Single Black Female New England

Lollie N Marcelin & Angelita Chevannes

Welcome to Single Black Female New England—a bold, unfiltered podcast that dives into the unique realities of dating and daily life as a Black women in the often-overlooked corners of the Northeastern U.S. Hosted by a witty, insightful New England native & a New England transplant, this show explores everything from the joys and frustrations of finding love in predominantly white spaces, to navigating career, community, and culture in a region known more for its foliage than its diversity. Each week, you'll hear real stories, raw conversations, and candid interviews with other Black women sharing their triumphs, challenges, and unspoken truths. Whether it’s decoding the New England dating scene, confronting subtle racism in the workplace, or celebrating small wins in snowy cities, Single Black Female New England is where lived experience meets laughter, honesty, and sisterhood. This is more than a podcast—it’s a place for reflection, representation, and real talk. New episodes drop every [Friday] — tap in, sound off, and stay unapologetically you.

  1. JAN 29

    Are you Sadistic and or Masochistic?

    Are you caught in a cycle of toxic romance or wondering why the modern dating scene feels like an emotional battlefield? In this provocative episode of Single Black Female, we’re pulling back the curtain on the darker psychological drivers behind our relationships. We dive deep into why some men and women lean into sadistic and masochistic behaviors in their dating lives—often without even realizing it. Whether it's the "thrill" of the chase or the comfort of the struggle, we explore why we sometimes crave the very things that hurt us. Inside This Episode: The Sadism & Masochism Spectrum: Breaking down how power dynamics and "pain for pleasure" manifest in casual dating and long-term commitments.The Plague of Emotional Immaturity: How a lack of emotional intelligence (EQ) leads to gaslighting, breadcrumbing, and the inability to hold space for a partner.The Trickle-Down Effect: We analyze how one "bad" dating experience creates a domino effect, influencing how we treat the next person and poisoning the overall dating pool.Healing the Cycle: Practical insights on identifying these traits early and choosing emotional maturity over chaotic chemistry."Modern dating isn't just about finding 'The One'; it’s about navigating the unhealed shadows of everyone who came before you."Why You Need to Listen: If you’ve ever felt like a "placeholder," struggled with a partner who lacks empathy, or found yourself addicted to high-conflict relationships, this episode is your wake-up call. We’re providing the dating psychology and relationship advice you need to protect your peace in 2026. Keywords: Single Black Female Podcast, Dating Psychology, Emotional Immaturity, Toxic Relationships, Dating Behavior, Relationship Dynamics, Mental Health in Dating, Black Women in Dating. Support the show Single Black Female New England

    50 min
  2. JAN 21

    Why Are They Marching?

    Are you navigating the chaotic intersection of dating and politics in the Northeast? In Season 2, Episode 2 of Single Black Female, we’re diving deep into the modern-day "bait and switch." Join us as we dissect the current political climate and its unavoidable impact on the Black dating experience in New England. From the streets to the sheets, we’re asking the hard questions: Why are they marching, and why is that energy so different from what we see on the apps? 🎙️ In This Episode, We Discuss: The Political Pulse: We break down why activism is trending and how the current sociopolitical landscape is shifting the way we vet our partners.The New England Bait & Switch: Is it just the cold weather, or are the men in Boston, Providence, and Hartford getting bolder with the "representative" they send on the first date? We expose the trend of men who present as "progressive allies" but lack the substance to back it up.Beyond the Surface: A candid conversation on superficial dating qualities. Why are we still prioritizing height and zip codes over emotional intelligence and shared values?Dating While Black in the Northeast: Navigating the unique cultural nuances and hurdles of being a single Black woman in predominantly white spaces.🗝️ Key Takeaways for Listeners: "In a world that's constantly marching for change, don't let your dating standards stay stagnant."How to spot a "political poser" early in the talking stage.Why "surface-level" attraction is failing us in a high-stakes political era.Tips for protecting your peace while dating in New England’s unique social circles.Keywords: Single Black Female, Black women dating, New England dating, dating in Boston, political dating, bait and switch, superficial dating, modern relationships, Black lifestyle podcast, dating advice 2026. Support the show Single Black Female New England

