Uncomfortable Grace

Coty Nguyễn
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Through Uncomfortable Grace, I create space for honest, Spirit-led conversations that challenge the Church to return to truth, unity, and holiness. Each episode confronts the hard stuff... sin, division, lukewarm faith and invites listeners into deeper surrender, practical discipleship, and a revived relationship with Jesus. This isn’t about surface-level inspiration... it’s about transformation.  Support the work I’m doing by giving toward this podcast. Your generosity helps me host guest speakers and expand the reach of this cast as we seek to offer the world Christ. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2517535j/support

  1. 3D AGO

    Four-Way Faith

    Send us a text We trace the fracture back to authority and ask whether the church wants holiness or relevance. We walk through Scripture, tradition, reason, and experience, and argue that grace must transform desire for discipleship to remain real. • defining the core issue as authority, not sexuality • contrasting culture’s identity story with Scripture’s formation of desire • outlining the Wesleyan quadrilateral with Scripture as primary • explaining how accommodation erodes theology, worship, and discipleship • clarifying love as willing the good, not mere affirmation • linking sexuality to body, worship, covenant, and allegiance • warning signs of compromise in worship, holiness, and doctrine • calling for renewed confidence in grace and sanctification If you're not dead, God's not done. And the best of all is Christ is with us. Support the show

    27 min

  2. JAN 13

    Why ‘Gay Christian’ Should Never Have Existed

    Send us a text Let’s talk about who gets to name you. We step into a charged topic—sexuality, identity, and Christian discipleship—with a slow pace, a gentle tone, and uncompromising clarity. No culture-war posturing, no cheap shots, just an honest wrestle with Scripture, the language of new creation, and the cost of following Jesus when desire runs deep. We begin by separating what often gets fused: attraction from behavior, temptation from sin, struggle from identity, and pastoral care from theological affirmation. From 2 Corinthians 5 and Galatians 2, we explore how Christianity doesn’t stack labels on top of faith but replaces them through death and resurrection. If identity flows from belonging, not feeling, then Christ holds the naming rights. That reframes the phrase “gay Christian,” not as a slur or denial of experience, but as a theological category the church cannot affirm without bending the gospel’s aim—transformation, not management. We also address authority. The long-running debate over clergy and sexuality ultimately asks whether Scripture can still say no, especially to leaders. The church has never claimed sinlessness for overseers, only submission to Christ and His Word. Without that anchor, discipleship thins into slogans. Yet we refuse to ignore church failures: mocking, exclusion, and silence where presence was needed. Repentance is due. Real love tells the truth and stays at the table, honoring believers who carry a costly obedience rather than lowering the bar to make pain disappear. You’ll hear a hopeful call that spans every struggle: you can wrestle, stumble, and rise again, but you cannot refuse transformation and call that faithfulness. The gospel does not say fix yourself first, or come and stay the same—it says come, die, and be raised. If that stirs questions or pushback, good. Pull up a chair, bring your story, and help us keep truth and love together. If this challenged or encouraged you, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review so more people can join the conversation. Support the show

    22 min

  3. 12/02/2025

    Living The Gospel Through The Liturgical Year

    Send us a text What if the most sacred work God does in you happens on the days that feel slow, repetitive, and utterly ordinary? We walk through the liturgical year—Advent, Christmas, Epiphany, Lent, Easter, Pentecost, and the long green stretch of Ordinary Time—and show how the church has learned to keep time by Jesus rather than by sales cycles and sport seasons. Each season carries a color and a theme that preaches: purple for waiting and repentance, white for glory and joy, red for Spirit and mission, green for growth and steady faithfulness. We start with Advent’s honest ache and move into Christmas joy, then Epiphany’s widening light. Lent invites a wilderness of preparation where we lay down illusions of control and make room for the grace that cuts deeper than convenience. Easter unveils a fifty-day feast because resurrection takes practice; it’s not just a song for Sunday but a new way to live all week. Pentecost ignites the church with flame and purpose, pushing us from pews into neighborhoods as the Spirit still fills, empowers, and sends. Finally, we linger in Ordinary Time, the longest season and the place most of us live. Ordinary does not mean boring; it means ordered—a steady heartbeat where roots go deep and character grows. We explore how color, symbol, and rhythm can disciple our attention, reframe our routines, and remind us that every season is sacred. If you’re craving fireworks, we invite you to find grace in the daily—prayer that persists, worship that endures, obedience that keeps showing up. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a fresh vision of time, and leave a review with the season that’s shaping you right now. Support the show

    18 min

  4. 11/25/2025

    Living Stones, Real Momentum

    Send us a text What if your faith isn’t weak—just unplaced? We explore 1 Peter 2’s image of “living stones” and trace how the book of Acts turns that picture into action: people gathered, prayed, obeyed, and the Spirit generated momentum no program could fake. Along the way, we name the quiet saboteurs of growth—isolated living, disunity, gossip, and consumer Christianity—and contrast them with the practices that actually build a spiritual house: surrender to Jesus the cornerstone, commitment to community, and obedience in small, unglamorous steps. We unpack why strength in numbers is more than a feel‑good slogan; it’s spiritual warfare math. One can chase a thousand, two ten thousand—exponential impact that emerges when believers align under Christ. Acts becomes our blueprint: upper room waiting, bold witness with the Twelve, prayer that shakes prison doors, generosity that meets needs, and daily growth that the Spirit adds. We talk about recognizing holy momentum already moving around you—a growing prayer meeting, a stirring for confession, a small group that suddenly carries weight—and why true movement is joined, not manufactured. This is a call to yield to the Builder. Stones do not place themselves, and neither do we. Let God shape your edges through real fellowship, accept the post that serves the whole, and trade spectator faith for participation that bears weight. If you’ve felt like a lone stone cracking under pressure, step back into the wall and watch what God can do when placement meets presence. Subscribe, share this with a friend who helps you stand, and leave a review with one small act of obedience you’ll take this week—where is God placing you next? Support the show

    18 min

  5. 10/28/2025

    Holiness That Burns Bright

    Send us a text What if the missing power in your faith isn’t more hype but a deeper surrender? Cody opens up about being pulled into repentance and makes a bold case for holiness as the beating heart of the Christian life. Not perfectionism, not legalism—holiness as the Spirit’s fire that burns away what cripples love and rewires desire until we want what God wants. We trace the difference between forgiveness and transformation, exploring why justification frees us from sin’s penalty while sanctification frees us from its power. With Titus 2 as a compass, we unpack grace that confronts before it comforts and trains us to say no to ungodliness. You’ll hear a candid critique of comfort culture, services that can move a crowd but not a soul, and the ways churches often make sin manageable instead of miserable. Then we move to hope: a vision of holiness that laughs louder, loves deeper, and carries unshakable peace. This episode gets practical. Confession over hiding. Truth when a lie would be easier. Quiet service without applause. Fasting from what numbs the soul, guarding your eyes, blessing enemies, keeping your word. We revisit Isaiah’s burning-coal moment to show how God exposes sin to cleanse, not to shame. And we cast a vision for a consecrated people whose daily choices can host miracles, where gossip dies, division dries up, and generosity flows. The claim is simple and searching: the next move of God will come through consecration, not charisma, and holiness is for every believer—parents, students, business leaders, teens. If you feel the tug to go deeper, take it as an invitation. Ask God to sanctify you wholly and expect refining, because fire precedes glory. The same grace that saved you will sanctify you; the same Spirit who convicted you will empower you; the same blood that forgave you will purify you. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s hungry for more, and leave a review telling us the one habit you’re laying down this week. Let’s become living proof that grace still changes people. Support the show

    20 min

  6. 10/21/2025

    America: Kumbaya Won't Cut It (Part 3)

    Send us a text What if the crisis in the church isn’t politics at all, but idolatry disguised as relevance and “balance”? We take off the mask of false peace and press into why comfort-based Christianity keeps pews full while altars stay empty. This is a straight call to trade applause for an altar, to reject a middle that buries conviction, and to rediscover unity that bows to the lordship of Jesus rather than silence that keeps the room calm. We unpack why hype can’t replace holiness and why emotional highs without obedience leave souls shallow. You’ll hear the hard difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking, how “balance” often functions as fear with good manners, and why Jesus stood in the gap instead of blending in. We frame the cultural divide as a spiritual war, drawing on Ephesians 6:12 to expose how neutrality becomes complicity and how a quiet church gives the enemy the microphone. The path forward is both simple and costly: repent of comfort as a goal, return to the Word with endurance, and rise with holy resolve. Revival won’t come from a platform or a policy; it starts in God’s house when we say “enough” to compromise and open our mouths with truth and love. If you’re ready to move from singing to standing, from brand to burden, and from safe to set-apart, this conversation will light a fire in your bones. Listen now, share it with a friend who needs courage, and leave a review to help more people find this message. Subscribe for more challenges that stir your heart and strengthen your walk. Support the show

