Your Seat at the Table - Real Conversations on Leadership and Growth

Mike Maddock & John Tobin

Join hosts Mike Maddock and John Tobin as they delve into authentic stories of leadership, decision-making under pressure, and the invaluable lessons learned along the way. Each episode offers candid conversations with seasoned leaders, exploring the challenges faced, the triumphs celebrated, and the insights gained from real-world experiences. Whether you’re an aspiring leader or a seasoned executive, pull up a chair and find your seat at the table.

  1. 2D AGO

    The Twin Thieves of Leadership with Steve Jones

    A butterfly struggles in its cocoon, and a coach resists the urge to cut it open. That image becomes our compass in The Twin Thieves of Leadership as Coach Steve Jones—record-setting high school football coach, educator, and executive coach—unpacks how resilience is built, how culture actually wins, and why fear steals more potential than failure ever could. For decision-makers dealing with pressure to perform—and for any leader who’s ever felt alone in tough calls—Steve offers a question-driven path to stronger teams: Are we building comfort or capacity? Are we rescuing too quickly? Are we rewarding effort or just outcomes? His approach turns culture into a form of peer-powered disruption, where teammates—not titles—protect the ship from ego, entitlement, and complacency. We start with the moments that shape a leader: a hungry new kid, a teacher who noticed, and a quiet act of kindness that changed a life. From there, Steve maps the practices that turned a public school program into a 70-game dynasty and now power executive teams: design culture to drive consistent winning behaviors, make love synonymous with accountability, and build connection through stories, service, and shared struggle. The best cultures aren’t top down—they’re owned horizontally. Then we name the invisible opponents: fear of failure and fear of judgment. Steve has seen them stall high schoolers and CEOs alike. His tools are simple and actionable: create psychological safety for well-earned risk, challenge catastrophic thinking (“Is that 100% true?”), act as your own best coach, and adopt an internal scoreboard that rewards growth and consistency. Sometimes leadership means learning to run toward the roar instead of protecting comfort. Sustained success brings new pressure—Steve calls it a privilege. He explains how to keep noise out of the hull, why trust is a trainable skill built on authenticity and consistency, and why “clear is kind” when fit fails. For anyone ready to challenge their comfort zone as a parent, coach, or executive, this episode is a reminder that productive struggle builds strength—and that sometimes what feels like help is actually harm. Real leaders. Real stories. Real action. If you felt a nudge while listening, follow it. Subscribe, share this with a parent or leader who needs it, and leave a review telling us which tool you’ll try first. 🎙️ Enjoyed this conversation? Subscribe to Your Seat at the Table for more candid discussions on leadership, growth, and the real stories behind the decisions that shape great organizations. 💬 We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments — or let us know what topics you'd like us to explore next. 👉 Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@YourSeatatTheTablePodcast 👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1826002539 https://open.spotify.com/show/0fDDb1gvrvsttm4nInRL8Y 👉 Connect with us: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gmichaelmaddock/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-tobin-a54225/ https://flourishadvisoryboards.com/ https://www.mike-maddock.com/ Pull up a chair. There’s always room for your seat at the table.

    55 min
  2. FEB 19

    Leadership Lessons You Only Learn the Hard Way with Rand Stagen

    What if the fastest path to scaling your company isn’t a new strategy—but a new you? In Lessons You Can Only Learn the Hard Way, we sit down with Rand Stagen—entrepreneur, educator, and founder of the Stegen Leadership Academy—to unpack why companies don’t grow; people do. For decision-makers dealing with stalled growth—and for any leader who’s ever felt alone in tough calls at the top—Rand offers a question-driven lens on development: What part of me is capping the business? What discomfort am I avoiding? What’s not your problem anymore that you’re still carrying? We dig into the heart of adult development: growth happens where support and challenge meet. Drawing on research and decades of coaching CEOs, Rand shows how the right kind of discomfort rewires habits, expands leadership range, and reduces reactivity. He surfaces the quiet question leaders rarely say aloud—“What if I don’t know?”—and reframes vulnerability as a strategic capability. Context matters. Sometimes armor protects the mission; sometimes taking it off creates the clarity your team needs. The conversation turns candid when Rand admits how founder heroics kept his company small. Fear of losing soul created a growth “governor,” until trusted peers stepped in—an act of peer-powered disruption that forced reinvention. By codifying first principles and designing constraints that scale beyond personality, his team doubled impact without diluting purpose. It’s a powerful example of learning to run toward the roar instead of managing around it. We also explore long-term culture building, why short investor horizons sabotage real transformation, and how turning alumni into coaches creates a multiplier effect that outlives any single initiative. Through multiple lenses—self-awareness, accountability, culture, capital, and courage—Rand shows that sustainable growth is less about tactics and more about disciplined inner work. For anyone ready to challenge their comfort zone, this episode is a reset. Write down your non-negotiables. Own development at the top. Seek rooms that expose blind spots. True friends stab you in the front—invite them in, learn fast, and keep practicing. Real leaders. Real stories. Real action. Subscribe, share this with a leader who needs it, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway—where will you add more challenge or more support this week? 🎙️ Enjoyed this conversation? Subscribe to Your Seat at the Table for more candid discussions on leadership, growth, and the real stories behind the decisions that shape great organizations. 💬 We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments — or let us know what topics you'd like us to explore next. 👉 Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@YourSeatatTheTablePodcast 👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1826002539 https://open.spotify.com/show/0fDDb1gvrvsttm4nInRL8Y 👉 Connect with us: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gmichaelmaddock/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-tobin-a54225/ https://flourishadvisoryboards.com/ https://www.mike-maddock.com/ Pull up a chair. There’s always room for your seat at the table.

