All About Being Single

Wioleta
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Single by choice, by chance, or by WTF is going on? This candid podcast explores the realities of single life, modern dating, loneliness, self-love, healing, confidence, and personal growth. Through relatable and unfiltered stories, guest conversations, and listener voice memos, you’ll find your space and your community to feel seen, empowered, grounded, and ready for love whenever it shows up.

  1. 3D AGO

    Solo Travel: Why It's the Best Thing Since Sliced Bread

    Traveling solo is the ultimate main character energy, and in this episode, Wioleta is diving deep into the world of solo trips! If you've ever wondered why hitting the road alone can be such a game-changer, you're in for a treat. Wioleta shares her personal adventures and insights, explaining how solo travel is not just a hobby but a life improvement hack that boosts confidence and self-discovery. From her own experiences, like her unforgettable birthday trip to New York City, she illustrates how being on your own can lead to some of the most liberating and eye-opening moments. So grab your bags and get ready to consider stepping out of your comfort zone, because solo travel might just be your next great adventure! Can't help but mention, happy 6 month anniversary of this podcast! Can't believe it's already been out for 6 months!!! Thank you for being here with me on this journey!!! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Traveling alone is like wearing a crown of main character energy, and let me tell you, there's nothing quite like it! Wioleta dives headfirst into the exhilarating world of solo trips, sharing her personal journey of discovering the joys and challenges of traveling solo. She kicks things off with her latest solo adventure planned in Louisville, Kentucky, and takes us on a nostalgic ride through her very first solo trip to New York City. From the thrill of exploring the city on her own to the unexpected emotional moments she faced, Wioleta highlights how solo travel has transformed her perspective on life and self-discovery. She emphasizes that being single doesn't mean being lonely; instead, it's an opportunity to embrace freedom, spontaneity, and a deeper connection with oneself. Wioleta shares her tips on how to navigate the solo travel landscape, touching on everything from budgeting and planning to safety and making spontaneous connections with locals. As she reflects on her experiences, she encourages listeners to step outside their comfort zones and consider the life-changing benefits of solo travel. It's not just about the destination but also about the journey of self-exploration and personal growth that comes with it. By the end of the episode, Wioleta’s infectious enthusiasm leaves us all feeling inspired to book our own solo adventures and unleash our inner main characters! Takeaways: Traveling alone is the ultimate main character energy and a huge confidence booster.Solo trips open up opportunities for self-reflection and personal growth, making you more self-reliant.The beauty of solo travel is not having to compromise on what to do and when to do it.Experiencing new places alone allows for spontaneous connections with locals and fellow travelers.We often think of the cons of solo travel, but the pros far outweigh the negatives in terms of personal development.Taking a solo trip can be a life-changing experience, giving you the freedom to explore at your own pace.

    23 min

  2. FEB 17

    Single and Uninterested: Let’s Talk Bad Matchmaking

    Alright, let’s dive into the juicy stuff! Today, we’re chatting about the classic blunder of matchmaking simply because two people are single. You know how it goes—friends mean well, but just because I’m single and someone else is, it doesn’t mean we’re destined for romance, right? I’ve had my share of awkward setups that left me questioning if my friends even knew me at all. We’ll explore why this kind of matchmaking can feel more like a bad sitcom than a love story and why it’s totally okay to say “thanks, but no thanks” to those well-meaning friends. Plus, I’ll share some tips on how to handle those awkward moments when someone tries to set you up without considering if you’d actually click. So, grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s navigate this wild world of dating together! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Takeaways: Just because we're both single doesn't mean we should date; compatibility is key!Being single isn't a hobby; it shouldn't come with unwanted matchmaking attempts from friends.Nice people aren't always kind; real connections require more than just surface-level traits.Lonely people often make terrible partners, so let's date for the right reasons, not just to avoid being alone. Navigating the tricky waters of being single can sometimes feel like you’re stuck in a matchmaking game that you didn’t sign up for. I’ve lost count of how many times friends have tried to set me up with someone just because we both happen to be single. Seriously, just because I’m single doesn’t mean I’m compatible with every other single person out there! It’s like saying two puzzle pieces will fit together just because they both have straight edges. In this episode, we dive into the absurdity of being matched up based on status alone. I share my experiences and frustrations, pointing out that not only do singles come with their own unique preferences, but sometimes those preferences are worlds apart. For example, some people dream of a cozy family life, while others are just looking to enjoy their freedom. I mean, opposites may attract, but they don’t always stick around. And let's be real, a “nice” person isn’t the same as a “kind” person. Nice often means they’re just trying to please everyone, which can lead to some pretty awkward dates. We also chat about the emotional whirlwind that comes with being set up—like the creeping resentment when a well-meaning friend misreads your dating vibes. So, join me as I rant a little about the pitfalls of matchmaking, and let’s figure out how to celebrate being single without the pressure of unqualified setups. Have you ever felt the pressure of your friends trying to play Cupid? You’re not alone! We all have that one friend who thinks they know our type better than we do. I’ve been there, and oh boy, the confusion it brings! In this episode, I spill the tea on why being set up on a date just because we’re both single is not only lazy matchmaking, but it can also be downright uncomfortable. Think about it: if someone attempts to hook you up without knowing your interests or what you’re looking for, how is that going to end well? I share some personal...

