The Humble Throne

Todd Robatin

What if leadership wasn't about being followed - but about being felt? The Humble Throne is a podcast for leaders who believe that quiet influence, emotional intelligence, and authenticity are more powerful than ego and noise. Hosted by Todd Robatin, each episode explores that art of humble leadership through storytelling, reflection, and practical insight. Whether you're navigating change, building culture, mentoring others, or simply trying to lead with more intention, this podcast invites you to sit down, slow down, and lead from within. No hype. No hustle. Just honest conversations about what it means to lead with softness, substance, and spirit. Topics include: Adaptive leadership in uncertain times.Emotional intelligence and presence.Mentorship, legacy, and quiet impact.Leading across generations and cultures.Personal growth through humility.Pull up a chair. The throne is yours. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-humble-throne--6701475/support.

  1. Episode 10: Culture Check

    11/05/2025

    Episode 10: Culture Check

    In this episode of "The Humble Throne," Todd Robatin invites leaders to take a deep dive into the true essence of their organizational culture. "Culture Check" challenges you to look beyond polished mission statements and well-designed org charts to uncover the emotional residue of your leadership. Discover how culture is shaped not by what you say, but by what you leave behind. Through insightful reflections and practical questions, Todd guides you to evaluate the trust, safety, and clarity within your team. Tune in to learn how to conduct a meaningful culture pulse check and transform your leadership impact. Transcript: Welcome back to the humble throne, where leadership isn't just what you say, it's what you leave behind. I'm Todd Robatin, and today we're pulling back the curtain. This is episode 10, Culture Check. Today we're evaluating what's lurking beneath your leadership, because every leader creates culture. The question is, do you know what yours is really made of? Let's be honest. You can have a polished mission statement, a well-designed org chart, even a team that hits their numbers every single time. But beneath all of that fluff, there's a culture. And culture isn't what you preach, it's what people feel when you're not in the room. It's the emotional residue of your leadership, the tone you set, the behaviors you tolerate, the values you reinforce intentionally or not. And so today, we're doing a culture check, not to judge, but to reveal.Here's the real question. What's lurking beneath your leadership? Is it trust or tension? Is it clarity or confusion? Is it psychological safety or silent resentment? Because culture isn't built in meetings. It's built in moments, in how you respond to mistakes, in how you handle feedback, in how you treat the people who have nothing to offer you. It's not just what you say. It's about what you signal. Let's break it down. If your team hesitates to speak up, your culture might be cautious. If people avoid conflict, your culture might be conflict-averse, not peaceful. If feedback is rare, your culture might be polite, sure, but not honest. And here's the kicker. Culture is shaped by tone more than tools. You can have all the right systems in place, but if your tone is tense, dismissive, or inconsistent, that's what people remember, whether you like it or not. A senior leader once told me, I don't understand why my team's so quiet all the time. I've given them freedom. But when we dug a little bit deeper, we found something completely different.He gave freedom in a sense, but not safety. People were afraid to speak up, and it wasn't because of policy, it was because of tone. The leader was sharp, efficient, and results-driven, but they rarely asked questions. They rarely invited dissent, and they rarely paused simply just to listen. The culture, it wasn't toxic per se, it was just timid. And that's just as dangerous. Because when people feel unsafe, they don't challenge ideas. They don't innovate. They don't grow. They simply survive. And here's the truth. Culture is the shadow of your leadership. It follows you. It reflects you. And sometimes, it reveals what