The Breaking Financial Chains Podcast

Tanya Ibberson

Are you tired of feeling anxious about money despite working hard? Do you avoid opening bank statements, feel trapped by financial decisions you don't understand, or struggle with someone else controlling your access to money? You're not alone. Join chartered accountant and financial coach Tanya Ibberson for Breaking Financial Chains – the podcast that combines practical financial guidance with psychological insights to help you transform your relationship with money and recognise when others are using money to control you. Unlike traditional finance podcasts that focus only on the numbers, Tanya understands that financial freedom isn't just about budgets and spreadsheets. It's about healing emotional barriers, breaking unhealthy patterns, recognising financial abuse, and overcoming the shame that keeps us stuck. Whether you're dealing with a controlling partner who monitors every penny or simply need to understand the warning signs of financial coercion, this podcast provides crucial insights for protection and recovery . Whether you're a successful professional who secretly struggles with money management, someone experiencing or recovering from financial control in a relationship, or ready to break free from generational money patterns, this podcast offers a safe, non-judgmental space to learn, heal and grow. Each week, through solo episodes, expert interviews and transformation stories, you'll discover practical tools and emotional support to help you build genuine financial confidence and independence. Because financial empowerment is possible for everyone – regardless of your starting point or past experiences. Remember: financial freedom isn't just about the numbers – it's about breaking the chains that hold you back from living a life aligned with your values.

  1. 6D AGO

    How to Hold Family Money Meetings Without Shame, Blame or Stress - Ep. 35

    How to Hold Family Money Meetings Without Shame, Blame or Stress - Ep. 35. Family money meetings don’t have to be intimidating or dull. In this episode, Tanya covers practical ways to foster transparency, connection and shared responsibility around finances at home. Why family money meetings matter and the benefits of open financial conversationsCommon reasons for resistance and how to navigate themSimple, realistic formats for running effective, low-pressure meetingsAge-appropriate ways to involve kids and teach financial literacyTips for tackling partner reluctance and creating a collaborative household money cultureReady to change the conversation about money in your family? Tune in and take the first step towards shared financial empowerment. Chapters 00:00 Money, Relationships, and Communication 04:28 "Starting Open Conversations on Money" 08:17 "Family Financial Conversations" 13:48 "Low-Pressure Family Check-Ins" 17:29 "Setting Intentions and Shared Responsibility" 20:04 "Involving Kids in Family Goals" 22:22 "Building Family Connections Through Conversation" Useful Links Website: www.financialwingwoman.com Email: tanya@financialwingwoman.com LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/financialwingwoman Instagram: www.instagram.com/thefinancialwingwoman Facebook: www.facebook.com/thefinancialwingwoman If this episode brings up difficult feelings, please reach out to appropriate support services in your area. #FinancialAbuse #FinancialFreedom #WomenEmpowerment #MoneyMindset #BreakingFinancialChains #FinancialControl #PersonalStory #PodcastLife #FinancialIndependence #ThinkMedia

    24 min
  2. FEB 4

    Transforming Scarcity to Abundance: Practical Steps to Shift Your Money Mindset - Ep. 32

    Transforming Scarcity to Abundance: Practical Steps to Shift Your Money Mindset - Ep. 32. Struggling with your money mindset? In this episode of Breaking Financial Chains, Tanya Ibberson breaks down the real differences between scarcity and abundance thinking and gives you practical steps to start shifting your beliefs. What scarcity and abundance mindsets actually mean for your financesHow your early experiences shape your beliefs about moneyRecognising and rewiring patterns of financial anxiety and guiltPractical exercises to build new habits and evidence of abundanceTools and daily anchors to move toward a calmer, more empowered relationship with moneySubscribe for honest, actionable advice to help you change your money story. Chapters !0:00 "Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset" 03:12 "Overcoming the Scarcity Mindset" 09:28 "Scarcity Mindset Rooted in Trauma" 11:52 "Impact of Past Trauma" 17:33 Rewriting Beliefs for Financial Growth 20:19 "Building Savings, Thought by Thought" 22:20 "Let Money Serve Your Values" 25:56 Managing Financial Stress with Breathwork 29:03 "Subscribe for Financial Freedom" Useful Links Website: www.financialwingwoman.com Email: tanya@financialwingwoman.com LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/financialwingwoman Instagram: www.instagram.com/thefinancialwingwoman Facebook: www.facebook.com/thefinancialwingwoman If this episode brings up difficult feelings, please reach out to appropriate support services in your area. #FinancialAbuse #FinancialFreedom #WomenEmpowerment #MoneyMindset #BreakingFinancialChains #FinancialControl #PersonalStory #PodcastLife #FinancialIndependence #ThinkMedia

