The Wilde Way: Fertility Unfiltered

Abi Wilde

Sick of bandaid fixes, confusing fertility advice, and a body that feels overdue for a software update? The Wilde Way is the no-BS guide for women who are done guessing and ready to heal their fertility, balance their hormones, and finally understand what their body needs — without burnout or overwhelm. Hosted by Abi Wilde — Integrative Fertility & Hormone Coach and mama to two miracle babies — this podcast is all about radically transforming fertility, whole-body healing, and getting to the root of what’s really holding you back. Whether you’re deep in TTC burnout, navigating endo or PCOS, or quietly freaking out that your eggs are expiring faster than your oat milk… this show is for you. Each week, Abi shares science-backed strategies, nervous system support, and holistic tools — so you can stop spiralling and start healing from a place of trust. Don’t want to do this alone? Come connect with Abi on the ’Gram @abi.wilde for hugs, support and freebies.

  1. 2H AGO

    29. The Emotional Toll of Trying to Conceive, IVF & Pregnancy After Loss with Dr. Andrea Liner

    Share your TTC story ✨ And then, if you finally see those two pink lines… surprise. The anxiety doesn’t magically evaporate. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Andrea Liner, a licensed clinical psychologist and reproductive psychologist specialising in infertility, IVF, pregnancy after loss and postpartum mental health. She’s also an IVF mama herself, so she understands this world from both sides of the chair. We talk about the stuff that doesn’t make the highlight reel: • How infertility can quietly erode your relationship  • The identity crisis around “egg quality issues”  • What IVF does to your nervous system  • Why pregnancy after infertility feels like a confusing in-between  • Disenfranchised grief and sadness you don’t feel “allowed” to have  • Rebuilding trust with your body after months of monitoring We also dive into her story of PCOS, autoimmune issues, egg retrievals, being told at 32 to consider donor eggs, uncovering inflammation and gut imbalances, switching clinics, and eventually welcoming her son, Miles. You can find Dr. Andrea Liner at  https://fluxpsychology.com and on Instagram at  https://www.instagram.com/reproductivepsychologist/ If you loved this conversation and want a deeper dive into what happens inside the IVF lab, listen to my episode with Emma the Embryologist here:  https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/14-inside-ivf-with-emma-the-embryologist-myths/id1825750893?i=1000731837986 Because understanding both the emotional and biological side of IVF? That’s power. If you’re trying to conceive and exhausted, in the middle of IVF, pregnant after loss and terrified to relax, or just craving support from someone who truly gets it, this episode is for you. If Andrea’s story made you realise fertility doesn’t exist in a vacuum, that inflammation, gut health and stress matter, it may be time for a new approach. I work with women to support fertility from the foundations up. We focus on inflammation, gut health, nervous system regulation and targeted EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique, to create the healthiest possible environment for conception and naturally support egg quality. If that feels aligned, book your free preconception clarity call here:  https://calendly.com/abi-wilde/30min Or DM me “preconception call” on Instagram and I’ll send you the deets. If you’re craving extra support, my Link in Bio is packed with goodies like my free Ultimate Preconception Checklist and 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity. You can even snag a free 30-minute call with me if you want to talk through your fertility journey and what’s next. And if you want more, come hang out with me on the ‘Gram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes to achieve whole-body healing. Until next time, mama x

