Home After 50™

Juli Ford
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Home After 50™ is the podcast for women over 50 navigating midlife, aging parents, and the new shape of family and home. Host Juli Ford has lived in a multigenerational home for more than eleven years. She is a Certified Senior Advisor®, a real estate broker, and a trusted voice on multigenerational living, featured on Fox & Friends and in Business Insider, Newsweek and The New York Times. Each week, Juli shares honest stories and practical strategy for Gen X women and the sandwich generation: caring for aging parents, sharing a home with three generations, financing a multigenerational home or ADU, navigating hard family conversations, embracing the empty nest, and reinventing life after 50. If you're a woman 50+ wondering what comes next for your home, your family, and yourself, you'll feel right at home here. Follow and subscribe for new episodes every week, and download Juli's free Multi-Generational Living Guide and other resources at juliford.com.

  1. 2d ago

    Multigenerational Living and Siblings: Do You Need a Trust Fund to Keep It Fair?

    Juli kicks off season five on an unseasonably warm October day in Massachusetts with a format she plans to return to often this fall: answering the comments and questions that land in her inbox every day. She takes on two of the biggest hesitations families bring to her clarity calls and monthly coffee chats. The first is about siblings, fairness, and inheritance when one adult child buys a home with their parents. The second is about land, zoning, and whether a property can legally hold more than one dwelling. Both answers come back to the same truth: these things are complex, but rarely impossible when families do the work together. What Juli CoversA new season and a new format: What Juli has planned for October through December, and why she is starting the season by answering real audience messages."It won't work without a trust fund": Juli responds to an Instagram comment claiming multigenerational living fails unless parents can equalize the inheritance for siblings who are not moving in, and explains where that claim misses the mark.The first question she asks every family: Are there other siblings who will not live in the home or hold an ownership stake, and have you talked with them yet?How Juli's own family handled it: Her mom contributed a little more than half of the 20% down payment eleven years ago, viewed as roughly five years of rent, with a family agreement on how her estate would be adjusted if she passed before that time was up.Why many siblings are grateful, not resentful: In many families Juli works with, siblings are glad to step back from the financial side in exchange for knowing their parents are cared for close by.Put it in writing: Healthy family dynamics matter, and so does legal documentation.Finding land that allows more than one dwelling: Why zoning and financing need a hyper local lens, even though family agreements and boundaries apply almost anywhere in the world.Massachusetts ADU rules: How the Affordable Homes Act made accessory dwelling units allowed by right on single family properties, plus the setbacks, septic, sewer, and building code realities that still apply.Make friends with your building department: Why Juli recommends starting at city or town hall, and why checking state law matters when small towns are still catching up to new rules.Coming next week: More audience questions on financing and family relationships.A Moment Worth Remembering"Of course there are complexities, but many, many solutions can be found if families are willing to work together." Juli Ford Resources MentionedFree Clarity Call for families exploring multi-gen living: juliford.com/inquiryMonthly Multi-Gen Coffee Chat, a free Zoom call usually held the last Friday of the month, 12 to 1 pm Eastern. Check the calendar and register at juliford.com/eventsMassachusetts Affordable Homes Act and ADU regulations https://www.mass.gov/info-details/accessory-dwelling-unitsMore of Juli's ResourcesThe Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-genFollow Juli on Instagram: @itsjulifordExplore more resources: juliford.comEmail Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  2. Aug 29

