Fights happen. What you do next decides whether your home becomes a greenhouse for trust or a hallway of slammed doors. We open up about the “good fight” and the systems that keep a covenant strong—practical tools, real stories, and a Spirit-led approach that helps couples repair fast and build lasting unity. We start by resetting the order: reconciliation before worship. From there, we explore how the atmosphere of a home shapes everything, why unresolved tension breeds resentment and misalignment, and how “longevity isn’t luck”—it’s structure. You’ll hear seven clear tools: keep doing the good you were doing, practice radical accountability, cut off passive aggression, discern when to speak and when silence heals, create your commandments of conflict, invite wise counsel at agreed moments, and pursue peace over being right. We talk about timing hard conversations for when they’ll be received, running “clear sessions” with no deflection, and setting hard lines you refuse to cross: no weaponized silence, no storm-drive exits, no careless talk of divorce, share the same bed, cap how long a fight can last. Throughout, we lean on the Holy Spirit for timing, tone, conviction, and protection. He exposes roots—old wounds, pride, unforgiveness—that keep today’s argument stuck. He also nudges us back to small faithful acts that guard intimacy: short prayers even when upset, simple service, patient listening. When unity becomes the goal, momentum returns; you can move from zero back to one hundred with intention—gentle touch, practical repair, and honest words that restore safety. If you’re tired of letting little storms rewrite your story, this conversation gives you language, steps, and hope. Listen, take notes, and try one tool today. If it helps, share it with your partner and a couple who needs it. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: which commandment of conflict are you adding to your home? Thank you for tuning in beloveds. Don’t forget to comment , rate the podcast and share . Watch the Podcast here: https://youtube.com/@bulimakhubo?si=Whq1AiPP_Big4hyr Let’s connect: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/buli_makhubo?igsh=MWR5ZDExcndubDk1bw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr
