Happy rider, Healthy horse⎮dressage rider, dressage exercises, horse trigger point therapy, horse acupressure

Sarah Martine - Veterinarian, dressage rider coach

Welcome to the Happy Rider, Healthy Horse Podcast. In this podcast you will discover simple methods and techniques to achieve optimal dressage performance! Every episode will provide you with simple and effective solutions to get instant results in your riding. I bet this will improve your connection with your horse and reignite your passion and motivation! Do you often have unproductive rides because you lack inspiration or due to challenges with your horse being too strong, lazy, or unresponsive to your signals? Does your rides often lead to frustration and are you sometimes worried that your rides will result in injuries to your horse? Maybe this is impacting your motivation, your love of riding, and your relationship with your horse? My mission is to equip you to create a wholesome partnership with your horse and guide you to make every ride positive and fruitful through a patient positive mindset, simple training systems and maintaining the physical health of your horse with the right exercises and Masterson trigger point therapy. If you are ready to become a more creative rider and to build up and strengthen your connection, ready to learn non-invasive techniques to increase the mobility, comfort and longevity of your horse. If you are ready for you and your horse to be the best dance partners in crime - then you’re in the right place! Hi friend, I am Sarah, a twin mom, veterinarian, dressage rider and horse lover. All my riding life I have noticed so many young and adult riders get frustrated with their horses and I even did so myself. I felt bad and guilty afterwards because I knew the horse did not wake up that morning with a mission to go against me. I could feel so powerless when I was convinced I tried my best and my horse wouldn’t listen and do what I told him to. One day my personal trainer said something I will never forget; she reminded me that my horse did not have any ambitions, the ambitions were all on me, that my horse did not choose to be ridden, I chose to ride him and that actually my horse and the majority of all horses are people pleasers and they want to do anything for their rider. He would do anything for me if I just gave him correct simple signals and I then kept the patience for him to understand the signal and move his body to the right respond. From that day I created an intentional strategy for my riding and decided to always have a positive and patient mindset around my horse. I told myself, that I am obliged to always give the horse a chance to understand me. And now, I am so thrilled to share it all with you! If you feel ready to be the best rider and partner for your horse, to be a team and to find solutions that are simple and effective and get instant results in your riding, your connection and in your horse’s body health - This podcast is for you! Grab your helmet and get ready for a ride, tune in to exchange everything that hasn’t worked for a plan that will - Let’s go!

  1. 6d ago

    EP 42 // Are You Missing One of the Best Training Sessions? - How to Improve Your Horse's Rhythm, Strength and Motivation Without Riding

    ABOUT THIS EPISODE Most riders never take their horse out by hand — not because it isn't valuable, but because it doesn't feel like real training. Today we're challenging that. In-hand work — walking, jogging alongside your horse, observing how they move, adding simple pole work — is one of the most underrated sessions you can build into your week. It builds strength, improves rhythm and mobility, deepens your connection, and tells you things about your horse that riding simply can't. In this episode I share how running in the forest alongside my horse became a core part of our training routine — and why it made us both better.   IN THIS EPISODE — Why ground work has an image problem — and why that image is wrong — What you lose by skipping in-hand sessions: observation, connection and the right warm-up — How jogging in the forest built my horse's strength, rhythm and motivation — and kept me fit to ride — How to structure a simple, effective 20-minute in-hand session from start to finish — The six steps: purposeful walk, observation, adding pace, simple in-hand requests, pole work, and ending with intention — Why rest days and in-hand days are not empty days — they are where fitness and learning consolidate   KEY TAKEAWAY You don't need a full hour in the saddle to do meaningful work. Twenty minutes on the ground — walking, jogging, watching your horse move freely — can give you more than a long arena session. Try it once this week and notice the difference.   JOIN THE COMMUNITY Did you try in-hand work this week? Share what you noticed — how your horse moved, what you saw from the ground, what surprised you. The community is the place for exactly these conversations. 👉 Join here: Happy Rider Healthy Horse Community

