The Resilient Rebel Show

Elian Haan

Welcome to The Resilient Rebel Show, the podcast that dares to go beyond surface-level self-help. Hosted by international speaker, trauma-informed coach, and author Elian Haan, this show is your weekly invitation to rebel—against burnout, shame, and the outdated idea that self-care is selfish. Together, we’ll dive into the real stories and science behind resilience, healing, and personal power. From overcoming trauma to setting boundaries, from navigating work-life balance to finding joy after burnout—this is where women in midlife rise up, reclaim their energy, and rewrite the narrative. With personal stories, guest experts, and Elian’s signature blend of humor, heart, and hard-won wisdom, each episode is a spark to remind you: you’re not broken. You’re becoming.

Episodes

  1. Jul 23

    The Resilient Rebel Show Ep.10 | The Art of Aging Pt.3: Micro-Renewals for Daily Resilience

    Do you wait until you are completely exhausted before giving yourself permission to rest? Many people believe renewal requires a vacation, a full day off, or a major change in their schedule. But resilience is often built through much smaller moments. In Part 3 of The Resilience Reset, Elian Haan explores the power of micro-renewals—brief, intentional practices that help you return to yourself during a busy or stressful day. These moments do not need to be complicated. A few deep breaths before a meeting, relaxing your shoulders, drinking water slowly, adjusting your posture, stepping outside, taking a short walk, or sitting quietly for three minutes can help calm your nervous system and restore your energy. In this episode of The Resilient Rebel Show, Elian discusses: 1. Why you should not wait until exhaustion to care for yourself 2. How your body communicates stress and anxiety 3. Simple ways to pause between meetings and responsibilities 4. How breathing, hydration, posture, and movement support resilience 5. Why small, repeatable practices can help you respond instead of react This episode is for busy professionals, leaders, entrepreneurs, caregivers, and anyone who feels pressured to remain productive and available all the time. You do not always need a complete escape from your life. Sometimes, you simply need a few intentional moments within it. Connect with Elian: Website: https://www.elianhaan.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elianhaan/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elianhaan/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elianhaan/ Schedule a call: https://calendly.com/coachelian Explore my work: https://paperbell.me/elian-haan

    The Resilient Rebel Show Ep.10 | The Art of Aging Pt.3: Micro-Renewals for Daily Resilience
  2. Jul 23

    The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 9 - The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset Pt. 2

    What if resilience isn't about pushing through? Welcome to Part 2 of The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset, a six-part series exploring what it really means to live with resilience, purpose, and wellbeing at every stage of life. For years, many of us believed resilience meant staying busy, staying strong, and never letting anyone see how exhausted we really were. But what if we've been measuring resilience the wrong way? In this episode, Elian Haan explores what current psychology and neuroscience reveal about stress, the nervous system, and our remarkable capacity to recover. Through personal insights, practical examples, and her experience as a trauma-informed executive coach, she introduces a healthier, more sustainable way of thinking about resilience. In this conversation, you'll discover: • Why chronic stress affects more than your productivity • How your nervous system responds to pressure • The difference between reacting and responding • The resilience cycle: Activation, Regulation, Recovery, Adaptation, and Renewal • Why recovery is not a reward for working harder, but an essential part of living well Whether you're navigating a demanding career, a season of transition, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the pace of life, this episode offers a compassionate reminder that resilience isn't about becoming tougher. It's about learning how to return to yourself. If this conversation resonates with you, I'd love for you to subscribe, leave a comment, and share it with someone who could use the reminder that strength and gentleness can exist together. — The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset is a six-part series on The Resilient Rebel Show exploring practical, research-informed approaches to resilience, emotional well-being, and sustainable living. You can find a PDF copy of this handout here: https://creatyl.com/elianhaan Connect with Elian: Website: https://www.elianhaan.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elianhaan/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elianhaan/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elianhaan/ Schedule a call: https://calendly.com/coachelian

    The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 9 - The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset Pt. 2
  3. Jun 26

    The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 8 - The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset

    What if resilience is not about pushing through, staying busy, or pretending you are fine? In Episode 8 of The Resilient Rebel Show, Elian Haan begins a new six-part series called The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset. In this opening episode, Elian explores a more human understanding of resilience. It is not the absence of struggle. It is our ability to move through stress with awareness, regulation, recovery, and renewal. You will learn: • Why resilience is more than simply “staying strong” • How chronic overload affects the mind, body, emotions, and nervous system • Why your body often responds before your mind understands what is happening • The difference between reacting and responding • How the resilience cycle moves through activation, regulation, recovery, adaptation, and renewal • Why aging is not about becoming less, but becoming more fully yourself Elian also introduces the five keys that will guide the rest of this series: Self-compassion Micro-renewals Boundaries Clarity, meaning, and purpose Rhythm, sleep, and recovery Life may not become easier, but we can become better equipped to meet it. This episode is an invitation to pause, listen to what your body is telling you, and begin building resilience in a way that is sustainable, compassionate, and practical. Subscribe and join Elian for the next five episodes of The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset. What does resilience mean to you at this stage of your life? You can find a PDF copy of this handout here: https://creatyl.com/elianhaan Connect with Elian: Website: https://www.elianhaan.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elianhaan/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elianhaan/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elianhaan/ Schedule a call: https://calendly.com/coachelian

    The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 8 - The Art of Aging: A Resilience Reset
  4. 09/10/2025

    The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 5: The Secret Surrender

    Episode Summary: What if your next breakthrough doesn’t come from pushing harder—but from letting go? In this soulful and timely reflection, Elian invites you to slow down and honor the sacred energy of September and the lunar eclipse. This isn’t about astrology—it’s about awareness. It’s about reclaiming your peace, your energy, and your voice. You’ll be guided through five transformational themes designed to help you release control, reset your nervous system, and rise into a version of yourself that feels real, grounded, and free. In this episode, we explore: • The emotional and energetic power of letting go • How perfectionism and people-pleasing keep us stuck • Simple breathwork and nervous system resets • The difference between performing and being present • Journal prompts for release, rebirth, and reflection • What it means to lead with intuition and self-compassion • How to dissolve old stories and step into your truth This episode is for you if you’re feeling: • Drained from overdoing • Caught in self-doubt, shame, or pressure to be perfect •Ready to soften, surrender, and come back to yourself Mentioned in this episode: ✨ Breathwork practice (4-7-8 method) ✨ Morning journaling prompts for clarity ✨ Grounding tools for emotional overwhelm ✨ Free worksheet: Release & Rise (DM Elian to receive it) Want to work with Elian? Visit: https://www.elianhaan.net Instagram: @elianhaan Email: elianhaan@gmail.com Join my masterclass: https://masterclass.elianhaan.net/The Resilient Rebel Show Ep. 5: The Secret Surrender

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Welcome to The Resilient Rebel Show, the podcast that dares to go beyond surface-level self-help. Hosted by international speaker, trauma-informed coach, and author Elian Haan, this show is your weekly invitation to rebel—against burnout, shame, and the outdated idea that self-care is selfish. Together, we’ll dive into the real stories and science behind resilience, healing, and personal power. From overcoming trauma to setting boundaries, from navigating work-life balance to finding joy after burnout—this is where women in midlife rise up, reclaim their energy, and rewrite the narrative. With personal stories, guest experts, and Elian’s signature blend of humor, heart, and hard-won wisdom, each episode is a spark to remind you: you’re not broken. You’re becoming.