How To Get a Guy in 10 Ways

Jenny Marcum and Danielle Hanlon
  • 5.0 (4)
  • Relationships

In this 10 episode podcast, we'll show you how to move from Point A (single) to Point B (in a healthy romantic relationship) and we’re going to help you do it by teaching you how to leave behind all the fear, limiting beliefs, confusion, discontentment and we’ll show you how tob e content in singleness & go after your goal of marriage someday, put yourself out there, be assertive without being abrasive, get set up on dates, be in the right places to meet someone great & how to date smart online. So if you are single and ready to mingle or aren't sure where to start, this podcast is for you!

Episodes

  1. #10 - What a Guy Wants: A Candid Conversation With Our Husbands

    Apr 27

    #10 - What a Guy Wants: A Candid Conversation With Our Husbands

    In our 10th & FINAL episode, Danielle and I brought our husbands on as guests to discuss our questions AND all listener questions that had been sent in: What was something we did that let you know we were interested or at least open to the idea of getting to know you? What was a fear you were wrestling with when you were deciding whether to ask us out or not? When you were single, what were some of the ways you preferred a girl to show interest in you? What should I do when I’m head over heels for a guy who checks off all my boxes & I check off all of his, but he’s not in the same place as me yet. He does want to be & has some things to work through before he can be in a relationship. Should I linger and be patient in the friend zone? How do you ask the hard questions? If a guy friend in your friend group asks you out and you turn him down but months later your feelings change and you'd be open to see where things go, how do you go about letting him know? Any advice on what I should do? How soon is too soon to get married? How to find a traditional type of masculine man (provider, strong, Christian, leader, etc)? I feel like it can be hard to know if he has “toxic masculinity” or if he’s just confident in who he is as a man right away. What are some red flags to look out for? SHOW NOTES: Our playlist for the drive to your date! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9 FOLLOW Head to Heart Podcast (RELAUNCHES IN SEPTEMBER 2026!) - https://open.spotify.com/show/0WBFraCL0647Gfelm4XvqQ?si=f40b6f4db7d24f11

    1h 23m

  2. Feb 12

    #9 - Be Interested, Not Interesting: How To Thrive On The First Few Dates

    In our 9th episode, we discuss with Richard & Darcie Payne: How important is feeling “the spark” on the first few dates? Is your phone numbing you from feeling the dopamine rush of having a great date? Date ideas that will help you connect way more than just staring at each other over coffee How do you keep natural conversation going when first meeting someone? What types of questions help you know the person deeper without being “too much”? HINGE 2025 DATE REPORT: https://files.hinge.co/41f24ee8c5b2a48fbad9ffee49a8bcbf32b559e1.pdf/Hinge%202025%20Gen%20Z%20D.A.T.E.%20Report.pdf

    43 min

  3. Feb 10

    #8 - Escape The Friend Zone: How To Move From Platonic To Romantic

    In our 8th episode, we discussed: How to get out of the friend zone even if you’ve already heard those dreaded words “You’re like a sister to me” and it feels like it's already too late How to gauge if that guy is finally catching feelings for you How to have the DTR that won’t catch him off guard The behavioral science that is proven to get people out of the friend zone and into a romantic dating relationship SHOW NOTES: Vanessa Van Edwards - Behavioral Investigator https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoI11Ih13Zs ASK US YOUR QUESTIONS USING THIS LINK & WE’LL ANSWER THEM ON THE SHOW: https://forms.gle/QmLVgCmjpNXEmrRY8 Follow our playlist for the drive to your date! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

    35 min

  4. 10/20/2025

    #7 - Master The Apps: How To Connect, Move From Online to In-Person & Avoid Burnout

    In our 7th episode, we discuss with Kyle Broberg: How do you know if you have the right motives for choosing to do online dating? What age/season of life do you recommend choosing to do online dating? How do you prevent burnout while using dating apps? How can you prevent yourself from developing a consumer mindset while swiping away on profiles? How do you learn to not judge someone based on the first photo? How to steward the apps well without it consuming all of your time & mental space Which types of online conversations should you invest in? ASK US YOUR QUESTIONS USING THIS LINK & WE’LL ANSWER THEM ON THE SHOW: https://forms.gle/QmLVgCmjpNXEmrRY8 Follow our playlist for the drive to your date! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

    54 min

  5. 09/01/2025

    #6 - Get Matched: How To Get Set Up on Great Dates

    In our sixth episode, Emma Nicholson joins us to discuss - how she successfully set up Jenny & Joe - how to get set up on a date by people you trust in direct and indirect ways - how to go into any date with curiosity & open-handedness, not a grocery list or unrealistic expectations - how to honor the date and the person who set you up, even if there won't be a 2nd date - our #1 pieces of dating advise that change the game SHOW NOTES Ask us your questions here & we'll answer them anonymously on the show:https://forms.gle/JXZaGVcnkH8fH9YSA Our playlist for the drive to your date: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

