Actually, I Like My Spouse

Michael and Kreasha Webley
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Welcome to Actually, I Like My Spouse — the podcast for couples who believe marriage can be FUN, faith-filled, and full of friendship. We’re Kreasha and Michael Webley — 12 years together, 7 years married, and still crushing on each other. Each week, we share honest, funny, and sometimes spicy conversations that keep us connected and thriving — and we’ll help you do the same. Whether you’re newly engaged, years into love, or working to bring the spark back, you’ll find practical tools, real talk, and plenty of laughs to help your relationship feel lighter, closer, and built to last.

Episodes

  1. 09/22/2025

    Love It or Leave It: Relationship Hot Takes

    Download our FREE 5-minute Weekly Marriage Scorecard for you and your spouse to check in on your relationship! This is a GAMECHANGER! In this episode of 'Actually, I Like My Spouse,' we dive into our weekly segment called 'Love It or Leave It,' where we discuss some of the hottest relationship takes from the internet. We tackle topics like the importance of weekly date nights, whether to go to bed angry, if your partner should be your best friend, and the famous saying 'Happy Wife, Happy Life.' We also talk about the necessity of separate bank accounts, the benefits of therapy for couples, sharing phone passwords, and setting realistic boundaries in relationships. Join us as we share our perspectives and insights! 00:00 Introduction to 'Love It or Leave It' 00:41 Date Nights: Weekly Ritual or Unrealistic Pressure? 02:47 Never Go to Bed Angry: Toxic Positivity or Peace Practice? 04:50 Should Your Partner Be Your Best Friend? 06:56 Happy Wife, Happy Life: Wisdom or Low Effort? 08:38 Separate Bank Accounts: Financial Independence or Division? 10:18 Couples Therapy: Preventative or Overkill? 12:28 Knowing Each Other's Phone Passwords: Trust or Control? 13:30 Can Your Partner Be Your Everything? 14:30 Should You Have to Ask for What You Need? 15:15 Conclusion and Podcast Promotion

    16 min

  2. 09/15/2025

    Your Spouse Is NOT The Enemy!

    Join the community where we send out a newsletter made for couples like you to dive deep into your partnership bringing fun, faith, and friendship back to LOVE. https://ailms.myflodesk.com/whystartailms  
It’s not a fight against each other, it’s fight against the problem. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:41 Technical Difficulties and Reshoot 02:33 Emotional Impact of Reshooting 04:40 Navigating Personal Challenges 06:07 Commitment and Authenticity 07:13 Love, Heal, Inspire 11:11 Your Spouse Is Not The Enemy 12:22 A Little Bit About A Lot with Big Daddy Mike 12:36 The History of Black Television 17:07 Why We Sometimes Feel Like Our Spouse Is The Enemy 28:47 Emotional Hijacking and The Real Enemy 34:02 Ego and Individuality in Modern Marriages 35:27 Core Values and Communication 35:58 Invisible Labor and Relationship Dynamics 37:56 Resentment and Stonewalling 47:22 Trusting in God's Plan 49:42 Shifting Mindsets and Conflict Resolution 01:02:40 The Importance of Friendship in Marriage 01:06:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Discover the truth about your marriage and learn how to strengthen your relationship by shifting your perspective. In this video, we explore the common misconception that our spouse is the enemy, and how this mindset can harm our marriage. By recognizing that our partner is not the adversary, we can work together to build a stronger, more loving relationship. Learn how to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and nurture a deeper connection with your spouse. If you're looking for a more harmonious and fulfilling marriage, this video is for you. Watch now and start building a stronger, happier relationship with your partner.  #relationshipadvice #marriageadvice #marriagegoals #marriagelife #marriedlife #healthymarriage #happiermarriage #healthyconflict #psychology

    1h 7m

  3. 09/08/2025

    Is Your Marriage Relationship Goals? Redefining Relationship Goals: Beyond the Instagram Image