    Wrapping Season 4 and Helping Aging Parents from a Distance

    Juli closes out season four before she takes her usual break between seasons, a rhythm she has built in every eight to twelve episodes to rest and come back renewed. This time the break is focused on producing her long awaited Multi-Gen Money Course, alongside a few new brand partnerships and a girls' weekend on Cape Cod to celebrate a close friend's upcoming wedding and move to Ireland. She also opens up about the loss of Dolly Parton this week and the way it has her reflecting on generosity and compassion, before sharing a practical, geriatrician backed list of ways adult children can support aging parents from a distance. What Juli CoversThe season break, explained: Why Juli pauses the podcast for a few weeks between seasons, and what she is working on during this one, primarily her multi-gen money course, with a possible second course in the works, targeted for early September.New brand partnerships: A quick note on the products and brands Juli is excited to be working with, and her rule that she only represents things she genuinely uses and would recommend to friends and family.A girls' weekend send-off: Juli heads to Cape Cod with four close friends to celebrate one of them who is moving to Ireland to get marriedRemembering Dolly Parton: Juli reflects on Dolly's legacy of generosity, compassion, and warmth, and the question it has left her asking herself: how can she be more like Dolly in her own life.Tasks long-distance adult children can take over: Juli shares a list from Instagram accounts The Millennial Sandwich and geriatrician Dr. Anita, covering appointments, medications, bills and paperwork, groceries and household supplies, home maintenance, transportation, care coordination, and emergency planning.Real examples from home: Juli shares how her mom manages her own Instacart orders to stay independent, how her cousin places grocery orders for her great uncle from another state, and how her brother coordinated a life alert system for their mom.Looking ahead to season five: Juli previews her return toward the end of September, with a season that will carry listeners through the holidays and include more guest conversations.Resources Mentioned@themillenialsandwich and @itsdoctoranita (geriatrician) on Instagram, source of the long-distance caregiving task list The Multi-Gen Money Guide and the Multi-Gen Money Course (coming soon) juliford.com/multi-genStay ConnectedIf this episode gave you a few new ideas for supporting an aging parent from a distance, or just made you feel a little less alone in it, follow and subscribe to Home After 50™ so you are ready when season five begins. And if you have been dreaming about multigenerational living, grab Juli's Multi-Gen resources at juliford.com/multi-gen Juli's ResourcesThe Multi-Gen Money Guide and all free multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-genBook a Clarity Call: juliford.com/scheduleFollow Juli on Instagram: @itsjulifordWatch or listen to the Home After 50™ PodcastExplore more resources: juliford.comEmail Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  3. Aug 22

    Multigenerational Home Financing Q&A - 4 Real Life Scenarios

    In this episode, Juli is diving into four real scenarios pulled straight from the live Q&A at her Multi-Gen Financing Workshop, hosted with her lending partner Michael Pankow. Nearly 170 people registered for the live session, and Juli says the Q&A portion is always her favorite part, hearing exactly how families are trying to make multigenerational living work for their unique situation. What Juli CoversScenario 1, the family compound: An older generation who owns their home outright and three adult children who each own homes with mortgages want to buy 10 acres and build four separate homes. Juli walks through why timing all four sales and builds at once is risky, and why tackling it one family member at a time, starting with the equity-rich parents, is the more workable path.Scenario 2, expanding an ADU on Social Security income: A 66 year old, mortgage-free homeowner wants to expand his existing 500 square foot ADU as his adult child's family grows, but his only income is Social Security. Juli explains why a reverse mortgage could be a strong option here, since qualification is based on age, home value, and equity rather than income.Scenario 3, one parcel and three ADUs: A family wants to build a primary home plus three ADUs on one property, with each adult child holding a separate loan for their own unit. Juli explains why lenders will not treat one parcel as four separate properties, and what options exist instead, including multiple co-borrowers on a single loan.Scenario 4, selling in one state to buy in another: A more complex scenario involving a bundled property purchase and existing rental income, where the homeowner is counting on a home sale that has been stalled on the market for months to help fund the purchase. Juli and Michael discuss a DSCR (debt service coverage ratio) loan as a possible path forward, and why keeping every agent, attorney, and lender on the same team, communicating together, matters most when a plan has this many moving parts.A Moment Worth Remembering"Just because your situation is unusual doesn't mean it's impossible. It might feel overwhelming, but it's also exciting.Tap back into your reasons for doing this, most often it's because of your family, their emotional needs, their care needs, their financial needs. You're really trying to make a better life for you and your family together." - Juli Ford Resources MentionedWatch the full recording of the Multi-Gen Financing Workshop: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeEpoR4PTc&t=4880sStay ConnectedIf this episode gave you a new way to think about your own multigenerational plans, follow and subscribe to Home After 50™ so you never miss an episode. And if any of these four scenarios sounded a little too familiar, Juli's Multi-Gen Money Guide is a great next step, or you can book a Clarity Call directly with Juli to start mapping out your own plan. Juli's ResourcesThe Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-genBook a Clarity Call: juliford.com/scheduleFollow Juli on Instagram: @itsjulifordWatch or listen to the Home After 50™ PodcastExplore more resources: juliford.comEmail Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  4. Aug 15

