Unlabeled Love

Violet S and McCartnie Rose
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A supportive, judgment-free podcast for spouses of gender expansive people, such as crossdressers—where love meets lipstick and real talk. Through honest conversations, shared stories, and expert insights, we explore identity, connection, and acceptance with compassion, humor, and heart. You’re not alone—and every relationship deserves respect, authenticity, and a little sparkle.

Episodes

  1. FEB 18

    009-Pros and Cons

    In this episode, Violet and McCartney explore the pros and cons of being the significant other of a gender expansive person. Specifically, how it affects them, emphasizing that experiences vary by individual and relationship. They describe key pros such as enhanced communication, deeper intimacy and trust, creative self-expression, community connections, and even shared fashion tips. They also cover challenges and cons, including identity struggles for the partner, social stigma, financial strain, and conflicts over borrowing clothes and limited closet space. You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.comInstagram - Unlabeledlove.podcastFacebook - violet S. Lee & McCartnie Rose

    34 min
  2. 008-From Denial to Acceptance

    FEB 4

    008-From Denial to Acceptance

    In this discussion, Violet and McCartney explore the emotional complexities faced by significant others when their partners reveal that they are a crossdresser. They share personal anecdotes about dealing with grief, denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. The conversation underscores the need for open communication and setting healthy boundaries. They emphasize the importance of journaling feelings to process emotions and encourage supportive dialogue between partners. The aim is to help couples strengthen their relationship as they navigate this sensitive subject. You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.comInstagram - Unlabeledlove.podcastFacebook - violet S. Lee & McCartnie Rose

    38 min
  3. 007 To share or not to share

    JAN 21

    007 To share or not to share

    In this episode, Violet and McCartney discuss their experiences and considerations surrounding revealing their spouses' crossdressing identities to family, friends, and the world. They share personal anecdotes about the challenges of keeping secrets, handling potential rejection, and the importance of building trust and intimacy in relationships. They emphasize the need for patience and understanding when disclosing such personal information. Ultimately, the decision to share is presented as deeply personal, requiring careful consideration of timing and readiness on the part of both the crossdresser and their loved ones. You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.comInstagram - Unlabeledlove.podcastFacebook - violet S. Lee

    30 min
  4. 006 Cruising as the Significant Other

    12/10/2025

    006 Cruising as the Significant Other

    In this episode of Unlabeled Love, Violet and McCartnie discuss McCartnie’s experience organizing and participating in the 'Girls Just Wanna Have Fun' crossdressing cruise. McCartnie discusses the initial apprehensions and logistics of their first cruise, highlighting the challenges and learning experiences of making everyone, including herself, comfortable. They also talk about the latest cruise, including group activities, and emphasize the growing ease and enjoyment over the years. 💞 McCartnie emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive environment for all, whether they're dressing fully or partially en femme. They conclude with thoughts on expanding such inclusive activities beyond cruises to foster community and social comfort.🌸💜 You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.comInstagram - Unlabeledlove.podcastFacebook - violet S. Lee

    28 min
  5. 005 McCartnie + Deann

    11/19/2025

    005 McCartnie + Deann

    In this episode of Unlabeled Love, McCartnie discusses her journey of accepting her husband's cross-dressing over their 40-year marriage. She gradually realized her husband's preference for women's clothing, which initially left her feeling betrayed and disappointed. Over time, boundaries were set and adjusted, ultimately leading McCartnie to accept and even join Deann in related activities.💞 The discussion highlights the importance of communication, trust, and mutual respect in maintaining a strong relationship despite unconventional dynamics. The hosts also emphasize the value of couples therapy and thoroughly analyzing the whole relationship when confronting such revelations.🌸💜 You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.comInstagram - Unlabeledlove.podcastFacebook - violet S. Lee

    36 min
  6. 004-Violet and Catrina

    10/29/2025

    004-Violet and Catrina

    In this episode of 'Unlabeled Love', Violet narrates her 30-year relationship with her partner, Catrina, highlighting the complexities of living with a crossdresser, including managing Catrina's appearances around their children and family. McCartney relates by sharing similar experiences with her partner Deanne, highlighting emotional nuances and societal perceptions. The episode offers an intimate glimpse into their lives, showcasing resilience and mutual support in their unique relationships. You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.comInstagram - Unlabeledlove.podcastFacebook - violet S. Lee

    45 min
  7. 003-Finding Belonging

    09/24/2025

    003-Finding Belonging

    In this episode of 'Unlabeled Love,' Violet and McCartney share their experiences at the Keystone Conference, focusing on their initial discomfort and gradual acceptance.  They discuss the emotional journey of supporting their crossdressing spouses, and reflect on the emotional complexities and the gradual process of becoming more comfortable in these supportive communities. You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.comInstagram - Unlabeledlove.podcastFacebook - violet S. Lee

    35 min
  8. 002-Discovery Moment

    08/27/2025

    002-Discovery Moment

    In this episode, Violet and McCartney share how they first learned their spouses were crossdressers and how their relationships evolved. You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.comInstagram - Unlabeledlove.podcastFacebook - violet S. Lee

    34 min

  9. 07/30/2025

    Episode 1 - How we started

    In this episode, Violet and McCartnie recount how they met and how they decided to start this podcast. You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.comInstagram - Unlabeledlove.podcastFacebook - violet S. Lee

    28 min
  10. Unlabeled Love - Who are we?

    TRAILER

    Unlabeled Love - Who are we?

    A short description of what Unlabeled Podcast is about. _______________

    1 min

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About

A supportive, judgment-free podcast for spouses of gender expansive people, such as crossdressers—where love meets lipstick and real talk. Through honest conversations, shared stories, and expert insights, we explore identity, connection, and acceptance with compassion, humor, and heart. You’re not alone—and every relationship deserves respect, authenticity, and a little sparkle.

Information

  • Creator
    Violet S and McCartnie Rose
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    10
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Violet S and McCartnie Rose
  • Show Website
    Unlabeled Love