    19 min
  2. May 19

    EP 41 // Improve your seat - How to Stop Blocking Your Horse With Your Seat

    Episode Summary You're trying your hardest — giving the aids, sitting deep, using more leg, more hand — and still something isn't clicking. What if the problem isn't that you're doing too little, but that you're doing too much? In this episode, we dig into one of the most overlooked topics in riding: how your seat might be blocking your horse, and what to do about it. In This Episode Why "sitting deep and secure" can actually create tension and resistance in your horse How a tight, braced seat sends constant noise through your horse's back — and dulls their sensitivity to your aids The cycle of trying harder that makes everything worse (and how to break it) A personal story about chasing expression in the trot — and the simple position shift that changed everything Why the seat is about permission, not just position How horses always seek to be right beneath you, and how to use that to your advantage The Seat Check: What to Look For Are your seat bones level, or is your weight shifted to one side? Are you tipped forward or back — or balanced right on the middle of the saddle? Are your hip joints following the movement, or bracing against it? Is your lower back mobile and following, or rigid and holding? Are you gripping through your inner thigh without realising it? This Week's Experiment Spend five minutes riding consciously tense — hold your breath slightly, grip your thighs, brace your back. Notice what your horse does. Then spend the next five minutes doing the complete opposite: breathe out, soften everything, let your body follow the movement. Pay attention to what changes. Your horse will give you the answer very quickly. Key Takeaway Your horse is far more sensitive than you may realise — sensitive enough to feel a fly land on their skin. That means they can respond to much lighter signals than most of us use. When you soften your seat and find your balance point, you stop being something your horse has to work around — and start being someone they want to move with. Join the Community Had a lightbulb moment during this episode? Or do you want to ask me something? Come share it — what you felt, what your horse did, what shifted. The link to join is in the show notes below. 👉 Go join our Private Facebook Community  Next episode drops next week — see you there.

    11 min
  3. May 12

    EP 40 // From Frustration to Focus: How to Reset Your Mind in the Middle of a Ride

    EP 40 // From Frustration to Focus: How to Reset Your Mind in the Middle of a Ride Episode Summary Have you ever started a ride with a clear plan… only to end up ten minutes later riding in circles, repeating the same thing again and again while both you and your horse become more frustrated? In this episode of The Happy Rider Healthy Horse Podcast, we talk about one of the most important skills in riding: learning how to reset your mind in the middle of a ride. You’ll learn why frustration often creates tension and confusion for both horse and rider, how your nervous system directly affects your horse’s nervous system, and a simple 5-step reset strategy you can use whenever a ride starts going downhill. This episode is all about replacing pressure with patience, reconnecting with your horse, and creating productive rides built on trust and clarity. In This Episode You’ll Learn Why repeating the same aid over and over often creates more confusion The difference between riding with a clear strategy vs. chasing a feeling How frustration affects your body and your horse’s nervous system Why horses mirror your emotional state during training How breathing and smiling can help regulate your nervous system A simple 5-step reset strategy to use during difficult rides Why smaller goals often create better long-term progress How to stop negative spirals before they damage connection and trust Why ending on a good feeling is sometimes the best training decision The 5-Step Reset Strategy 1. Pause and Breathe Bring your horse down to walk Allow the reins to soften Walk for two circles Take 8 slow breaths through your nose Relax your jaw, face, and shoulders Smile — even a small smile helps regulate your nervous system 2. Reconnect with Awareness Ask yourself: Are my brain and heart working together right now? Is my goal realistic for the version of me and my horse that showed up today? Adjust the goal if needed. 3. Find Your Patience Remember: Your horse cannot read your mind Most horses genuinely want to cooperate Complex movements take time for the horse’s body to organise Break the task into smaller, clearer steps. 4. Praise the Reset Celebrate the fact that you: Interrupted the frustration spiral Chose patience over pressure Protected the relationship with your horse 5. Stop While It Feels Good If the connection comes back: Consider ending the ride there Let both you and your horse leave with a positive feeling Build confidence and motivation for the next ride Key Takeaway If something doesn’t work after three attempts using the same method… it’s time to press the reset button. Walk. Breathe. Reconnect. Choose patience. And begin again. Mentioned in This Episode Happy Rider Healthy Horse Bootcamp Session If you feel stuck in your riding and keep repeating the same patterns without getting the progress you want, the issue may simply be that you don’t yet have the right strategy for you and your horse. The Happy Rider Healthy Horse Bootcamp Session is a focused 1:1 session where we identify your biggest challenge and create a simple, practical plan to help you move forward with more clarity and confidence. You can book a free 15-minute discovery call by sending me an email. Quote from This Episode “Every ride is a chance to rebuild connection, patience and trust — one small step at a time.” Loved This Episode? If this episode helped you, make sure to: Subscribe to The Happy Rider Healthy Horse Podcast Leave a review Share this episode with a fellow rider who needs this reminder today Connect With Me Follow along for more rider mindset, horse wellness, and dressage training inspiration: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/4007067746246133  Email: happyriderhealthyhorse@gmail.com

