She Knows Best

The Tribe Africa
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A podcast by millennial girlies, for millennial girlies, unpacking taboo truths at the intersection of healing, identity, and culture, with sass, soul, and serious substance. She Knows Best is a refreshing, intelligent, and deeply relatable podcast that explores the layered realities of modern African womanhood. Hosted by Afsa and Liz, two dynamic African millennial women from different sectors of culture and public life, the show brings honest, thought-provoking conversations on everything from mental health and identity to relationships, power, and purpose.

  1. May 9

    Black Don’t Crack: For Us, By Us – The African Beauty Narrative

    For a long time, African beauty consumers have had to make do with products that were not always created with their skin, climate, lifestyle, or lived experience in mind. In this episode of She Knows Best Podcast, Liz & Afsa sit down with Dr. Eman, Head of Research & Development at Bella Zuri, for a grounded conversation on why African beauty deserves better. Under the theme “Black Don’t Crack: For Us, By Us – The African Beauty Narrative,” this episode unpacks what it truly means to formulate beauty products for African skin. From melanin-rich skin needs, hyperpigmentation, dryness, sensitivity, undertones, and climate-specific concerns, Dr. Eman shares the science, intention, and local insight behind building products that understand African women. The conversation also explores the assumption that imported products are automatically better, the power of locally inspired ingredients like shea butter and avocado oil, and how African beauty knowledge can be blended with modern science to create products that are both effective and proudly rooted in community. More than a product conversation, this is a story about representation, innovation, and pride in African-made beauty. It is a reminder that African women deserve products created with them at the center, not as an afterthought. By the end of the episode, listeners will walk away feeling seen, informed, and proud of the African beauty narrative being shaped by brands like Bella Zuri.

    58 min

  2. Apr 25

    The African Woman's Body Has Always Been Public Property. Let's talk about it.

    They've Been Selling African Women's Bodies For Centuries. We're Just Now Talking About It.They've been legislating, policing, trending, and profiting off African women's bodies for centuries. And nobody asked us.In Part 1 of our Reclaiming My Body series, Afsa and Liz go all the way in, from the patriarchy and religion that taught us our bodies belong to everyone else, to the cultural customs that turned our flesh into public property before we were old enough to understand what was happening.We talk about the naked mom household and what it actually teaches children about bodies and shame. We talk about Sara Baartman, the Khoikhoi woman whose body was put on display in Europe, studied, mocked, and exhibited even after her death, and draw the direct line to how African women's bodies are still being consumed as spectacle today. We talk about why bodies have become trends, who profits when they do, and what it costs the women whose bodies are being borrowed. And we talk about abortion, what pro-choice actually means in a context where the choice was never yours to begin with.Who truly owns your body? In life, and in death?This is the conversation your school, your church, and your family never had with you. We're having it now.It's not therapy, but it might help.

    1h 21m

  3. Apr 18

    Becoming an Unpunishable Woman

    There will always be a reason to call a woman bad. Unmarried. Childfree. Divorced. Too loud. Too much. Too free.In this episode, Afsa and Liz examine the global architecture of the 'bad woman' label; from China's leftover women to the single mothers being blamed for being the parent that stayed, and make the case for becoming completely, permanently, structurally unpunishable. For defying a system that was never built to accommodate us in the first place.In this episode, they get into what it actually means to become unpunishable, and how.We cover the global language used to shame unmarried and childfree women, why the women being called 'bad' are often the ones quietly changing their families' economic futures, the impossible standard women are held to and exactly who designed it, what it looks like to remove the leverage society holds over you, and the women who figured all of this out long before we did.This one is for the girlies who are done performing goodness for an audience that was never going to acquit them anyway.