    12 min

  3. FEB 10

    One Rose, One Single Life: Celebrating the Power of "Just One"

    Is being single weird? Well, we dive into that juicy question in this episode as we explore the societal quirks that make us think being solo is a bit off-kilter. I share my observations on how most things in life come in pairs or multiples and how this norm influences our perceptions of being single. Think about it—when was the last time you just bought one taco or a single rose? It’s like the universe has conditioned us to think that one is inherently lacking or suspicious. But let’s be real: it takes guts to stand alone, and there’s a certain strength in choosing to embrace our single status rather than rushing into partnerships just to fit in. So, join us as we challenge these societal expectations and celebrate the beauty of being just one—because one is enough! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. We kick off with a thought-provoking question: is being single really that weird? I mean, don’t we all have that one friend who’s always asking, “Why aren’t you dating anyone?” It’s like being single is a personal affront to societal norms. In this episode, I share my thoughts on how we’ve all been conditioned to see being alone as an oddity. From shopping habits to social gatherings, everything seems to point toward the idea that being single is somehow ‘less than’—like a pizza with only one topping instead of the classic combo. But here’s the kicker: being single can be a beautiful journey of self-discovery! As I delve deeper, I reflect on my experiences and the societal pressures that come with being solo. I tell stories about buying things in singles instead of pairs—like that one rose I impulsively bought—highlighting how society looks at us funny when we dare to do things our own way. This episode isn’t just a rant about being single; it’s a celebration of our individuality in a world that loves to group things together. I touch upon the strength it takes to walk away from relationships that don’t serve you, especially when so many people fear being alone. It’s a powerful exploration of how we can redefine what it means to be strong and independent. We end on a high note with a reflection prompt: Where in your life can just being ‘one’ be enough? It’s time to challenge that narrative and embrace our individuality. So, buckle up and join me for this enlightening discussion about the strength found in solitude. And hey, remember to subscribe so you can keep up with all the wisdom we’re dishing out in the future! Takeaways: Being single is often viewed as odd in a society that prefers pairs, and we explore why that is.Society tends to make us feel uncomfortable about being alone, often leading us to seek companionship instead of embracing our individuality.We discussed how many products and experiences come in multiples, reinforcing the idea that being single can feel like an anomaly.Navigating life as a single person requires resilience and strength, especially when societal norms push us towards relationships.

    7 min

  4. FEB 3

    Stop Waiting for a Plus One: Enjoy Life Solo and Do Things WITH Yourself!

    Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Are you putting off fun activities until you find that special someone? Well, let's chat about why we shouldn't wait around for a partner to start living our best lives! This episode dives into the idea of seizing the moment and doing things solo, whether it’s traveling, trying out new restaurants, or even adopting a pet. I’ll share my own journey of embracing solo adventures, like my first solo trip and attending concerts by myself... trust me, it’s a game-changer! So, grab a comfy seat and let’s explore how to stop waiting for permission and start doing the things that bring us joy, all on our own terms. Takeaways: We often hold ourselves back by waiting for a partner to enjoy life, but there's so much we can do solo right now!Whether it's dining out or traveling, don't wait for someone else to join you; start living your life fully today!Feeling judged or insecure about being single? Embrace solo activities to boost your confidence and self-acceptance.Being single is an opportunity to explore interests and hobbies without waiting for anyone else's approval or company. The podcast dives into the idea that many of us often put our lives on hold, waiting for a partner to join us in our adventures. It's like saying, 'I'll travel when I have someone to go with,' or 'I'll start that hobby once I find a buddy.’ But guess what? We don’t have to wait for anyone! The host, Wioleta, shares her personal journey of learning to embrace solo experiences, like taking that first solo trip which ended up being one of her favorite things to do. She urges listeners to stop postponing their dreams and desires, whether it's getting a pet, moving to a new city, or even just enjoying a fancy dinner alone. Wioleta emphasizes that life is happening right now, and we deserve to live it fully, regardless of our relationship status. Throughout the episode, she discusses various activities that people often defer until they find a partner—like attending concerts, moving to a dream city, or even things as simple as decorating a living space. With a touch of humor, she talks about the pressures society places on being coupled up and how this mindset can lead to missed opportunities. Wioleta encourages listeners to take the leap into doing things solo, suggesting that this can actually build confidence and lead to unexpected connections with others. Her message is clear: don’t wait for someone else to live your life. Embrace your individuality and make the most of your time now!

