Happy Slut

Samia Mounts
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Happy Slut is your permission slip to want what you want, you cute little slut. Host Samia Mounts celebrates people who take joy in their sexuality in spite of all the ways the system of patriarchy makes that hard for everyone. From navigating nontraditional relationships to unpacking shame and reclaiming joy, Happy Slut is about getting curious, taking ownership of your desires, and learning how to trust what feels delicious to YOU.

  1. 3d ago ·  Video

    Good Moms Get Horny, Too with Allison Whaley

    Allison Whaley is a polyamorous slut who reads smut, runs her own feminist erotica subscription platform, and parents three small children with her husband...and if you think those things can't possibly coexist, have I got a sexy-yet-wholesome episode for you. I loved talking with Allison. She's the first person I've ever met who reports having had great sex in college and only ever being attracted to stable, well-adjusted people. MY CODEPENDENT HEART YEARNS FOR THIS SUPERPOWER. She also knows firsthand how powerful erotica can be for women in discovering what really turns us on - and how men can learn what women really want by reading the smut they can't get enough of. Meow! In this episode: Growing up around purity culture in Kentucky, and the guilt that followed her first experience of being really turned onDiscovering her exhibitionist streak in college: rooftops, a hill in Forest Park, and the library, oh my!The time she and her husband hired a professional domme as an anniversary presentHer extremely mild “toxic ho phase”How two early relationships set her standard for what healthy love feels likeBurning out in fintech and deciding to stop building someone else’s dreamWhy romance is the cash cow of publishing, and the Heated Rivalry effectThe short erotic story “Female Nude, Reclining,” and why a man apologizing for misogyny is crazy hotBothered Stories’ editorial standards: writing in the awkward moments and tagging content up frontErotica as a gentle way to come back into your body after traumaCelebrating male pleasure, from a super sexy flower-petal bath scene to the shame we heap on men who masturbateBeing a mom, a CEO and a polyamorous slut at the same time, and the Feeld selfie that taught her to stop compartmentalizingHow patriarchy pressures us to lock our sexual selves behind closed doors, and why those doors need to stay open FOLLOW ALLISON: Two-week free trial of Bothered Stories: https://www.botheredstories.com/pricing-plans/list Website: https://www.botheredstories.com Podcast (Smut Talks): https://www.botheredstories.com/podcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BotheredStories Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/botheredstories/ SUPPORT THE SHOW! Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast FirmTech — use code HAPPYSLUT for 15% off — https://myfirmtech.com Get $50 off Kenneth Play’s Beyond Satisfied Pro Bundle — https://kennethplay.com/happyslut Shameless Care — use code HAPPYSLUT for $15 off — https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb Share this episode with someone who needs a little sexy inspiration, and all the men you know who want to learn how to be amazing in bed. xoxo, Samia

    Good Moms Get Horny, Too with Allison Whaley

  2. Oct 21 ·  Video

    Three Husbands & a Sexual Awakening with Jennifer Kaylo

    Jennifer Kaylo is on husband #3 after having a sexual awakening while married to husband #2, all while co-parenting her two kids with husband #1. She hosts the Open Bedroom Podcast, where she talks candidly about sex, life, dungeons, threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes. When I was on her show recently, she told me about a Thanksgiving dinner she threw with her husband that turned into an orgy. Talk about a horn o'plenty! Even though Jen's outlook on sex and love is fun and adventurous AS HELL, she also knows how to navigate her relationships with clarity and compassion. You'll be shocked at the revelation she shares at the end of the episode. In this episode: Growing up a Catholic schoolgirl, then landing in a hardcore independent Baptist school where a pastor told her that Satan loved her short, red hairHaving unexpectedly great, orgasmic sex as a teenager, and the wise pastor who told her and her boyfriend NOT to get marriedMarriage number one: a decade with a man who was never really present, what the sex actually looked like, and the past-life regression that cracked the whole thing openThe spiritual lesson she took from that regression, and how it reframed her entire relationship historyMarriage number two: eight years of "safe," scheduled, disconnected sex, and the moment she realized she didn't want to die having had sex in only two positionsTrying to find a sex-positive therapist in a deeply conservative area (and the "crazy cat lady" who finally got it)The conversation that opened her second marriage — and how fast it ended once it didMeeting husband number three on Tinder, the rocky first date, and the three-hour reunion that reset her whole idea of sexHow she told her kids that she could love more than one person — and what they actually said backThe current chapter with husband three: swinging versus polyamory, a near-breakup, and where they are nowWhat her story reveals about how differently women are allowed to want things once patriarchy stops deciding what a "good wife" is supposed to look like FOLLOW JENNIFER KAYLO & THE OPEN BEDROOM PODCAST: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-open-bedroom-podcast/id1523922106 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1EmsUcd7s9n4HNNR0LDyG5 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theopenbedroompodcast/podcasts Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ SUPPORT THE SHOW! Subscribe to my Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://instagram.com/happyslutcast TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@happyslutcast YouTube: https://youtube.com/@happyslutcast FirmTech — use code HAPPYSLUT for 15% off — https://myfirmtech.com Get $50 off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro Bundle — https://kennethplay.com/happyslut Shameless Care — use code HAPPYSLUT for $15 off — https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb Send this to the friend who thinks you have to pick one relationship style forever, and to the one who's quietly wondering if "good wife" ever meant what she thought it did. xoxo, Samia

