The Frequency of Yes

evolveminded
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You’re not here to play by the old rules of business. You’re here to rewrite them. The Frequency of Yes is a podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs who are done with hustle, burnout, and strategies that override their truth. Hosted by business strategist and energetic visionary Kirstin Carey, each episode helps you reconnect with the deep, clear “yes” in your body—and build from there. We talk feminine fire, unapologetic clarity, and the real strategy behind creating success that actually feels good. Through channeled insights, grounded teachings, and real stories of transformation, you’ll walk away clearer, braver, and more connected to what you’re truly here to build. This is how we architect a new era of feminine-led business.

  1. Apr 23

    Ep 29: Future You Has the Answer You're Refusing to Hear

    You have handled everything. The business, the hard seasons, the years when no one else was going to do it. That identity feels good. It makes you feel important, worthy, and accomplished. And in the Matriarch Phase, it is the exact thing making this transition harder than it needs to be. The same strategy that built everything you have has been borrowing from the future you for years. Perimenopause is not the problem. It is the collection notice. This episode opens with a client story. A 47-year-old multi-6-figure business owner who ate well, meditated, vacationed, and still got sick at every sales launch. Until she did a Richly Resourced Audit, found where the borrowing was happening, and closed out her next $600k launch without so much as a sniffle. Her toddler caught a cold. She didn't. From there, this episode delivers three decision mechanisms you can put to work immediately. The balance sheet moment: stop the borrowing that is no longer producing a return, start investing in the reserves the building years depleted. The five-year future-self conversation: a practice for accessing the wisdom of the version of you who has already lived the consequences of the decision you are circling right now. And the love letter frame: every micro-choice you make, from a protein-rich meal to one more rep at the gym, becomes a letter you are writing forward to your 80-year-old self, instead of a reaction coming from the version of you who was hurt decades ago. This is the last diagnosis episode. From here forward, the conversation on this podcast shifts into what the redesign looks like on the ground. The specifics. The structure. The numbers. Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:00 The I Can Handle It Identity 04:00 A Client Story: The $600K Launch Without Getting Sick 09:00 What The Debt Looks Like In Your Business 12:00 The Balance Sheet Moment 14:00 A Conversation With Your Future Self 17:00 Every Choice Is A Love Letter To Your 80-Year-Old Self 20:30 The Turning Point Work with Kirstin Richly Resourced Audit: evolveminded.com/audit

  2. Apr 16

    Ep 28: Symptoms Are Not Failure. But They Mean Something.

    Something is off. Not in a way you can easily name. You are not burned out in the way people talk about burnout. You are not falling apart. But you are not feeling like yourself, and when the symptoms show up, that voice kicks in. The one that makes you wonder if maybe you just can’t hack it anymore. That voice is wrong. But knowing that doesn’t make it quiet. This episode is about the Matriarch Phase: the developmental crossing point every high-achieving woman moves through, that no woman gets through without symptoms, and that almost no one discusses at the level of specificity that actually helps. You will hear why three shifts are happening at once in your body, your identity, and your perception of everything. Why your decision-making, tolerance, and leadership presence are all changing. And why the expectation of zero symptoms is not a health standard. It is a false belief that turns your body’s signals into shame. Symptoms are not a report card. They are information. If you want to look at this phase as a complete picture: evolveminded.com/audit

  3. Apr 9

    Ep 27: The Resilience Portfolio: What Keeps You Leading on Your Terms

    You did not build what you have built to be forced out of it. Not by the market. Not by your competitors. And not by your own biology. But that is the default trajectory for women who have spent the building years running on output without actively managing the resilience portfolio. This episode introduces the five resilience categories that determine whether the next twenty or thirty years are on your terms or your body's terms: Structural Resilience (bone density and skeletal stability) Cognitive Resilience (neural plasticity and the sharpness behind every strategic decision) Spiritual Resilience (connection to purpose, fulfillment, trust, and belief) Physical Resilience (metabolic function, muscle, and immune capacity) Relational Resilience (the depth of connection that research from the APA, Mayo Clinic, Harvard, and PubMed identifies as the number one longevity factor above genes, nutrition, and lifestyle) This is not a wellness conversation. It is an investment strategy. And the return is the one that matters most: choice. The freedom to lead for as long as you want to lead, on your timeline. Mentioned in the episode: If you want to see where your resilience portfolio is underfunded: evolveminded.com/audit

