Loudmouth Lab

Kelli Preston

Loudmouth Lab is a podcast for women who’ve spent decades being digestible—and are finally ready to remove the muzzle they didn’t even know they were wearing. Hosted by brand designer, neurosomatic-trained coach, and color lover Kelli Preston, this podcast explores personal branding, self-expression, identity, and visibility in the age of AI—where “authenticity” is overused and the need to be seen safely is rarely addressed. These are unfiltered conversations about becoming, building a brand with a pulse, and showing up as yourself without forcing confidence your body doesn’t feel yet.

  1. JAN 29

    The Cost of Being “Not Political”

    Send us a text Recorded on Monday, January 26, 2026, Kelli hits pause on her planned topic to process what she describes as another devastating, politically-charged weekend in the U.S. — and the disorienting, nervous-system-whiplash experience of seeing something unfold online before it’s widely reported. She talks about the specific kind of mindf*ck that happens when: You witness something that feels horrifying and unreal,The first headlines don’t match what you saw,And you start doing that classic Type C / people-pleaser spiral: “Am I overreacting? Am I being dramatic? Am I the crazy one?”At the center of this episode is a call to stop letting silence gaslight you into self-doubt. Kelli unpacks how “staying out of politics” can feel safer in the moment—especially for women who were trained to be palatable to survive—but also how that perceived safety can become a very real danger when nobody says anything, to anyone, anywhere. This isn’t a neat little bow episode. It’s a real-time processing session about fear, denial, people-pleasing, and choosing to tell the truth anyway. In this episode, Kelli covers: Why not acknowledging “recent events” can feel weird and wrongThe psychological spiral of disbelief when you see something shocking first-hand (or first-scroll)How silence makes you doubt your own perception—and why that benefits systems in powerThe “I’m not political” identity… and why that stops working when values are on the lineThe inner conflict of wanting to speak up without sounding ignorant, divisive, or “too much”How people-pleasing and fawning show up in business and in civic lifeA simple starting point: tell the truth about where you are (even if you feel late, shaky, or scared)Ways to take action: community conversations, donating, learning, and supporting values-led businessesResources mentioned (as Kelli references them): Women’s March trainings/resources (including guidance for community response and observing).  Donating to support MinnesotaBeing more intentional about where your dollars go (especially women-led / artisanal / values-aligned businesses)Thanks for tuning into this episode of Loudmouth Lab (formerly Kelli Was Here). If you made it this far, bless your brave little ears. If this episode lit something up and you’re thinking, “well, shit… my digital presence is absolutely not keeping up with my actual taste,” come visit me at www.loudmouthlab.com That’s where you’ll find the ways to work with me—Squarespace website design, messaging, and color palette curation—that is ANYTHING BUT BASIC. Because, fellow loudmouth, sensible is not your style—and it's never too late to become yourself. Muah - K

    20 min
  2. JAN 23

    Flaky or Free? The Shame We Carry About Changing Our Minds

    Send us a text We live in a culture that treats consistency like a virtue—and change like a red flag. Stay in the marriage. Stay in the career. Stay in the identity. Stay “on brand.” And if you want to pivot? Suddenly you’re “flaky,” “unreliable,” or “can’t commit.” In this episode, I unpack the real issue underneath pivot shame: the fear of being perceived as inconsistent can trigger a freeze/rumination loop that keeps you stuck behind the scenes—half-committing, overthinking, and slowly eroding self-trust. Then we bring it into business: if you’re neurodivergent (or just exhausted from forcing your brain into someone else’s model), you may not need more motivation—you may need more parameters. Guardrails. A.K.A structure that supports consistency without requiring you to become a different person. In this episode, we cover: Why we moralize consistency—and why change can feel like a “character flaw.”The pivot shame spiral: fear → freeze → under-commitment → self-trust erosionWhy “trying not to look flaky” can create the very inconsistency you fearNeurodivergence, novelty, and the pressure to appear stableHow to design offers around the way your brain actually worksThe case for guardrails: a structure that reduces decision fatigue and follow-through frictionThe question to ask before you pivot your brand, offers, or business model Thanks for tuning into this episode of Loudmouth Lab (formerly Kelli Was Here). If you made it this far, bless your brave little ears. If this episode lit something up and you’re thinking, “well, shit… my digital presence is absolutely not keeping up with my actual taste,” come visit me at www.loudmouthlab.com That’s where you’ll find the ways to work with me—Squarespace website design, messaging, and color palette curation—that is ANYTHING BUT BASIC. Because, fellow loudmouth, sensible is not your style—and it's never too late to become yourself. Muah - K