    Three Husbands & a Sexual Awakening with Jennifer Kaylo

  3. Oct 14 ·  Video

    Too Slutty to Buy a House?

    David Carlson was a professional organizer years before they began identifying as polyamorous, but their slutty pansexual ways went back to high school. When they found an opportunity to start fighting for your right to be a slut—or poly, or ENM/CNM, or just a group of people with a tight-knit chosen family who wanna buy a damn house together—they jumped at the chance. David is now the Campaign Director for OPEN, the Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-monogamy. You might have heard news of random cities across the US passing legislation protecting nonmonogamous folks from discrimination. That’s the work David and the team at OPEN are doing every day, and they are gaining ground. It’s an exciting time to be slutty, pinecones! NOTE: David reached out after this episode was published to make two corrections. First, the laws protecting nonmonogamous people may not be able to be applied to chosen family groups—it’s a gray area right now, and untested. Second, protections were passed in Hazel Park, MI, NOT Ferndale, MI. In this episode: Why David told their high school dates they didn’t want to be exclusive, being labeled a f**k boy, and the pushback they got from boysThe delicious night David had at 18 that clued them in to being bi (and later, pan)Growing up queer in a town of 3,000 on the Oregon coast“Not terrible”: how we downplay pleasure we’ve been taught to be ashamed ofTaking the crumbs: why David ended up in monogamous relationships through their twenties even after being a subversive, nonmonogamous high schooler.Omission and small lies, and the cost of managing a partner’s reactions by not telling the whole truthRelationship anarchy explained, and why ranking partners can feel so wrongThe sale of a polycule’s house that got canceled at the last minuteHow one letter to a local DSA chapter turned into a unanimous city council voteSeattle, Portland, Olympia, Ferndale, Somerville, West Hollywood and more: where non-monogamous people are now protectedPlural domestic partnerships, and how a throuple from Portland went to Somerville, MA, to get oneHow patriarchy made romantic relationships the only kind that demands exclusivityHow feeling politically helpless can stop you from doing anything to make a difference—and how easy it can actually be to do that if you’re willing to write a letter or make a call. SUPPORT OPEN: Take OPEN’s 2026 Community Survey (open until Nov 12): https://www.open-love.org/survey Website: https://www.open-love.org Donate: https://www.open-love.org/donate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/openloveorg Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/openloveorg.bsky.social Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/openloveorg FetLife: https://fetlife.com/OPENnonprofit SUPPORT THE SHOW! Subscribe to Samia's Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast FirmTech — use code HAPPYSLUT for 15% off — https://myfirmtech.com Get $50 off Kenneth Play’s Beyond Satisfied Pro Bundle https://kennethplay.com/happyslut Shameless Care — use code HAPPYSLUT for $15 off — https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb Send this to the ones you know who are flying under the radar…but wish they could fly free. xoxo, Samia

    Too Slutty to Buy a House?