    29 min
  3. JAN 21

    Retirement Planning Isn’t Scary: How Women Can Start Building Freedom and Choices Today - Ep. 30

    Retirement Planning Isn’t Scary: How Women Can Start Building Freedom and Choices Today - Ep. 30. Unlock your path to financial freedom with practical retirement planning that puts you in control. This episode is all about empowering women to take action and design a future they’re excited about. - Why retirement planning is really about personal power and agency - Common excuses and mistakes women make—and how to overcome them - How to visualise your ideal future and reverse engineer your financial strategy - Practical steps to review your pensions and start building a future ME fund - The importance of seeking aligned financial advice and setting intentional money dates Subscribe for more real-world money guidance without the overwhelm. Chapters 00:00 "Retirement Planning: No More Delays" 04:30 "Financial Inequity and Gender Disparities" 08:46 "Visualize, Feel, Build, Achieve" 11:22 Keeping Track of Future Plans 15:32 Retirement Planning Mistakes Women Make 18:12 "Pension Planning: Start or Act" 20:27 "Voluntary Pension Contributions Advice" 23:49 "Breaking Financial Chains Podcast" Useful Links Website: www.financialwingwoman.com Email: tanya@financialwingwoman.com LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/financialwingwoman Instagram: www.instagram.com/thefinancialwingwoman Facebook: www.facebook.com/thefinancialwingwoman If this episode brings up difficult feelings, please reach out to appropriate support services in your area. #FinancialAbuse #FinancialFreedom #WomenEmpowerment #MoneyMindset #BreakingFinancialChains #FinancialControl #PersonalStory #PodcastLife #FinancialIndependence #ThinkMedia

    24 min
  4. JAN 14

    Creating Your North Star: Vision a Life You Want | Ep 29

    Creating Your North Star: Vision a Life You Want | Ep 29. Learn how to create your North Star vision for 2026 - a powerful goal-setting alternative that uses psychology and visualisation to guide your financial and life decisions with clarity and intention.  In this Breaking Financial Chains episode, Tanya introduces North Star visioning - a guiding framework that helps you move from reaction mode to intentional living, especially when it comes to your finances. Discover why your brain doesn't distinguish between imagined and real experiences, making multi-sensory visualisation one of the most powerful tools for achieving your goals. KEY TOPICS: What a North Star is (and why it's not astrology)!The psychology of visualisation and brain rewiringFuture-you thinking vs staying stuck in the presentHow to say yes with intention and no with clarityCreating multi-sensory visions (see, hear, smell, feel)Moving from people-pleasing to self-prioritisationBaby steps: 1-2 aligned actions for early 2026Keeping your vision visible and accessibleCHAPTERS:  00:00 Introduction 02:17 What Is a North Star?  04:37 Running West While Chasing Sunrise  07:01 The Psychology of Visualisation  09:23 Making It Multi-Sensory  14:00 Permission to Dream Big  18:51 Let It Be Yours  20:50 One Action at a Time  22:52 Keeping Your Vision Close  24:50 Your North Star Is Already Inside You  Useful Links Website: www.financialwingwoman.com Email: tanya@financialwingwoman.com LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/financialwingwoman Instagram: www.instagram.com/thefinancialwingwoman Facebook: www.facebook.com/thefinancialwingwoman If this episode brings up difficult feelings, please reach out to appropriate support services in your area. #FinancialAbuse #FinancialFreedom #WomenEmpowerment #MoneyMindset #BreakingFinancialChains #FinancialControl #PersonalStory #PodcastLife #FinancialIndependence #ThinkMedia

    25 min
  5. JAN 7

    Understanding Money, Control and Communication in Relationships with Dan Meredith - Ep 28

    Understanding Money, Control and Communication in Relationships with Dan Meredith - Ep 28. In this episode of Breaking Financial Chains, Tanya Ibberson sits down with guest Dan Meredith for a candid discussion about money, power, and the misconceptions surrounding financial conversations. Together, they tackle complex topics and share actionable insights for greater financial autonomy. Here's what you'll learn: - Why talking about money, power, and privilege is still so taboo—and how to break the silence - The clear differences in how men and women approach financial decision-making and risk - How financial privilege and control play out in relationships, with practical examples - The impact of generational roles and communication gaps on financial freedom - Tangible steps to create financial safety nets and improve open, honest financial conversations Subscribe for real talk and practical strategies to transform your financial future. Chapters 00:00 "Financial Power, Not Man-Bashing" 04:01 "Success and Perceptions Explained" 06:31 Prioritising Women’s Well-being 11:38 Single Moms: Strength and Discipline 16:16 "Building Wealth Through Autonomy" 18:44 "Independence and Financial Stability" 22:11 "Ego, Choices, and Respect" 25:02 Men's Pressure to Provide 30:24 "Open Communication in Relationships" 32:01 "Improving Communication in Relationships" 34:28 "Dreams, Goals, and Connections" 39:27 Prioritise Independence and Stability 41:37 From Poverty to Privilege Perspectives 44:33 Animated Coaching Missteps 47:55 "Freedom From Financial Chains" Connect With Dan Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealdanmeredith Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/coffeewithdan YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@therealdanmeredith/videos Useful Links Website: www.financialwingwoman.com Email: tanya@financialwingwoman.com LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/financialwingwoman Instagram: www.instagram.com/thefinancialwingwoman Facebook: www.facebook.com/thefinancialwingwoman If this episode brings up difficult feelings, please reach out to appropriate support services in your area. #FinancialAbuse #FinancialFreedom #WomenEmpowerment #MoneyMindset #BreakingFinancialChains #FinancialControl #PersonalStory #PodcastLife #FinancialIndependence #ThinkMedia

    51 min

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Are you tired of feeling anxious about money despite working hard? Do you avoid opening bank statements, feel trapped by financial decisions you don't understand, or struggle with someone else controlling your access to money? You're not alone. Join chartered accountant and financial coach Tanya Ibberson for Breaking Financial Chains – the podcast that combines practical financial guidance with psychological insights to help you transform your relationship with money and recognise when others are using money to control you. Unlike traditional finance podcasts that focus only on the numbers, Tanya understands that financial freedom isn't just about budgets and spreadsheets. It's about healing emotional barriers, breaking unhealthy patterns, recognising financial abuse, and overcoming the shame that keeps us stuck. Whether you're dealing with a controlling partner who monitors every penny or simply need to understand the warning signs of financial coercion, this podcast provides crucial insights for protection and recovery . Whether you're a successful professional who secretly struggles with money management, someone experiencing or recovering from financial control in a relationship, or ready to break free from generational money patterns, this podcast offers a safe, non-judgmental space to learn, heal and grow. Each week, through solo episodes, expert interviews and transformation stories, you'll discover practical tools and emotional support to help you build genuine financial confidence and independence. Because financial empowerment is possible for everyone – regardless of your starting point or past experiences. Remember: financial freedom isn't just about the numbers – it's about breaking the chains that hold you back from living a life aligned with your values.