you didn't mean to create. That's why humble leaders do regular culture checks.not just performance reviews, but emotional audits. With that, here are today's humble truths. Number one, culture is shaped more by tone than by tools. You can't systemize safety. You must embody it. Number two, what's unspoken often speaks the loudest. Silence isn't neutrality, it's feedback. And number three, a humble leader asks, what am I not seeing? Because blind spots, they're not failures, they're invitations. Now these truths, they aren't just insights, they're mirrors. And if you're willing to look, you'll see what's really shaping your team and driving your culture. Now before we close, let's talk about what this actually means. What an actual culture check looks like.not just a guess at what it looks like. Because culture, it's not a vibe, it's a pattern. And patterns can be measured if you're willing to ask the right questions. So today, we'll call this our culture pulse check. It's simple, but it's not always easy. Because it requires humility. It requires humility, curiosity, and a willingness to hear what you didn't expect.start with three questions you can ask in your next team meeting in a one-on-one or even anonymously. And you can always ask more. These are just three to get you started. Question number one. What's one thing that we do well as a team? Maybe it's how you celebrate wins. Maybe it's how you support each other during tough seasons. Maybe it's humor, empathy, or transparency. Whatever it is, put a name to it, protect it, and build on it. That's what makes your team strong. two, what's one thing we tolerate that hurts our culture? And this is where the gold is, because every team has their blind spots. Maybe it's passive aggressive communication. Maybe it's favoritism. Maybe it's burnout that no one wants to talk about. But when you name what's being tolerated, you start reclaiming your culture and you have to start somewhere. Question three, what's one thing I could do differently right now to create more safety? Now this one, it's personal because it invites your feedback not just on the team but on your personal leadership. And yes, it's probably gonna sting. It usually does.but it's also the most important question you can ask because it says to your team, I'm not above the culture, I'm part of it. Now regardless of the question or the questions that you ask, here's the key. When you ask them, don't rush, don't defend, don't even explain, just receive the honest, true answers from you and your team.Because, let's face it, culture isn't built by control, it's built by curiosity. Let the silence do its work. Let the answers breathe. And let your team see that you're not just asking to check something off of some corporate HR checklist requirement because you had to. You're actually listening to understand and to grow as a leader. Because the moment you become defensive, your culture completely shuts down and closes off. But when you stay open, your culture expands and grows into something beautiful. And here's kind of a bonus move, if you will. After you gather your responses, share what you've heard with your team. Not every detail, of course, but the themes. And ask the team, hey, did I get that right? And that one question, did I get that right?is the difference between performative listening and transformative leadership. So this week, try the culture pulse check. Not to fix everything overnight, it's not gonna happen. But to start a conversation that's been waiting to happen, but no one knew where to start. Because when leaders listen with humility, cultures begin to heal. Ask yourself, what's the emotional climate of my team?right now. What's being tolerated that shouldn't be? And what's being missed that deserves my attention right now? And when you get those answers, address them immediately. Next time, we'll explore how true mentorship is rooted in humility, presence, and the art of guiding without overpowering. But for today, lead with awareness, audit your impact, and remember,Culture isn't what you say, it's what you leave behind. Thanks for joining me today on the Humble Throne. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-humble-throne--6701475/support.