    52 min
  3. FEB 12

    The 4 Forces of Growth with Kevin Lawrence

    What actually makes a company keep climbing when so many stall on a tidy plateau? We sat down with Kevin Lawrence—CEO coach, Scaling Up contributor, and author of The Four Forces of Growth—to unpack why well-run organizations quietly stop growing and how leaders can reignite momentum without blowing up what works. For decision-makers dealing with stalled momentum—and for any leader who’s ever felt alone in tough calls about people, structure, or strategy—Kevin brings a question-driven approach to growth. Where exactly did the plateau begin? What changed in behavior, not just metrics? And what’s become not your problem that you’re still carrying anyway? Kevin’s path from kid entrepreneur to global coach sets the stage for a candid look at the “loyalty liability,” where founders hold on to beloved executives long after the role has outgrown them. He describes the leap from pond hockey to the NHL of leadership, embracing Jim Collins’ “first who, then what,” and building the courage muscle that turns smart opportunities into real thrust. Sometimes growth requires you to run toward the roar—making the people call you’ve been postponing or confronting the comfort that’s quietly calcifying culture. We also unpack the seduction of streamlining: the drift toward problem-solving that polishes margins while starving expansion. Kevin reframes sustainable scaling through practical lenses—economic drivers, talent intensity, cultural clarity, market relevance, and disciplined execution—showing how focused alignment can create peer-powered disruption inside the organization without chaos. You’ll leave with tools you can use this quarter: Find your X—the core unit that drives your economics—and make it visible so pricing and mix don’t mask decay.Protect new X by tracking new accounts and adjacencies, turning farmers back into hunters.Set your smack list of non-negotiables to avoid a common trap: hiring an impressive president, then abdicating the operating system that made you great.Keep founder mojo inside the company by carving a lane for intuition and asymmetric bets instead of letting that creative spark drift away.For anyone ready to challenge their comfort zone and move from playing not to lose back to playing to win, this episode is a reset. Kevin blends servant leadership with productive paranoia—and reminds us that listening beats selling, and clarity beats charisma. Real leaders. Real stories. Real action. Subscribe, share this episode with your team, and leave a review with one insight you’ll act on this month. 🎙️ Enjoyed this conversation? Subscribe to Your Seat at the Table for more candid discussions on leadership, growth, and the real stories behind the decisions that shape great organizations. 💬 We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments — or let us know what topics you'd like us to explore next. 👉 Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@YourSeatatTheTablePodcast 👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1826002539 https://open.spotify.com/show/0fDDb1gvrvsttm4nInRL8Y 👉 Connect with us: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gmichaelmaddock/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-tobin-a54225/ https://flourishadvisoryboards.com/ https://www.mike-maddock.com/ Pull up a chair. There’s always room for your seat at the table.