    27 min
  3. JAN 8

    The Rebrand I Didn’t Plan: From Kelli Was Here to Loudmouth Lab

    Send us a text In this first episode of 2026, I’m pulling back the curtain on a decision I didn’t expect to make—but couldn’t ignore: renaming my business to Loudmouth Lab. This isn’t a shiny rebrand or a dramatic pivot for clicks. It’s a real-time conversation about identity, nervous-system-led branding, and what happens when your work gets clearer than the container you built it in. I talk about the fear of looking flaky, why most branding advice assumes you already know who you are and feel safe enough to be seen, and how that gap quietly sabotages otherwise “solid” strategies. We get into why the nervous system is actually the nucleus of personal branding, how Loudmouth Lab is structured (LiveWire Lab, Leverage Lab, Language Lab, and Look Lab), and why regulation has to come before positioning, pricing, or visibility. If you’ve been biting your tongue, second-guessing your message, or building a business from your wounds instead of your wisdom—this episode will give you language, permission, and maybe a little relief. And yes, I also talk through the very real logistics: changing a business name, potentially renaming the podcast, choosing Squarespace over Showit, and what it looks like to let clarity lead instead of fear. This one’s messy, honest, and very on-brand for 2026. Thanks for tuning into this episode of Loudmouth Lab (formerly Kelli Was Here). If you made it this far, bless your brave little ears. If this episode lit something up and you’re thinking, “well, shit… my digital presence is absolutely not keeping up with my actual taste,” come visit me at www.loudmouthlab.com That’s where you’ll find the ways to work with me—Squarespace website design, messaging, and color palette curation—that is ANYTHING BUT BASIC. Because, fellow loudmouth, sensible is not your style—and it's never too late to become yourself. Muah - K

    24 min
  4. 12/19/2025

    Why Nobody Talks About the One Thing That Makes Branding Feel Impossible

    Send us a text This episode dives deep into neuroaesthetics, nervous-system-informed branding, and why traditional branding advice fails women who don’t feel safe enough to be seen yet. If you’ve ever felt frozen when it comes to posting, second-guessed your message into oblivion, or burned out after “putting yourself out there,” this conversation will land. Spoiler: this isn’t about fonts, funnels, or finding the “perfect” brand colors.  It’s about capacity before clarity—and why creativity itself can be regulating, healing, and wildly clarifying. In this episode, we explore: Why traditional branding assumes you know who you are and feel safe enough to be visible (and why that’s a terrible assumption)How neuroaesthetics shows that both making and experiencing art supports nervous system healthWhy creativity improves higher-order thinking, emotional processing, and resilienceThe connection between Type C personalities, people-pleasing, freeze responses, and burnoutWhy so many women feel paralyzed when it comes to marketing—even when they’re talented and experiencedHow suppressed self-expression shows up as exhaustion, inflammation, and disconnectionWhy branding can be an act of self-expression, self-trust, and self-reclamationHow nervous-system capacity unlocks creativity, intuition, and consistent visibilityWhat inspired the creation of Loudmouth Lab and why it’s not “just another branding program”Key themes & concepts mentioned: Neuroaesthetics & art as regulationNervous system safety vs. mindset workLimbic brain, survival responses & creativityVestibular, proprioceptive & interoceptive systemsType C personality traitsBurnout, freeze responses & visibility fearBranding as biology, not just businessSelf-expression as a healing practiceCurious about Loudmouth Lab? Loudmouth Lab is a nervous-system-informed branding experience for women who are done biting their tongues and ready to build brands that are so much more than a presence; they carry a pulse.  The waitlist is where: Founding spots open firstFounding-rate pricing livesEarly bonuses drop (the good kind)If building a brand that’s impossible to ignore is on your 2026 vision board, this is your invitation. 👉 Join the waitlist Thanks for tuning into this episode of Loudmouth Lab (formerly Kelli Was Here). If you made it this far, bless your brave little ears. If this episode lit something up and you’re thinking, “well, shit… my digital presence is absolutely not keeping up with my actual taste,” come visit me at www.loudmouthlab.com That’s where you’ll find the ways to work with me—Squarespace website design, messaging, and color palette curation—that is ANYTHING BUT BASIC. Because, fellow loudmouth, sensible is not your style—and it's never too late to become yourself. Muah - K

    22 min
  5. 12/11/2025

    Why 80% of Autoimmune Diseases Happen to Women: The Type C Pattern No One Talks About