  4. Oct 7 ·  Video

    Mr. Alamo City Leather Goes Primal and Gives Back

    Isaac Cardona has a degree in accounting, a penchant for devising ambitious community service projects, a vanilla husband he calls his soulmate, and a deep desire to be flogged by his sir. He's also my very first local happy slut! Based right here in San Antonio, Texas, a place one might not expect there to be a social group for gay men who love leather. AND YET! Isaac is one of the founding members of the San Antonio Leather Men, and he's helped grow them into one of the biggest leather groups in Texas in the last four years. In this episode: The Hanky Code, decoded: what the different colors actually mean (yes, we go there)Growing up Jehovah's Witness, getting kicked out of the church at sixteen, and the uncle whose unapologetic queerness changed everythingHis "emancipation proclamation" coming-out story, timed down to the hourFive years estranged from his parents, and how that relationship slowly mendedMeeting his husband of six years by mercilessly teasing their lovesick friends on FacebookOpening up a vanilla marriage into an ethically non-monogamous oneHow a now-closed dive bar became "home" and launched him into leather cultureBuilding the San Antonio Leathermen from twelve people at a social to 75+Winning the title Mr. Alamo City Leather and using it to fund toy drives, food drives, and an upcoming AIDS Foundation fundraiserWhat actually happens in his body and mind when he goes "primal" during impact playThe harm-reduction rules he swears by for his more adventurous kinksWhy living out loud and unashamed tends to turn people into more generous, active members of their community — a pattern Samia keeps finding, episode after episode, once patriarchy and purity culture stop running the show FOLLOW THE SAN ANTONIO LEATHERMEN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/satxleathermen/ Facebook (event calendar — socials, Kinky Carnival, gear nights): https://www.facebook.com/groups/satxleathermen/?ref=share_group_link Website: https://sanantonioleathermen.com/ Donate to the Nov 21 San Antonio AIDS Foundation fundraiser: https://www.sanantonioaids.org/donate SUPPORT THE SHOW! Subscribe to my Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://instagram.com/happyslutcast TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@happyslutcast YouTube: https://youtube.com/@happyslutcast FirmTech — use code HAPPYSLUT for 15% off — https://myfirmtech.com Get $50 off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro Bundle — https://kennethplay.com/happyslut Shameless Care — use code HAPPYSLUT for $15 off — https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb Send this to the friend who thinks "kinky" and "community-minded" can't coexist, and to the one who still needs convincing that living out loud only makes the world around you better. xoxo, Samia

    Mr. Alamo City Leather Goes Primal and Gives Back

  5. Sep 30 ·  Video

    The Swinger Queen Wasn't Feeling It

    Taara Rose and her partner James were literally crowned Queen and King of the swinger community, but during the pandemic, Taara realized her pleasure had never been her priority. She set out to reconnect with her body, understand her own pleasure, and start advocating for it in all of her encounters. And the results...? Let's just say fire emojis abound, pinecones. And uhh, Taara got a tattoo of two pairs of scissors. 🔥✂️🔥✂️🔥 In this episode: How Taara and James started out as friends with benefits, and decided to be non-monogamous from day one of their Official RelationshipBeach blowjobs under a double rainbow (yes, that really happened)What it's like to be crowned royalty at one of the biggest swinger conventions in the worldThe anxiety that started showing up in her body before events, how she wrote it off in the moment, and what it was actually telling herThe article that got her kicked out of the swinger communityHow Taara's whole life changed when she trained to become a certified somatic sex educatorThe moment she realized her own pleasure had never been her priorityDecentering orgasms and finding pleasure in coffee, dog walks, and sexy treesNegotiating a scene weeks in advance, and what two full weeks of aftercare looks likeGoing from swinging together to polyamory apart, and how James feels about itThe Wheel of Consent, and why "thank you for your no" is part of itWhy patriarchy has all of us—women and men—performing in bed instead of feeling anything WORK WITH TAARA ROSE: Website: https://sexedforthemodernbed.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed Email: taararosecoaching@gmail.com SUPPORT THE SHOW! Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast FirmTech — use code HAPPYSLUT for 15% off — https://myfirmtech.com Get $50 off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro Bundle — https://kennethplay.com/happyslut Shameless Care — use code HAPPYSLUT for $15 off — https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb Send this to the friend who keeps saying yes when they want to say no, and to the one who thinks "listen to your body" sounds too woo-woo. xoxo, Samia

