Aces Up Your Sleeve

Aces Up Your Sleeve
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Join Kade and Sabrina, two a-spec autistic therapists, and their special guests as they help you navigate relationships.

  1. Successful Autistic Teens

    12H AGO

    Successful Autistic Teens

    Welcome to season 2! We're starting off with a small series on Autistic & AuDHD Teens in light of our upcoming GEMS Neurodiversity Summit: Autistic + ADHD Teens event in May. For today’s topic, we’re discussing success during teen years and answering listener questions:  I’m writing to you two on behalf of one of my students. I’m a Sophomore English Teacher and I have a student who is very bright but barely talks and does not participate in class discussions. Though he has an Individualized Education Plan that lists him as autistic, his only accommodations are (1) getting breaks as needed during class and (2) extended test-taking time. Are there other ways I can support him in class? Do you two have any words of encouragement for him and students like him?Hi I desperately need to make money to afford my own things. I’m 17 with a drivers license but Im shy and not good at masking. What jobs can I do? Who could hire me?You'll get some school accommodation ideas, autistic-teenager-friendly job ideas, and more! On Upping the Ante, we spoke more about “successful teens” and what that looked like for us as teenagers, including what expectations were tough on us. We’re sharing some personal insight- maybe it’ll resonate with you? Let us know! Possible IEP Accommodations list: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1iOj9EAboD-ekOGyr_Rz1ThPNWJxwHM859AMOQDzMHt8/edit?usp=sharingDestiny Huff, IEP Advocate: https://www.instagram.com/destinyhuff_iep_advocateWA PAVE: https://wapave.org/ EARLY BIRD TICKETS - Therapists, join us at the GEMS Neurodiversity Summit: Autistic + ADHD Teens: https://www.neuropebble.com/gems-summit-teens To ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG) Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)

    48 min
  2. Autism, Gender, Race & Sexuality - Podcasthon

    MAR 17

    Autism, Gender, Race & Sexuality - Podcasthon

    Our season finale is a special one- we’re participating in the 4th annual Podcasthon! This week, over a thousand podcasts are highlighting a charity of their choice and we’re choosing to support the Black Trans Travel Fund! Tune in to hear about why we chose them, what they’re all about, and how to support them.  We’re also answering questions regarding the intersections of autism, race, sexuality, and gender. How do you know if you’re masking or code-switching? Whose parent gets to decide if you’re trans or if it’s somehow “just your autism”? We weigh in on these topics and provide some supportive ideas and words of wisdom. On Upping the Ante, we’re giving you a peek inside what Season 2 might look like! You’ll get to hear about potential upcoming changes and all of the things we hope to keep the same for you in our next batch of episodes. Forest Euphoria by (book): https://patriciakaishian.com/forest-euphoria Compulsory Sexuality by Sherronda J. Brown (book): https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/710512/refusing-compulsory-sexuality-by-sherronda-j-brown/ Please send all donations to the Black Trans Travel Fund at www.blacktranstravelfund.comTo ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG) Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)

    33 min
  3. Coming Out As Autistic

    MAR 10

    Coming Out As Autistic

    In this week’s episode of Aces Up Your Sleeve, we are exploring the complexities of “coming out” as autistic, with a focus on the decision-making process regarding disclosure to family and medical professionals. We take the nuances of family dynamics into consideration and examine the potential risks and benefits of sharing your neurotype, as well as the importance of finding supportive medical providers! Listen to learn why we prioritize self-advocacy, safety, and the significance of community support for autistic folks. On Upping the Ante, our free exclusive Patreon bonus content, we’re answering whether or not you should tell a child they’re autistic and, if so, how and when to do that. We also share more about our own self-disclosure and how we navigate that with professionals, colleagues, and others in our lives. Check it out in the Upping the Ante collection here on Patreon! To ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG) Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)

    28 min
  4. Adult Autistic Meltdowns

    MAR 3

    Adult Autistic Meltdowns

    This week is all about adult autistic meltdowns on the Aces Up Your Sleeve podcast. We discuss our personal experiences with meltdowns, the differences between autistic and Borderline meltdowns, and the importance of understanding your own unique sensory triggers. We talk about the need for community support, coping strategies, and the significance of meeting basic needs to help manage overwhelming situations. We also dispel some misconceptions about meltdowns and highlight the importance of finding the right therapeutic support- it is out there! On Upping the Ante, our free bonus content here on Patreon, we look at the internal side of autistic meltdowns and share our experiences with those. We talk about how to help yourself if you’re experiencing meltdowns and shutdowns. You’re not alone! To ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG) Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)