    The Multigenerational Home Money Questions Every Family Should Ask

    In this episode, Juli addresses the part of multigenerational living planning that tends to create the most stress for families, money. She shares that nearly everyone she works with is navigating this for the first time, without prior experience to lean on, which is often where the overwhelm comes from. She then walks through five questions she believes every family should ask when planning a multigenerational home. What Juli covers: Whether a standard mortgage is really the only path to funding a multigenerational home, and why that assumption keeps families from exploring options that could work for them Why the structure of a parent's financial contribution needs to be carefully considered, and why getting it wrong can affect lending options, taxes, retirement planning, health care costs, and family dynamics down the road What it really costs to live apart versus live together, including the less obvious costs families often forget to factor in, like the time, gas, and energy spent traveling to check on aging parents Whether a parent contributing more money means they should own more of the house, and how Juli reframes the idea of "fair" versus "equal" when contributions are not all financial What happens if something changes down the road, and why having that hard conversation early is one of the most loving things a family can do A moment worth remembering: "Fair is not the same as equal... when families are coming together, some part of the family usually has more financial resources than the other. But what is also true is that in general, someone in the family may also have different kinds of resources they bring to the picture." - Juli Ford Resources mentioned: Multi-Gen Finance Workshop Thursday, August 20th at 11am Pacific / 2pm Eastern, free to attend live with a recording available afterward: juliford.com/multi-gen Stay connected: Follow Home After 50 for more conversations on multigenerational living, aging parents, and reinvention after 50. If the money questions in this episode feel familiar, join Juli for the free Multi-Gen Finance Workshop on August 20th at juliford.com/multi-gen, where she will cover more than nine ways families can fund a multigenerational home. JULI'S RESOURCES The Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-gen Book a Clarity Call: juliford.com/consult Follow Juli on Instagram: @itsjuliford Explore more resources: juliford.com Email Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  5. Aug 7

    Respecting Aging Parent Decisions in Multi-Generational Homes

    This week, Juli tackles a topic that touches nearly every family navigating multi-generational living: how to respect an aging parent's right to make their own decisions, even when those decisions cause worry. The conversation was sparked by a comment on one of Juli's social media posts, and it sent her down a research rabbit hole that led to a recently published academic framework she found genuinely helpful. Using her own experience with her mother's stairs, a declined suggestion for a chairlift, and a recently accepted medical alert device, Juli walks through what it looks like to hold safety and autonomy together instead of choosing one over the other. What Juli covers: Why Juli shared a personal story about her mom declining a chairlift, twice, and why she still believes it was right to respect that decisionA pushback comment Juli received on social media, and how she responded to itThe difference between respecting a parent's decisions when there is no cognitive diagnosis versus when dementia or cognitive decline is presentA breakdown of the Safety-Autonomy Grid from a journal article published in The Gerontologist, a new framework by researchers Kelly Marnfeldt,MSG, and Kate Wilber, PhDAll four quadrants of the grid: balanced independence, independence at all costs, neglected independence, and safety at all costsHow ageism shapes the way families make decisions for aging parents, often without realizing itThe recent conversation in Juli's own family about getting her mom a medical alert device, and how that compromise came togetherWhy the balance between safety and autonomy looks different for every family, and what that balance can look like in practice Resources mentioned: The Safety-Autonomy Grid: A Flexible Framework for Navigating Protection and Independence for Older Adults, by Kelly Marnfeldt, MSG and Kate Wilber,PhD, The Gerontologist (Vol. 65, Issue 6, June 2025): https://academic.oup.com/gerontologist/article/65/6/gnaf111/8082030 If this conversation resonated, Juli would love to hear from you. Follow Home After 50™ for more honest conversations about navigating multigenerational life, and grab The Multi-Gen Money Guide for practical next steps if you are building or adjusting a multigenerational home. Juli's ResourcesThe Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-genBook a Clarity Call: juliford.com/scheduleFollow Juli on Instagram: @itsjulifordWatch or listen to the Home After 50@ PodcastExplore more resources: juliford.comEmail Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  6. Jul 31

