Alongsider Church

Alongsider Church

Alongsider Church is a community following Jesus together and helping others do the same. These messages are designed to help you know God, grow in your faith, and live on mission—from neighborhoods to nations.

  1. Jun 23

    The Conversation that Changes Everything: Doing Prayer - Jeff Jewett

    Prayer is more than asking God for things. Prayer moves us into a deeper relationship with God. In this message, we explore three directions of prayer: upward, inward, and outward. Through praise, we learn to fix our eyes on God's glory. Through confession, we experience God's grace. Through dependence, we join God in His work and learn to trust His timing. Along the way, we'll discover that prayer is not a technique to master, but a relationship to deepen. We'll also wrestle with unanswered prayers, learn from Jesus' prayer in Gethsemane, and be reminded that because of Jesus, we can come to God with confidence. Scripture. Psalm 150:1-6 Praise the LORD! Praise God in his sanctuary; praise him in his mighty heavens! Praise him for his mighty deeds; praise him according to his excellent greatness! Praise him with trumpet sound; praise him with lute and harp! Praise him with tambourine and dance; praise him with strings and pipe! Praise him with sounding cymbals; praise him with loud clashing cymbals! Let everything that has breath praise the LORD! Praise the LORD! Romans 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. James 5:16 The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. Outline. Main Idea: Prayer moves us into a deeper relationship with God. 1. Praising His Glory – Upward Prayer The prayer of awe • Praise God for who He is. • Learn to love God above all else. • Turn everyday joys into opportunities for praise. 2. Finding His Grace – Inward Prayer The prayer of intimacy • Come honestly before God. • Confess your sins. • Receive the grace and forgiveness found in Jesus. 3. Asking His Help – Outward Prayer The prayer of dependence • Join God in His work. • Align your heart with His will. • Keep asking, complaining, and waiting. 4. Jesus' Unanswered Prayer • Jesus understands our unanswered prayers. • Jesus received the rejection we deserved so we could receive the welcome He deserved. • Because of Jesus, we can pray with confidence. This Week's Challenge Practice one prayer in each direction every day: Upward: One sentence of praise. Inward: One confession. Outward: One prayer for someone else. One praise. One confession. One prayer for someone else. Questions. Kids: If prayer is like rowing a boat, who is someone you want to invite into the boat and pray for this week? Warm-up: When you were a kid, what did you have absolutely no patience for waiting on? Which direction of prayer comes most naturally to you right now: upward (praise), inward (confession), or outward (asking for help)? Which one is most difficult? We talked about how we often love good things more than we should. What is one thing in your life that is competing with God for first place in your heart? Why do you think many people find confession difficult? How does remembering that "there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus" change the way we approach God? Which type of outward prayer do you find yourself needing most right now: asking, complaining (lament), or waiting? Why? Is there a prayer you have been waiting a long time for God to answer? How has that waiting season shaped your faith? The sermon challenged us to practice one prayer in each direction every day. What would help you build a more consistent rhythm of prayer this week? Neighborhoods to Nations. Who is God inviting you to notice, pray for, or engage? What’s your next step? What is one need in our world that we can begin praying for together this week?

    28 min
  2. Jun 7

    The Conv ersation that Changes Everything: Deepening Prayer - Joe Gregory

    Many of us know far more about God than we experience of Him. In this sermon, we explore the gap between head knowledge and heart affection, and how God uses Scripture meditation and prayer to draw us into a deeper relationship with Him. Join us as we learn what it means to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge. Main Idea. Prayer deepens when the truths we know about God move from our heads into our hearts. Outline. 1. The Problem: There Is a Gap Between Our Heads and Our Hearts We often know what is true but desire something else. God wants more than information; He wants transformation. 2. God's Design: Love Him With Mind and Heart God created us to think deeply and desire rightly. True devotion involves both understanding God and delighting in Him. Matthew 22:37 3. God's Grace: He Changes Our Hearts Sin turns our hearts inward toward ourselves. Through Christ, God gives us new hearts that can truly love Him. Ephesians 3:14-21 4. The Practice: Meditation and Prayer Deepen Our Love for God Meditation moves truth from our heads to our hearts. Prayer makes God's truth personal. Psalm 1 and Psalm 63 Questions. Where do you currently see a gap between what you know is true about God and what your heart actually longs for or trusts in? What has most captured your attention, affection, or energy lately? What does that reveal about where your heart is currently focused? Are there truths about God that you know intellectually but have not fully experienced or embraced in your heart? Why do you think that is? When was a time that Scripture and prayer moved beyond routine and became personally meaningful to you? What contributed to that experience? Neighborhoods to Nations. How might sharing our genuine love for Christ and our personal relationship with Him be more compelling to our neighbors than simply sharing information about Christianity? What opportunities has God placed around you to demonstrate and speak about that relationship?

