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Unwineding

Mental health professionals and those in the field explore a range of topics and diagnoses in mental health, using engaging, everyday language, all accompanied by a drink. If you're looking to expand your knowledge about mental health for yourself or your loved ones, and enjoy a few laughs in the process, this podcast is the perfect match! unwineding.substack.com

  1. Aug 3

    Because ‘Use Your Words’ Only Works If They Have Words:

    In this episode, we sit down with Dr. David Marcus, psychologist, parenting expert, and the man who has probably heard every version of “my kid just lost it in the grocery store” that exists. Dr. Marcus breaks down why emotional language is one of the most important skills we can teach children — and why so many adults are still playing catch‑up on it themselves. We talk about how kids need to learn to identify feelings, why “mad,” “sad,” and “fine” are not a complete emotional vocabulary, and how parents can model emotional regulation without needing to be perfect (or perfectly calm). Dr. Marcus shares practical tools for helping kids name what’s happening inside their bodies, communicate their needs, and build the emotional muscles that lead to healthier relationships, better coping skills, and fewer meltdowns — for everyone involved. Expect humor, real‑life examples, and a whole lot of “oh wow, that explains my childhood” moments as we explore how emotional language transforms families. Whether you’re parenting toddlers, teens, or your own inner child, this conversation offers grounded, compassionate guidance for raising humans who can feel their feelings without being ruled by them. Dr. David Marcus Find the Good Brand Own Your Stigma — Discount code -unwinedingsupportgroup15% Thanks for reading UnWineding Substack! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unwineding.substack.com/subscribe

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  2. Jul 27

    Stockholm Syndrome:

    In this episode, we’re tackling one of the most dramatic, over‑quoted, and scientifically unsupported concepts in pop psychology: Stockholm Syndrome — the diagnosis that sounds like it came from a crime thriller and… basically did. Spoiler: it’s not real. Not a diagnosis. Not in the DSM. Not even good science. It’s the psychological equivalent of an urban legend your cousin swears happened to “a friend of a friend.” But you know what is real?Learned helplessness — the brain’s very understandable “I have tried EVERYTHING and nothing works, so I’m just going to sit here and disassociate politely” response to repeated stress, danger, or trauma. We break down: * How Stockholm Syndrome became famous because of one messy hostage situation and a police PR problem * How learned helplessness actually develops (hint: your brain is not being dramatic, it’s being efficient) * Why victims don’t “just leave,” “just fight back,” or “just stop being scared” Expect humor, myth‑busting, and a whole lot of “oh wow, that makes way more sense” moments as we unpack what really happens when the brain is trying to keep you alive — even if the outside world insists on calling it something catchy and wildly inaccurate. This episode is your permission slip to stop blaming yourself, stop believing Hollywood psychology, and start understanding the real science behind survival. Find The Good 10% off Thanks for reading UnWineding Substack! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unwineding.substack.com/subscribe

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Mental health professionals and those in the field explore a range of topics and diagnoses in mental health, using engaging, everyday language, all accompanied by a drink. If you're looking to expand your knowledge about mental health for yourself or your loved ones, and enjoy a few laughs in the process, this podcast is the perfect match! unwineding.substack.com