    41 min
  4. FEB 5

    Building a Legacy Without Losing Your Values with Kevon Saber

    A desperate prayer under a desk. A supplier call about a giant dorm whiteboard. A flash of insight that the margins lived in the ad space, not the plastic. That’s the unlikely pivot that took Kayvon from a failing dot-com idea to a product on 200 campuses—and it’s just the start of a bigger story about building companies where purpose isn’t a post-exit rebrand, it’s the operating system. For decision-makers dealing with high-stakes pivots and founder pressure, Kayvon’s story is a reminder that the best strategy often starts as a question-driven moment: What’s the real business here? What are we actually selling? And what are we willing to compromise to survive? That early shift became a form of peer-powered disruption—rethinking the model, the value, and the customer in a way competitors never saw coming. We dig into the early sparks: an immigrant dad who turned “we love you, we can’t afford it” into grit and gross-margin math at Price Club, and a mom who modeled service in shelters. Those twin forces shaped a founder who later walked away from a growing venture because a cofounder’s values didn’t align—and who now stress-tests partners through time, references, family circles, and pressure moments. Along the way, Kayvon flips a leadership myth: tactics matter, but character and nervous-system regulation win in real crises. He also admits his hardest delayed decision—firing a brilliant executive who was toxic to the culture—and what it taught him about non-negotiables. For any leader who’s ever felt alone in tough calls, this episode hits home: the hardest moves aren’t strategic—they’re personal. Sometimes the clearest leadership moment is deciding what’s not your problem anymore, and protecting the culture even when the numbers look good. The conversation gets especially candid on selling a business without selling out. Most mid-market founders don’t realize their M&A advisors often serve buyers first. We break down the incentives and the fix: run a true market with 20–40 qualified buyers, surface the non-obvious acquirers whose strategy demands your company, and put the seller back in control. Then we widen the lens beyond price. We map offers across two axes—financial terms and employee care—so founders can choose the best total outcome. We also tackle the silent risk of liquidity: family fractures. With upfront alignment on mission, roles, and expectations—and smart timing for donor-advised giving—a sale can strengthen relationships and fuel multi-generational generosity. For anyone ready to challenge their comfort zone around exits, wealth, and legacy, Kayvon offers a grounded way to run toward the roar instead of avoiding the hard conversations. If you care about legacy that includes your people, your family, and your impact—without leaving money on the table—this conversation delivers. Real leaders. Real stories. Real action. Subscribe, share this with a founder who’s thinking about an exit, and leave a review with your top non-negotiable when selling a company. 🎙️ Enjoyed this conversation? Subscribe to Your Seat at the Table for more candid discussions on leadership, growth, and the real stories behind the decisions that shape great organizations. 💬 We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments — or let us know what topics you'd like us to explore next. 👉 Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@YourSeatatTheTablePodcast 👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1826002539 https://open.spotify.com/show/0fDDb1gvrvsttm4nInRL8Y 👉 Connect with us: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gmichaelmaddock/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-tobin-a54225/ https://flourishadvisoryboards.com/ https://www.mike-maddock.com/ Pull up a chair. There’s always room for your seat at the table.

    52 min
  5. JAN 29

    Why Focus Beats Speed in Leadership with Tim Molek

    What happens when an engineer-turned-marketer takes the wheel of a consumer brand inside a 175-year-old, family-owned enterprise—and decides focus is the strategy? Tim joins us to share how a “fewer, bigger, longer” philosophy transformed a sleepy category, why he tested a bold spin-mop bet online, and how Amazon visibility quietly lifted Walmart sales. The story isn’t just about product wins; it’s about the discipline to say no, retire legacy SKUs, and build a flywheel that compounds with every cycle. For decision-makers dealing with complexity, sprawl, and pressure to do more, Tim makes the case for a question-driven approach to growth: What actually matters to the consumer? What deserves long-term investment? And just as important—what’s not your problem anymore? Those answers fueled a form of peer-powered disruption inside the organization, aligning teams around a flagship strategy instead of chasing every opportunity. We dig into the realities of leading in a privately held company owned by 400 descendants, where patient capital enables long-term bets but profitable growth still sets the pace. Tim contrasts private and public pressures, explaining how slower decision cycles can create stronger outcomes when leaders prioritize relevance over distribution games. Through these six lenses—focus, talent, timing, culture, capital, and consumer memory—he shows how strategy travels when it’s simple enough to survive real life. Tim also opens up about the hardest lessons: delaying tough personnel moves in the name of empathy, underestimating culture during a merger, and the subtle drift that happens when success crowds out personal life. For any leader who’s ever felt alone in tough calls, his reflections are a reminder that leadership often means choosing clarity over comfort—and learning when to run toward the roar instead of avoiding it. For anyone ready to challenge their comfort zone around strategy, focus, and leadership habits, this episode delivers a practical playbook: hiring experts who think beyond their silo, simplifying assortments around a hero product, and using online demand signals to fuel retail velocity without gimmicks. Stick around for a sharp lightning round on leadership regrets, rearview-mirror management, and the one voice Tim trusts to tell him the unvarnished truth. Real leaders. Real stories. Real action. Enjoyed this conversation? Follow the show, share it with a friend who leads a product portfolio, and leave a review with your biggest “great big no” from the episode. 🎙️ Enjoyed this conversation? Subscribe to Your Seat at the Table for more candid discussions on leadership, growth, and the real stories behind the decisions that shape great organizations. 💬 We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments — or let us know what topics you'd like us to explore next. 👉 Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@YourSeatatTheTablePodcast 👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1826002539 https://open.spotify.com/show/0fDDb1gvrvsttm4nInRL8Y 👉 Connect with us: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gmichaelmaddock/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-tobin-a54225/ https://flourishadvisoryboards.com/ https://www.mike-maddock.com/ Pull up a chair. There’s always room for your seat at the table.