    18 min

  5. JAN 27

    Future Fantasies: Dreaming of Love While Single!

    Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Have you ever found yourself daydreaming about your future partner while you’re still happily single? Well, I’ve definitely been there! I’m Wioleta, your friendly host, and today we’re diving deep into the realm of relationship fantasies—those vivid daydreams we create to cope with our single status. We’ll chat about how imagining our future romances can sometimes bring us comfort but also lead us to overlook the beauty of our present lives. I’ll share some personal stories about my own fantasies, from the cozy couch cuddles to those wild wedding daydreams, and how they’ve shaped my understanding of what I truly want in a partner. So, grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s explore how our imaginations might just be telling us something important about ourselves! Navigating the single scene often leads us to play out our romantic fantasies in our heads. I often find myself daydreaming about what my life will be like when I finally meet "the one," especially when I'm unhappily single. Those whimsical thoughts can be a comforting distraction when I’m feeling a bit down about my single status. I mean, who hasn’t imagined the perfect date, the ideal wedding, or even some future drama with a partner? It’s like creating a mini-movie in my head, where I’m the star playing out all the best-case scenarios. However, this little escapism can sometimes morph into a coping mechanism for loneliness. The truth is, while those fantasies serve a purpose, keeping hope alive and providing a sense of warmth, they can also become a trap. I would sometimes get so lost in these daydreams that I’d forget to live in the present moment. Instead of enjoying my singlehood and all the growth that comes with it, I’d be waiting for that imaginary partner to swoop in and make everything better. This unrealistic expectation can lead to disappointment when reality doesn't match up to the fantasies I’ve constructed. It’s like setting myself up for a letdown when the real-life interactions I have just don’t measure up to my idealized versions. So what’s the plan? It’s all about finding that sweet spot between dreaming and doing. I’ve learned that while it’s okay to indulge in those fantasies, it’s important to use them as a springboard for real-world action. For example, if I find myself fantasizing about cuddling on the couch with a partner, perhaps I should embrace that cozy feeling by treating myself to a movie night or spending quality time with my cat, Trouble. The goal is to keep the dreams alive while simultaneously investing in my current life. After all, who says I can’t create a little magic in my own single journey? Takeaways: Imagining future scenarios with a partner can be a coping mechanism during singlehood.It's natural to fantasize about relationships when surrounded by couples, especially when feeling lonely.While fantasies about love and companionship are normal, we must not neglect our present reality.Using fantasies as a tool can help clarify what we truly desire in a partner, guiding our dating choices.span class="ql-ui"...

    20 min

  6. JAN 20

    Why You’re Single: Choice or Circumstance? (Part 2)

    Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Ever wonder if you’re single by choice or just because the dating pool feels more like a kiddie pool? Well, grab your floaties because we’re diving deep into that question today! We're chatting about the real reasons people find themselves single, and spoiler alert: it often comes down to a lack of good options rather than a conscious decision to embrace the single life. I share my own experiences and frustrations, from the unsolicited advice about "putting myself out there" to the myth that being single means I’m somehow less desirable. It’s a relatable journey through the Bermuda Triangle of dating — where options vanish and frustration reigns supreme. So, whether you're single by luck, circumstance, or just looking for a reason to laugh at the absurdities of dating, this episode is for you! Let’s dig in and see if we can make sense of this chaotic love landscape together.This episode tackles the hard-hitting topic of being single—not just the choice to be single, but the circumstances that often lead us to navigate the dating world without partners. I candidly discuss my own experiences and the societal pressures that come with being single, from unsolicited advice to the feeling of being judged by friends and family who assume our single status is a personal choice. Spoiler alert: it’s often not that simple! I share moments of vulnerability, like going out and not encountering any attractive or available men, and the frustration that arises from feeling like options are scarce. Along the way, we touch on the importance of self-awareness and understanding our own needs in relationships, as well as the significance of not settling for just anyone. This episode is a reminder that it's perfectly okay to desire a partner while also enjoying the single life. We reflect on the balance between wanting to be loved and finding comfort in our independence, and ultimately, we recognize that it's all part of the beautiful mess that is life. Takeaways: Being single is often a result of circumstances rather than personal choice; many people face a lack of good options.It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking one is single by choice when it may really be due to a lack of opportunities.The pressure to be in a relationship can lead to feelings of invalidation, especially when others assume you're single by choice.Creating connections with others, even in casual settings, can help expand your social circle and potentially lead to romantic opportunities.We often need to challenge the narrative around being single; it's perfectly okay to want a partner while enjoying your independence.Don't be afraid to reflect on your own needs and desires in relationships; self-awareness is key to understanding your relationship status.

