What If You Stopped Being Invisible? | Kay Fittes on Showing Up, Speaking Up & Knowing Your Value Have you ever felt invisible? Maybe you've worked hard, done all the right things, and quietly hoped someone would notice your value. Or perhaps you've found yourself shrinking back, waiting to be asked, or hesitating to say what you really want. In this episode of the Being Brave Tour Podcast, Karen Rae sits down with speaker, author, and founder of High-Heeled Success, Kay Fittes, for a conversation about what can happen when women stop waiting to be recognized and begin showing up for themselves. Kay knows the feeling of invisibility personally. Growing up surrounded by big personalities, she says she never fully developed a voice of her own. That experience eventually became part of the foundation for work she has now spent decades doing with women. Together, Karen and Kay explore what Kay calls the “Big Fat Lie”—the belief that if we simply keep our heads down, work hard, and provide enough value, eventually someone will notice and reward us. Kay offers another possibility: learn to recognize your own value, ask for what you want, use your voice, take up space, and become intentional about how you show up. She also walks us through her 6 P's for High-Heeled Success, from personal and professional esteem to verbal and nonverbal communication, presentations, and personal packaging—practical ways women can begin moving from insight into action. And Kay shares something that may surprise you: her very first presentation ended with her passing out! Today, after thousands of seminars and decades as a professional speaker, she's living proof that where you begin doesn't have to determine where you end up. This conversation is an invitation to ask yourself: Where might I still be making myself smaller? What do I really want? And am I willing to ask for it? Kay's hope for women is that we recognize the power already within us—and use it to create change in our careers and our lives. About Kay Fittes Kay Fittes is a dynamic speaker, author, coach, and founder of High-Heeled Success. Drawing from her background as a therapist and business trainer, Kay has spent decades helping women turn insight into action and build powerful, fulfilling careers. She is the creator of the 6 P's for High-Heeled Success and has delivered more than 3,000 seminars to over 100,000 women, combining practical strategies with warmth, humor, and real-world experience. Kay is also the author of multiple books, including Achieving High-Heeled Success: 50 Ways for Career-Oriented Women to Succeed. At the heart of her work is a message every woman deserves to hear: You have power. You have value. And you don't have to stay invisible. Want to take this conversation a little deeper? Follow along with Kay’s reflection in the Being Brave Tour Magazine: Beautiful Faces Going Places Women’s Success Network Issue and give yourself a little “Me Time” to explore what her message means for you. Complimentary Digital Copy just for you! https://heyzine.com/flip-book/1439092913.html *Special thank you to Laurie Hardie, Podcast Coach and creator of 7 Day Podcast Pro Program for helping the Being Brave Tour come to life! http://www.coachlaurie.com/