    38 min
  5. Neurodivergent Entrepreneurs with Patrick Casale

    FEB 24

    Neurodivergent Entrepreneurs with Patrick Casale

    This week on Aces Up Your Sleeve, we’re joined by guest Patrick Casale, LMHC, to discuss neurodivergent entrepreneurship! If you’re autistic and struggling at work, AuDHD with a million ideas and interests but aren’t sure how to start, or neurodivergent and needing a change in your career, this episode is for you. We touch on burnout, juggling friendships, the struggle of finishing a project, and more! We’re highlighting lived experience and giving real ideas to help you navigate these tricky topics. On Hit Me Again, our exclusive paid bonus content with our guest Patrick Casale, LMHC, we answer whether or not autism plays a role in running your own business. We’re talking more about burnout, communication, and the importance of community! Find that in the "Hit Me Again" collection here on Patreon. Patrick at @patrick.casale on Instagram and www.allthingspractice.com Doubt Yourself Do It Anyway Summit (Portland, Maine on Sept 1-3, 2026 with Patrick and Sabrina): https://radicalinsights--allthingsprivatepractice.thrivecart.com/maine-summit-registration/To ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG) Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)

    32 min
  6. Autistic & ADHD Activism

    FEB 17

    Autistic & ADHD Activism

    If you're feeling helpless or hopeless right now, you're not alone- and there are things we can do (as ADHDers and autistic folks) to help make movement and change! We're answering questions this week about advocacy, activism, and volunteering in our communities. We discuss different roles we can play based on our strengths and weaknesses, ways to find places to volunteer, and the differences between visibility and change-making. Listen in for some fresh insight and check the show notes for resources! Content note: We do briefly discuss death, murder, systemic oppression, fights for civil rights, liberation, and other related topics. The primary focus of the episode is on the roles we individually play in our communities. On Upping the Ante, the free bonus content here on Patreon, we're continuing the conversation by sharing about some of our volunteer, advocacy, and activist experiences. To ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG) Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)

    34 min
  7. Autistic Valentines Day Tips

    FEB 10

    Autistic Valentines Day Tips

    How do autistic and ADHD people make romantic Valentine’s Day plans? We’re covering that on this week’s episode of Aces Up Your Sleeve! Whether you’re throwing a party with friends or trying to take your partner out on a date, we’re giving our ideas on how to make it an unforgettable time. Is it the thought that counts or should you snag inspiration from movies? Join us to hear our thoughts- and leave us a comment to let us know how you prefer to celebrate V Day! On Upping the Ante (bonus content here on Patreon), we’re talking about how to celebrate Valentine’s Day if you’re single or alone. We’ve got some suggestions on what you could do to still enjoy yourself, but also ideas on how to lean into other feelings, too! Whether you enjoy or hate V Day, we hope you’ll find something useful in the free bonus content this week over on Patreon. To ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG) Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)

    31 min
  8. Coming Out as Asexual

    FEB 3

    Coming Out as Asexual

    Are you worried you might hurt your partner’s feelings if you were to come out as ace, demi, or on the asexuality-spectrum in general? We’re covering that on this week’s episode of the Aces Up Your Sleeve podcast! We explore ways to express yourself to your partner(s) and give a strong reminder that your identity exploration is ultimately not about your partner's worth- it's about understanding your own desires and yourself. If you’re feeling ready to have that conversation, come listen! On Upping the Ante, our free bonus content here on Patreon, we explore how to tell new dates that you’re on the asexuality spectrum. We also discuss how to bring it up to your therapist (and how to look for red flags!) To ask us questions, fill out the form at www.neurokink.org/auys Find more content on Patreon (18+): www.patreon.com/AcesUpYourSleevePodcast Sabrina at www.radicalingingishtsconsulting.com or @radicalinsightsconsulting on social media (FB, IG) Kade at www.cryptidlearns.com or @cryptidlearns on social media (FB, IG)

    34 min
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Join Kade and Sabrina, two a-spec autistic therapists, and their special guests as they help you navigate relationships.

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  • Creator
    Aces Up Your Sleeve
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Aces Up Your Sleeve
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