    49 min
  6. JAN 15

    Breaking Scarcity and Redefining Wealth with Garrett Gunderson

    Ever notice how money advice often tells you to wait—save more, take more risk, and hope it all works out decades from now? We flip that script. With Garrett Gunderson, we explore how to break scarcity thinking, redefine wealth as the power to be present, and design a life you don’t want to retire from. For decision-makers dealing with financial anxiety—and for any leader who’s ever felt alone in tough calls about money—this conversation reframes wealth as stewardship, not accumulation. Garrett shares the family stories that seeded his early money fears, the hard-earned lessons from 2008, and the shift from hoarding to intentional design that changed his marriage, health, and business. The throughline is question-driven: instead of asking how much you can pile up later, ask what your money should be doing for your life right now. We dig into three sticky myths—“it takes money to make money,” “high risk equals high return,” and “you’re in it for the long haul”—and show how each one quietly asks you to outsource agency and delay joy. Garrett introduces investor DNA: risk lives in the investor, not the investment. Focus builds wealth; diversification preserves it. It’s a form of peer-powered disruption in personal finance—less hype, more clarity, and decisions you can actually explain. We also unpack fee blindness and why a single percentage point over decades can erase hundreds of thousands, making transparency and low-cost structures non-negotiable. From there, we move into the systems that protect what money is meant to serve: weekly marriage check-ins, vision sessions, and family traditions that anchor presence. Sometimes the most powerful move is deciding what’s not your problem—and letting money stop stealing attention from what matters most. Garrett also reveals how he simplified his portfolio to align with his values and built a modern, accessible family office model for entrepreneurs on the rise—pairing coordinated legal and tax strategy with AI-powered workflows to save time, cut costs, and increase accuracy. For anyone ready to challenge their comfort zone around wealth and run toward the roar of financial truth, this episode offers a practical path to cash flow, resilience, and meaning—without “set it and forget it.” Real leaders. Real stories. Real action. If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a founder who needs it, and leave a review with the money myth you’re letting go of next. 🎙️ Enjoyed this conversation? Subscribe to Your Seat at the Table for more candid discussions on leadership, growth, and the real stories behind the decisions that shape great organizations. 💬 We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments — or let us know what topics you'd like us to explore next. 👉 Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@YourSeatatTheTablePodcast 👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1826002539 https://open.spotify.com/show/0fDDb1gvrvsttm4nInRL8Y 👉 Connect with us: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gmichaelmaddock/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-tobin-a54225/ https://flourishadvisoryboards.com/ https://www.mike-maddock.com/ Pull up a chair. There’s always room for your seat at the table.