    Join the community where we send out a newsletter made for couples like you to dive deep into your partnership bringing fun, faith, and friendship back to LOVE. Quentin Tarantino Clip Referenced 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Goals 00:17 Welcome Back and Personal Updates 01:12 Defining Relationship Goals 01:30 The Great Lock In and Marriage Goals 03:49 Individualism in Marriage 04:31 Reflecting on Personal Goals 05:51 Supporting Each Other's Goals 08:46 Quentin Tarantino's Life-Changing Reflection 11:27 Role-Playing Exercise for Goal Setting 14:07 Career Reflections and Lessons Learned 24:43 Struggles in Medical School 25:03 Discovering Fashion Merchandising 26:18 Transition to Fashion Blogging 27:11 Chasing Money in Tech 28:40 Entrepreneurial Lessons Learned 33:50 Revisiting Dreams and Goals 41:32 Setting Realistic Goals for Couples 43:31 Encouragement for Couples and Individuals 47:51 Conclusion and Future Plans

    48 min

  4. 08/25/2025

    The #1 Reason Your Marriage feels SO Hard!

    Leave a comment we want to hear from yall! Ask Advice, Submit Your Marriage Story, Drop Us a Line Find what type of marriage you have? Do the Weekly Scorecard with your Spouse 00:00 Introduction: Why Marriage Feels Hard 00:27 The Real Problem: It's You 00:48 Internal Baggage and Its Impact 03:40 The Journey Back Home: Self-Love, Self-Worth, and Self-Forgiveness 05:20 Self-Love: The Foundation of a Healthy Marriage 21:31 Self-Worth: Believing You Are Enough 22:20 Cultural Expectations and Self-Worth 23:04 Personal Journey to Self-Worth 23:34 The Role of Worthiness in Relationships 25:58 Navigating Worthiness in Marriage 33:39 The Power of Self-Forgiveness 46:00 Building a Supportive Community#marriageadvice #marriagepodcast #stonewalling #selflove #selfimprovement #selfforgiveness #yourmarriage #howtostaymarried #conflictresolution #marriageishard

    47 min

  5. 08/18/2025

    Exploring Better Communication and Unmet Expectations in Marriage EPS 3

    FREE Marriage Scorecard https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse Welcome back to 'Actually, I Like My Spouse!' In this episode, Michael and Kreasha Webley dive deep into the foundation of a great marriage and whether marriage lives up to the hype. We discuss the importance of fun, faith, and friendship in a relationship, share personal stories from our journey, and offer tips on handling unmet expectations within a marriage. We also explore the concept of invisible labor, the significance of communication, and the need for setting realistic expectations. Plus, don't miss out on our 'Actually I Like My Spouse Weekly Scorecard' to help you and your partner improve your relationship. Join us for an insightful and candid conversation on love, marriage, and everything in between! 00:00 Welcome Back to 'I Like My Spouse' 00:44 Launching Our Podcast: Reflections and Feelings 03:49 Does Marriage Live Up to the Hype? 09:12 Expectations vs. Reality in Marriage 22:27 The Role of Faith and Friendship in Marriage 25:38 Understanding Contempt in Relationships 26:40 Unspoken Expectations and Communication 27:19 Using 'I' Statements to Improve Communication 28:54 Silent Score Keeping in Relationships 30:27 Addressing Unmet Expectations Around Intimacy 31:12 The Importance of Setting the Stage for Conversations 35:39 Unacknowledged Invisible Labor 38:57 The Role of Communication in Managing Expectations 43:02 Baseline Expectations in Partnerships 47:19 Weekly Scorecard Challenge#marraigecouple #marriageadvice #communicationinmarriage #silenttreatment #communicationskills

    50 min

  6. 08/11/2025

    6 Ways to Increase Intimacy In Your Marriage EPISODE 2

    Marriage Resources: https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse In this episode, we dive deep into maintaining intimacy in long-term monogamous relationships. We discuss the importance of flirting, both inside and outside of your relationship, and address how playful interactions can reignite desire between partners. We also share practical tips on creating a more intimate environment and discuss ways to maintain mystery and exploration in your relationship. Listen as we recount personal anecdotes, present intriguing research, and offer actionable advice for couples seeking to keep their fire burning bright. 00:00 Introduction to Rekindling Intimacy 00:25 Welcome Back: Episode Two 01:27 Special K's Segment: A Little About A Lot 02:15 Psychoactives and Personal Experiences 04:58 The Ayahuasca Journey and Bad Trips 08:45 Meditation and Self-Discovery 10:47 Flirting in Long-Term Relationships 27:04 Emotional Affairs vs. Flirtation 27:28 Flirting Within Relationships 28:44 Three Flirtatious Tips for Women 30:55 Three Flirtatious Tips for Men 41:58 The Importance of Mystery in Relationships 46:07 Spicing Up Long-Term Relationships 50:11 Intimacy Challenges and Communication 53:35 Conclusion and Viewer Engagement

    56 min

  7. 08/06/2025

    Do You Even Like Your Partner? What's the difference between Love and Like? AILMS Episode 1

    Join the Married Squad over at https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse Hey loves! It's The Webley's, Kreasha and Michael here, welcoming you to 'Actually, I Like My Spouse' podcast. We believe a great marriage is rooted in fun, anchored in faith, and fueled by friendship. Join us in our living room as we dive deep into the essence of love and like in long-term partnerships. We explore how having meaningful conversations can be an anchor in marriage and discuss the importance of feeling safe with your partner to share differing opinions. We'll also touch on how our relationships evolve and the necessity of being curious about the new versions of each other. Get ready for real talk on the difference between love and like, maintaining attraction, and re-learning your partner. Don't forget to take our 'Actually I Like My Spouse' quiz to get personalized tips. https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse Tune in every Wednesday for more insights and connection. Let's grow together! 00:00 Welcome to the Podcast 00:51 Setting the Scene: Our Home Studio 01:18 The Importance of Conversations in Marriage 02:43 Friendship as the Foundation of Relationships 03:21 Generational Perspectives on Relationships 06:33 Introducing Today's Topic: Like vs. Love 08:31 A Little About a Lot with Special K 11:26 Personal Reflections on Self-Love and Partnership 15:05 Early Stages of Love and Like 23:53 Navigating Expectations in Relationships 26:16 The Significance of Liking Your Partner 27:56 Foundations of a Strong Relationship 28:38 The Importance of Liking Your Partner 30:53 Rekindling Friendships and Partnerships 34:00 Adapting to Changes in Relationships 37:20 Maintaining Attraction Over Time 46:42 Growing Together Through Life's Seasons 51:50 Challenge of the Week and Final Thoughts

    55 min

  8. TRAILER

    Introducing the 'Actually, I Like My Spouse' The Couples Podcast

    Launching August 6th! In the prelaunch Episode 0 of the 'Actually, I Like My Spouse,' Podcast hosts Michael and Kreasha Webley discuss their motivations for starting a podcast centered around sharing their positive and fulfilling marriage experiences. Feeling called by God and reflecting on their 12 years together, they aim to counter the dominant narrative that marriage is difficult and uninspiring. They highlight the importance of maintaining love and connection in marriage, sharing their journey in real-time to inspire and relate with others. Hey family, Subscribe, rate & review, lets go a bit deeper. We've got free weekly Spark Scorecards, a quiz to discover your marriage archetype, and a way to share your love story with us live on the podcast. Click Here 00:00 Introduction to Our Podcast 00:09 Why We Started This Podcast 00:54 The Blessing of Marriage 01:27 Changing the Narrative on Marriage 01:53 Staying in Love 02:55 Our Journey and Invitation 03:14 Authenticity in Sharing

    4 min

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Ratings & Reviews

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About

Welcome to Actually, I Like My Spouse — the podcast for couples who believe marriage can be FUN, faith-filled, and full of friendship. We’re Kreasha and Michael Webley — 12 years together, 7 years married, and still crushing on each other. Each week, we share honest, funny, and sometimes spicy conversations that keep us connected and thriving — and we’ll help you do the same. Whether you’re newly engaged, years into love, or working to bring the spark back, you’ll find practical tools, real talk, and plenty of laughs to help your relationship feel lighter, closer, and built to last.

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  • Creator
    Michael and Kreasha Webley
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Michael and Kreasha Webley
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