    20 min
  3. May 3

    Prayer: The Conversation that Changes Everything - Understanding Prayer - Jeff Jewett

    What is prayer, and how do we actually experience God through it? In this message, we explore how prayer is our response to a conversation God has already started through His Word and through Jesus. As we learn to listen, prayer moves from simply saying words… to truly encountering God. Because of Jesus, we don’t just believe in God; we belong to Him. Bottom line: Conversation with God leads to an encounter with God. Scripture. Ephesians 2:16-18 Romans 8:26-28 Galatians 4:6-8 Outline. Key Idea: Prayer is responding to God’s voice, conversing with Him through His Word, and encountering Him personally. 1. What is Prayer? • Prayer is a response to the knowledge of God • God always initiates—we respond • More than instinct → a personal relationship Definition: Prayer is continuing the conversation God has already started through His Word and His grace 2. Conversing with God Meeting a personal God through His Word • God speaks through Scripture—His Word is living and active • We don’t start the conversation → we respond • Prayer flows from listening, reflecting, and responding What this looks like: • Asking for understanding • Surrendering our hearts • Worship, confession, requests, silence • Honest, real communication (like the Psalms) Key truth: The clearer we see God in Scripture, the more our prayers reflect reality 3. Encountering God Prayer moves from conversation → encounter Who God is: • Triune: Father, Son, Holy Spirit • A God of perfect relationship and love What He invites us into: • God as our Father • We belong to Him through Christ • The Spirit leads and helps us pray How this works: • Through Jesus (our mediator) • By the Spirit (who helps us pray) • To the Father (who loves us) Result: • Not just asking for things → knowing God • Growing desire for Him, not just what He gives The Cost of Prayer • Jesus was forsaken so we could be accepted • Through His sacrifice, God becomes our Father • Prayer is possible because of the cross Bottom Line: Conversation with God leads to an encounter with God Questions. Kids: Since God is like a loving Father, what would you want to talk to Him about today? (You can draw it or say it!) Warm-up: Growing up, how affectionate were your parents? How would you define prayer before this message, and how has that definition changed? What keeps you from having an honest, ongoing conversation with God? (Distraction, doubt, busyness, feeling unworthy, not knowing what to say, etc.) What’s one step you can take toward overcoming that obstacle? The message described prayer as a response to a relationship God has already initiated. How does seeing God as Father (not just God) change the way you approach Him? When have you experienced prayer moving from just talking to actually encountering God? What was different in that moment? Jesus was forsaken so we could be brought near. How does understanding the cost of prayer shape your desire or confidence to pray? What is one simple, practical step you can take this week to grow in prayer? (Set a time, use Scripture, listen before speaking, journal, etc.) Neighborhoods to Nations. Who is one person in your life right now who might need prayer or an invitation into a relationship with God? What would it look like to pray for them consistently this week and take one step toward them, including inviting them to church with you? Prayer Prompt. Father, thank You for inviting me into a real relationship through Jesus. Teach me to talk with You, help me experience You, and shape my life through prayer.