    44 min

  6. 08/25/2025

    #5 - Do The Heart Work: Jackie Dorman Has Paired 1600+ Couples With This Method

    In our 5th episode, we interviewed author, speaker & matchmaker Jackie Dorman and discussed: - Why is dating nowadays more difficult than in decades past? - How to drop the unrealistic expectations keeping you from dating the one - How to leverage your community and meet the right guy for you - How to do the gritty, supernatural heart work in your own life and figure out what has been keeping you single Resources: Jackie Dorman’s website & resources: https://jackiedorman.com/ Jackie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jackiedormanofficial/ Ask us your questions here & we'll answer them on the show:https://forms.gle/QmLVgCmjpNXEmrRY8 Follow us on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/howtogetaguyin10ways_podcast/⁠ Follow our playlist for the drive to your next date! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

    22 min

  7. 07/28/2025

    #4 -Shoot Your Shot: How To Show Interest Without Being Abrasive

    In our 4th episode, we discuss:  If you show interest first, does that mean you’re not going to “be pursued”? Indirect ways you can show interest in a guy you already know or are just meeting for the first time Direct ways and one liners you can use to show interest in a guy (Indirect or Direct? Choose your preference!) What do you do if you’ve been friends for a long time & you’ve developed feelings? Which ways of “showing interest” qualify as being too abrasive? Our listener question that was sent in(!): Dating to get to know someone vs. friendship to dating - What are the pros and cons for both? ASK US YOUR QUESTIONS USING THIS LINK & WE’LL ANSWER THEM ON THE SHOW: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeHDk28S540yIHRdcmvPeemoA4yB3tsA_vRvhd17krjvdJmWA/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=104414978387641361771 Follow our playlist for the drive to your date! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

    1h 5m

  8. 07/14/2025

    #3 - Get In Proximity: Where Do I Find Good Men?

    In our third episode, we'll talk about: - What places do you have the most chance of meeting someone available and great? - What places give you lowest chances of meeting someone available and great? - How to go into a conversation with a stranger with curiosity and create a connection You won't find a romantic connection if you are hanging out with your same girl group every weekend. Have a question you want answered on the show? Want to share a positive dating experience? Tell us here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeHDk28S540yIHRdcmvPeemoA4yB3tsA_vRvhd17krjvdJmWA/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=104414978387641361771 Follow our playlist for the drive to your next date: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

    58 min

  9. 07/14/2025

    #2 - Reframe Rejection: How To Start Dating Fearlessly

    In our second episode, we talk about: - How to overcome the fear of rejection so you don't take it too personally & are able to move on faster - How to tell if you're ACTUALLY putting yourself out there or just playing scared - Weighing the cost of not putting yourself out there vs. taking the risk - How "having anxiety" can be an excuse to stay stuck and not try new things - What Solomon ACTUALLY meant when he wrote "guard your heart above all else" in Proverbs Consider this your personal pep talk that YOU CAN DO THIS! We're rooting for you! Resources: ASK US YOUR QUESTIONS USING THIS LINK & WE’LL ANSWER THEM ON THE SHOW: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeHDk28S540yIHRdcmvPeemoA4yB3tsA_vRvhd17krjvdJmWA/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=104414978387641361771 Follow our playlist for the drive to your next date: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

    39 min

  10. 07/14/2025

    #1 - Love Your Single Life: How To Cultivate Contentment Right Where You're At

    In our first episode, we'll talk about: How to know if you’re currently content being single or not The cost of choosing not to cultivate contentment right now How to enjoy your life TODAY regardless of your relationship status How to change your mindset from marriage being your reward to Jesus Himself being your reward How to stop pretending you’re content with God while peeking over your shoulder to see if He brought that husband yet How to genuinely believe that what God has for you is what is BEST for you How to determine the reason(s) you’re currently single (but don’t worry, none of the reasons are that something is wrong with you!) Resources: ASK US YOUR QUESTIONS USING THIS LINK & WE’LL ANSWER THEM ON THE SHOW: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeHDk28S540yIHRdcmvPeemoA4yB3tsA_vRvhd17krjvdJmWA/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=104414978387641361771 Follow our playlist for the drive to your next date! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

    43 min

  11. Trailer

    TRAILER: How To Get a Guy In 10 Ways

    In this podcast, we show women how to move from Point A (single) to Point B (in a healthy romantic relationship) and we’re going to help you do it by teaching you how to leave behind all the  Fear Overspiritualizing Limiting beliefs Confusion Discontentment And we’ll show you how to: Be content in singleness & go after your goal of marriage someday Put yourself out there Be assertive without being abrasive Get set up on dates Be in the right places to meet someone great How to online date smart So if you are single and ready to mingle, afraid of putting yourself out there, afraid of rejection, or are not sure where to start in your dating life, then this podcast is for you!

    1 min

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In this 10 episode podcast, we'll show you how to move from Point A (single) to Point B (in a healthy romantic relationship) and we’re going to help you do it by teaching you how to leave behind all the fear, limiting beliefs, confusion, discontentment and we’ll show you how tob e content in singleness & go after your goal of marriage someday, put yourself out there, be assertive without being abrasive, get set up on dates, be in the right places to meet someone great & how to date smart online. So if you are single and ready to mingle or aren't sure where to start, this podcast is for you!

Information

  • Creator
    Jenny Marcum and Danielle Hanlon
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Jenny Marcum and Danielle Hanlon
  • Show Website
    How To Get a Guy in 10 Ways

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