    13 min
  4. May 5

    EP 39 // Horse Behaviour: How to Read the Signals Your Horse Gives You — In Training and Beyond

    🧡 Episode Summary Your horse is communicating with you all the time. In every step, every transition, and every subtle shift in the body. The question is not if your horse is talking to you — it’s whether you’re noticing it early enough. In this episode, we dive into one of the most important skills you can develop as a rider: Learning to read your horse before things escalate into tension, resistance, or “problems.” Using the story of Henrik, we explore how small signals often go unnoticed — until they turn into something much bigger. And more importantly, how you can start recognising those signals earlier and respond in a way that builds trust, clarity, and better training. 🐴 In this episode, you’ll learn: Why “bad behaviour” is almost always information — not disobedience How your horse is constantly learning from your signals (even the unintentional ones) The difference between learned behaviour, stress responses, and miscommunication How to recognise your horse’s stress level in real time The stages of your horse’s communication — from subtle signals to big reactions How responding earlier can completely change the outcome Why your ability to listen is the foundation of trust 🔍 The 5 key steps from this episode 1. See behaviour as information Instead of labelling your horse as difficult or stubborn, get curious: What is my horse trying to tell me right now? 2. Understand learning and miscommunication Your horse is always learning from you — every ride, every interaction. Often, your horse is doing exactly what it believes you’re asking for. Clarity and timing make all the difference. 3. Learn your horse’s stress zones Green: Very relaxed Yellow: Engaged, ready to learn (this is where we want to be) Orange: Rising tension, learning becomes harder Red: Survival mode — no learning possible 4. Recognise the signals early It starts small: Blinking, licking, looking away → builds into: Yawning, scratching, nibbling → then: Avoidance, moving away → and finally: Tension and bigger reactions 5. Show your horse you are listening Respond earlier: Soften your aids, adjust the exercise, break things down, or pause. When you listen, your horse learns to trust you. ✨ This week’s focus Before you ask anything in your next ride: Pause and observe. Then, throughout your ride, keep asking yourself: 👉 What is my horse trying to tell me right now? You don’t need all the answers. You just need to stay curious. 💭 Key takeaway Big reactions rarely come out of nowhere. They are the end of a conversation you didn’t realise was happening. When you start listening earlier… you don’t just prevent problems — you build a true partnership based on trust. 🎙️ Share the episode If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend or someone at your yard 🤍 And tag me — I’d love to hear what you take away from it! Write me a DM or an email if you want to hear more about 1:1 coaching or if you have any questions.

    12 min
  5. Apr 28

    EP 38 // Is Your Horse Trying to Tell You Something? — How I Almost Missed What Was Right in Front of Me

    Episode Description This one is personal. Over the past year my horse had been telling me something wasn't working for him. Turning away when I came to get him from the field. Stopping in front of the stable door and refusing to go in. Weaving in his box, stressed, not settling, barely eating. And I watched it happen. Slowly. Until it became normal. In this episode I'm being honest about how I almost missed it — and what happened the moment I finally listened. Because within one night of making a change, he was a completely different horse. Calm, peaceful, coming to me in the field with soft eyes and a quiet body. But this episode is not just about my horse. It's about a pattern every horse owner falls into at some point — and what it really means to listen to the animal in front of you. In This Episode The signs my horse was giving me and how they slowly became the new normal The decision I made and what happened the very next morning How behaviours that creep in gradually stop us from seeing what's actually right in front of us Why your horse never stops communicating — even when we stop noticing A question to take with you about your own horse right now Key Takeaway Behaviour doesn't lie. Every reluctance, every tension, every habit that wasn't there a year ago is your horse trying to tell you something. Our job is to stay curious — and to keep asking why — before the wrong thing becomes so normal we forget it was ever wrong. Reflection Question for You Is there a behaviour your horse has right now that you've stopped questioning? Something that crept in gradually and is now just how things are. Take a moment and ask yourself — when did this start? What might my horse be trying to tell me? You don't have to have the answer today. Just look again with fresh eyes. Connect With Me 📧 Happyriderhealthyhorse@gmail.com 📱 Happy Rider Healthy Horse Facebook Community  If You Enjoyed This Episode Leave a review on your favourite podcast platform and share this episode with a fellow horse owner — sometimes we all need a reminder to stop and really listen. Happy Rider Healthy Horse is published every week — practical strategies, honest conversations, and always with your horse's wellbeing at the centre.

    10 min
  6. Apr 21

    EP 37 // Spring is here! Is Your Horse Spooky and Tense Outside? — How Loose Reins and Your Presence Build Trust on Every Ride

    Spring is here — and if you're feeling that pull to get out of the arena and back into nature, this episode is for you. Getting back outside after a winter of arena work is one of my favourite things. But it's also a transition that deserves a little intention. For both of you. Your horse has been in a controlled environment for months. And now suddenly there are birds, wind, tractors, plastic bags in hedges and flags flapping on gates. He is going to notice all of it. And how you respond in those moments will make all the difference. In this episode I'm talking about how to use spring riding in nature to build real physical strength in your horse — and how to handle the spooking, the looking and the tension in a way that builds trust instead of creating more fear. In This Episode Why varied terrain and ground is one of the most underrated training tools you have — and how it builds genuine strength in joints, tendons and muscles How to build back outside riding gradually after a winter on arena footing Why your horse looking at things is not a problem to fix — and what to do instead How loose reins and your presence communicate more than any correction can How to check in with your own body outside — because your tension travels straight to your horse What trust actually looks like when it's built in small, quiet moments Key Takeaways On the ground beneath you: Every different surface — grass, gravel, sand, slopes, soft ground — asks something different from your horse's body. You don't need a special programme. You just need to ride outside and let the ground do its work. Build it gradually if your horse has been on arena footing all winter. On the spooking: Your horse is a prey animal. His nervous system is designed to notice things. When he looks at something, he is doing exactly what he is built to do. Don't pull his head away — that tells him there is something to be afraid of. Give him time to look, to process, to decide it's safe. Most of the time, if you stay calm, he will too. On your presence: Loose reins are not a lack of control. They are a message. I am not afraid. You don't need to be either. I'm here. Over hundreds of small moments like this, your horse learns that you are his safe place — and that horse will go anywhere with you. On yourself: Check in with your own body outside. Shorter reins than you need, stiff seat, bracing for a reaction before it happens — your horse feels all of it. Ride the horse you have today, not the one you're afraid he might become. Reflection for Your Next Ride Before you ask for anything outside — just notice. Where is your horse? Is he relaxed and curious or already tense and anticipating? And where are you? Are your shoulders soft, are you breathing, is your seat following the movement freely? You being present and relaxed is the single most powerful thing you can offer him out there. Connect With Me 📧 happyriderhealthyhorse@gmail.com 📱 https://www.facebook.com/groups/4007067746246133  If You Enjoyed This Episode Leave a review on your favourite podcast platform and share this episode with someone who is heading back outside with their horse this spring — it might be exactly what they need to hear. Happy Rider Healthy Horse is published every week — practical strategies, honest conversations, and always with your horse's wellbeing at the centre.

    8 min
  7. Apr 14

    EP 36 // Is Your Horse's Back Causing Problems? — How to Treat the Spine Neck to Tail With the DORN Method

    Is Your Horse's Back Causing Problems? — How to Treat the Spine Neck to Tail With the DORN Method Episode Description Most horse owners know when something is off with their horse's back. But do you know what to look for — and what to do about it? In this episode I'm walking you through the DORN method from neck to tail. This is one of the most powerful tools I use to keep my horses' backs strong, pain-free and in full range of motion — and today I'm breaking it down so you can start using it on your own horse. I've also included two videos in the show notes — one horse with back pain, one without. Watch them before or while you listen. Seeing the difference with your own eyes will change the way you look at your horse's back forever. Watch the Videos First 🎥 https://fb.watch/GvhcsgRTa3/  Watch how the back moves — or doesn't. Look at the posture, the expression, the way the body swings. Look at the skin twitching and the avoidance of the pressure. Then come back and listen. In This Episode What the DORN method is, where it comes from and why it works for horses How to read a horse in pain versus a horse moving freely — what to look for before you even touch A full walk-through of the spine from neck to tail — what to feel for at each section and how to work with it How the horse tells you you've found the right spot How often to work through the spine and why prevention matters just as much as treatment What to Look for in the Videos When you watch the two videos, pay attention to these things: How does the back move? Does it swing freely and softly — or does it look stiff and locked? How does the horse carry itself? Is the back lifted and relaxed or tight and braced? What does the expression say? A horse in pain often shows it in the face first — tight eyes, a tense jaw, a look of quiet discomfort that has become so constant you might stop noticing it Key Takeaways A healthy, pain-free back in full range of motion changes everything — how your horse moves, how it carries a rider, and how it feels in its daily life. This is not just about treating pain when it appears. It is about keeping the back free so pain never gets the chance to settle in. Connect With Me 📧 happyriderhealthyhorse@gmail.com 📱 Happy Rider Healthy Horse Facebook community  If You Enjoyed This Episode Leave a review on your favourite podcast platform and share this episode with a fellow horse owner — this is the kind of practical knowledge that makes a real difference. Happy Rider Healthy Horse is published every week — practical strategies, honest conversations, and always with your horse's wellbeing at the centre.

