Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice

Laura Nave
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Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice — the podcast for women who are done waiting for “the one” and ready to become a parent on their own damn terms. We’re talking fertility, pregnancy, the emotional chaos, and the village it takes to raise a kid.Sometimes you cry in the bathtub. Sometimes you're crying because your toddler bit you. And sometimes, you cry because you chose all of this.Unfiltered conversations about solo motherhood—because doing it alone doesn't mean doing it quietly.

  1. 4D AGO

    A Beautiful Path to Motherhood: Masha’s Story

    Send us a text On this episode of Choosing Chaos, I’m chatting with Masha, a mom of two sweet daughters, about her journey into motherhood — the joys, the challenges, and all the unexpected ways love and family show up along the way. 💛 We also talk about the ways she’s been able to share the gift of motherhood with another single mom by choice, and how building your village sometimes looks different than you expect. For more info on embryo donation and resources for single parents by choice, check out Embryo Connections. This episode is full of warmth, honesty, and inspiration — perfect for anyone navigating motherhood, family, or just life’s beautiful chaos. Connect with Choosing Chaos: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/choosing_chaos_smbc 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@choosingchaossmbc 📧 Email: choosingchaossmbc@gmail.com Support the show

    55 min

  2. JAN 26

    So… I Became a Mom: Joni’s Story

    Send us a text In this episode, we sit down with Joni to hear her journey to motherhood through IUI — and how that experience helped her discover who she truly is. She opens up about life in the sandwich generation, balancing the needs of her child and her parents, navigating the emotional ups and downs of postpartum, and the beautiful, unexpected joys of becoming a mom. Her story is honest, heartfelt, and a reminder of why it’s so important to take care of ourselves while caring for the people around us — because we can’t pour from an empty cup. Connect with Choosing Chaos: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/choosing_chaos_smbc 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@choosingchaossmbc 📧 Email: choosingchaossmbc@gmail.com Be sure to subscribe so you never miss more stories of courage, choice, and the beautiful mess of motherhood. If today’s episode resonated, we’d love for you to follow, rate, and leave a comment! Support the show

    44 min

  3. JAN 19

    NICU Moms Speak: The Fear, the Love, the Strength

    Send us a text Birth doesn’t always go the way we imagine. In this episode, we reconnect with Kristen, Lindsay, and Annie as they share their honest and emotional NICU journeys — from fear and uncertainty to resilience, growth, and unexpected strength. We talk about what it’s really like to have a baby in the NICU, how families cope with the emotional rollercoaster, and what it means to choose chaos — to choose love, courage, and connection in the middle of uncertainty. Whether you’re currently in the NICU, have been there before, or love someone who is, this conversation is for you. Resources mentioned:  March of Dimes, Hand to Hold, Graham’s Foundation, and Postpartum Support International. Subscribe to Choosing Chaos so you never miss stories of courage, choice, and the beautiful mess of motherhood.  Find us on TikTok, Instagram, Youtube and Patreon — and don’t forget to follow, rate, and review. We’d love to hear from you 🤍 Support the show

    1h 6m

  4. JAN 12

    Science, Probability, and Kelley's Decision to Move Forward

    Send us a text In this episode of Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice, Kelley joins Laura for an honest conversation about the emotional realities of becoming a solo mother by choice. Kelley reflects on why relationships aren’t always easy — and why leaving one can be just as complicated as staying. She shares how the path to motherhood through IUI or IVF can take time and carry an emotional toll, and why connection matters — including what it means for her and her daughter to be connected to donor siblings. We also talk about postpartum anxiety — how difficult it can be, how it can cause you to second-guess yourself, and why recognizing it and seeking support is so important. And finally, Kelley reminds us that while becoming an SMBC is both difficult and courageous, it does get easier. We also address postpartum anxiety, explore ways to recognize it, and share supportive resources for anyone who may be struggling. Postpartum Support Resources: Postpartum Support International — support line, online groups, and local referrals: 1-800-944-4773 or https://www.postpartum.net Connect with Choosing Chaos: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/choosing_chaos_smbc 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@choosingchaossmbc 📧 Email: choosingchaossmbc@gmail.com Be sure to subscribe so you never miss more stories of courage, choice, and the beautiful mess of motherhood. If today’s episode resonated, we’d love for you to follow, rate, and leave a comment! Support the show