    24 min

  7. 10/07/2025

    America: Kumbaya Won’t Cut It (Part 2)

    Send us a text Safe Christianity feels polite, but it quietly hollows out the church. We go straight at the myth of the “mushy middle,” naming why neutrality isn’t holiness, why fence‑sitting masquerades as compassion, and how America’s culture wars have discipled too many pulpits. Without picking a party, we anchor the conversation in Scripture—Micah 6:8, Revelation 3:16, Matthew 6:24—and lay out a kingdom standard that sometimes lands clearly on one side of an issue, not because of politics but because of obedience. We unpack the difference between false unity and true unity. False unity keeps the peace by silencing essentials and calling it love. True unity holds firm to the cross, Scripture, and holiness while loving across non‑essentials—methods, styles, and traditions—so our shared obedience becomes a living witness. From the loss of credibility with the next generation to a weakened witness before a watching world, we trace what’s at stake when the church mirrors the outrage machine instead of resisting it with conviction and charity. There’s hope threaded through this hard word. Jesus doesn’t pray prayers that can’t be answered, and his plea for oneness still bears fruit when believers repent of tribal identity and choose the kingdom way—feeding the hungry together, praying past pride, and choosing reconciliation over gossip. The choice is stark but life‑giving: safe religion or faithful allegiance; balanced optics or bold obedience. If your heart longs for a church with a spine and a tenderness shaped by the gospel, press play, share this with a friend who needs courage, and then tell us: where are you standing today? Subscribe, leave a review, and join us as we keep choosing Christ over comfort. Support the show

    20 min

  8. 09/30/2025

    America: Kumbaya Won’t Cut It (And Other Hot Takes)

    Send us a text The cultural divide may be loud, but the deeper fracture runs through our sanctuaries and our hearts: a tug toward the “safe middle” masquerading as wisdom. We take a hard, honest look at why neutrality feels compassionate yet so often becomes compromise, and why the gospel’s call is not to balance but to holiness, courage, and discipleship. Without leaning on party labels, we press into kingdom alignment—justice, mercy, and humility from Micah 6:8—as a practical compass for navigating issues that refuse to fit tidy political boxes. We unpack the difference between false unity and true unity, naming the temptation to paper over convictions to keep the peace. Silence can buy calm, but it can’t build character. Unity without truth is denial; unity with truth is costly love. From Revelation’s warning against lukewarm faith to Jesus’ charge that no one can serve two masters, we challenge the urge to dilute convictions for applause or avoid offense at the expense of integrity. Pastors aren’t called to be the middle ground; they’re called to shepherd toward repentance and faith. Believers aren’t called to be popular; we’re called to be faithful. Along the way, we offer plain guidance for holding a biblical center that doesn’t collapse into partisanship or drift into vagueness: let Scripture shape your stance, speak truth with mercy, distinguish essentials from preferences, and accept that conviction may cost comfort. The church doesn’t need hotter takes; it needs hearts on fire for Christ. If this message pushes you, share it with someone who’s tired of the middle and ready to follow Jesus with clarity and courage. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: where is God calling you to stand firm today? Support the show

    11 min
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Through Uncomfortable Grace, I create space for honest, Spirit-led conversations that challenge the Church to return to truth, unity, and holiness. Each episode confronts the hard stuff... sin, division, lukewarm faith and invites listeners into deeper surrender, practical discipleship, and a revived relationship with Jesus. This isn’t about surface-level inspiration... it’s about transformation.  Support the work I’m doing by giving toward this podcast. Your generosity helps me host guest speakers and expand the reach of this cast as we seek to offer the world Christ. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2517535j/support

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  • Creator
    Coty Nguyễn
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Uncomfortable Grace
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    Uncomfortable Grace