In Her Words

Roberta Dombrowski

In Her Words is a podcast for women navigating life’s turning points—with clarity, heart, and a little bit of mess. Hosted by Roberta Dombrowski, each episode features honest reflections and grounded conversations about career shifts, motherhood, identity, and ambition. Whether you're stepping into a new role at work, preparing for a baby, or just figuring out what’s next, this show offers a place to feel seen, supported, and inspired. You don’t need to have it all figured out to begin—just start here.

  1. Ep 25 | Unlocking Creativity with Victoria Montgomery

    3D AGO

    Ep 25 | Unlocking Creativity with Victoria Montgomery

    Send a text In this episode, I sit down with Victoria Montgomery, transition coach and founder of Voice Nerve Motion LLC, to explore her journey from corporate burnout to entrepreneurship. Victoria shares how a growing disconnect from her creative roots and the grief of watching time pass without honoring her values sparked a deeper reckoning in her professional life.  Together, we talk about the physical and emotional toll of working in a misaligned environment, exactly when she knew it was time to leave, and what it looks like to help others navigate similar transitions. Victoria also opens up about her evolution as a leader, the power of curiosity and emotional intelligence in the workplace, and the creative practices she's embracing this year. Topics Discussed in the Episode Reconnecting with creativity through shadow workBurnout, values misalignment, and leaving corporatePhysical symptoms of a misaligned work environmentHow insecure leadership erodes credibilityEffort vs. force and finding values alignmentVictoria's coaching practice at Voice Nerve Motion LLCIntentional creative practices to prioritize in the new yearAbout Victoria Montgomery Victoria Montgomery is a human-centered professional with experience across mission-focused sectors, with a passion for helping individuals and teams realize their full potential through developing a healthy relationship with their power and owning who they are becoming. Victoria has worked in talent acquisition and as a people manager to serve business leaders and functions, as well as individuals in the social impact space, honing her EQ skills. Her approach is heavily influenced by her love and commitment to psychology and the challenge of personal growth within teams, individuals, and their interplay. Connect with Victoria Montgomery LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-montgomery2525/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toriataughtme/ Company IG: https://www.instagram.com/voicenervemotion/# X: https://x.com/montyybynature Season 2 reflection exercises https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Grab Consciously Crafting Your Career Path: https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Connect with Roberta on LinkedIn If this episode sparked new insight, please consider rating, following, or reviewing the show. It’s the best way to help more people find and benefit from these vital conversations. Thanks for listening!

    39 min
  2. Ep 24 | The Power of Your Story with Alaina Shearer

    MAR 10

    Ep 24 | The Power of Your Story with Alaina Shearer

    Send a text In this episode, I sit down with Alaina Shearer, branding expert, storyteller, and founder of Good Is Now, for a conversation about voice, courage, and what it means to take a stand in your work. Alaina shares how storytelling has shaped her life from an early age, from writing and public speaking as a child to building movements as an entrepreneur and even running for Congress.  We talk about the connection between storytelling and personal power, why so many people stay quiet even when something matters deeply to them, and how taking a stand can actually strengthen your brand rather than hurt it. Alaina also shares what she’s learned from reinvention, entrepreneurship, and helping others tell stories that create connection and change.  Topics Discussed in This Episode Storytelling and early experiences with speakingRunning for Congress and building a public voiceTaking a stand in your businessFear, trolls, and being seen onlineReinvention, branding, and betting on yourselfAbout Alaina Shearer Alaina Shearer is a branding expert and movement maker who never settles for the status quo, and who inspires her clients and audiences to do the same. She leads founders and businesses to discover their brand truth – no easy feat – but one that changes their growth trajectory. Her method is holistic and rooted in a desire to create brands and content strategies that feel fit, not forced. Connect with Alaina Shearer LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/good-now-b2b-agency/ Website: https://www.goodisnow.com/  Season 2 reflection exercises https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Grab Consciously Crafting Your Career Path: https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Connect with Roberta on LinkedIn If this episode sparked new insight, please consider rating, following, or reviewing the show. It’s the best way to help more people find and benefit from these vital conversations. Thanks for listening!

