Hold on Tight Podcast

Marc LaFleur

🎙️  Hold On Tight is the unapologetically real podcast about resilience, rebuilding, and living stronger on the other side of life’s hardest hits. Hosted by a single dad who’s been through the fire, this isn’t therapy-speak — it’s straight talk about getting back up when life knocks you down. We explore mental health, fitness, relationships, parenting, money, and everything in between — sparking real conversations that get people talking and thinking differently. Expect gritty bar-talk, expert guests, unfiltered stories, and the tools to keep moving forward — one rep, one conversation, one day at a time. New Episodes Every Friday

  1. 4D AGO

    Ep.23: Okay. I Understand. Love in 2026

    Summary In this episode, Marc LaFleur explores the complexities of love, emphasizing its enduring nature despite modern challenges. He discusses the importance of trust, healing, and self-discovery in relationships, and outlines the three phases of love: fireworks, candle, and mirror. LaFleur encourages listeners to confront their emotional barriers and choose love intentionally, highlighting that true love requires vulnerability and growth. Takeaways Love has been a fundamental force for over 200,000 years.True love is built on choice, not convenience.Modern dating often leads to loneliness despite increased options.Love demands patience, accountability, and forgiveness.Trust is the heartbeat of love; without it, peace is lost.Healing involves remembering and loving again, despite past pain.Emotional unavailability can disguise itself as passion.Real love requires both partners to grow together.The mirror of love reveals unresolved issues within ourselves.Choosing love means being open to vulnerability and discomfort

    17 min

  2. JAN 2

    Ep.22: Bonded Brotherhood with Jeff Low

    Summary In this episode of Hold On Tight, Marc LaFleur speaks with Jeff Low, founder of Bonded Brotherhood, about the importance of community and vulnerability for men. They discuss the challenges men face in expressing emotions, the myths surrounding masculinity, and the critical need for connection and support. Jeff shares insights from his own journey and the transformative impact of the Ascent program, emphasizing that men are not alone in their struggles and that building authentic relationships is essential for personal growth and mental health. Takeaways None of us get through tough times alone.Bonded Brotherhood was created to address men's isolation.Community is essential for emotional support.Men often feel they must carry their burdens alone.Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.Many men struggle to identify close friends outside of work.Gratitude can help rewire our mental pathways.Men need safe spaces to express their feelings.Authenticity is about being true to oneself.The younger generation is changing the narrative around masculinity.

    45 min

  3. 12/26/2025

    Ep.21 The Truth with Devin The One

    Summary In this engaging conversation, Marc LaFleur and Devin Linder delve into the themes of truth, accountability, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of recognizing one's current situation, the necessity of making micro changes, and the significance of self-care in a chaotic life. The dialogue also explores the victim mentality and the power of ownership, emphasizing the need to reframe one's identity and take responsibility for personal growth. Devin shares practical advice on building habits and the importance of honest self-check-ins, culminating in an exclusive 60-second bomb of wisdom. Takeaways You are exactly where you're supposed to be.Change requires confronting painful truths.Micro changes can lead to significant transformations.Daily self-check-ins are crucial for mental health.Chaos thrives in the gaps of inaction.Putting yourself first is not selfish; it's necessary.Ownership is a powerful tool for personal growth.Reframing your identity can change your life.Victim mentality is comfortable but destructive.Real growth comes from taking responsibility for your actions.

    32 min

  4. 12/19/2025

    Ep.20: Who Are You Now? Rebuilding Identity, and Self After Divorce with Rudy A

    Summary In this episode, Marc LaFleur and breakup coach Rudy A discuss the challenges men face after divorce, including identity loss, accountability, and the importance of community. They explore how to rebuild oneself, navigate new relationships, and reconnect with sexuality while emphasizing the need for emotional support and healing. Rudy shares personal experiences and practical advice for men to take charge of their healing journey and foster healthier relationships moving forward. Takeaways Rediscovering identity after divorce is crucial.Accountability is key to personal growth.Healing takes time and should not be rushed.Men need to be vulnerable and open about their feelings.Community support is essential for emotional health.Dating after divorce requires honesty and self-awareness.Reconnecting with sexuality involves understanding new dynamics.Technology can be a tool for emotional expression.Isolation can hinder healing; reach out for support.Actions speak louder than words in setting an example for children.