    54 min
  2. FEB 10

    28. When Trying to Conceive Becomes Exhausting (and How Nervous System Regulation Actually Helps)

    Share your TTC story ✨ Let’s be real for a second. Trying to conceive can be absolutely bloody exhausting. Not just emotionally, but on a whole-body, nervous-system, running-on-fumes level. In this episode of The Wilde Way, we’re talking about why trying for a baby can feel so draining, even when you’re “coping”, doing all the right things, and holding it together on the outside. Because TTC isn’t just about tracking cycles and timing sex. It’s the waiting. The hoping. The bracing. The monthly emotional gymnastics. That quiet urgency humming away in the background like a dodgy fridge you can’t ignore. And yep, your body feels that. In this episode, I unpack why urgency and waiting don’t just live in your head, but in your nervous system, and why nervous system regulation isn’t some fluffy wellness add-on for fertility. It’s actually pretty central to how supported and safe your body feels while you’re doing this. I also share a bit of my own recent wake-up call around depletion, burnout, postpartum recovery, and what happens when a body has been giving for a long time and finally goes, “Okay… that’s enough now.” Inside the episode, we chat about: Why trying to conceive often becomes a full-body state of vigilanceHow urgency and pressure impact your nervous system and fertilityWhy your body may shift into protection mode when it’s been under strainThe difference between hope and urgency (and why they’re not the same thing)Why “just relax” is trash advice and can honestly get in the binFive practical, doable ways to regulate your nervous systemWhy rest, rhythm, and safety matter more than trying harderThis episode is for the woman who’s been giving a lot. Holding a lot. And quietly wondering why she feels so bloody tired. You’re not broken. Your body isn’t failing you. It’s communicating. 💛 Support mentioned in this episode If listening to this makes you think, “I don’t want to do this alone anymore,” I offer free one-on-one preconception chats. Zero pressure. Just a real, grounded conversation. 👉 Book a free preconception chat here: https://calendly.com/abi-wilde/30min 🕯 Tools I love for nervous system support I mention red light and blue-light management in this episode. I personally use Bon Charge and love their red light bulbs and blue-blocking glasses. ✨ 15% off Bon Charge with code: WILDE15 👉 Affiliate link: https://boncharge.com/?rfsn=8319057.375f04 Take what resonates. Leave the rest. And be kind to yourself this week. If you’re craving extra support, my Link in Bio is packed with goodies like my free Ultimate Preconception Checklist and 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity. You can even snag a free 30-minute call with me if you want to talk through your fertility journey and what’s next. And if you want more, come hang out with me on the ‘Gram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes to achieve whole-body healing. Until next time, mama x

    20 min
  3. JAN 27

    27. 6 Things I Wish I’d Known About Fertility at 38: Age Fear, Low AMH & IVF

    Share your TTC story ✨ If you’re on a fertility journey and feeling pressure around age, time, low AMH, or the sense that you need to “figure this out now,” this episode is for you. In this solo episode, I share the six things I wish I’d known about fertility when I was 38 and deeply afraid I was running out of time. Now at 43, I reflect on how age fear quietly drives urgency, rushed decisions, and burnout — especially when IVF enters the conversation. This episode is not anti-IVF. I’ve done IVF. It gave me my son. But it is a truth-telling conversation about timing, nervous system safety, advocacy, and why slowing down can sometimes be the most powerful move forward. In this episode, we explore: • Why feeling urgent doesn’t mean time is actually running out  • How age fear and AMH anxiety compress decision-making  • IVF as a powerful tool — not a race you have to enter immediately  • Why fertility doesn’t live in your ovaries alone  • The importance of advocating for your body and asking better questions  • Why calm is a biological requirement for fertility  • How simplifying your approach can often move the needle more than doing everything at once Mentioned in this episode: 🎧 Inside IVF with Emma the Embryologist https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/14-inside-ivf-with-emma-the-embryologist-myths/id1825750893?i=1000731837986 Work with me (limited availability): I’ve opened just two spots for one-on-one fertility coaching — the only spots I’m opening right now, and they will fill quickly. This is for women who want personalised preconception support, deeper investigative work, and nervous system regulation alongside physical root-cause healing. 👉 Book a Preconception Clarity Call https://calendly.com/abi-wilde/30min If now isn’t your time, take what landed from this episode and leave the rest. You’re allowed to move through this journey with support, not pressure. If you’re craving extra support, my Link in Bio is packed with goodies like my free Ultimate Preconception Checklist and 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity. You can even snag a free 30-minute call with me if you want to talk through your fertility journey and what’s next. And if you want more, come hang out with me on the ‘Gram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes to achieve whole-body healing. Until next time, mama x

