metaphors that land in your body, stories that activate your remembering, and truths that may piss you off in the exact way your power has been waiting for. If you’ve ever felt guilty for wanting more… If you’ve ever downplayed your dreams to seem “humble”… If you’ve ever wondered why your desire feels dangerous… This episode will shift something important inside you. Because desire is not greed. Desire is guidance. Desire is your soul saying, “I’m ready for more. Stop pretending you’re not.” This is your moment to stop dreaming with the lid on and step into the overflow you were built for. 🌹 YOUR NEXT STEP — COME DEEPER INTO THE WORK If this episode activated something inside you, then you’re ready for the next layer of your expansion: ✨ Join the Magnetic Shift Workshop  Rewire the internal structure that’s kept you looping in “almost” and step into your true choice. 👉 Register here:  Spirituallykinky.com/magneticshift ✨ Step into the Spiritually Kinky Academy  A year-long immersion into superconscious creation, nervous system expansion, and identity embodiment. 👉 Join here: https://spirituallykinky.com/academy ✨ Join the Spiritually Kinky Community on Skool  Connect with thousands of heart-led creators rising out of survival and into overflow. 👉 https://www.skool.com/spiritually-kinky-entrepreneur-5210/about?ref=35dc7df58ae145ac815eed1673d081bb Your next level is not random. It’s responding to you. #StopPlayingSmall #SuperconsciousCreation #BreakTheProgramming Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    22 min

  8. 11/23/2025

    🎙️ Episode #34 Delusional or Divine? The Truth Visionaries Never Admit Out Loud

    Send us a text In this raw and powerful episode, we expose the truth every visionary hides: You’re not delusional — you’re remembering. We break down the difference between delusion and divine vision, explore the power of innocence, and reveal why your biggest desires feel like an ache in your chest. This episode will speak directly to the parts of you that doubt, that question, that fear you’re “too much” or “not enough.” If you’ve ever tried to create something you’ve never lived before… this is the episode that will bring you home. And if what awakens inside you whispers “yes,” your next step is the Spiritually Kinky Academy — where you don’t heal to become worthy, you create because you already are. Join here if you're ready to step into the visionary you were born to be: https://spirituallykinky.com/academy delusion, innocence, manifestation, nervous system, divine vision, superconscious, desire, creativity, quantum, feminine energy, spiritual kink, self worth, identity shift Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

    11 min
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Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth. I’m Dustin, your guide  on this delicious adventure where we ditch the rules, melt the masks, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free. Around here, we talk pleasure, power, and the path of awakening… with a wink and a whip of wisdom. So, if you're ready to turn yourself on to the life you’re truly meant to live and light yourself up—it's time to play! 

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