    The Swinger Queen Wasn't Feeling It

  6. Sep 23 ·  Video

    A Very Happy Manwhore with George Goulburn

    A man who makes the plans, cooks the meals, puts his phone away, and genuinely loves giving women pleasure? Pinecones, we need to talk. George Goulburn is a 54-year-old Australian male escort who traded corporate life for a career making women feel safe, seen, and wanted. His bookings can include beach getaways, home-cooked dinners, and plenty of sex—but the attention he describes giving his clients had me swooooooning! George joins me to talk about what women actually ask for when they hire him, how he finds genuine attraction in his work, and what happens when someone catches feelings. We get into pleasure after menopause, the emotional demands of paid intimacy, and the double standard that celebrates men for the same work women are shamed for. George loves his job, and he’s candid about both its joys and its complications. Whether or not you ever book an escort, you'll come away from this one knowing what it looks like when someone gives you their full, undivided attention, and why you deserve it. In this episode: What George's last booking looked like, hour by hour (spoiler: he booked the Airbnb and did all the cooking)Why most of his clients are over 50, and what they ask for that women in their 30s don'tThe line between performing intimacy and feeling it, and why George refuses to actHow he screens clients, and the red flags that make him turn a booking downThe "you don't haggle at Gucci" rule for knowing your worthThe myth that menopause means you "shut up shop," and why some of his clients have never felt more aliveThe sensitive question: does he ever not get aroused on the job?Catching feelings for clients, and what he does when that happensSex worker burnout, a week-long overseas booking, and how he rechargesThe scariest thing that's happened to him on the jobWhy a male escort gets called a "stud" while women doing the same work get stigmaGeorge's message to the men of the world who blame women for their problems FOLLOW GEORGE: Website: https://georgegoulburn.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgegoulburnofficial SUPPORT THE SHOW! FirmTech: use code HAPPYSLUT for 15% at https://myfirmtech.com Get $50 off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro Bundle: https://kennethplay.com/happyslut Shameless Care: use code HAPPYSLUT for $15 off at https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb Become a paying subscriber on Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast Share this episode with the friend who's sworn off dating apps forever, and with the man in your life who could stand to learn a thing or two about paying attention. xoxo, Samia

    A Very Happy Manwhore with George Goulburn

  7. Sep 16 ·  Video

    Abortion is Good, Actually with Sophie Nir

    Abortion is good for sex. I SAID IT, pinecones. I’m proudly pro-abortion for lots of reasons, but one of them is that without abortion access, consenting to sex can mean consenting to pregnancy…and y’all, that can really, really ruin sex. And then there are all the other, bigger reasons: women being able to control their own bodies, direct their own lives, and not be forced to give birth when they don’t want to. That’s the real moral issue around abortion. Sophie Nir is the founder of the Abortion Positivity Project, a nonprofit working to move us beyond the apologetic, shame-filled language that still surrounds abortion—even among people who consider themselves pro-choice. Sophie joins me to talk about what happens when we stop treating abortion like something we have to reluctantly defend and start talking about it as healthcare, freedom, bodily autonomy, and a social good. In this episode: Why "safe, legal, and rare" still carries abortion stigmaWhat Sophie calls abortion fan fictionWhy "I could never have an abortion" may not mean what you think it meansHow abortion restrictions became embedded in American healthcare and politics, and how the original motivation wasn't morality - it was moneyWhy Sophie uses the term forced birthHow abortion is less politically controversial than we’ve been led to believeThe times Sophie witnessed anti-abortion protestors coming into the clinic she worked at...to get abortionsThe difference between being pro-choice and being proudly pro-abortionThe three pillars of abortion positivityWhy abortion access matters for women’s economic, social, and political freedomWhat the Turnaway Study tells us about what happens when people are denied abortions they wantWhy saying "abortion is healthcare" isn’t enough if we don’t actually treat it like healthcareHow nobody is conducting a national poll on whether Sophie should get sinus surgeryWhat it would look like to live in a culture where restricting abortion feels completely unthinkableAnd why we need to stop talking like we’re losing CHECK OUT THE ABORTION POSITIVITY PROJECT: Learn more about Sophie’s work, donate, join the mailing list, and check out their merch: https://abortionpositivity.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abortionpositivity/ SPONSORS: Become a more skillful lover with Kenneth Play’s Beyond Satisfied Pro course. Get $50 off at: https://kennethplay.com/happyslut Get 15% off FirmTech’s innovative sex-tech products at: https://myfirmtech.com/ -- Use code HAPPYSLUT at checkout. Get private, nonjudgmental sexual healthcare from Shameless Care, including comprehensive STI testing, DoxyPEP, PrEP, sexual wellness medications, and more. https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb -- Use code HAPPYSLUT at checkout for $15 off. SUPPORT THE SHOW! Subscribe to my Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com/ Samia’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts/ Happy Slut Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast/ Happy Slut TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcast Happy Slut YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast If this episode made you rethink something you’ve always assumed about abortion, send it to somebody else who might be ready to think about it differently too. xoxo, Samia