    34 min
  4. JAN 13

    26. Unexplained Infertility, IVF Failure & Root-Cause Healing with Fertility Specialist Gabriela Rosa

    Share your TTC story ✨ Alright lovely, let’s talk about the phrase that makes my left eye twitch. “Unexplained infertility.” If you’ve been told everything looks normal If you’ve done the tests, the supplements, the IVF cycles If you’ve quietly wondered if it’s you that’s broken This episode is for you. Today on The Wilde Way, I’m joined by Gabriela Rosa, globally recognised fertility specialist, Harvard Doctor of Public Health candidate, and one of the sharpest minds in evidence-based fertility care. And this is not a sugar-coated chat. We unpack why unexplained infertility is often not unexplained at all, why more IVF cycles aren’t always the answer, and why so many women get stuck on the fertility hamster wheel being told to just “try again”. Spoiler:  It’s not because you’re lazy, broken, or too old.  It’s usually because the right questions haven’t been asked yet. This conversation is equal parts science, truth bombs, validation, and relief. Less “just push harder”, more “let’s actually figure out what’s going on”. What we cover Why unexplained infertility is one of the most misleading fertility diagnosesThe real reasons IVF cycles fail, even when tests look “normal”Why doing more isn’t always betterThe role of inflammation, stress, metabolic health, and lifestyleWhy sperm quality matters just as much as egg qualityThe difference between normal vs optimal fertility markersHow genetics and epigenetics influence fertility outcomesThe big reframe There is no simple solution to a complex fertility problem.  But when you slow down, zoom out, and look at the whole picture, things can shift. This episode isn’t about blame.  It’s about clarity, agency, and better options. About Gabriela Gabriela Rosa is an internationally recognised fertility specialist and researcher supporting couples with unexplained infertility, recurrent miscarriage, and failed IVF. 📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabrielarosafertility/ 🌍 Website: https://fertilitybreakthrough.com Your next step ✨ The Wilde Fertility Reset starts 31 January A six-week, guided, whole-body reset to help you turn insight into calm, clear action. 👉 Details: https://thewildewayreset.my.canva.site/ Or DM me RESET on Instagram. If you’d rather just talk things through, you can book a Preconception Clarity Call. Zero pressure. Just a supportive chat to help you work out next steps. 👉 Book here: If you’re craving extra support, my Link in Bio is packed with goodies like my free Ultimate Preconception Checklist and 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity. You can even snag a free 30-minute call with me if you want to talk through your fertility journey and what’s next. And if you want more, come hang out with me on the ‘Gram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes to achieve whole-body healing. Until next time, mama x

    1 hr
  5. 12/30/2025

    25. If You’re Afraid to Hope Again, This Is for You

    Share your TTC story ✨ This is a short New Year’s Eve episode for anyone who’s still waiting. Waiting for a pregnancy. Waiting for answers. Waiting for life to look different. New Year’s Eve can feel exciting and hopeful, but it can also feel heavy when you’re on a fertility journey. This episode isn’t a lesson, a list, or a plan. It’s a pause. A moment to breathe. And a reminder that you’re not doing this wrong. In this solo episode, I share honestly about what New Year’s Eve felt like for me before I became a mum. The tension between hope and fear. The quiet panic around time passing. The backup plans we make just to feel safe. The guilt, the spiritual questions, and the deep desire to become a mother while still feeling scared to hope again. We talk about: The emotional weight of New Year’s Eve when you’re still waitingWhy hope can feel risky after a long fertility journeyThe pressure women put on themselves at this time of yearWhy your body doesn’t need more pressure, it needs more safetyA gentle reflection on what you might want to leave behind and carry into the new yearIf January feels heavy for you, this episode is here to remind you that nothing is wrong with you. You don’t need to decide anything tonight. You don’t need a word for the year. You don’t need a perfect plan. As I move into 2026, I’ll be releasing the podcast fortnightly. It’s the rhythm that feels right for this season of work and mamahood, and it allows me to create these conversations with more intention and care. You’re allowed to want this. You’re allowed to be scared. You’re allowed to hope carefully. And you’re allowed to slow down. Happy New Year, lovely. Wherever you are on your journey, I’m holding you in it. If you’re craving extra support, my Link in Bio is packed with goodies like my free Ultimate Preconception Checklist and 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity. You can even snag a free 30-minute call with me if you want to talk through your fertility journey and what’s next. And if you want more, come hang out with me on the ‘Gram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes to achieve whole-body healing. Until next time, mama x