    48 min

  5. JAN 5

    New Year, Organized Chaos with Sage Haus

    Send us a text New year, same chaos—just better managed ✨ In this episode, we’re talking all things organized chaos with Sage Haus and why having the right support can be a total game changer, especially for solo moms by choice. From reclaiming your time to reducing the mental load, this conversation is all about how a house manager can feel like an extension of your village—so you can focus on you, your family, and your goals. If 2026 is the year you reprioritize yourself while still keeping life running smoothly, this episode is for you. Learn more about Sage Haus and their approach to modern home management: Website: Sagehaus.com Instagram: MySageHaus Because chaos is inevitable—but support makes all the difference. Support the show

    33 min

  6. 12/29/2025

    Macaile Hutt on Podcasting & Aspiring to SMBC

    Send us a text In this episode, we’re joined by Macaile Hutt, the host and creator of Red Nail Energy — a podcast that centers bold conversations, real stories, and the power of choosing yourself. Macaile shares her experience as a podcast host, what inspired her to create Red Nail Energy, and how the show has become a space for honest dialogue and unapologetic storytelling. We also talk about her thoughtful and intentional path toward becoming a single mom by choice, and what it looks like to move forward with clarity, confidence, and — sometimes — choosing chaos. This conversation is for anyone navigating nontraditional paths, building something meaningful, or trusting themselves enough to take the next step. About Red Nail Energy Red Nail Energy is a podcast dedicated to authentic conversations with guests who have powerful stories to tell. Macaile creates space for vulnerability, confidence, and perspective — inviting listeners to lean into curiosity, self-trust, and bold life choices. 🎙 Listen to Red Nail Energy:  Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify 🌐 Website:  https://rednailenergy.com/ 📸 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/rednailenergy/ 🎵 TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@rednailenergy Support the show

    1h 3m

  7. 12/22/2025

    Lara’s Story: Pregnancy, Loss, and Finding Light in Lockdown - Part 2

    Send us a text In Part Two of Lara’s journey, we step beyond the delivery room and into the tender, vulnerable chapter of bringing Max home. With the world still deep in the pandemic, Lara navigates early motherhood in isolation—learning to care for a newborn while processing all she endured to get here. This episode explores the messy, beautiful realities of the newborn phase, the emotional shifts that accompany new motherhood, and the ways Lara began to rebuild support and connection during a time when community felt out of reach. We follow Max’s early growth, Lara’s own evolution, and the intentional, sometimes unexpected ways she began creating her village. Part Two is about healing, adaptation, and discovering who you become when life finally gives you the thing you’ve been fighting for. Support the show

    40 min

  8. 12/15/2025

    Lara’s Story: Pregnancy, Loss, and Finding Light in Lockdown - Part 1

    Send us a text In Part One of this two-part series, we follow Lara through her deeply personal journey to motherhood—a path shaped by the challenges of PCOS, multiple fertility treatments, and the emotional toll of failed IUIs and back-to-back IVF rounds. As she navigates her own uncertainty, the world around her begins to shift. COVID-19 shuts everything down just as she learns she’s pregnant, layering isolation and fear onto an already fragile time. Meanwhile, Lara faces another heartbreak—the declining health of her mother—forcing her to hold joy and grief in the same breath. Part One takes us through the weight of those months, the resilience she discovered, and the profound moment she finally welcomed her son, Max, into the world. This is a story about persistence, timing, and what it means to keep moving forward when everything around you feels like it’s falling apart. Support the show

    47 min
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Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice — the podcast for women who are done waiting for “the one” and ready to become a parent on their own damn terms. We’re talking fertility, pregnancy, the emotional chaos, and the village it takes to raise a kid.Sometimes you cry in the bathtub. Sometimes you're crying because your toddler bit you. And sometimes, you cry because you chose all of this.Unfiltered conversations about solo motherhood—because doing it alone doesn't mean doing it quietly.

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