The Bubbly Babble

Cherie Lin

The Bubbly Babble is a space for fun, honest conversations about the human experience. 

  1. Oct 12

    Were We Mean Girls?

    My first babble buddy Jess is back, and we're finally saying it out loud: we were mean girls. Two years together at an all-girls Catholic academy gave us coded nicknames, songs sung at girls on the bus, and a lot of laughing at other people's expense. Somehow the things we mocked were exactly the things we'd been mocked for. Jess shares her middle-school fallout, a year of eating lunch in the bathroom, and the phone call she made at 16 to apologize to the best friend she'd hurt. We dig into where kids learn to be mean in the first place, why people are almost never watching you the way you think, and how a misunderstanding at a birthday party shows what words can do when someone's already expecting them. Plus, blowing bubbles: why we compliment strangers now, and the honest realization at the end that maybe we're still a little bit mean. Just getting better every day. Come babble with us. 🫧 Mentioned in this episode All My Friends Are Best: A Children's Guide to Relationship Anarchy, by Jessica Daylover of Remodeled Love Book: https://www.remodeledlove.com/amfab.htmlRemodeled Love: https://www.remodeledlove.comWhat We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Fat, by Aubrey Gordon Book: https://bookshop.org/p/books/what-we-don-t-talk-about-when-we-talk-about-fat-aubrey-gordon/f8c153bb0c22c6dbAuthor site: https://yourfatfriend.comContent note: This episode discusses bullying, including a homophobic slur, body and appearance shaming, and online harassment. Explicit language throughout. Support the show

  2. Oct 4

    Your Body Is Smarter Than You

    I've tried to record this episode four times. I have four copies of it on a hard drive somewhere, and I never committed. Today I did. I'm fat. Fat isn't a bad word, it's an adjective, and I'll tell you why I say it the way I do. After 39 years in this body and 25 years of dieting, I want to talk about what being fat has meant for my life: the matching outfits when I was five, the JV list my name wasn't on, my first diet at 12, and the weight loss surgery I had at 19 that is still affecting my body today. I'll also tell you about the morning I watched my toddler pull the scale out from under my bed, and how that started everything changing. This isn't a "here's how I fixed my body" story, because I didn't. It's the story of how I stopped fighting it. If I could get one message across, it would be that your body is good, wherever it is. If you've got a story of your own, I want to hear it. Books and people who changed my life are in the show notes. Content note: this episode includes childhood dieting, disordered eating, weight loss surgery and its complications, and weight stigma. Take care of yourself while you listen  and go love your body this week.   Books mentioned in this episode:   If you're not sure where to begin, these three are a great place to start:  Anti-Diet: Reclaim Your Time, Money, Well-Being, and Happiness Through Intuitive Eating by Christy Harrison  The F**k It Diet: Eating Should Be Easy by Caroline Dooner  Health at Every Size: The Surprising Truth About Your Weight by Lindo Bacon Support the show

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The Bubbly Babble is a space for fun, honest conversations about the human experience.