    17 min

  7. JAN 13

    Single by Circumstance: Why It’s Okay to Want More (Part 1)

    Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Feeling like the only single person in a sea of couples? Trust me, you’re not alone! In this episode, we dive into the complexities of being single, especially when it feels like it’s not by choice. I’m here to let you know that wanting to be in a healthy relationship is totally okay, and it’s high time we acknowledge that many folks out there are pretending to be happy with their single status when, truth be told, they’d rather be coupled up. We chat about the societal pressures surrounding singlehood, the challenges of dating, and how the push for independence often overlooks the reality that many are just struggling to find a good match. So, whether you've been single for a hot minute or a decade, grab your favorite snack and tune in as we explore the ups and downs of the single life! Being single can sometimes feel like an exclusive club, but let me tell you, it’s a club that many of us didn’t sign up for willingly! In this episode, I dive deep into the realities of being single, especially when it's not by choice. We’re talking about the societal pressures that make it seem like everyone is happily single, while in reality, many people are just trying to make the best of a situation they didn’t choose. I explore the notion that it’s perfectly okay to crave companionship and a healthy relationship, and that wanting to be coupled up doesn’t mean you’re any less independent or valid. I share my personal experiences of navigating this sometimes frustrating landscape, where it feels like the good options are few and far between. So grab a cozy blanket, maybe a snack (or two), and let’s chat about the ups and downs of single life. It’s time to embrace our truths, whether we’re loving our single era or just trying to survive it! Takeaways: It's totally okay to wish for a meaningful relationship instead of being single.Being single doesn't mean you have to be happy about it; it's okay to want more.We should embrace our single era and make it a powerful and positive experience.The push for single independence often overlooks the real struggles of being alone.Not every single person is enjoying their status; sometimes it's just a lack of options.Women can now choose to be single, but many still desire genuine connections.

    15 min

  8. JAN 6

    Why January is for Rest, Not Resolutions

    Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. January doesn’t have to be all about future goals and resolutions, especially when it’s cold and dreary outside. I'm all about taking a chill pill during this month and enjoying the present rather than stressing over what I should be doing. This episode, we dive into the idea that it's perfectly okay to slow down and just cozy up indoors instead of feeling the pressure to hustle. I mean, who wants to hit the gym when you can binge-watch your favorite shows under a blanket? Plus, I’ll share some personal insights on why I ditched New Year's resolutions ages ago and how listening to my body has become my go-to mantra. So grab that electric blanket and join me as we explore how to make January a month of relaxation and self-care instead of a race to the finish line!January rolls around and suddenly it feels like everyone expects us to reinvent ourselves overnight. But is that really necessary? This episode dives into the tangled emotions of January, a month that often feels like a pit stop between the holiday chaos and the impending February love frenzy. We chat about the pressures of New Year's resolutions that most of us break before the month’s even out. I mean, let’s be real, who’s really up for a gym membership when it’s freezing outside? Not this gal! Instead of racing into the new year, I propose we take a step back, cozy up, and just... be. We discuss how listening to our bodies and embracing a slower pace can be more beneficial than frantically chasing after societal expectations. So grab your fuzzy socks and a warm drink as we explore how January can be a month of rest and reflection rather than hustle and bustle. After all, who says we can’t snuggle into our blankets and binge our favorite shows instead of hitting the gym?

    14 min
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Single by choice, by chance, or by WTF is going on? This candid podcast explores the realities of single life, modern dating, loneliness, self-love, healing, confidence, and personal growth. Through relatable and unfiltered stories, guest conversations, and listener voice memos, you’ll find your space and your community to feel seen, empowered, grounded, and ready for love whenever it shows up.

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  • Creator
    Wioleta
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    ©2025 Wioleta
  • Show Website
    All About Being Single