i just got here

Imani Davis
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I Just Got Here is your virtual coffee chat with the brutally honest big sister you never knew you needed. We talk growth, love, insecurity, healing, and learning to trust yourself even when your brain doubts you. No fake perfection here, just real life lessons, honest reflection, and figuring things out in real time. If you want clarity, comfort, or a gentle reality check while you walk, drive, or reset your life, you’re in the right place. New episodes every Wednesday. See you there beautiful humans ♡

  1. Oct 18

    you've had ALL YEAR, so.. what's stopping you??

    We’re in the final stretch of the year, and everywhere you look, someone is telling you to lock in, get your life together, and become the best version of yourself before January arrives. But what happens when you look back at the goals you set in January and realize you’ve been putting some of them off all year? In this episode, we’re getting real about procrastination, avoidance, fear, and the promises we make to ourselves but struggle to keep. I’m reflecting on my own goals, the things I’ve accomplished, the things I’ve avoided, and the uncomfortable realization that sometimes, I’m the one standing in my own way. But this isn’t about shaming ourselves for everything we haven’t accomplished. Life happens, circumstances change, and sometimes we genuinely don’t have the time or resources to do everything we want. So how do we recognize when life is getting in the way and when fear is keeping us from taking that first step? We’re asking the hard questions, challenging our excuses, and figuring out how to move forward without waiting for the perfect time, the perfect mood, or a completely different life. And before the year ends, I’m challenging both of us to choose ONE thing we’ve been putting off and start making progress toward it. You don’t have to have your entire life figured out before the new year. You just have to be willing to begin. Let’s stop abandoning the things that matter to us just because they make us uncomfortable. We’ve still got time. What are we going to do with it?

  2. Jul 22

    GRIEVING the person you THOUGHT they were

    Sometimes, you can miss someone and still know you deserve better. In this episode of I Just Got Here, I talk about the complicated grief that comes with leaving a long-term relationship. I miss the memories. I miss the person I thought he was. I grieve the future I imagined we would have. But I’m also realizing that I wasn’t asking for too much—I was asking for the bare minimum. And somewhere along the way, I started lowering my expectations just to make the relationship feel like enough. This is what it looks like to grieve someone while choosing yourself. To admit that you still care, while also accepting that love isn’t enough when there’s no growth, effort, or willingness to change. I don’t regret loving him. But I’m finally learning that I don’t have to settle for less just because I loved someone deeply. Maybe you can miss someone and still move on. Maybe you can grieve what you had, grieve what you thought you’d have, and still believe that something better is waiting for you. I’m still figuring it out. I just got here. ♡ New episodes every week. #HealingJourney #SelfLove #MovingOn #HealingAfterBreakup #CoParenting #PersonalGrowth #Podcast #SelfCare #Journaling #LifeLessons Let’s talk about it: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/hellothere.mani/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@hellothereyani⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need it. Thank you for listening, beautiful humans. i just got here New episodes every Wednesday. For collaborations: Email: itsyanidavi@gmail.com

  3. Jul 2

    feeling GUILTY for moving on??? like...WHAT!?

    I’ve been feeling guilty for moving on. Not because I want my old relationship back, but because after years with one person, finding happiness somewhere new felt… wrong. In this episode, I open up about ending a long-term relationship, co-parenting, meeting someone new, and the guilt that comes with allowing yourself to be happy again. I talk about questioning my feelings, wondering if I was moving too fast, and realizing that just because a relationship ends doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to heal. Sometimes the hardest part of moving forward isn’t letting go of the past, it’s giving yourself permission to enjoy the present. If you’ve ever felt guilty for choosing yourself, this episode is for you. ♡ New episodes every week. #HealingJourney #SelfLove #MovingOn #HealingAfterBreakup #CoParenting #PersonalGrowth #Podcast #SelfCare #Journaling #LifeLessons Let’s talk about it: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/hellothere.mani/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@hellothereyani⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need it. Thank you for listening, beautiful humans. i just got here New episodes every Wednesday. For collaborations: Email: itsyanidavi@gmail.com

  4. Jun 3

    it's time to be HONEST with yourself... are you REALLY growing or are you just performing??