    12 min
  6. 12/23/2025

    24. 5 Fertility Lessons I Wish I Learned Sooner

    Share your TTC story ✨ This is a short, gentle Christmas Eve episode for anyone navigating fertility, hormones, or the quiet waiting that so often comes with the journey to mamahood. In this solo episode, I’m not here to teach, fix, or overwhelm you with more info. I wanted to offer something softer. A pause. A moment of reflection. And five lessons I genuinely wish someone had whispered to me years earlier, when I was deep in my own fertility journey. I share a personal story from December 2020, almost five years ago, when I wrote my very first preconception plan while lying on the beach, devouring fertility research, holding equal parts fear and fierce determination. That moment changed everything for me, even though I couldn’t see it at the time. From there, I walk you through five lessons that shaped my healing, my mindset, and ultimately my path to motherhood. Lessons that I hope help you feel a little less alone, a little more grounded, and a little more trusting of your body today. In this episode, we explore:  • Why your body is not your enemy and how symptoms are often protective signals  • What stress really means for fertility and why it’s not just emotional stress  • Why consistent, stabilising nourishment matters more than a “perfect” fertility diet  • How to release the feeling that you’re behind and trust your own timeline  • Why support is not a luxury on a fertility journey, it’s essential This episode is especially for you if Christmas feels tender this year, if you’re holding hope quietly, or if you need a reminder that your story is still unfolding. Take a breath. Let this be a gentle listen. And know that you’re doing so much better than you think. 🤍 Curious about the Wilde Fertility Reset? If you’d like gentle, structured support as you move into 2026, you can learn more about the Wilde Fertility Reset here: 👉 https://thewildewayreset.my.canva.site/ The Reset is designed to support your hormones, nervous system, metabolism, and fertility from the ground up in a calm, grounded way. There’s no pressure. Just an option if it feels supportive for you. If you’re craving extra support, my Link in Bio is packed with goodies like my free Ultimate Preconception Checklist and 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity. You can even snag a free 30-minute call with me if you want to talk through your fertility journey and what’s next. And if you want more, come hang out with me on the ‘Gram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes to achieve whole-body healing. Until next time, mama x

    14 min
  7. 12/16/2025

    23. Decode Your Period: What Your Cycle Symptoms Are Trying to Tell You with Sarah Gale

    Share your TTC story ✨ Your period isn’t random.  Your symptoms aren’t “just how you are”.  And no, you absolutely do not have to just “deal with” PMS. In today’s episode, I’m sitting down with Sarah Gale, aka The Hormone Nutritionist, for a super real, super practical chat about what your body is trying to tell you every single month. We get into spotting, cramps, bloating, acne, cravings, mood swings, PCOS, PMDD, ovulation, progesterone, inflammation, stress… all the things.  And honestly, once you understand how to read your cycle, everything changes.  You stop feeling confused or annoyed at your body, and start feeling connected to it. This is 100 percent an episode you’ll want to save and probably send to every woman you love. Inside the episode • Why your symptoms are actually messages, not problems to ignore  • How to track your cycle without becoming obsessive  • Why this month’s period was shaped by the last three months  • What short or long cycles really mean • Spotting before your period and when to pay attention • Blood colour and texture decoded (yes, we go there) • Painful periods and when it might point to endometriosis • PCOS, blood sugar and insulin resistance • Why you’re ravenous in the luteal phase • PMS, irritability and anxiety through a hormone and nervous system lens • Inflammation, gut health and how it shows up in your cycle • Hair loss, low libido and postpartum shifts • When to advocate for yourself and ask for deeper support The big takeaway Your cycle is basically a monthly health report.  Once you know how to read it, your body stops feeling like the enemy and starts becoming your guide. About Sarah Sarah Gale is a nutritionist and hormone expert known as The Hormone Nutritionist. She helps women lose weight in a healthy, sustainable way, get their confidence back, and feel like themselves again when hormones feel out of balance. She blends evidence based nutrition with her own lived experience and is currently completing a Master’s in personalised nutrition. Connect with Sarah Instagram  @the_hormone_nutritionist Loved this episode? If this one hit home, send it to a bestie who needs to hear that her body isn’t broken. And if you feel called, leaving a review on Apple or Spotify genuinely helps the show reach more women who need this kind of support. As always, my DMs are open if you want help on your hormone or fertility journey. If you’re craving extra support, my Link in Bio is packed with goodies like my free Ultimate Preconception Checklist and 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity. You can even snag a free 30-minute call with me if you want to talk through your fertility journey and what’s next. And if you want more, come hang out with me on the ‘Gram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes to achieve whole-body healing. Until next time, mama x

