Two Sense

Mariam and Rufaro

Hosted by Mariam and Rufaro, Two Sense is where stories of migration, identity, and belonging come alive. As African women who have built lives in Germany, we share honest conversations about navigating the spaces in between—between cultures, between identities, and between expectations. From the joys and struggles of raising families abroad, to confronting racism and discrimination, to unpacking workplace dynamics, gender roles, and cultural nor Send us your thoughts, feedback and/or stories using the Google form below, it’s completely anonymous :) https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod

  1. 3D AGO

    EP62. Dating While Black in Germany & the ‘Ghanaian’ Allegations ft. Podcast BFF Betty aka Chioma

    This week we’re joined by our official Podcast BFF and the conversation flows exactly how you’d expect — honest, funny, and slightly chaotic. We get into dating dynamics between Black people in Germany and how they compare to dating across other races, unpacking expectations, cultural differences, and the realities of navigating relationships in the diaspora. It’s a real but relaxed conversation about identity, dating, and the nuances of being Black in Germany. Naturally, things take a lighter turn as we revisit the ongoing (and very unserious) debate about Mariam’s Togolese roots and whether that somehow makes her “basically Ghanaian.” Accusations are made, jokes are thrown, and the Podcast BFF fully fuels the agenda. A mix of thoughtful takes, diaspora dating talk, and pure banter — just how we like it. Don't forget to share your thoughts, questions, or experiences in the comments or on social media or send them our way anonymously through our Google form →https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod Subscribe on Spotify and YouTube-it's the easiest way to support us and help and support us. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey. ​ Stay connected with us:Instagram → @thetwosensepod Tiklok → @thetwosensepodcast BuyMeACoffee → https://buymeacoffee.com/twosensepodcast

    1h 17m

  2. FEB 4

    EP61. “Pain Refined Me Into Purpose” ft. Morolake - A Black Educator’s Story in Germany

    A meeting at her son’s kindergarten changed everything. In this emotional and honest episode, Mariam and Rufaro are joined by early childhood educator Morolake Ojuola as she shares how her child’s difficult experience in Germany’s early education system pushed her into her true calling. What started as pain became purpose. We discuss: Navigating the German kindergarten adaptation process When schools label your child too early Advocacy for immigrant children Speech delays and development myths Building confidence as a Black mother abroad Finding your purpose through motherhood Mo’s story will resonate deeply with parents raising children outside their home country, especially within European systems. 💬 Don’t forget to share your thoughts, questions, or experiences in the comments or on social media or send them our way anonymously through our Google form →⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod⁠⁠⁠⁠ Subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help and support us. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey. 🔗 Stay connected with us: Instagram → @thetwosensepod TikTok → @thetwosensepodcast BuyMeACoffee → https://buymeacoffee.com/twosensepodcast

    1h 9m

  3. JAN 21

    Bonus EP: LIVESHOW ft. Jessica & Betty - Am I Being Petty or Am I Being Used? - Listener Dilemmas

    In this live dilemma episode with jessica and Betty, we unpack messy friendship breakups, money boundaries, and the quiet resentment that builds when generosity turns into entitlement. From being the friend who always picks up the bill to realizing you might be seen as an ATM, we ask the hard question. When does kindness become self-betrayal? We also dive into workplace microaggressions around Afro hair, the exhaustion of being constantly observed, touched, and commented on under the guise of compliments, and why “it’s not that deep” is often a red flag. Plus, a candid conversation on intentional friendships, unbalanced expectations, ghosting, and whether every relationship is meant to last forever. Featuring unfiltered perspectives, real-life advice, and audience dilemmas, this episode speaks directly to Black women navigating friendships, identity, boundaries, and self-worth in Europe and beyond. Topics include friendship heartbreak, financial imbalance in relationships, black tax, microaggressions at work, natural hair politics, setting boundaries, and letting go without guilt. Perfect for listeners searching for honest conversations about friendships, money, race, and modern womanhood. 💬 Don’t forget to share your thoughts, questions, or experiences in the comments or on social media or send them our way anonymously through our Google form →⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod⁠⁠⁠ Subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help and support us. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey. 🔗 Stay connected with us: Instagram → @thetwosensepod TikTok → @thetwosensepodcast BuyMeACoffee → https://buymeacoffee.com/twosensepodcast

    42 min

  4. JAN 14

    Bonus EP: LIVESHOW ft. Magda & Alicia - Clean Haircare, African Food, and Building Businesses in Germany

    In this episode, we sit down with Magda & Alicia, 2 Black female founders redefining wellness, and community in Germany. From sustainable haircare for Black women to African and Afro-Caribbean nutrition, we explore what it really means to build purpose-led businesses in Europe. Our guests share honest insights on starting a company, navigating entrepreneurship in Germany, fighting stigma around African food, and creating safer products for our bodies. This conversation dives deep into clean beauty, holistic health, burnout, mentorship, and why passion alone is not enough without purpose. If you care about Black entrepreneurship, wellness, sustainable haircare, nutrition, or building businesses that serve community first, this episode is for you. Perfect for listeners interested in Black founders, women in business, wellness podcasts, African food culture, and entrepreneurship in Germany. 💬 Don’t forget to share your thoughts, questions, or experiences in the comments or on social media or send them our way anonymously through our Google form →⁠⁠https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod⁠⁠ Subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help and support us. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey. 🔗 Stay connected with us: Instagram → @thetwosensepod TikTok → @thetwosensepodcast BuyMeACoffee → https://buymeacoffee.com/twosensepodcast

