All About Being Single

Wioleta

Single by choice, by chance, or by WTF is going on? This candid podcast explores the philosophy of the realities of single life, modern dating, loneliness, self-love, healing, confidence, and personal growth. Through relatable and unfiltered stories (hopefully soon, some guest conversations, and listener voice memos), you’ll find your space and your community to feel seen, empowered, grounded, and ready for love whenever it shows up.

  1. 2d ago

    Single With Stuff To Look Forward To | Finding Joy in Your Own Company | Episode 47

    Are you feeling like your single life is a waiting game? Well, today we're diving into the idea that just because we’re flying solo doesn’t mean we have to hit pause on our excitement. I get it—sometimes it feels like all the good stuff is waiting for that special someone to show up. But hold on! This episode is all about finding joy in our own journey, with plenty of things to look forward to, like solo trips, new hobbies, or even that long-awaited DIY project. Whether it's planning a weekend getaway, starting a new side hustle, or simply treating yourself to a well-deserved spa day, we’ll explore ways to create our own fun. So, let's chat about how to fill our calendars with things that make us smile, and remember: life is too short to wait around for someone else to make it special! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Feeling a bit underwhelmed in your single life? You're not alone! Our host, Wioleta, dives into the often-overlooked aspects of being single and how to fill your calendar with exciting plans that don't hinge on someone else. Instead of waiting for that special someone to come along, she encourages us to embrace our independence and find joy in personal milestones like solo trips, home renovations, or even learning a new skill. The episode is packed with examples, from planning a weekend getaway to picking apples at a fall festival, all aimed at igniting excitement in our lives right now. Let's choose to live fully in the present and create experiences that we can look forward to, whether it's hosting friends for a game night or simply enjoying a quiet morning with a good cup of coffee. So grab your favorite drink, maybe dance a little, and let’s get inspired to make plans that are all about us! Takeaways: Being single doesn't need to be a waiting game; we can create our own joy and excitement right now.There are countless personal milestones we can look forward to, like solo trips or starting a new hobby.Taking control of our finances can open doors to experiences we’re excited about, like vacations or new adventures.It’s important to focus on goals that are independent of others; our happiness shouldn't hinge on someone else's plans.

  2. Jul 14

    Dancing Through Life Alone | There is a Lack of Songs About Being Single | Episode 46

    We're diving into the world of being single and celebrating the solo life! I’m your host, Wioleta, and today we’re on a quest to unearth those rare gems—songs that truly capture the essence of living life solo. Spoiler alert: it’s a bit of a challenge! Most songs tend to fall into the breakup or dating categories, leaving us high and dry when it comes to celebrating singlehood. But fear not, we’ll explore some tracks that, while maybe not written exclusively for the solo lifestyle, still pack a punch in that direction. From Lizzo’s empowering vibes to some lesser-known tunes, we're on a mission to find the soundtrack of self-love and independence. So grab your headphones and let’s get grooving to the sound of solo living! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Living life on your own terms is a recurring theme in our latest chat, where I, Wioleta, dive into the world of songs that celebrate being single. Picture this: you’re sitting alone, maybe sipping coffee, and the tunes are all about love and heartbreak. But what about the anthems that shout out to solo living? I went on a quest to curate a playlist that captures the essence of embracing singlehood without the baggage of breakups or dating woes. It turns out, finding these songs is like hunting for the last slice of pizza at a party—everyone wants it, but there’s not much left! Sure, we all know the hits like Lizzo’s “Good As Hell” and Miley Cyrus’s “Flowers,” but they often dance around the breakup blues. I wanted to highlight tracks that truly celebrate the solo journey, the joys of living life for oneself. If you have any gems in mind, I’m all ears! And hey, if you’re feeling a bit lonely sometimes, remember it's totally natural to crave companionship. We discuss the importance of balancing that desire with a healthy appreciation for your own company. After all, who says you can’t have a blast solo? So crank up the tunes, dance like no one’s watching, and let’s toast to the single life! Takeaways: Living life solo can be a wonderful experience, and we should celebrate it more often.Finding songs that truly capture the essence of being single is quite the challenge, but it's worth it.It's natural to desire partnership, but embracing our single life is equally important for personal growth.Singing and dancing to our favorite songs can be a great way to cope with loneliness and boost our spirits.