    53 min
  7. JAN 9

    Leadership Habits That Actually Scale with Brent Tadsen

    You know that tense moment when everyone swears they’re aligned—and then the work tells a different story? We sit down with Brent Tadsen, former GE master black belt and combat engineer, to unpack why teams miss the mark and how simple, disciplined moves restore clarity, speed, and trust. For decision-makers dealing with execution gaps—and for any leader who’s ever felt alone in tough calls about accountability—this conversation cuts straight to what actually works. Brent takes us from Notre Dame ROTC to the factory floor to the C-suite, showing how his early love for Lean and Six Sigma collided with a harsh 360 review that labeled him a poor listener. That wake-up call reshaped his leadership through a question-driven mindset: invite problems on purpose, define success in plain language, and treat feedback as a gift. His wiffle ball exercise proves the point in minutes—when leaders set clear outcomes and rules, performance improves without dashboards, committees, or heroics. We dig into the traps that derail alignment: town-hall-only communication, the quiet ways 360s get gamed, and deflection patterns that stall cross-functional work. Brent shares a striking alignment test—seven executives, note cards, and twenty-two different “top three” priorities—and explains how to cascade goals so everyone can tell the same story. It’s peer-powered disruption without theatrics: clarity beats charisma every time. Brent also opens up about launching Adaptive after a decade of preparation, why 95% of his work comes from referrals, and how career capital and social trust matter more than any pitch deck. For anyone ready to challenge their comfort zone as a leader, this episode shows when to run toward the roar—and when to decide what’s not your problem so the system can perform. If you lead a team, you’ll walk away with practical moves you can use immediately: audit alignment monthly, listen until it hurts, and make execution visible. Real leaders. Real stories. Real action. We close with where Brent sees the next edge—using AI and copilots to amplify continuous improvement without sacrificing judgment. Subscribe, share with a teammate who needs it, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. 🎙️ Enjoyed this conversation? Subscribe to Your Seat at the Table for more candid discussions on leadership, growth, and the real stories behind the decisions that shape great organizations. 💬 We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments — or let us know what topics you'd like us to explore next. 👉 Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@YourSeatatTheTablePodcast 👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1826002539 https://open.spotify.com/show/0fDDb1gvrvsttm4nInRL8Y 👉 Connect with us: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gmichaelmaddock/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-tobin-a54225/ https://flourishadvisoryboards.com/ https://www.mike-maddock.com/ Pull up a chair. There’s always room for your seat at the table.

    49 min
  8. 12/11/2025

    The Craft of High-Impact Event Design with Carol Galle

    Stop treating conferences like lectures and start treating them like catalysts. We sit down with Carol, a Detroit-based entrepreneur who left a secure GM career to build a national event agency that designs gatherings people still talk about years later. For decision-makers dealing with disengaged audiences—and for any leader who’s ever felt alone in tough calls about budget, flow, or impact—Carol reframes event design through a question-driven lens. She believes the real ROI happens in hallways: those unscripted, peer-powered moments where ideas stick and new partners meet. Carol walks us through her proudest builds, including a centennial celebration for the Kresge Foundation that brought Detroit’s culture to the stage and quietly welcomed President Obama. She opens the curtain on production truths: why you should thank the AV crew when nothing goes wrong, how to rehearse for the “what if” moments, and how on-the-fly recoveries often become the most human stories attendees remember. There’s humor too—live tigers, accidental blackouts, and the delicate art of making a big entrance that actually works. At the center of this conversation is impact. Events generate waste, especially food. Carol shares a simple, scalable tactic: redirect catering minimums into pre-packaged items and donate them to local food banks. No new budget. No extra logistics. Just asking the right question at the right time. That one shift sparked national interest and reflects a broader mandate: design gatherings that feed minds and communities. We also unpack resilience. When COVID shut down live events, Carol split a lean team, earned virtual certifications, protected the brand, and later folded those skills into hybrid strategies for global niche groups. Earlier downturns pushed her to launch a consulting arm that transforms corporate anniversaries into yearlong engines for culture, PR, and growth. For anyone ready to challenge their comfort zone in leadership or creative industries, Carol’s story shows how to run toward the roar when uncertainty hits—and how clarity emerges when you decide what’s not your problem. If you care about event design, audience engagement, sustainability, or leadership under pressure, this episode is full of practical plays you can use next week. Real leaders. Real stories. Real action. Listen, share with a teammate, and tell us your best hallway-moment tactic—and if you try the donation move, report back so others can follow. Subscribe for more candid conversations with leaders who build things that last. 🎙️ Enjoyed this conversation? Subscribe to Your Seat at the Table for more candid discussions on leadership, growth, and the real stories behind the decisions that shape great organizations. 💬 We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments — or let us know what topics you'd like us to explore next. 👉 Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@YourSeatatTheTablePodcast 👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1826002539 https://open.spotify.com/show/0fDDb1gvrvsttm4nInRL8Y 👉 Connect with us: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gmichaelmaddock/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-tobin-a54225/ https://flourishadvisoryboards.com/ https://www.mike-maddock.com/ Pull up a chair. There’s always room for your seat at the table.

    35 min

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Join hosts Mike Maddock and John Tobin as they delve into authentic stories of leadership, decision-making under pressure, and the invaluable lessons learned along the way. Each episode offers candid conversations with seasoned leaders, exploring the challenges faced, the triumphs celebrated, and the insights gained from real-world experiences. Whether you’re an aspiring leader or a seasoned executive, pull up a chair and find your seat at the table.