    36 min
  3. JAN 13

    Season (2 ) Ep 1 "Magic Stick Got Me Feeling A Way"

    Welcome to the Season 2 Premiere of Single Black Female New England! 🥂 We are back and diving straight into the deep end. In this episode, titled "Feel Some Way," we’re peeling back the layers on the emotional and physical dynamics that define our dating lives and our social reality in the Northeast. In This Episode, We Discuss: The "Standard" Struggle: Why do some men try to make you feel guilty for how you want to be treated? We’re breaking down the gaslighting that happens when you set a high bar for your peace and worth.The Energy Vampires: We tackle the "Negative Energy Transfer"—men who carry baggage from one woman to the next, spreading chaos instead of healing.Intimacy & Energy: A candid conversation on "picking up energy" during intimacy. How do you protect your spirit when the physical connection is high, but the vibration is low?Politics & Protection: When the law fails our communities, political differences become more than just "opinions." We discuss the reality of dating across the aisle when it relates to law enforcement and the treatment of minority communities.Connect With Us ✨ Follow us on Instagram: [Insert Link] ✨ Join the Conversation: Use the hashtag #SBFNE ✨ Subscribe for weekly episodes on the Black female experience in New England. SEO Tags & Keywords Single Black Female Podcast, Black Women in New England, Dating as a Black Woman, Relationship Standards, Energy Transfer in Dating, Spiritual Intimacy, Protect Your Energy, Black Mental Health, Dating and Politics, Law Enforcement and Minority Communities, Social Justice in Relationships, Boston Black Community, Providence Black Community, Connecticut Dating Scene, Black Girl Magic Podcast, Relationship Red Flags, Gaslighting in Dating, High Value Dating, Modern Dating Advice, Intersectionality and Relationships, Season 2 Premiere. Support the show Single Black Female New England

    49 min
  4. 12/21/2025

    Episode 14: Tubi & Chill? The Uncut Truth About Modern Dating

    Welcome back to another unfiltered episode of Single Black Female. This week, we are diving deep into the trenches of the current dating landscape, from the "low-budget" vibes of Tubi dates to the specific anatomical surprises that catch us off guard. In this episode, we’re breaking down why some men think a "Tubi and Chill" night is an acceptable first date and how to spot a "Selective Provider"—the man who uses his co-parenting responsibilities as a shield to avoid showing up for the woman he’s actually dating. Inside This Episode: Tubi & Chill vs. Netflix & Chill: We discuss the evolution of the "stay-at-home" date. Is he being frugal, or is he just giving you "low-budget" energy? We explore the red flags of a man who won't take you out of the house.The "Uncut" Conversation: Let’s talk about it! We dive into the hilarious (and sometimes shocking) moments of encountering men who aren't circumcised. From the initial surprise to the "maintenance" talk, no stone is left unturned.The Co-Parenting Cop-Out: We tackle the "Selective Provider." We love a man who takes care of his kids, but why is he using his child support payments as an excuse to never buy you a drink? We discuss the balance between being a great dad and being a present partner.Listener Q&A: We react to your wildest dating horror stories involving cheap dates and questionable excuses.Key Takeaways for the Single Black Female: How to set standards for "home dates" early on.Navigating the physical surprises of the bedroom with humor and grace.Identifying when a man is "financially unavailable" vs. just plain stingy."If he’s got money for the 'bundle' but not for the brunch, he’s not the one, sis."Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review! Follow us on social media: Instagram: @SingleBlackFemalePodYouTube: Society In Motion Channel: Single Black Female New EnglandSupport the show Single Black Female New England

    50 min
  5. 10/25/2025

    Single Black Female Podcast: Ep 11 - Black Women: An Endangered Species (Dating & Danger in 2025)