  3. Jul 7

    Solitude vs. Isolation | When to Stay Home and When To Go Out as a Single Person | Episode 45

    Staying social while single is the name of the game today, and trust me, it’s a vital skill we all need to master! I dive into the importance of saying yes to plans and keeping those connections alive, especially when the temptation to stay home can be oh-so-strong. Picture this: I almost skipped a family gathering because, let’s be real, sometimes the couch just looks so inviting. But I’m super glad I didn’t, because it turned out to be a blast! We chat about the fine line between solitude and isolation and how sometimes our best memories come from those moments we almost missed out on. So grab your favorite snack and let’s explore how to keep our social lives buzzing, even when we’re flying solo! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Balancing solo time and social life can feel like trying to juggle flaming torches while riding a unicycle—tricky, but totally doable! This week, we dive into the fine art of maintaining connections while embracing our singlehood. I share my recent experiences, including a spontaneous trip to a Fourth of July bash that almost didn’t happen. Spoiler alert: I said yes, and it turned out to be a blast! Through this episode, we’ll explore the difference between solitude—which can be refreshing and productive—and isolation, which is often a sneaky trap for singles. I’ll share tips on how to break free from that rut, encouraging you to accept one invitation this week or even be the one to create plans. After all, life is too short to miss out on fun, especially when it’s just a text away! Takeaways: Being single can sometimes lead to isolation, so it's vital to reach out and make plans with friends.There's a big difference between solitude, which can recharge you, and isolation, which can bring you down.Saying yes to invitations might be tough, but some of my best memories came from almost canceling plans.Creating a fulfilling life when single means balancing meaningful connections with intentional alone time.Don't wait until you feel like it to socialize; push yourself and you might be surprised by the fun you have.Simply getting outside, even for a walk, can help combat feelings of loneliness and boost your mood.

  4. Jun 30

    Dining Out Alone is Liberating | Ask for a Table, Don't Settle for Sitting at the Bar | Episode 44

    Ever found yourself wondering, "Can I just get a seat at the table?" Well, today we’re diving into that very question as we chat about the experience of dining solo and how often society nudges us towards the less desirable options. It's not just about the food—it's about claiming your space, even when you're flying solo. I recently found myself at a restaurant where the hostess immediately suggested the bar for one, which got me thinking: why do we often accept the leftovers of social situations just because we’re single? We deserve the same treatment as couples, right? So, whether you're enjoying a quiet meal with a book or just want to spread out a bit, let's talk about why it's totally okay to ask for what you want—table and all! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Diving into the world of solo dining, Wioleta shares a personal story that many can relate to—eating out alone and the sometimes awkward interactions that come with it. She recounts her recent staycation where she decided to treat herself to breakfast for lunch. After a long week filled with home renovations and podcasting, she craved a moment of peace with a meal not made in her kitchen. Upon arriving at the restaurant, she faced the all-too-familiar scenario where the hostess suggested she sit at the bar instead of the table she requested. Wioleta uses this situation to highlight a broader issue: how society often pushes singles to accept lesser options simply because they are alone. She passionately argues that everyone—regardless of their relationship status—deserves to take up space and enjoy the experience they choose. After all, it’s not just about eating; it's about self-respect and asserting your desires. This episode resonates deeply as Wioleta invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences, encouraging them to demand the table they want, both in restaurants and in life. Takeaways: When dining solo, it's totally okay to ask for a table instead of settling for the bar, just because you're alone.Society often conditions us to accept less when we're single, but we deserve the same options as everyone else.It's essential to advocate for your preferences, whether it's at a restaurant or in life; don't shrink yourself just because you're solo.Remember, taking up space and asking for what you want is a sign of self-respect, not being difficult.

  5. Jun 23

    Freedom vs. Loneliness | The Single Life Dilemma | Episode 43

    Being single is a wild ride filled with contradictions, and today we’re diving into the duality of this experience. I mean, on one hand, we relish the freedom to make our own choices and enjoy our own space. But let’s be real; sometimes it can feel a bit lonely, right? We chat about the joys of single life—like traveling solo and spending money how we please—while also acknowledging that it can be tough when you crave companionship or miss having someone to share those little victories with. So, whether you’re loving your independence or wishing for a partner in crime, we’re here to explore how both feelings can coexist. Grab a cup of your favorite beverage, settle in, and let’s get into it! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Navigating the waters of singlehood can be quite the adventure, can't it? Every twist and turn seems to come with its own set of contradictions. For instance, we love the freedom of being single—who doesn't enjoy being able to binge-watch their favorite show without having to compromise on Netflix choices? But then again, there are those moments when we find ourselves wishing for someone to share those experiences with, someone to ask us how our day went after a long workweek. It's a classic case of wanting it all, right? In this episode, we dive deep into the dualities of single life, exploring the things we love about our independence while also acknowledging the loneliness that can sometimes creep in. We touch on how, as we grow older, our social circles tend to shrink, often leaving singles feeling a bit more isolated than before. But fear not! We're all about embracing the contradictions and understanding that it’s perfectly okay to feel both content and lonely at the same time. So, grab your favorite snack, settle in, and let’s chat about the joys and challenges of being single in today's world. Takeaways: Being single comes with a unique set of contradictions that can be both liberating and lonely.The societal pressure to embrace singlehood often overlooks the desire for genuine connection.You can love your independence while still craving the warmth of companionship in your life.It's completely natural to enjoy being single yet still hope for a meaningful relationship one day.