  8. Sep 9 ·  Video

    It's Never Been Safer to Be a Slut

    Getting tested for STIs is responsible. But what if your “comprehensive” STI test…isn’t actually comprehensive? Shameless Care founder Robert Johnson found that out the hard way when he tested negative for gonorrhea while unknowingly carrying it in his throat and passing it to a partner. That experience eventually led him to build Shameless Care, a sex-positive telehealth company designed to fill some pretty massive gaps in sexual healthcare. Robert and his Sex Is Good podcast co-host Anna join me to talk about what we actually need to know to take the fear out of sex - so it can be ALL FUN, BABY! In this episode: How Robert tested negative for gonorrhea while unknowingly spreading itWhy your STI panel may be missing infectionsWhy HPV is the glitter of the sexual worldThe HPV vaccine—and why adults over 45 may still want itPrEP, DoxyPEP, and the golden age of sexual healthWhy gay orgies are safer now than they were in the ’80s and ’90sWhy STI prevention can actually give us more sexual freedomThe ridiculous stigma around herpesHSV-1 vs. HSV-2 and how either can show up orally or genitallyMy own experience living—and having lots of sex—with herpesHow herpes has mostly functioned as an douchebag screener for meViagra and Cialis…for women?!An oxytocin nasal spray that I immediately decided I needWhy sex-positive doctors matterAnd why knowing more about sexual health can make sex a whole lot more fun CHECK OUT SHAMELESS CARE: Get private, nonjudgmental sexual healthcare from sex-positive doctors, including comprehensive STI testing, DoxyPEP, PrEP, valacyclovir, sexual wellness medications, oxytocin, and more. Samia’s Shameless Care affiliate link: https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb --> Use code HAPPYSLUT at checkout for $15 off your order. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shamelesscareofficial/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@shamelesscareofficial LISTEN TO SEX IS GOOD: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-is-good-podcast/id1816808892 All episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2505799/episodes The episode where they go into the weeds on DoxyPEP for Women: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/doxypep-and-women-the-truth-shall-set-us-free/id1816808892?i=1000717357537 SPONSORS: Become a more skillful lover with Kenneth Play’s Beyond Satisfied Pro course. Get $50 off at: https://kennethplay.com/happyslut Get 15% off FirmTech’s innovative sex-tech products at: https://myfirmtech.com/ --> Use code HAPPYSLUT at checkout. Get private, nonjudgmental sexual healthcare from Shameless Care. https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb --> Use code HAPPYSLUT at checkout for $15 off. SUPPORT THE SHOW! Subscribe to my Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com/ Samia’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts/ Happy Slut Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast/ Happy Slut TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcast Happy Slut YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast If this episode taught you something you didn’t know about your own sexual health, send it to somebody else who deserves to have more fun and less fear around sex. xoxo, Samia

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Happy Slut is your permission slip to want what you want, you cute little slut. Host Samia Mounts celebrates people who take joy in their sexuality in spite of all the ways the system of patriarchy makes that hard for everyone. From navigating nontraditional relationships to unpacking shame and reclaiming joy, Happy Slut is about getting curious, taking ownership of your desires, and learning how to trust what feels delicious to YOU.

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  • Creator
    Samia Mounts
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    61
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Samia Mounts Productions Ltd.
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    Happy Slut

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