    1h 15m

  4. Apr 18

    The Problem with Reality TV Is…

    We love reality TV, and we’re not apologizing for it. But we are interrogating it.From Keeping Up with the Kardashians to Real Housewives, Love Island, Big Brother, Young Famous & African, and Kampala Crème, reality TV has quietly shaped how we think about beauty, success, relationships, money, and what it means to be a woman. And that’s worth talking about.In this episode, we’re getting into it: Why is reality TV so addictive? How much of what we’re watching is actually “real” and how much is carefully manufactured drama? Is the genre empowering, exploitative, or somehow both at the same time?And then we zoom in. What does African reality TV specifically reveal about class, colorism, and aspiration? How do local formats compare to, and push back against, their global counterparts?It’s a full breakdown of the guilty pleasure we can’t quit.Watch. Comment. Tell us your most unhinged reality TV opinion.

    1h 7m

  5. Mar 28

    Women Are Tired… The Truth About Mental Health No One Talks About

    In this episode of She Knows Best, Liz & Afsa dive deep into the realities women face every single day, from burnout, societal expectations, and emotional labor… to hormones, periods, and the silent struggles that no one prepares you for.Because the truth is, women are expected to show up for everyone… while silently dealing with everything.They talk about:-Why women are constantly exhausted-The pressure of being “strong” all the time-Hormones, periods, and how they affect mental health-Postpartum depression and the realities of motherhood-The impact of society, patriarchy, and capitalism on women-Why community matters more than everThis is an honest, unfiltered conversation about what it really means to navigate life as a woman today. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burnt out, or unseen… this episode is for you.It's not therapy but it might help.

    1h 13m

  6. Mar 21

    The Men Are Not Okay - One Time Only

    We're doing this once. And we mean it.This episode is not an attack on men, it's a direct conversation about silence, complicity, and what accountability actually looks like when you're not the one being harmed, but you benefit from the system that causes harm.We're talking about the men who know, and stay quiet anyway. About how boys are socialized into harm. About why feminism is not the enemy, it's the exit for us all. It’s about what real allyship looks like versus the performance of it.If you're a man watching this: we're not asking you to feel guilty. We're asking you to do something.If you're a woman watching this: you already know. This one's just for the record.This episode deals with themes of abuse, misogyny, and gender-based harm. Listen with intention.

    1h 9m

  7. Mar 20

    Boyfriends Are Embarrassing: Hot Girls Need to Stop Dating Losers.

    Inspired by Chanté Joseph’s framing in Vogue and the essay “Hot Girls Need to Stop Dating Losers” by Blithesaxon (Substack). This one is indeed for the girlies.Why do brilliant, ambitious, self-aware women keep emotionally, financially, and socially subsidizing men who offer little more than audacity and bad vibes? Why are smart women tolerating bare minimum behavior? And when did “potential” become a personality trait?In this episode, we unpack the cultural conditioning that teaches women to over-function in relationships for subpar men. We talk about how “struggle love” gets romanticized, how emotional labor is second nature, and how dating down is reframed as being humble or patient. We interrogate the fixer-upper boyfriend phenomenon, the ego-stroking, the endless grace extended to men who would not extend the same in return, and the subtle ways women abandon themselves in the name of loyalty. At what point does compassion turn into self-sabotage? It’s not therapy, but it might help.

    1 hr

  8. Feb 21

    New Year, New Us? - Nobody Can Stop Reggae

    Every January, we announce a new version of ourselves, but how often do we actually stop to ask who we're becoming, and why? In this Season 2 opener, Afsa and Liz get real about identity, growth, and intention as we step into 2026. We reflect on the highs and lows of 2025, the lessons learned, the losses felt, the unexpected wins, and the versions of ourselves we're ready to leave behind. From navigating Uganda's election season and internet shutdowns to unpacking the chaos (and comedy) of the season, we're bringing you into the room for an honest conversation about what realistic growth actually looks like.It’s not therapy, but it might help.

    53 min
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A podcast by millennial girlies, for millennial girlies, unpacking taboo truths at the intersection of healing, identity, and culture, with sass, soul, and serious substance. She Knows Best is a refreshing, intelligent, and deeply relatable podcast that explores the layered realities of modern African womanhood. Hosted by Afsa and Liz, two dynamic African millennial women from different sectors of culture and public life, the show brings honest, thought-provoking conversations on everything from mental health and identity to relationships, power, and purpose.

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  • Creator
    The Tribe Africa
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    22
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © The Tribe Africa
  • Show Website
    She Knows Best

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