    Tune into the crucial, no-holds-barred conversation on Single Black Female Podcast, Episode 11, as we confront the uncomfortable truth: are Black women an endangered species? This episode is a deep-dive into the severe dangers for Black women around the world, covering global and domestic issues from alarming health disparities and violence to systemic neglect. We unpack the intense, often overwhelming, pressures Black women face just to exist safely and thrive. But the real talk doesn't stop there. We pivot to the complexities of the modern dating landscape, offering a raw and strategic look at cuffing season for women in 2025. Is it a true pathway to connection or a slippery slope back into toxic patterns? Learn how to navigate the pressure to couple up during the colder months while maintaining your standards and self-worth. Finally, we tackle the viral, frustrating topic of women voluntarily dating men who bring nothing to the table. Why do high-value women settle for low-effort partners, and how can we collectively raise the bar? This is essential listening for any Black woman looking to date smarter, live safer, and refuse to dim her light for a "situationship." Press play for empowerment, clarity, and the radical act of protecting your peace! 🎧 Single Black Female Podcast: Ep 11 - Black Women: An Endangered Species (Dating & Danger in 2025) Episode Title: Black Women: An Endangered Species (Dating & Danger in 2025) Episode Number: 11 Primary Keywords: Black Women Endangered SpeciesSingle Black Female PodcastDangers for Black WomenCuffing Season 2025 WomenDating Low Effort MenSecondary Keywords: Black Women SafetyBlack Women Dating CrisisHigh-Value Women SettlingSystemic Dangers Black WomenBlack Maternal Health CrisisModern Dating for Black WomenDating Standards for WomenBlack Women EmpowermentRelationships Podcast Black WomenAvoiding SituationshipsDating in 2025 AdviceBlack Women Mental HealthLong-Tail Keywords (for show notes/blog posts): Why are Black women an endangered species globallyHow to navigate cuffing season 2025 without settlingPodcast on dangers and risks for Black women worldwideBlack women dating men who bring nothing to the tableSetting high standards in dating as a Black womanUnderstanding the risks to Black women's well-being and safetyEssential self-protection tips for Black women in 2025Podcast for single Black women in their 30s/40sBreaking the cycle of dating men with no resourcesSystemic racism and dangers for Black women.Support the show Single Black Female New England

    36 min
  6. 10/17/2025

    Ep 10 Part 1: Black Women: Endangered Species

    In this powerful and essential Episode 10, we dive deep into the challenging, complex, and often painful reality for Black women in modern society. Titled "Black Women: An Endangered Species," this episode fearlessly tackles the systemic issues that make survival, not just thriving, a constant battle. We explore alarming statistics and personal narratives surrounding: Mental Health and the "Strong Black Woman" Myth: The toll of constant resilience and how to prioritize self-care in a world that demands your strength.The Dating & Marriage Crisis: Why are Black women often disproportionately left out of conventional relationship narratives, and what are the societal forces at play?Economic Vulnerability and Wellness: Discussing the wage gap, healthcare disparities, and the importance of creating financial and physical safety nets.Finding Community and Safety: Practical ways to build your tribe, protect your peace, and advocate for yourself and your sisters.This isn't a pity party—it's a necessary call to action and a moment for radical self-reflection and community building. If you are a Black woman, this conversation is your validation. If you love a Black woman, this is your required listening. Tune in for a raw, honest, and ultimately empowering dialogue that provides insight and inspiration for protecting the most valuable resource: us. Listen, share, and join the conversation: Is the Black woman truly an endangered species, and what are we going to do about it? Support the show Single Black Female New England

    14 min

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Welcome to Single Black Female New England—a bold, unfiltered podcast that dives into the unique realities of dating and daily life as a Black women in the often-overlooked corners of the Northeastern U.S. Hosted by a witty, insightful New England native & a New England transplant, this show explores everything from the joys and frustrations of finding love in predominantly white spaces, to navigating career, community, and culture in a region known more for its foliage than its diversity. Each week, you'll hear real stories, raw conversations, and candid interviews with other Black women sharing their triumphs, challenges, and unspoken truths. Whether it’s decoding the New England dating scene, confronting subtle racism in the workplace, or celebrating small wins in snowy cities, Single Black Female New England is where lived experience meets laughter, honesty, and sisterhood. This is more than a podcast—it’s a place for reflection, representation, and real talk. New episodes drop every [Friday] — tap in, sound off, and stay unapologetically you.