    25 min

  5. JAN 7

    Bonus EP: LIVESHOW ft. Nonhle & Regina - Black Creators in Germany. Identity, Language and Building Community

    This episode kicks off 2026 with Part 1 of our December Live Show. A powerful and honest conversation recorded in front of a live audience in Hamburg. In this episode, we sit down with singer and performer Nonhle and content creator and YouTuber Regina to unpack what it really means to be a creative as Black women living in Germany. We talk about identity and belonging, choosing English versus German as a creator, representation in media, navigating brand collaborations, being African in Germany, and why visibility still matters. From immigration stories to motherhood, artistry, and community, this conversation captures the realities many Black creators experience but rarely get to say out loud. This is the first episode in a three part live series recorded in December and our very first episode of 2026. Topics covered include.• Content creation in Germany• Being Black and African in European media spaces• Language choice and global reach• Representation and identity• Brand work and creator pay gaps• Community, culture, and visibility Listen in for an unfiltered live discussion on creativity, culture, and what it takes to stay true to yourself while building a platform in a space that was not built with you in mind. 💬 Don’t forget to share your thoughts, questions, or experiences in the comments or on social media or send them our way anonymously through our Google form →⁠https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod⁠ Subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help and support us. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey. 🔗 Stay connected with us: Instagram → @thetwosensepod TikTok → @thetwosensepodcast BuyMeACoffee → https://buymeacoffee.com/twosensepodcast

    24 min

  6. 12/24/2025

    EP60. We’ve Been Chosen to Bring Fun to Germany

    In this episode, Mariam and Rufaro are finally back behind the mic after their first ever live show in Hamburg. And yes, if you were not there, you really missed it. They recap everything from the magic of seeing the audience in real life, to behind the scenes chaos, broken champagne glasses, set design stress, and that unforgettable moment when Mariam’s three year old son casually walked onto the stage mid recording. A moment that turned into a powerful reflection on motherhood, work, visibility, and raising children who get to see women living full lives. The conversation flows from live show highlights to Christmas plans, navigating holidays while working demanding jobs, cultural differences around Christmas in Germany, and why adult friendships now involve house visits, eight kids, and loud living rooms. They also get into themed Christmas parties, cowboy hats, fashion choices, and trusting events that are “black girl coded.” You will hear honest reflections on creativity, community, taking risks, spending the money to make things beautiful, and why sometimes you have to create your own fun. Plus stories involving glühwein, mimosas on white carpets, near fire incidents, and why some decisions only make sense in hindsight. This episode is a warm, chaotic, funny end of year catch up that captures friendship, growth, motherhood, creativity, and the beauty of showing up fully, even when things do not go exactly to plan. Perfect for listeners who love real conversations about life, culture, friendship, motherhood, creative projects, and navigating adulthood.

    1h 35m

  7. 12/17/2025

    EP59. Danish Princes, Cancer♋️ energy and petty grudges

    This episode is a little delayed as it was recorded before the live show, but as always Mariam and Rufaro get into a mix of big conversations and unserious banter. The girls talk about the viral Danish deception story and unpack their thoughts on it. From there, the conversation turns to the Sean Combs documentary on Netflix and the reactions it’s been stirring up. Somewhere along the way, things drift into horoscope territory — not because it makes sense, but because it happens and it makes for good banter. No facts, just vibes, opinions, and laughs. As always write your opinions or stories in the comment or use our google form https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod. We look forward to hearing from you.

    54 min

  8. 12/03/2025

    EP58. “Black Women Doing Amazing Things. That’s the Vibe”

    In this lively episode, the girls dive into the whirlwind of preparing for their first live show. They talk about sold-out outfits, fashion emergencies, and the pressure to deliver an unforgettable experience. They share hilarious backstories about friends traveling across Germany for the event, the ongoing sneaker debate, and the mission to convince everyone to dress up for a glam night out. The conversation moves into the journey of planning an event from scratch. They unpack the excitement of securing incredible guests, the shock of being taken seriously by creators with huge followings, and the deep gratitude they feel toward everyone who has already bought tickets. Mariam recounts her inspiring experience at the Black Girls Tech Summit in Berlin. She tells the full story of missing the ticket sale, landing a last-minute spot on a panel, seeing Black women thriving across tech and entrepreneurship, and meeting the powerhouse founder of Topicals. They talk about confidence, imposter syndrome, networking, and the joy of finding community. 💬 Don’t forget to share your thoughts, questions, or experiences in the comments or on social media or send them our way anonymously through our Google form →https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod Subscribe on Spotify and YouTube—it’s the easiest way to support us and help and support us. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey. 🔗 Stay connected with us: Instagram → @thetwosensepod TikTok → @thetwosensepodcast BuyMeACoffee → https://buymeacoffee.com/twosensepodcast Buy Live Show Tickets here → https://twosense_podcast.eventbrite.com

    34 min
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Hosted by Mariam and Rufaro, Two Sense is where stories of migration, identity, and belonging come alive. As African women who have built lives in Germany, we share honest conversations about navigating the spaces in between—between cultures, between identities, and between expectations. From the joys and struggles of raising families abroad, to confronting racism and discrimination, to unpacking workplace dynamics, gender roles, and cultural nor Send us your thoughts, feedback and/or stories using the Google form below, it’s completely anonymous :) https://bit.ly/two-sense-pod

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  • Creator
    Mariam and Rufaro
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    69
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Mariam and Rufaro
  • Show Website
    Two Sense