    9 min
  2. Episode 9: Accountability Without Intimidation

    10/29/2025

    Episode 9: Accountability Without Intimidation

    In this episode of "The Humble Throne," Todd Robatin delves into the art of maintaining accountability without resorting to intimidation. Discover how true leadership balances strength with softness, fostering a culture of excellence that doesn't breed anxiety. Todd explores the power of humble leadership to enforce accountability through clarity and support, rather than coercion. Learn how to guide your team back to their best selves with empathy and respect, transforming accountability into a tool for growth and alignment. Tune in to redefine your approach to leadership and create a more supportive and effective team environment. Transcript: Welcome back to the humble throne. Where leadership isn't a performance, it's a relationship. I'm Todd Robatin and this is episode nine, accountability without intimidation. Because holding people to a standard shouldn't mean holding them in fear. Today, we'll talk about how we lead with both strength and softness. How we build cultures of excellence without breeding anxiety and how humility isn't the opposite of accountability, it's the foundation of it. Let's be honest, most leaders struggle with accountability. They either swing way too hard using control, guilt, and tension, or they swing way too soft, avoiding conflict and settling for underperformance at every turn. But what if there's a third way? What if humble leadership could enforce accountability with clarity, not coercion? Because accountability isn't about punishment. It's about alignment. It's about helping people return to their best, not reminding them of their worst. Here's what accountability with intimidation sounds like. You messed up again. Don't disappoint me. Fix this, fast. There's a lot of tension there. But here's what accountability with humility sounds like. Let's walk through what happened. I believe you can do better and I'll help if you want. What's your plan to move forward with integrity on this one? You see, it's the same expectation, but there's a very distinct difference in emotional climate. In accountability with humility, respect stays in the conversation, while shame exits the building. And when people feel safe, they don't just admit mistakes, they learn from them, and they're willing to take on the support to change their actions. You know, a department head I worked with had a brilliant employee whose work just started slipping. They were late on deadlines. Their work quality was becoming lower and lower, and the tension in the office just continued to grow. People were gossiping behind their back. They didn't want to address the issue, but they knew that something was wrong. But this department head, rather than just issue a reprimand, they scheduled a quiet one-on-one and said to the employee, I've noticed a change. Are you okay? How can we kind of reset some things and get back on the right track? And that conversation unlocked a treasure trove of transparency that the leader was not ready to hear, but had to. Turns out the employee was burnt out and overwhelmed beyond measure. But with support and structure, not threats. They started to turn things around and the entire dynamic changed. Because accountability, everybody always thinks it has to be this demanding factor. You have to hit your deadline. You have to hit your budget. You have to have to have to have to do all of these things. But accountability doesn't mean removing the empathy component, but it does mean guiding people back to their excellence. back to their full potential and what you know as a leader they can accomplish with the right support and respect in place. And here's the result. The employee in this situation didn't just improve and get back on track, they became a culture builder. Someone that instead of being gossiped about at the water cooler or in the break room or after hours on social media, They became the person that was lifting everyone else up because they felt seen, heard, understood, respected, and not shamed. Here's the paradox of the whole thing. People perform better when they're respected, not rattled. Fear might get you compliance in the short term, but it rarely gets you sustainable excellence. And the humble leader holds the line on accountability, but at the same time holds space, too, for transparency, vulnerability, and care. Here are your humble truths for this week. Number one, clear expectations are greater than vague threats. People don't fear clarity. In fact, they crave it. When you name the standard, you actually empower people to meet it. Number two, support strengthens accountability. Accountability without support feels like a punishment, even when it's not meant to be. But when people know you're in it with them, they rise to the occasion. And number three, compassion is the foundation of high standards. You can be kind and still be firm. You can be empathetic and still expect excellence. They're not happening at different times. They can happen at the same time. Now let those settle because again, these truths aren't just ideas. They're invitations for both reflection and action. So here's a practical way to apply this this week in what we'll call the accountability reset. Before your next feedback conversation, ask yourself, What's the standard I need to reinforce? What support can I offer to help them meet that standard? And how can I communicate this with clarity and care? And then when you speak, when you communicate that clearly, lead with presence, not pressure. Ask yourself, where did I need to hold someone accountable without adding pressure or shame? And what would it look like to lead that moment with empathy and not ego? And then say, when you enter that conversation, I want to revisit expectations, not because I'm disappointed, but because I believe in your potential and I want to help you get there. That one sentence, that one request can change the entire tone of the conversation. Instead of the person feeling isolated, and attacked putting up their defenses, they lay down their guard, open up with trust and vulnerability, and clearly collaborate a plan to move forward and revamp their part on your team. Next week, we'll challenge surface-level leadership and examine the emotional undercurrents shaping modern teams. But for now, lead firmly, speak respectfully, and hold accountability with humility. Thanks for pulling up a seat and sitting with me today on the humble throne. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-humble-throne--6701475/support.

    8 min

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What if leadership wasn't about being followed - but about being felt? The Humble Throne is a podcast for leaders who believe that quiet influence, emotional intelligence, and authenticity are more powerful than ego and noise. Hosted by Todd Robatin, each episode explores that art of humble leadership through storytelling, reflection, and practical insight. Whether you're navigating change, building culture, mentoring others, or simply trying to lead with more intention, this podcast invites you to sit down, slow down, and lead from within. No hype. No hustle. Just honest conversations about what it means to lead with softness, substance, and spirit. Topics include: Adaptive leadership in uncertain times.Emotional intelligence and presence.Mentorship, legacy, and quiet impact.Leading across generations and cultures.Personal growth through humility.Pull up a chair. The throne is yours. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-humble-throne--6701475/support.