  4. Apr 2

    Ep 26: Your Nervous System Is Running Your Revenue: Cortisol, Fear, and Cash Flow

    You're doing everything right and something still feels off. Your decisions feel harder. Your threshold is lower. The push-through strategy that built your business is no longer producing the same results, and nobody has given you a useful explanation for why. This episode is about the specific hormonal loop driving that shift: cortisol. Not estrogen. Cortisol. And how chronic elevation of your primary stress hormone is directly impacting your decision-making, your emotional capacity, your nervous system's signal to potential clients, and your relationship with money. We cover what cortisol does to five systems in the body, how perimenopause removes the hormonal buffer that was keeping your stress response in check, why pushing harder to fix the problem spikes cortisol further, and what it actually takes to interrupt a conditioned threat response. Not rest. Not yoga. Not block scheduling. The intervention has to happen at the physiological level. This episode is for the high-achieving woman in midlife who is starting to suspect her cash flow problem and her cortisol problem might be the same problem. If you want to look at how your stress response is showing up in your body, your decisions, and your revenue specifically, the Richly Resourced Audit is the place to start: evolveminded.com/audit

  5. Mar 26

    Ep 25: Is It Me or Is It Menopause

    You've been calling it stress. Burnout. A rough season. But underneath that explanation is a quieter question you haven't quite said out loud: what if something is wrong with me? This episode is for the woman who has been living in perimenopause without knowing it. Not because she hasn't been paying attention, but because perimenopause doesn't look the way she was taught to expect. It shows up as brain fog, sourceless anxiety, sleep that doesn't restore you, and mood variability that makes you wonder if you're becoming someone you don't recognize. We cover what perimenopause is, what it looks like, why the medical system keeps missing it, and why this is a systemic issue, not a single hormone problem. We go into the six areas that compound fastest after estrogen drops: diet, detox pathways, sleep, hydration, movement, and weight training. We cover why replacing hormones isn't always the simple answer. And we connect all of it directly to your business performance and revenue. This is a strategy conversation about a transition nobody adequately prepared you for. If your capacity or revenue has shifted in ways you can't explain: evolveminded.com/audit

  6. Mar 19

    Ep 24: The Matriarch Phase Redesign: Lead or Get Dragged

    The redesign is already in motion. The only variable is whether you're in the driver's seat or getting dragged. If you've been sensing something needs to shift but you can't put words to it yet, this episode is the one you've been waiting for. This is where the Matriarch Phase series gets practical. Episodes 21 through 23 laid the foundation. Now we go into what the redesign looks like in real life. What changes. What stays. And how to move through this transition without burning down everything you've built. Kirstin breaks down the four patterns she sees in women who get dragged through this phase: moving too slowly, moving too fast, going turtle shell, and following someone else's map. Then she maps the four shifts that define an intentional redesign: pace, the depth of your knowing, your biology, and what gets released. These aren't separate conversations. They're one connected framework for understanding what's happening and choosing how to move through it. She also shares her own experience navigating this transition without a roadmap, including the moment she had to get honest about who she was without the grind-and-drive version of herself that had built everything. And she names what becomes possible on the other side: a different kind of leadership. Visionary. Steady. Built from accumulated genius rather than momentum. The slow burn doesn't mean you've lost something. It means you've changed your fuel source. And when you learn to trust it, it will take you further and keep you intact in ways the high-voltage version never could. In This Episode: The four patterns that show up when women get dragged through this transition Why the biological and identity shifts are the same conversation, not two separate ones The four shifts that define an intentional Matriarch Phase redesign Why most of what you've built doesn't need to go anywhere, and what precision over demolition looks like What becomes possible when all four shifts are working together The reflection questions to sit with this week Ready to get in the driver's seat? The Richly Resourced Audit is a structured diagnostic, not a free strategy call. You complete a detailed intake, Kirstin creates a 20-page personalized assessment, and then you meet twice to walk through what's happening and build a practical plan for this next phase. Book your Richly Resourced Audit at EvolveMinded.com/audit New episodes drop weekly. Subscribe so you never miss one. And if this episode landed for you, share it with the woman in your life who needs to hear it.