    12 min
  8. Apr 10

    EP 35 // Why Did I Lose My Motivation? — When Life Goes Quiet and You Don't Know Why

    Why Did I Lose My Motivation? — When Life Goes Quiet and You Don't Know Why Episode Description I made myself a promise when I started this podcast. One episode a week. No exceptions. And then — for a few weeks — I just stopped. Not because of a crisis. Not because something dramatic happened. I just didn't feel like it. And honestly? I still don't have a clean explanation for why. In this episode I'm being completely honest about the pause, the guilt around it, and the strange realisation that I'm not the only one feeling this kind of quiet restlessness right now. People around me are questioning jobs they've had for years, sports they've done their whole lives, habits that used to feel completely right. Something is shifting — and nobody is really talking about it. So today I am. Whether you've felt something like this yourself or you're right in the middle of it — this one's for you. In This Episode Why I broke my own rule and what I'm still not sure about The quiet restlessness showing up in people around me — jobs, sports, hobbies, routines Whether this is just me and a few people I know — or something bigger What happens when the world gets loud and we finally slow down enough to ask: is this still right for me? Reflection Question for You Is there something in your life right now that used to feel completely right — but feels a little different lately? A job. A hobby. A routine. Something you haven't acted on or even said out loud yet, but that's been quietly sitting with you. I'd love to hear about it. Send me a message — you're not alone in this. Connect With Me 📧 happyriderhealthy@gmail.com 📱 Happy Rider Healthy Horse Facebook Community If You Enjoyed This Episode Please leave a review on your favourite podcast platform — it means the world and helps more people find the show. And share this episode with someone who might need to hear it today. Happy Rider Healthy Horse is published every week — practical strategies, honest conversations, and always with your horse's wellbeing at the centre.

    7 min

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Welcome to the Happy Rider, Healthy Horse Podcast. In this podcast you will discover simple methods and techniques to achieve optimal dressage performance! Every episode will provide you with simple and effective solutions to get instant results in your riding. I bet this will improve your connection with your horse and reignite your passion and motivation! Do you often have unproductive rides because you lack inspiration or due to challenges with your horse being too strong, lazy, or unresponsive to your signals? Does your rides often lead to frustration and are you sometimes worried that your rides will result in injuries to your horse? Maybe this is impacting your motivation, your love of riding, and your relationship with your horse? My mission is to equip you to create a wholesome partnership with your horse and guide you to make every ride positive and fruitful through a patient positive mindset, simple training systems and maintaining the physical health of your horse with the right exercises and Masterson trigger point therapy. If you are ready to become a more creative rider and to build up and strengthen your connection, ready to learn non-invasive techniques to increase the mobility, comfort and longevity of your horse. If you are ready for you and your horse to be the best dance partners in crime - then you’re in the right place! Hi friend, I am Sarah, a twin mom, veterinarian, dressage rider and horse lover. All my riding life I have noticed so many young and adult riders get frustrated with their horses and I even did so myself. I felt bad and guilty afterwards because I knew the horse did not wake up that morning with a mission to go against me. I could feel so powerless when I was convinced I tried my best and my horse wouldn’t listen and do what I told him to. One day my personal trainer said something I will never forget; she reminded me that my horse did not have any ambitions, the ambitions were all on me, that my horse did not choose to be ridden, I chose to ride him and that actually my horse and the majority of all horses are people pleasers and they want to do anything for their rider. He would do anything for me if I just gave him correct simple signals and I then kept the patience for him to understand the signal and move his body to the right respond. From that day I created an intentional strategy for my riding and decided to always have a positive and patient mindset around my horse. I told myself, that I am obliged to always give the horse a chance to understand me. And now, I am so thrilled to share it all with you! If you feel ready to be the best rider and partner for your horse, to be a team and to find solutions that are simple and effective and get instant results in your riding, your connection and in your horse’s body health - This podcast is for you! Grab your helmet and get ready for a ride, tune in to exchange everything that hasn’t worked for a plan that will - Let’s go!

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