    24 min
  4. Apr 19

    Prayer: The Conversation that Changes Everything - Desiring Prayer - Jeff Jewett

    Prayer is something most of us have done, but many of us struggle with. In this message, we explore why prayer can feel difficult and how God invites us into something simple and real. Through Scripture, we see that prayer isn’t about saying the right words—it’s about knowing God as our Father. If prayer has ever felt confusing, distant, or hard, this message will help you take a simple next step. Prayer isn’t something we add to life. It’s how we live with God. SCRIPTURE. Romans 8:14-16, Ephesians 1:15-19 OUTLINE. 1. Prayer Feels Familiar… But Can Be Confusing • We’ve heard prayers • We’ve said prayers • But we’re not always sure what we’re doing Key Idea: Prayer isn’t something we add to life—it’s how we live with God. 2. We Pray as God’s Children (Romans 8:15–16) • We are not strangers—we are sons and daughters • We cry, “Abba, Father” Key Idea: Prayer starts with relationship, not performance. 3. We Pray to Know God (Ephesians 1:15–19) • Paul’s prayer: that we would know God better • Not just information—but heart transformation Key Idea: Prayer is about knowing God, not just getting things from Him. 4. Prayer Is Hard • It exposes what’s going on inside us • We feel distracted, empty, or unsure Key Idea: We move through duty… to get to delight. 5. Prayer Changes Us • It gives peace in anxiety • It reshapes how we see life • It draws us closer to God Key Idea: Prayer may not change everything around us—but it changes us. Take a Step This Week • When you see the stone → pray • Keep it simple • Pray for someone who doesn’t know Jesus Key Idea: Don’t overthink it—just talk to God. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS. Warm-Up • What’s one prayer you remember from growing up (serious or funny)? Kids • When could you talk to God this week? Before bed, at school, or somewhere else? Reflect • What has your experience with prayer been? Easy, difficult, confusing, meaningful? Why? • Why do you think prayer can feel hard or easy to avoid? Scripture • Read Romans 8:15–16. How do these verses speak to those who feel they are not good enough for a relationship with God? • What emotions do you experience when you hear the word “father”? What does it mean for you to think of God as ‘Abba, Father’? • Read Ephesians 1:17–18. How do we grow in knowing God better? What are you doing right now to pursue Him? Personal • How do you experience the Holy Spirit in your everyday life? How do you want to experience the Holy Spirit in your everyday life? • When unhealthy thoughts enter your mind, what has helped you? Action • What is one simple step you can take this week to grow in prayer? • What part of the passage or sermon would you like to understand better or talk about more? NEIGHBORHOODS TO NATIONS. • How would you explain the Gospel to someone who feels they are not "good enough" for God? • Who is one person in your life that doesn’t know Jesus that you can begin praying for this week? • How might God want to use you in their life? PRAYER PROMPT. Abba Father, thank you for loving us and calling us your children. Help us know you better this week. Give us a desire to pray and draw near to you. Amen.

    27 min
  5. Mar 15

    The Gospel in Every Relationship: Strength to Stand - Joe Gregory

    In Ephesians 6:10–24, Paul reminds believers that our true struggle is not against people but against spiritual forces of evil. This sermon explores how the enemy works through temptation and accusation to pull us away from God. Most importantly, we see how the truth of the Gospel equips us to stand firm in Christ.     Scripture. Ephesians 6:10-24.   Outline. 1. Know Your Enemy Our struggle is not just against circumstances or people, but against spiritual forces of evil. The devil’s goal is to create distance between us and God through deception.   2. Recognize His Schemes The devil primarily works through temptation and accusation.   Temptation: “This isn’t really wrong… God is holding something back.” Accusation: “What you’ve done puts you beyond God’s forgiveness.”   We see both of these tactics in the fall of humanity in Genesis 3.   3. Stand Firm in the Gospel Paul tells believers to put on the armor of God. This armor is the truth of the Gospel—what Christ has already accomplished for us.   4. Remember What Christ Has Done The Gospel reminds us:   We are redeemed We are forgiven We are saved by grace   Because of this, temptation loses its appeal and accusations lose their power.   5. Fight Through Prayer and Community Paul ends by calling believers to pray continually and support one another.   Spiritual battles are not meant to be fought alone.    Questions. Kids: What can you remember about Jesus when you feel tempted to do something wrong?   The sermon described two errors: giving the devil too much power or ignoring his influence completely. Which of these are you more likely to fall into today, and why?   Temptation often sounds like a small or reasonable compromise. What are some ways you personally experience temptation in everyday life?   After we sin or fail, we can feel shame or distance from God. Have you ever experienced thoughts like “God must be disappointed in me” or “I’ve messed up too much”? How did that affect your relationship with God?   Paul calls believers to pray for one another. What is one area of your life where you would like prayer or encouragement?   Neighborhoods to Nations. If our true enemy is spiritual evil rather than people, how should that shape the way we love and share the Gospel with our neighbors, coworkers, or friends who don’t know Christ?

