Calm Down Hogan

Calm Down Hogan

This is for the men showing up, the dads growing up, and anyone rewriting what masculinity can look like — from the ground up.

  1. Oct 23

    Pro-Men ≠ Anti-Women | Red-Pill Real Talk Ep. 12

    No dummy battery this time… well, one less anyway. In this half we get into AI doctors, controversial opinions,red-pill content, goal setting, a proud dad moment and a case that's sparkedsome pretty heated reactions online. In this episode: • DOCTORS vs AI – One host cycled through GPs whokept escalating antibiotics and got told to go ask the chemist. The other paidfor blood tests and wasn't even given his own testosterone results. Now we'reasking whether Claude and Gemini can do a better job of helping us understandour own health. BPC 157 on the street, Australia. • "WOMEN SHOULDN'T VOTE" – Revisiting lastweek's hot take. One vote per household, equality of opportunity vs outcome,and how you can be pro-men without being anti-women. We get into red-pillcontent, algorithm bait, gym-core and why your dumbbell press is basicallylifting your toddler in each hand. • ANDREW TATE & THE HUMAN TRAFFICKING CASE – Theso-called "lover boy method", the debate around his advice, Stockholmsyndrome and a very specific rap-battle wish. • GOAL SETTING – The dopamine hit of ticking a box onpaper vs your phone, why a task somehow takes exactly the time you give it, andgetting ready for a Cape trip in 48 hours. • LEXI'S LOOM BAND STALL – A quiet suburban driveway,a handwritten sign raising money for school camp, and $60 from strangers in anhour. No help from Dad. Just a table and some stubborn kids. One of thoselittle moments that makes you proud. • THE LINDSAY CLANCY CASE – We get into the case, thequestions surrounding it, and the online reactions that have sparked somepretty confronting conversations about mental health, responsibility and howpeople respond to tragedies. Strong opinions all round. We'll cut this one into two or three parts. Got a topic youreckon we should discuss, or want to jump on as a guest? Let us know in thecomments. ⚠️ Strong language andcontroversial topics throughout. Viewer discretion advised. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Doctors, AI & buying your own meds06:10 – "Women shouldn't vote" revisited / pro-men discussion13:25 – Algorithm bait, gym-core & red-pill content16:20 – Andrew Tate, the case & the "lover boy method"23:30 – Goal setting, timelines & paper vs phone32:15 – Lexi's loom band stall ($60 in an hour)37:00 – Lindsay Clancy case & the online reaction44:00 – Sign-off, guest calls & next episode #calmdownhogan #coastaldads #realconversations#authentictalk #Podcast #ProMen #RedPill #GoalSetting #AndrewTate #AITools#Claude #ChatGPT #Australia #LoomBands #DadLife

  2. Feb 14

    The Parts We Don’t Show Our Kids – Episode 7

    An honest conversation about sacrifice, perspective, andshowing up — even when it hurts. Welcome to Episode 7 of "The Parts We Don’t Show OurKids". This episode dives into the unseen sides of parenthood and themoments we keep hidden from our children. Discussing the lead-up to Christmas, the challenge of splitting time, and the reality of not spending part of the day with my boy. Sometimes, creating the best experience for him means putting my own feelings aside. From figuring out what to buy for Christmas in unique circumstances, to recognising that his mum’s side can offer a bigger family setup, it's about choosing what’s best for him, not for me.Opening up about the frustration of cyclone preparation disrupting plans, the emotional weight of checking in on him from afar, and how a workout helps reset mentally so I can show up stronger.Reflecting on modern parenting realities, like daycare seeing your child more than you do, and addressing a powerful question: was there anything people did that actually made things harder? Sometimes kindness and well-intentioned gestures can unintentionally amplify the pain of what’s ahead.At the heart of it, this episode is about quietly carrying those emotions. Processing tough moments internally, because the last thing I want is for my child to bear the weight of how painful they can be.An honest conversation about sacrifice, perspective, and showing up — even when it hurts.Subscribe for more episodes exploring the real storiesbehind parenting. Share your thoughts below and let us know your ownexperiences with the parts you don’t show your kids.

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This is for the men showing up, the dads growing up, and anyone rewriting what masculinity can look like — from the ground up.