    The TV Families Guide to Multi-Generational Living

    This week Juli unpacks a theme she has been exploring all week on social media: the different visions families have for what multi-generational living should actually look like, sparked by a message from a viewer whose in-laws were picturing a completely different home than she was. To make the differences easy to talk about, Juli maps four common multi-gen setups onto four familiar TV families. What Juli covers: The message that started it all: a viewer planning a multi-gen home with her husband and in-laws, who all wanted the same goal but were picturing entirely different homesThe Waltons setup: one house, one roof, fully shared living spaces with private bedrooms only, and who this tends to work well forThe Cunninghams setup: a fully separate, attached apartment (Juli's own setup with her mother), offering privacy and closeness with strong boundariesThe Duttons setup: the family compound model, shared land with separate structures, and a real story about a family of seven pulling resources together to build oneThe Barones setup: separate homes on the same street, full independence with proximity, and the financial tradeoffs of that modelThe two biggest challenges she hears from families every week: money and privacyWhy "getting everyone's movie on the same script" is the real work of early multi-gen planning A moment worth remembering: "They have very aligned goals in some aspects, but what was happening... is that they were all running a different movie in their head about what multi-generational living was going to look like." - Juli Ford Resources mentioned: Juli's Multi-Gen Finance Workshop, referenced in the story about a family of seven planning a shared land purchase: juliford.com/multi-genJuli's Instagram posts on privacy in multi-generational living from this week: https://www.instagram.com/itsjuliford Stay connected: If this episode helped you name what is happening in your own family's planning conversations, follow Home After 50™ wherever you listen so you never miss an episode. And if finances are the piece you are working through right now, The Multi-Gen Money Guide is a great next step to bring some clarity to the numbers. Juli's ResourcesThe Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-genBook a Clarity Call: juliford.com/scheduleFollow Juli on Instagram: @itsjulifordWatch or listen to the Home After 50™ PodcastExplore more resources: juliford.comEmail Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  7. Jul 24

    5 Truths from Real Life Multi-Gen Families

    Juli has been talking about reinvention all season, but this week she turns the lens toward home itself. Fresh off her monthly Multi-Gen Coffee Chat, a free Zoom gathering that drew 17 attendees from eight states, she distills the conversation into five themes every multi-gen family, current or future, will recognize. With more than 10,000 downloads of her Multi-Generational Living Guide and family stories arriving in her inbox daily, Juli has learned there are as many ways to do multi-gen living as there are families. This episode is proof. What Juli covers: Why ADU rules can make or break a multi-gen plan, from Massachusetts making ADUs a legal right statewide under the Affordable Homes Act, to California allowing up to three per single family property, to one South Carolina family whose local size limit capped their ADU at just 100 square feetThe single biggest friction point in shared multi-gen homes: the kitchen, and the creative interim fixes the group crowdsourced, including converting a closet into a mini kitchen as a stepping stone rather than a forever solutionWhy families need to talk to each other before they talk to an estate attorney, especially about the question nobody wants to raise: what happens to the inheritance when only one adult child lives in the multi-gen homeWhy fair does not always mean equal, and why these conversations are never one and doneOwnership as protection: adult children earning equity in the family home over time, new HELOC options for seniors, and why an aging parent owning part of a house deserves careful planning with an elder law attorneyA sequencing roadmap for anyone overwhelmed: family alignment first, clarity on vision and money second, professional team third A moment worth remembering: "We're reinventing family conversations that we may never have had in our families before, and we may need to start saying the quiet parts, the conversations about money, inheritance, fear, out loud and on purpose so that everyone is protected, everyone is on the same page, and we can move forward with our multi-gen plans with love and with respect and with clarity." – Juli Ford Resources mentioned: The Multi-Generational Living Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-genThe monthly Multi-Gen Coffee Chat (free, usually the last Friday of the month; the next one is August 28, 2026). Join Juli's email list at juliford.com to get the invitation.Sunday Notes, Juli's weekly Sunday morning email with upcoming events and an inside view of life, home, the marketplace, and caring for aging parentsMulti-Gen Financing Workshop (more to come on senior HELOCs and creative financing) Stay connected: If this episode resonated, make sure you are following the show so you never miss an episode. Every multi-gen resource Juli mentioned, including the free guides and the link to book a free Clarity Call, lives at juliford.com/multi-gen. And if you are navigating regulations in your own state or town, Juli would love to hear your story. Email her directly at juli@juliford.com.

