The Soft Life w/ Chrystal & Megan

Chrystal & Megan

When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

Episodes

  1. When Your Job is Your Identity, “Personality Hires”, and Finding Joy at Work w/ Author Bree Groff

    JAN 28

    When Your Job is Your Identity, “Personality Hires”, and Finding Joy at Work w/ Author Bree Groff

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc.  Do you have a “work self” and a “normal self”? Writer and workplace consultant Bree Groff joins Chrystal and Megan to discuss how to navigate—and relate to—work so that you feel authentic and joyous doing it. Enjoy your finite days, she says: “If we’re wishing away the workweek, we’re wishing away our lives.” Bree Groff is the author of “Today Was Fun”, a book that proves that work can be different—and that neon smiley faces do, in fact, belong on the cover of business books. In it, her seven rules for creating more fulfilling days at work and in daily life. Listen in for Groff’s brilliant, realistically optimistic advice on how shifting your perspective at work directly impacts how abundant your life can really feel.  The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Connor Kwiecien and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok.  When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that  prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant.  This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    26 min
  2. LICEGATE! Medicinal Massages, Age Gaps, Night Club Withdrawal, and I’M PREGNANT!

    12/23/2025

    LICEGATE! Medicinal Massages, Age Gaps, Night Club Withdrawal, and I’M PREGNANT!

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc. We’ve got lice and we’re pregnant, all while prepping holiday trifles and fruitcake! Megan gets initiated into the lice club and confronts discrimination in treatment. Chrystal tackles America’s bleak parental leave and shares her plan to survive it. We unpack our favorite medicinal massages, big sibling age gaps, and mourn the dance floor. The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O’Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Connor Kwiecien and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    27 min
  3. WTF are Exosomes?!, K-Beauty Buzz and Easy Skincare Secrets w/ Dermatologist Dr. Mamina Turegano

    12/10/2025

    WTF are Exosomes?!, K-Beauty Buzz and Easy Skincare Secrets w/ Dermatologist Dr. Mamina Turegano

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc. Chrystal and Megan catch up with Dr. Mamina Turegano, the dewy queen of dermatology, for some of her best glow secrets. Is Korean Beauty really magic? Do products or lifestyle matter more for radiant skin? And why is everyone talking about exosomes? We discover drug store holy grails and the skincare trends that Dr. Turegano hopes will fall out of favor fast. Mamina Turegano, MD, is a triple board-certified dermatologist, internist, and dermatopathologist in New Orleans. She co-hosts the podcast Skin Deep MDs. The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O’Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Connor Kwiecien and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    22 min
  4. Dating App Vibes, the Work vs. a Job, and Are You Messy or Clean?!

    11/19/2025

    Dating App Vibes, the Work vs. a Job, and Are You Messy or Clean?!

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc. Chrystal and Megan air their domestic dirty laundry (outside clothes in bed?!) and swear off doomscrolling for love on the loo. Chrystal’s loyal to niche dating apps, while Megan welcomes the weirdos on broad ones. They also talk freelance boundaries and how to master the mysterious art of closing your damn laptop. The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O’Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Connor Kwiecien and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    34 min
  5. Sexy Gray Hair, London vs. NYC, Racist (or Not) Bingo, Oh and I’M ENGAGED!

    10/29/2025

    Sexy Gray Hair, London vs. NYC, Racist (or Not) Bingo, Oh and I’M ENGAGED!

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc. When a white lady gatekeeps the acupuncturist’s door and airport security searches you twice — is it racist?! Chrystal and Megan unpack triggers vs. reality. Chrystal debuts her unsettling American accent and pits NYC culture and lingo against London’s. Megan’s mom becomes a silver-haired sex symbol and we philosophize: is gray hair resistance, or just hot? The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O’Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Connor Kwiecien and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    32 min
  6. Top Beauty Secrets for Juicy, Refreshed Skin with Clean Beauty Consultant Rachel Cook Northway

    10/01/2025

    Top Beauty Secrets for Juicy, Refreshed Skin with Clean Beauty Consultant Rachel Cook Northway

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc. Does your skincare actually contain harmful ingredients? Chrystal and Megan chat with clean beauty consultant Rachel Cook Northway of The Northway Edit about decoding labels; creating an easy routine for your smoothest, most supple skin; and how cancer led her to change not just her serums and creams but her whole approach to living. This show is powered by thenorthwayedit.com, a clean beauty service designed to guide you on your journey to creating a safer personal care ritual. Check out their first-ever product, The Northway Edit Ginger Toner, a moisture bomb infusion of rosewater, ginger, soothing chamomile, aloe, and clarifying witch hazel. Spritz it on after cleansing your face, or apply it throughout the day as the ultimate pick-me-up; it’s instantly skin (and mood) energizing. We’re completely in love. Check out Rachel’s current skin care obsessions. Bare Hands Max & Me Dr. Alkaitis The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O’Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    18 min
  7. Why Get Married? Work-Worship Withdrawal vs. Entrepreneur Era, Cooking Love Languages & Grieving in an Impatient World

    09/10/2025

    Why Get Married? Work-Worship Withdrawal vs. Entrepreneur Era, Cooking Love Languages & Grieving in an Impatient World

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc. Cartwheeling into 39 and 40, Chrystal is unlearning work-worship and Megan is finding her rhythm as an entrepreneur, all while asking the big questions: Why get married (again)? How do you grieve in an impatient world? Does getting older bring us closer to the soft life? And most importantly, what’s your cooking love language? The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos, with support from Tess Novotny. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    36 min
  8. Soft Life vs. Hard Work, Rawdogging, I’m Going on a Mate Date, Period Probs

    08/13/2025

    Soft Life vs. Hard Work, Rawdogging, I’m Going on a Mate Date, Period Probs

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc. Making new friends after 30 while finding time for yourself and loved ones, crushing it at work, staying creative..AND you just got your period?!?! Sounds impossible. We share how to spread your social butterfly wings and soar through the mayhem while keeping your edges soft enough to shine. The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos, with support from Tess Novotny. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    23 min
  9. Sex Party Shenanigans, Nightmare Babysitters, Broken Home vs. Home that's Broken, British Tea Respect

    07/29/2025

    Sex Party Shenanigans, Nightmare Babysitters, Broken Home vs. Home that's Broken, British Tea Respect

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc. Running into a friend at a sex party? Traumatizing babysitters? And would you rather come from a broken home or a home that’s broken? We unpack it all, plus a very serious discussion on how to make tea like a Brit. The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos, with support from Tess Novotny. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    33 min
  10. Lay-off Hair, ADHD, Spooky Sleep Paralysis, Caribbean Liming

    07/23/2025

    Lay-off Hair, ADHD, Spooky Sleep Paralysis, Caribbean Liming

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc. We’re sleep-deprived, spiraling, and somehow still vibing. We talk post-layoff hair transformations, glittery disco-ball brains, visits from sleep paralysis demons, and tips for unlocking leisure through the Caribbean art of how to relax. The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos, with support from Tess Novotny. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    33 min
  11. We Got Laid Off! Racist Wedding Guest and The Awful In-Law

    07/22/2025

    We Got Laid Off! Racist Wedding Guest and The Awful In-Law

    Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc. We got laid off, clashed with a racist wedding guest, and our in-law wants us gone. Here’s our tale of navigating the doldrums and laughing in spite of constant chaos as we challenge ourselves — and you — to step into The Soft Life.  The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos, with support from Tess Novotny. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube, and find us on Substack, Instagram @softlifeNYC, and TikTok. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

    32 min
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When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. thesoftlifenyc.substack.com

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