  6. Jun 16

    Celebrating Life's Small, Logistical and Practical Wins as a Single Person | Episode 42

    This week, we’re diving into the concept of celebrating small wins because, let’s be real, a win is a win! I’ve been knee-deep in a house remodel that’s dragging on like a bad Netflix series, and it made me realize how often we overlook the little victories in our lives. Whether it’s finishing that DIY project, getting through a tough day at work, or even just showing up to an event solo, those moments matter just as much as the big milestones. So, I’m sharing my own journey of juggling home renovations, podcasting, and life in general, while encouraging you to give yourself a pat on the back for those everyday achievements. Join me as we explore why it’s crucial to acknowledge those practical wins that keep us moving forward, even when the going gets tough! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Reflecting on the little victories that often go unnoticed can be a game changer, especially when life feels like a relentless to-do list. In this episode, I dive into my chaotic journey of remodeling my house—a project that’s been dragging on for nearly six years. It’s a bit like trying to tame a wild beast; at first, it was exhilarating, but now it feels like I'm grappling with a toxic relationship. I share my highs and lows, from learning new DIY skills to the fatigue of making endless decisions. Sometimes, just showing up is a win worth celebrating, even if it’s just to finish a bathroom tile job or attend a singles event solo. Life isn't just about major milestones; it's about the daily wins that keep us moving forward, and trust me, they count just as much, if not more. So whether you finally asked someone out or just managed to smile at a stranger, give yourself some credit. Each small step is a step toward something bigger, and I encourage everyone to reflect on their own wins, no matter how trivial they may seem. Takeaways: This episode highlights that small wins, like finishing a home project, truly matter.Life is filled with daily accomplishments that often go unnoticed but are vital for growth.Being single can amplify the pressure to achieve big milestones, yet small victories count too.Even mundane tasks, such as caulking, remind us that every step forward is a win.Your daily decisions, no matter how small, keep your life on track and should be celebrated.In the chaos of life, remember that showing up is a win in itself, don't sell yourself short.

  7. Jun 9

    The Ultimate Self-Care Playbook for Single People (Part 2) | No Partner Needed | Episode 41

    Building a life that's full, connected, and meaningful is totally possible, no matter your relationship status! Today, I’m diving into the different types of self-care we can all embrace to nurture ourselves, especially for those of us flying solo. From spiritual self-care like meditation, to creative outlets such as painting or writing, we’re exploring how these practices can enhance our lives. I’ll also share a treasure trove of 39 fun and practical self-care ideas you can try this week, like taking a 30-minute walk sans phone or planning a guilt-free solo date. So grab your favorite mug, get comfy, and let’s chat about making life a little sweeter, one self-care tip at a time! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Takeaways: Building a meaningful life is possible regardless of your relationship status, so let's dive in!Self-care comes in many forms, including spiritual, professional, and creative; we need to nurture all aspects.Creating a comforting environment is key, so go ahead and declutter your space for better vibes.Reflect on what your body needs; sometimes a good cry or a walk does wonders for the soul.

  8. Jun 2

    Self-Care for Single People Isn't Just Bubble Baths | Let’s Get Real | Episode 40

    What if the relationship that needs the most TLC isn’t with someone else, but with yourself? This week, we dive into the often overlooked but super important world of self-care, especially for us singles who might not have someone checking in on us. We’re breaking down self-care into bite-sized pieces, covering everything from physical wellness—like getting those Z’s and eating right—to the emotional side, where we discuss the power of journaling and just letting those tears flow when you need to. We even touch on mental stimulation and social connections because, let’s face it, we all need our tribe! So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s chat about how we can level up our self-care game, one small step at a time. Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Takeaways: Self-care isn't just bubble baths; it's a holistic approach that singles truly need.As we grow older, it's crucial to prioritize our relationship with ourselves above all.Physical self-care encompasses sleep, nutrition, and even those pesky doctor visits we tend to skip.Emotional self-care includes journaling, therapy, and giving ourselves permission to cry when needed.

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Single by choice, by chance, or by WTF is going on? This candid podcast explores the philosophy of the realities of single life, modern dating, loneliness, self-love, healing, confidence, and personal growth. Through relatable and unfiltered stories (hopefully soon, some guest conversations, and listener voice memos), you’ll find your space and your community to feel seen, empowered, grounded, and ready for love whenever it shows up.