  7. Mar 12

    Ep 23: 3 Signs You've Entered the Matriarch Phase: Why Success Suddenly Feels Different

    Many accomplished women reach midlife and notice something unexpected. The drive that fueled their success begins to fade. Capacity changes. Misalignment becomes impossible to ignore. Most women assume they are burned out. But what if these shifts are actually signals of a leadership transition? In this episode of The Frequency of Yes, Kirstin Carey explains the three signs that indicate a woman has entered what she calls The Matriarch Phase. This phase often begins during perimenopause and affects far more than hormones. It impacts leadership style, decision-making, stress tolerance, and the business structures women built earlier in their careers. Understanding this shift allows women to redesign their leadership and business models for the next stage of life. In this episode you’ll learn: • The first sign that the Matriarch Phase has begun • Why the drive to prove yourself fades in midlife • How perimenopause affects capacity and recovery • Why successful women suddenly lose tolerance for misalignment • What it means when all three signs appear at once When these shifts show up together, they are not signs of burnout. They are signals that the structures built during an earlier phase of life no longer match the woman you are becoming. Richly Resourced Audit The Richly Resourced Audit is a paid diagnostic for accomplished women entering this transition. It includes: • A personalized assessment of your biological capacity and leadership phase • A strategic review of the business structure built during your earlier growth years • A written diagnostic report outlining what to keep, what to redesign, and where your next leverage exists • Two private working sessions with Kirstin to interpret the findings and map the next phase Learn more: https://evolveminded.com/audit The Frequency of Yes Podcast This show explores the intersection of leadership, biology, somatic intelligence, and business design for accomplished women navigating midlife leadership. More episodes: https://evolveminded.com/podcast Connect Website https://evolveminded.com Instagram https://instagram.com/kirstin_carey YouTube https://youtube.com/@evolveminded

  8. Mar 5

    Ep 22: What's the Point? Stepping Into the Power of the Matriarch Phase

    If you've built the business, hit the numbers, and checked every box, but you keep quietly asking yourself "What's the point?", that question is not a crisis. It's the Matriarch Phase announcing itself. This episode names what's happening when the business you built stops fitting the woman you've become. Kirstin breaks down the two tracks that converge for Gen X women at this stage: decades of conditioning that trained you to move through your accomplishments without experiencing them, and a biology that has stopped tolerating the override. Together, those two forces produce the identity shift most women in this phase feel but can't fully express. This is not burnout. Burnout is depletion. This is recalibration. And those two things call for completely different responses. Kirstin also walks through why the scaling model most women used to build their businesses works against them at this stage, and why moving away from the front lines often disconnects you from the very intelligence that made your business work in the first place. She shares her own story of staying two years past the point she knew something needed to change, and what it cost her to wait that long. And she introduces the three specific markers that confirm you're in the Matriarch Phase, not failing, not losing ambition, but shifting into a different kind of leadership. In This Episode: Why the "What's the point?" question surfaces for accomplished Gen X women at this life stage, and what's driving it biologically and psychologically How perimenopause and adrenal function directly affect your energy, capacity, and tolerance for work that feels out of alignment Why the scaling model can disconnect you from your own intelligence and what to do about it The three markers of the Matriarch Phase and what they look like inside a real business Three concrete things to do this week to start closing the gap between the business you have and the one that fits who you are now If you're ready for full immersion, the Richly Resourced Personal Retreat is two days, one focus, at Kirstin's home in the Superstition Mountains. Details and the application are at evolveminded.com/retreat. New episodes drop weekly. Subscribe so you never miss one. And if this episode landed for you, share it with the woman in your life who needs to hear it.

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You’re not here to play by the old rules of business. You’re here to rewrite them. The Frequency of Yes is a podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs who are done with hustle, burnout, and strategies that override their truth. Hosted by business strategist and energetic visionary Kirstin Carey, each episode helps you reconnect with the deep, clear “yes” in your body—and build from there. We talk feminine fire, unapologetic clarity, and the real strategy behind creating success that actually feels good. Through channeled insights, grounded teachings, and real stories of transformation, you’ll walk away clearer, braver, and more connected to what you’re truly here to build. This is how we architect a new era of feminine-led business.

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  • Creator
    evolveminded
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    29
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