    38 min

  5. 12/12/2025

    Ep.19: Diagnoses, Feelings & Raising Humans with Gayle Alexander

    Summary In this conversation, Marc LaFleur and Gayle Alexander explore the complexities of mental health, emotional regulation, and parenting. They discuss the implications of diagnoses, the importance of resilience in children, and how emotions, both positive and negative, play a crucial role in personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to manage their own emotions to better support their children, the value of community and group therapy, and the ongoing stigma surrounding therapy. Gayle shares practical advice for parents on navigating after-school emotions and fostering resilience in their children. Takeaways Therapy should be viewed as a strength, not a stigma.It's essential for parents to manage their own emotions first.Negative emotions serve a purpose in personal growth.Resiliency is a skill that can be taught and learned.Community and group therapy can provide valuable support.Children need to learn to self-soothe and manage their emotions.It's okay for kids to feel overwhelmed; they need guidance.Parents should encourage their children to take on responsibilities.Hugging can be a simple yet effective way to connect with children.Learning involves making mistakes and overcoming challenges.

    44 min

  6. 12/05/2025

    Ep.18: Masculine, Feminine, and All the Chaos in Between with Stephanie Lindeman

    Summary In this episode, Marc LaFleur interviews Stephanie Lindeman, an attachment therapist and life coach, discussing the complexities of attachment styles, the dynamics of masculine and feminine energy, and the importance of emotional connection in relationships. They explore the anxious-avoidant dynamic, cultural shifts in dating, and the impact of shame-driven masculinity. Stephanie emphasizes the need for vulnerability and effective communication to bridge gaps in relationships and highlights the significance of understanding one's attachment style for healthier connections. Takeaways Masculine energy provides structure while feminine energy brings emotionality.The anxious-avoidant dynamic can lead to emotional burnout in relationships.Understanding attachment styles is crucial for relationship success.Emotional connection is essential for intimacy and relationship satisfaction.Cultural shifts have changed the expectations in dating and relationships.Vulnerability is key to effective communication in relationships.Shame-driven masculinity restricts emotional expression in men.Healthy masculinity involves being in touch with one's emotions.Couples often wait too long to seek help for their relationship issues.It's possible to restore love and connection with effort and understanding.

    46 min

  7. 11/27/2025

    Ep.17: 7 Minutes of Real Thanks-Giving 🦃

    Summary In this conversation, Marc LaFleur discusses the transformative power of heartbreak and personal growth. He emphasizes the importance of perspective in navigating life's challenges, encouraging listeners to embrace change and trust the journey. By reframing difficult moments as opportunities for learning, individuals can cultivate resilience and a more positive outlook on life. Takeaways You stop taking heartbreak personally.You stop questioning your worth.You stop waiting for closure.You start trusting redirections.You start seeing hard moments as data, not disasters.Life stops feeling like something you're trying to outrun.It becomes something you walk through with your head up.Heartbreak teaches resilience.Perspective changes everything in life.Embrace change as a part of growth.

    7 min

  8. 11/21/2025

    Ep.16: Top 10 Things I Would've Done Differently as a Dad

    Summary In this episode, Marc LaFleur reflects on his journey as a father, sharing the top ten things he wishes he had done differently. He emphasizes the importance of embracing the messiness of parenting, separating roles, avoiding comparisons, trusting instincts, redefining success, prioritizing self-care, and being kind to oneself. Through personal anecdotes and insights, he encourages parents to focus on love, presence, and growth rather than perfection. Takeaways I wouldn't have worried so much about the messes.I'd separate my role as a husband from my role as a dad.I wouldn't have given two s***s about what other parents were doing.I'd have held the line longer on screens.Your reaction teaches more than your words ever will.Self-care isn't selfish. It's a strategy.You can't pour from an empty cup.I would have been kinder to myself.Grace is a part of growth.Your kids don't need a perfect father.

    24 min
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Ratings & Reviews

4.3
out of 5
12 Ratings

About

🎙️  Hold On Tight is the unapologetically real podcast about resilience, rebuilding, and living stronger on the other side of life’s hardest hits. Hosted by a single dad who’s been through the fire, this isn’t therapy-speak — it’s straight talk about getting back up when life knocks you down. We explore mental health, fitness, relationships, parenting, money, and everything in between — sparking real conversations that get people talking and thinking differently. Expect gritty bar-talk, expert guests, unfiltered stories, and the tools to keep moving forward — one rep, one conversation, one day at a time. New Episodes Every Friday

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  • Creator
    Marc LaFleur
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    23
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Hold on Tight Podcast
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