    59 min
  8. 12/09/2025

    22. Egg Quality Over 35 + AMH Truths: What Matters, What Doesn’t, What Actually Works

    Share your TTC story ✨ Hey beauty. If you’ve ever been told your eggs are “too old,” your AMH is “too low,” or that time is running out… take a deep breath with me. This episode clears up the biggest fertility myths keeping women scared and stuck — and shows you the truth about what actually shapes your egg health.  Spoiler: it’s not what you think. 💛🍑 We dive into: The wildly misunderstood truth about egg quality and ageThe truth about AMH, what it actually measures, and why low AMH does not equal poor egg quality or infertilityThe sneaky ways your everyday symptoms are actually trying to help youWhat your body is really doing when it’s stressedA simple framework that instantly explains your hormones, immune system and inflammationThe surprising everyday habits that make egg quality better... or worseThe breakfast mistakes that send your hormones into chaos before 9amThe underrated lifestyle shifts that change your terrain more than supplements doHow to spot when your body is in “woe mode” and the gentlest way to shift outThe one thing women over 35 really need to focus on (and it’s not rushing to IVF)This is a deep-exhale, “wait… why has nobody told me this?” kind of episode.  You’ll walk away clearer, calmer and genuinely empowered about your next steps. Resources Mentioned Find all links in my bio or below: Free Low Tox Guide - https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/lowtoxFree EFT Tapping Guide - https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/eftWilde Fertility Reset (6-week live program) - https://thewildewayreset.my.canva.site/Wilde Fertility Smoothie post + breakfast inspo - https://www.instagram.com/p/DOcHFPDk15-/Sweet potato brownie recipe - https://feedingtinybellies.com/brownies-with-veggies/Episode with Emma the Embryologist - https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-wilde-way-fertility-unfiltered/id1825750893?i=1000731837986Come Say Hi If you want help creating your egg-friendly terrain and don’t know where to start, DM me TERRAIN on Instagram @abiwilde and I’ll voice-note you back. Your eggs are resilient. Your body is responsive. And you are not out of time. 💛 If you’re craving extra support, my Link in Bio is packed with goodies like my free Ultimate Preconception Checklist and 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity. You can even snag a free 30-minute call with me if you want to talk through your fertility journey and what’s next. And if you want more, come hang out with me on the ‘Gram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes to achieve whole-body healing. Until next time, mama x

    46 min

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Sick of bandaid fixes, confusing fertility advice, and a body that feels overdue for a software update? The Wilde Way is the no-BS guide for women who are done guessing and ready to heal their fertility, balance their hormones, and finally understand what their body needs — without burnout or overwhelm. Hosted by Abi Wilde — Integrative Fertility & Hormone Coach and mama to two miracle babies — this podcast is all about radically transforming fertility, whole-body healing, and getting to the root of what’s really holding you back. Whether you’re deep in TTC burnout, navigating endo or PCOS, or quietly freaking out that your eggs are expiring faster than your oat milk… this show is for you. Each week, Abi shares science-backed strategies, nervous system support, and holistic tools — so you can stop spiralling and start healing from a place of trust. Don’t want to do this alone? Come connect with Abi on the ’Gram @abi.wilde for hugs, support and freebies.