    Send us a text What do autoimmune disease, burnout, breast cancer, chronic pain, anxiety, and your BRAND have in common? More than any of us were ever taught. In this week’s episode, I share the revelation that blew the doors off my decade-long struggle to reconcile my love of personal development with my obsession for creativity, aesthetics, and branding. Spoiler alert: these worlds were never meant to be separate — and the thread that ties them together is something called the Type C Personality. According to research in neuroscience, psychosomatic medicine, and the work of Gabor Maté, the Type C personality describes women who spend their entire lives self-silencing, people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, and reading the room before they ever read themselves. And here’s where it gets wild: 80% of autoimmune diagnoses are womenType C emotional patterns show up again and again in chronic illness, including Hashimoto’s, breast cancer, fibromyalgia, migraines, and chronic fatigueThese same patterns shape how you show up, speak up, create, dress, and yes… how you brand your businessThis episode weaves together my personal story — including both of my sisters being diagnosed with breast cancer while testing negative for the BRCA gene — with the deep, uncomfortable truth that so many of us were conditioned to prioritize attachment over authenticity. What we learned to silence in childhood becomes what we struggle to express in adulthood, and your nervous system does not forget. I also break down how: Your nervous system influences your creativity and capacityBranding becomes a modality for healing, not just marketingArt, aesthetics, and self-expression regulate your body (hi, neuroaesthetics)Your website, your wardrobe, and your voice are reflections of your internal safety If you’ve ever felt muted, flat, palatable, “professional,” or disconnected online…  If your website feels like a costume and not a mirror… This episode will make everything make sense. And it might just explain why so many brilliant women feel burned out, stuck, or invisible — and what actually creates the capacity to change it. 🔗 CALL-OUT LINKS  Loudmouth Lab Waitlist The Myth of Normal — Gabor Maté   ACE Score Test (Adverse Childhood Experiences Questionnaire)   Thanks for tuning into this episode of Loudmouth Lab (formerly Kelli Was Here). If you made it this far, bless your brave little ears. If this episode lit something up and you’re thinking, “well, shit… my digital presence is absolutely not keeping up with my actual taste,” come visit me at www.loudmouthlab.com That’s where you’ll find the ways to work with me—Squarespace website design, messaging, and color palette curation—that is ANYTHING BUT BASIC. Because, fellow loudmouth, sensible is not your style—and it's never too late to become yourself. Muah - K

    28 min
  6. 12/05/2025

    Great Marriage, Cute Kids, Dream House… So Why Did I Feel Nothing?

    Send us a text This week, we’re talking about the phrase that’s been rattling around in my brain—and apparently yours, too: “I feel dead inside.” Yep. We’re going there. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL HEAR ABOUT:Why “having it all” can still feel emptyHow motherhood, marriage, and midlife shape (and sometimes silence) identityWhy unmet needs turn into emotional numbnessThe liberation of admitting what you don’t likeWhy saying “I hate that” may save your lifeHow authenticity begins with tiny acts of telling the truthWhy this reclamation is the birthplace of a potent brandAnd yes—this ties directly into branding, because a brand without self-expression eventually flatlines. When you don’t know what you like, what you want, or who you are, you create something that photographs well but lands hollow. (Ask me how I know.) If you're ready to resurrect the parts of you you've quietly buried, slap in your AirPods.  Thanks for tuning into this episode of Loudmouth Lab (formerly Kelli Was Here). If you made it this far, bless your brave little ears. If this episode lit something up and you’re thinking, “well, shit… my digital presence is absolutely not keeping up with my actual taste,” come visit me at www.loudmouthlab.com That’s where you’ll find the ways to work with me—Squarespace website design, messaging, and color palette curation—that is ANYTHING BUT BASIC. Because, fellow loudmouth, sensible is not your style—and it's never too late to become yourself. Muah - K

    18 min
  7. 11/19/2025

    Why Your “I Help X Do Y” Copy Isn’t Working Anymore How to write website + Instagram copy that actually connects in 2025