    This episode is what happens when you stop performing “growth” and actually sit with yourself. I got honest about my patterns, my relationships, my impulsiveness, and the versions of me I thought I outgrew but keep finding myself revisiting. I talk about accountability, emotional triggers, and what it means to actually change instead of just looking like you are. It’s uncomfortable. It’s real. And it’s probably the most honest I’ve been on here. If you made it all the way to the end, come talk to me about it. I would genuinely love to hear your thoughts and experiences. Let’s talk about it: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/hellothere.mani/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@hellothereyani⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need it. Thank you for listening, beautiful humans. i just got here New episodes every Wednesday. For collaborations: Email: itsyanidavi@gmail.com

  5. May 27

    do you EVEN like you??

    You buy things to distract yourself, compare yourself to people online, keep promises to everyone except yourself, and then wonder why you don’t feel confident. But confidence isn’t always about appearance. Sometimes it’s about your relationship with yourself. So today we’re asking a slightly uncomfortable question: do you actually like yourself?

  6. May 20

    finding myself AGAIN!

    This episode is for anyone who has lost themselves and is finding their way back! :) If you made it all the way to the end, come talk to me about it. I would genuinely love to hear your thoughts and experiences. Let’s talk about it: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/hellothere.mani/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@hellothereyani⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need it. Thank you for listening, beautiful humans. i just got here New episodes every Wednesday. For collaborations: Email: itsyanidavi@gmail.com #selfgrowth #burnout #feelingstuck #levelingup #mentalhealth #motherhood #lifetransitions #journaling

  7. May 12 ·  Bonus

    let's talk about PURGING... emotionally of course

    Somewhere between crying, venting, overthinking, and mentally spiraling… I realized I wasn’t “crazy” or “ungrateful.” I was emotionally overloaded. In this bonus Mother’s Day episode, I talk about emotional purging, what happens when you suppress too much for too long, and why finally letting yourself FEEL everything might be one of the healthiest things you can do for yourself. This episode is raw, unfiltered, slightly chaotic, a little funny, and very honest. We’re talking emotional constipation, burnout, irritation, motherhood, overstimulation, nervous system overload, and the strange clarity that comes after finally releasing everything you’ve been holding in. So if you’ve been feeling emotionally heavy lately… this episode is for you. Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms listening. Please take care of yourselves too. If you made it all the way to the end, come talk to me about it. I would genuinely love to hear your thoughts and experiences. Let’s talk about it: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/hellothere.mani/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@hellothereyani⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need it. Thank you for listening, beautiful humans. i just got here New episodes every Wednesday. For collaborations: Email: itsyanidavi@gmail.com #selfgrowth #burnout #feelingstuck #levelingup #mentalhealth #motherhood #lifetransitions #journaling

  8. May 6

    WHY AM I SO UNHAPPY... when my life is getting better

    Lately, my life has been improving in ways I’ve been praying for… and somehow, I still don’t feel okay. In this episode, I’m being completely honest about what I’ve been feeling: anger, burnout, frustration, and the confusion that comes with outgrowing parts of your life that no longer align with who you’re becoming. I talk about what it feels like to be in that in-between phase where things are getting better, but you’re not fully there yet. Where you’re aware of what needs to change, but you’re still living in environments, routines, and dynamics that drain you. This episode is raw, unfiltered, and emotional. If you’ve ever felt like you “should” be happy because things are finally working out, but you’re not, this is for you. You’re not ungrateful. You’re evolving. If you made it all the way to the end, come talk to me about it. I would genuinely love to hear your thoughts and experiences. Let’s talk about it: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/hellothere.mani/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@hellothereyani⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need it. Thank you for listening, beautiful humans. i just got here New episodes every Wednesday. For collaborations: Email: itsyanidavi@gmail.com #selfgrowth #burnout #feelingstuck #levelingup #mentalhealth #motherhood #lifetransitions #journaling

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I Just Got Here is your virtual coffee chat with the brutally honest big sister you never knew you needed. We talk growth, love, insecurity, healing, and learning to trust yourself even when your brain doubts you. No fake perfection here, just real life lessons, honest reflection, and figuring things out in real time. If you want clarity, comfort, or a gentle reality check while you walk, drive, or reset your life, you’re in the right place. New episodes every Wednesday. See you there beautiful humans ♡

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  • Creator
    Imani Davis
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    25
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Imani Davis
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