    18 min
  6. Mar 1

    The Gospel in Every Relationship: Christlike Work - Jeff Jewett

    Work can reveal what’s really in our hearts. In “Christlike Work” (Ephesians 6:5–9), we explore how the gospel reshapes both employees and employers. Because Jesus is Lord of our lives, He is Lord of our work. Whether you work under authority or carry it, this message invites you to see your job as worship, your leadership as stewardship, and your daily faithfulness as eternally significant. Our worst moments at work do not get the final word. The cross does.    Scripture.  Ephesians 6:5-9 [5] Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ. [6] Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but like slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart. [7] Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men, [8] because you know that the Lord will reward everyone for whatever good he does, whether he is slave or free. [9] And masters, treat your slaves in the same way. Do not threaten them, since you know that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with him.   Outline.  Main Truth: Because Jesus is Lord of our lives, He is Lord of our work.   1.    Working for the Boss (6:5–8) a.    Obey Within Biblical Boundaries ·      We obey with humility and sincerity — unless asked to: Do what is sinful, participate in idolatry, or silence Christ. b.    Remember Who You’re Serving ·      “Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord.” (6:7) ·      Your daily work is worship. ·      Before work this week, pray: “Jesus, You are Lord here.” c.     Trust the True Reward ·      The Lord sees what others overlook. ·      Nothing done for Christ is wasted. 2.    Working as the Boss (6:9) a.    Authority Is Stewardship - Leadership is service, not control. b.    No Threatening - Do not use fear. Every boss has a Boss in heaven. c.     Remember Your Master - Jesus leads with authority and humility. So should we. Questions. Open: What do you like best about your boss?   Kids: This week, what is one thing you can do — at school, at home, or at practice — like you’re doing it for Jesus?   What have you felt enslaved to this past week: Your job? Family obligations? Your home? The kids’ soccer team? Other?   How should we understand the word “slaves” in these verses? Do you believe these verses condoned slavery as acceptable? Explain.   How are you tempted to cut corners, be a people-pleaser, or work only when someone is watching in the workplace (or anywhere else)? Why is it so appealing?   Where has work (paid or unpaid) recently felt frustrating, unfair, or unseen? Where do you most struggle to remember that you’re ultimately working for Christ and not just a person?   If you have any level of authority (parent, supervisor, team lead, volunteer leader), how is Jesus inviting you to lead differently? How could you reflect the Son of Man’s character better?   How does remembering that you are forgiven and secure in Christ change the way you respond to failure or criticism at work?   Neighborhoods to Nations. Who is one person in your workplace (or daily rhythm) who may not know Christ? What is one intentional next step you could take toward them this week — prayer, conversation, encouragement, or invitation?   How might your work ethic either attract or repel people from Jesus? Is there a specific way your integrity, generosity, or humility could open a gospel conversation?

    23 min
  7. Feb 15

    The Gospel in Every Relationship - The Gospel at Home - Jeff Jewett

    Marriage can feel funny, frustrating, and painfully familiar. In this message from Ephesians 5:21–6:4, we use humor from Everybody Loves Raymond to explore what God says about life at home—marriage, parenting, and family relationships. This sermon reminds us that the gospel isn’t about getting everything right in our homes. It’s about trusting Jesus, who already did. Whether you’re married, single, divorced, widowed, or raising kids in the middle of real life, this message points beyond our imperfect relationships to Christ’s perfect love for His church. The gospel belongs at home, and God’s heart is to move that love from our homes to our neighborhoods and all the way to the nations. Scripture. Ephesians 5:21-6:4. Questions. Open: What do you like best about your boss? -or- Which TV family best reflects your family? Everybody Loves Raymond? The Simpsons? Bluey? Modern Family? Last Man Standing? Another show? Kids: What does God ask of all children, and with what promise (v. 1-3)? What is one way you can show love like Jesus at home this week? Where did this passage or message connect with your real life right now—at home, work, or relationships? What does mutual submission look like in everyday life (how we speak, listen, and make decisions)? How does remembering that the gospel—not a perfect marriage—is the ultimate thing change the pressure we feel in relationships? How does our culture define marriage differently than Ephesians 5, and where do you feel that tension most? Men or women: What stands out to you about God’s calling for husbands or wives in this passage? Why? How do you personally respond to the standard God sets here—what feels encouraging, challenging, or uncomfortable? What does Christ’s love for the church teach us about leadership, sacrifice, and responsibility in the home? For parents (or future parents): What does it look like to raise children in the training and instruction of the Lord in everyday life? What have you felt enslaved to recently, and how does this passage speak freedom into that? Neighborhoods to Nations: How can the way you love people at home help show Jesus to your neighborhood? Jesus loves the church sacrificially, patiently, and faithfully. Where is God inviting you to reflect that kind of love this week at home, with family, or in close relationships? Resources. Letters to a Romantic – Sean Perron & Spencer Harmon Clear, thoughtful, and thoroughly biblical guidance for navigating dating with wisdom and integrity. The authors address everything from first dates and parental involvement to breakups, pornography, physical boundaries, past sexual history, and even how to decline a date well. If you want to honor Christ in your dating relationships, this is a must-read. The Meaning of Marriage – Tim Keller with Kathy Keller Marriage is both glorious and demanding. Keller captures this tension beautifully—marriage is a source of deep joy and strength, yet it also involves sacrifice, humility, and perseverance. It’s a profound mystery rooted in the gospel, echoing Paul’s words in Ephesians 5:32. Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family – Paul David Tripp A gracious and hope-filled call for parents to live and lead in light of the gospel. Tripp combines rich theology with practical wisdom, helping moms and dads parent not from fear or control, but from the grace and hope we have in Jesus.

    29 min

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Alongsider Church is a community following Jesus together and helping others do the same. These messages are designed to help you know God, grow in your faith, and live on mission—from neighborhoods to nations.