    Send us a text If your hero headline still sounds like: “I help X do Y so they can Z…”…this episode is your loving intervention. In this week’s episode, Kelli breaks down how the job of your copy has completely changed—and why the formulas that used to work (even just a couple years ago) are now falling flat in a noisy, AI-saturated, scroll-happy internet.  You’ll learn why copy can’t just make your reader understand what you do anymore—it has to help them understand why they feel the way they do. We’re talking quiet-part-out-loud truth-telling, shared humanity, and language that makes your ideal client think: “Oh my god, that’s exactly what I’ve been feeling but didn’t know how to say.” Kelli walks you through a simple way to turn your hero section (or any hook) into a tiny emotional gut punch—in the best way possible. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why copy 1.0 (a.k.a. “I help X so they can Y”) is no longer enough, and how the role of your hero headline has evolved from “Is this the right place?” to “Wow, she gets me.” The new job of your copy in 2025How to write words that feel like a tiny dose of healingThe three raw ingredients of a potent hero lineWhy generic AI-generated copy is numbing your audience and how to use tools like ChatGPT well—to excavate truth, not churn out more “Pinterest prose” and “motivational mush.” What “truth as currency” means for your brand Mentions & Links The Hero Headline Kit– Kelli’s AI bestie trained on brand strategy + truth-telling prompts to help you write copy people actually feel. Get access via the opt-in linked in the show notes. Uncensor Session (90-minute 1:1) – Remove the muzzle from your message: we uncover what you’re not saying, create safety around it, and turn it into what truly sets you apart.Loudmouth Lab Waitlist  (6-month group lab) – For ungovernable women ready to say the quiet parts out loud and build brands with a pulse, not just a presence.  Book Mentioned: The Way of Integrity by Martha Beck – on truth, wholeness, and what it really means to live in alignment with yourself. Thanks for tuning into this episode of Loudmouth Lab (formerly Kelli Was Here). If you made it this far, bless your brave little ears. If this episode lit something up and you’re thinking, “well, shit… my digital presence is absolutely not keeping up with my actual taste,” come visit me at www.loudmouthlab.com That’s where you’ll find the ways to work with me—Squarespace website design, messaging, and color palette curation—that is ANYTHING BUT BASIC. Because, fellow loudmouth, sensible is not your style—and it's never too late to become yourself. Muah - K

    14 min
  8. 11/14/2025

    Your most potent brand story is probably the one you’re most ashamed of. Here’s how to handle that without combusting.

    Send us a text If the thing that would make your brand unforgettable is the thing you’re most afraid to say… You don’t have a messaging issue; you have a nervous system at capacity. In this episode, I break down why your body reacts the way it does when you go to post, pitch, or “be authentic” online—and how to work with your system instead of shaming yourself into silence.  We’ll unpack how shame shows up as procrastination, over-editing, people-pleasing, and total shutdown—and why that doesn’t mean you’re flaky or broken. It means your internal “threat bucket” is overflowing. I walk you through the NSI (NeuroSomatic) lens of input → interpretation → output, and how that explains everything from ghosting your own launch to going blank on Instagram Live.  I also share the story of a client whose most “unforgivable” moment—cheating on her ex-husband—ended up being the exact pivot point of her coaching work. The same story her nervous system was desperate to hide was the story that held her true edge and most potent positioning. Once we worked with her nervous system and the shame in her body, her articulation, confidence, and clarity finally caught up with the depth of her work.  If you’ve ever known you have something to say but freeze the second you try to say it out loud, this episode will help you see that authenticity isn’t a personality trait—it’s a capacity you can build. And that capacity is what turns a “nice brand” into one that’s impossible to ignore for the people who are already looking for you.  In this episode, we get into: Why “just be authentic” is low-key cruel if your body thinks authenticity = exileWhat your nervous system actually is in plain language (no woo, just your operating system)The NSI model of input → interpretation → output, and how it shows up in your brandingThe “threat bucket” concept and why you lose access to your best ideas when it’s fullHow shame acts as a protective strategy (not proof that you’re a terrible human)Real-life examples of nervous-system outputs: procrastinating, over-editing, sounding like Pinterest prose, going blank when someone asks what you doWhy your edge—the thing that sets your brand apart—is usually the truth you’re most afraid to saySimple ways nervous system tools can make visibility feel safer (and eventually, even fun)Thanks for tuning into this episode of Loudmouth Lab (formerly Kelli Was Here). If you made it this far, bless your brave little ears. If this episode lit something up and you’re thinking, “well, shit… my digital presence is absolutely not keeping up with my actual taste,” come visit me at www.loudmouthlab.com That’s where you’ll find the ways to work with me—Squarespace website design, messaging, and color palette curation—that is ANYTHING BUT BASIC. Because, fellow loudmouth, sensible is not your style—and it's never too late to become yourself. Muah - K

    16 min

About

Loudmouth Lab is a podcast for women who’ve spent decades being digestible—and are finally ready to remove the muzzle they didn’t even know they were wearing. Hosted by brand designer, neurosomatic-trained coach, and color lover Kelli Preston, this podcast explores personal branding, self-expression, identity, and visibility in the age of AI—where “authenticity” is overused and the need to be seen safely is rarely addressed. These are unfiltered conversations about becoming, building a brand with a pulse, and showing up as yourself without forcing confidence your body doesn’t feel yet.