  8. Jul 17

    Multi-Gen Living and Wealth: Juli's Conversation with Autumn Ceniza

    This week Juli shares a conversation she didn't plan to have. Her friend Autumn Ceniza, a real estate advisor who teaches women how to build wealth and the founder of Meet Coterie, invited Juli to talk about multi-generational living and money. What came out was the most complete version of Juli's family story she has ever told, including a few things she has never shared on the podcast before. What they talk about: Why the money conversation about multi-gen living needs to happen five years before the move, not in the middle of a family emergencyThe resistance that often comes from the older generation, and why respecting a parent's hesitation and timing matters (Juli's mom needed three years after her dad passed before she was ready)How ownership decisions work when a parent contributes to the home, and why every family's answer will look differentThe ripple effect: how the equity in the family's multi-gen home helped them buy a house for Juli's brother's family after a foreclosure and a devastating accident, then fund a Vermont Airbnb, then pay off the kids' college loansThe season Juli and her husband carried $78,000 in credit card debt, and why she's telling that story nowWhy Juli thinks it’s a good idea to open a home equity line of credit while you’re still working, before you retireThe difference between real estate as a get rich quick promise and real estate as a long gameRebuilding a business at 57: why you don't have to know what your thing is before you start, you just have to follow the breadcrumbsWhy multi-gen living isn't a trend. It's the oldest way of living in the world, and America is just remembering it A moment worth remembering: "This never would have been able to happen if we had not combined resources as a family. People don't see the long-term, expansive benefits that can happen, not just emotionally and relationally, but financially, by combining households." (Juli Ford) About Autumn Ceniza: Autumn is a real estate advisor committed to teaching women how to build wealth, and the founder of Meet Coterie, a new kind of organization for women in business. Juli hopes to welcome her back on the show soon to share her own reinvention story. Learn more about Autumn and Coterie here: https://findyourcoterie.com/about Resources mentioned: The Multi-Gen Money Guide ($17): the guide that walks families through ownership structures, financing, and how to calculate what combining households actually saves. Find it at juliford.com/multi-gen Stay connected: If this episode resonated with you, make sure you're following the show so you never miss an episode. And for anyone navigating multi-generational living, especially the financial side of it, visit juliford.com/multi-gen to grab the Multi-Gen Money Guide.

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Home After 50™ is the podcast for women over 50 navigating midlife, aging parents, and the new shape of family and home. Host Juli Ford has lived in a multigenerational home for more than eleven years. She is a Certified Senior Advisor®, a real estate broker, and a trusted voice on multigenerational living, featured on Fox & Friends and in Business Insider, Newsweek and The New York Times. Each week, Juli shares honest stories and practical strategy for Gen X women and the sandwich generation: caring for aging parents, sharing a home with three generations, financing a multigenerational home or ADU, navigating hard family conversations, embracing the empty nest, and reinventing life after 50. If you're a woman 50+ wondering what comes next for your home, your family, and yourself, you'll feel right at home here. Follow and subscribe for new episodes every week, and download Juli's free Multi-Generational Living Guide and other resources at juliford.com.

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  • Creator
    Juli Ford
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    44
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    © 2026 Juli Ford

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