Self-Worth School

Rosie Milsom

Self-Worth School is a podcast for ambitious and purpose-driven women who want to stop doubting themselves and start living with more joy, confidence and clarity. The tagline is “lessons in becoming your most happy and confident self”. Each episode is a lesson — part insight, part story, part mindset shift — with simple takeaways to help listeners reconnect with who they are and what they’re capable of. Whether we’re talking about ambition, creativity, burnout, relationships or identity, it’s all grounded in one belief: When a woman remembers her worth ,she becomes unstoppable.

  1. How To Be The Main Character In Your Life (Without Feeling Selfish)

    FEB 6

    How To Be The Main Character In Your Life (Without Feeling Selfish)

    Many women quietly put themselves last - not because they don’t care, but because they’re used to responding to everyone else. In this solo episode of Self-Worth School, I explore what it really means to become the main character in your own life without guilt, drama, or blowing everything up. I talk about how easy it is to lose touch with what you want, and why putting yourself last is a learned habit rather than a personality trait. I'll also introduce the idea of defaults vs wants, and explain why jealousy, boredom, and daydreaming can be useful clues rather than things to ignore. 💛 In this episode, we cover: ✨ Why burnout doesn’t always look dramatic ✨ How living on autopilot keeps you stuck ✨ The difference between habits and real wants ✨ Why becoming the “main character” isn’t selfish ✨ How small choices build self-trust over time If you’ve been feeling capable but slightly disconnected from yourself, this episode will help you slow down, notice what’s going on, and decide what you want to do differently - without pressure to have it all figured out. If you’ve been feeling capable, responsible, and slightly disconnected from yourself, this episode offers a chance to pause and reflect before deciding what comes next. But ultimately, know that you are your own person and your dreams matter. If this episode resonates and you want to bring your dreams and main character back to life, set up your free 1:1 discovery call here: www.calendly.com/rosiemilsomcoaching

    32 min
  2. How To Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty

    JAN 16

    How To Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty

    Setting boundaries sounds simple, and we're all told we should do it - but for many women, it’s loaded with guilt, fear, and people-pleasing. We worry about upsetting others, damaging relationships, or being seen as selfish.In this episode of Self-Worth School, Rosie is joined by Arianna and Soleil, co-founders of Equality Education, an emotional intelligence company teaching the skills that help people build self-esteem, communicate clearly, and make empowered decisions.Together, they explore why boundaries are so difficult for women, how guilt and people-pleasing develop, and why boundaries aren’t walls - they’re tools for creating healthier, more respectful relationships.In this episode, we cover:- Why women often feel guilty for setting boundaries- How people-pleasing disconnects us from our needs and identity- The link between emotional intelligence, self-worth, and boundaries- Why anger is often a sign a boundary has been crossed- How to communicate boundaries clearly and respectfully- Practical awareness exercises to help you identify the boundaries you needFree workshopArianna and Soleil are offering free access to one of their live emotional intelligence workshops for Self-Worth School listeners.📩 To sign up, email: hello@theequalityeducation.comConnect with Arianna & SoleilWebsite: https://www.theequalityeducation.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-equality-education/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theequalityedu/

    41 min
  3. How to Declutter Your Life (Inside & Out)

    12/05/2025

    How to Declutter Your Life (Inside & Out)

    For so many women, clutter isn’t really about “the stuff.” It’s about overwhelm. It’s about feeling stuck. It's about running a busy life and home and not feeling like you have the time. It’s about a mind that feels as chaotic as the room you’re standing in. It's about how it affects how you feel about yourself. In this powerful episode, I'm joined by Valerie Huard - a trauma-informed decluttering coach whose own journey with CPTSD led her to discover how deeply physical clutter mirrors emotional clutter. Together, we explore: 💛 why clutter is never about laziness 💛 how trauma, burnout, or ADHD make clutter feel impossible to manage 💛 the link between declutter and your self-worth 💛 Valerie’s four-step decluttering framework that helps create lasting change 💛 how simple tools (like gloves!) can reduce overwhelm for neurodivergent minds 💛 what it looks like to build a home environment that supports your wellbeing This is not an episode about having a Pinterest-perfect home. It’s about creating space - mentally, emotionally, and physically - so you can breathe, and feel happy and confident again. 🎁 Free gift from Valerie: The 7 Secrets of Decluttering 👉 https://up.dowellht.com/self-worth-Rosie 📌 Connect with Valerie: FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/dowellht INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dowell.life/ PODCAST: https://posttraumasecretsdecluttering.buzzsprout.com/ YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/PostTraumaSecretsDeclutteringbyDOWell

    30 min
  4. Becoming More Influential (And Less Invisible) In Work & Life

    11/10/2025

    Becoming More Influential (And Less Invisible) In Work & Life

    Have you ever felt like you’re working hard, showing up, and still somehow not being seen, like you're lacking influence at work, in biz or even at home? You’re not alone. In this empowering episode of Self-Worth School, Rosie is joined by Candice Mitchell - a learning and development expert, coach, and author of Choose You. With over 20 years of experience helping professionals step into their confidence, Candice shares her five pillars of influence - practical tools to help you speak up, show up, and stop disappearing from your own story. In this episode, we explore: 💛 Why invisibility and self-doubt are so common (especially for women) 💛 How to speak up without second-guessing yourself 💛 Why waiting until you’re “ready” can keep you stuck 💛 How to reframe setbacks and reset your mindset in real time 💛 The link between influence, identity, and self-worth If you want to be seen as someone influential, with ideas and opinions that matter, and that people want to listen to - this is the episode for you. 📌 Connect with Candice: Take the Invisibility Quiz: https://quiz.talentcollective.org/ Follow Candice on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/candicemitchelltdnerd/ 🎯 Ready to stop playing small and start showing up as the leader you already are? Book a free 1:1 discovery call with Rosie to explore confidence and stepping into your influential era: www.calendly.com/rosiemilsomcoaching

    37 min

About

Self-Worth School is a podcast for ambitious and purpose-driven women who want to stop doubting themselves and start living with more joy, confidence and clarity. The tagline is “lessons in becoming your most happy and confident self”. Each episode is a lesson — part insight, part story, part mindset shift — with simple takeaways to help listeners reconnect with who they are and what they’re capable of. Whether we’re talking about ambition, creativity, burnout, relationships or identity, it’s all grounded in one belief: When a woman remembers her worth ,she becomes unstoppable.