    33 min
  3. Ep 22| Navigating the Magic Dark with Kitty Gonzalez

    FEB 24

    Ep 22| Navigating the Magic Dark with Kitty Gonzalez

    Send a text In this episode, I sit down with Kitty Gonzalez—coach, yoga teacher, and former L’Oréal marketer—for a grounded conversation about career pivots, identity, and the courage it takes to choose community and alignment over the “shoulds.” Kitty shares what it was like growing up between Mexico City and the U.S., and how living between cultures shaped her adaptability, awareness, and sense of belonging. We talk about her years in product development and marketing at L’Oréal, the long “slow build” of realizing it wasn’t her forever path, and how COVID created the space to finally listen to what she already knew. Kitty opens up about leaving corporate, the jarring reality of an open calendar, learning how to sell herself, and how yoga became a lifeline—first for her own healing and embodiment, then as a community anchor in every place she lives. We also explore what Kitty calls the “magic dark”—that uncomfortable in-between season where you’re doing all the right things but the outcome hasn’t arrived yet. Her reminder is simple: keep moving, keep asking for help, and trust that something is unfolding—even when you can’t see it yet. Topics Discussed in This Episode Kitty’s bicultural upbringing shaped identity, belonging, and adaptability.Leaving L’Oréal took years of journaling and inner knowing.Coaching certification revealed the gap between skills and selling. Entrepreneurship brought freedom, but also loneliness and constant hustle.Yoga supported healing, embodiment, and community through major transitions.The “magic dark” demands persistence, trust, and asking for help.About Kitty Gonzalez Kitty Gonzalez is an Executive Coach at Athena who helps high-achieving leaders create clarity, alignment, and meaningful change in their work and lives. Born in Mexico City and raised between Mexico and the U.S., she brings a deeply multicultural lens to her coaching. Before Athena, she spent nearly a decade in global marketing at L’Oréal and later built her own wellness and coaching practice, Wherever Forever. Kitty is also a certified yoga teacher, and her approach blends strategy with grounded, embodied wisdom. She currently lives between Michigan and Mexico City with her husband and their cat, Tikka. Connect with Kitty Instagram: @wherever__forever Website: https://whereverforever.com/  Season 2 reflection exercises https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Grab Consciously Crafting Your Career Path: https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Connect with Roberta on LinkedIn If this episode sparked new insight, please consider rating, following, or reviewing the show. It’s the best way to help more people find and benefit from these vital conversations. Thanks for listening!

    39 min
  4. Ep 21 | Getting to know your host with Roberta Dombrowski and Amy Santee

    FEB 17

    Ep 21 | Getting to know your host with Roberta Dombrowski and Amy Santee

    Send a text In this episode, Amy Santee returns to the podcast, only this time, she’s in the interviewer seat as we flip the script and share more of my story. We talk through my winding career path (from biomedical photography to instructional design to product and research leadership), and the moments that forced me to get honest about what I value and what I can’t ignore anymore. We also explore the tension many women feel between stability and fulfillment, how family messaging can shape our beliefs about work, and why layoffs and workplace trauma can become a wake-up call. I share what led me into coaching, why I’m now pursuing a mental health counseling degree, and how I’m thinking about building a more sustainable “portfolio career” that honors both my values and real-life needs. Topics Discussed in This Episode Roberta’s early identity story (transracial adoptee) and how it shaped her relationship to workCareer pivots from photography → instructional design → product → user research/VP leadership, and what each chapter taught herHow family beliefs about stability vs. fulfillment created long-term internal conflict (and how she now checks that voice)Recognizing values misalignment at work, spotting “stated vs. lived” values, and trusting body-based red flagsLayoffs, workplace boundaries, and why “work as the acceptable addiction” keeps women over-functioningWhat’s next: grad school for mental health counseling, integrating therapy + coaching, and building a sustainable portfolio careerAbout Amy Santee Amy Santee is a Career Strategist and Coach for tech professionals who want to design their careers with intention and bring their good to the world. Since 2020, she has partnered with hundreds of individuals to implement a practice of self-research, self-advocacy, and strategy, so they can navigate the professional world with courage and confidence. Her passion for non-traditional career development, personal growth, and positive impact brought her to coaching after a decade of working in user experience. Connect with Amy Santee LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amysantee/ Website: https://www.amysantee.com About Roberta Dombrowski Roberta Dombrowski is Founder of Learn Mindfully and host of In Her Words. She has over a decade of experience spanning tech, non-profits, and academia. Her work has been featured by the Association of Talent Development, Learning Guild, and Product School. She holds PCC accreditation through the International Coaching Federation, CPCC through Co-Active Training Institute. Her unique approach blends the wisdom of the head, heart, and body - guiding clients to rediscover joy, resilience, and connection in their work and lives.  By fostering deeper self-awareness and authentic leadership, Roberta helps individuals reshape how they relate to their careers, themselves, and their teams. Her personal experience as a transracial adoptee and overfunctioning tech executive heavily influences her approach to business. Connect with Roberta Dombrowski LinkedIn: Season 2 reflection exercises https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Grab Consciously Crafting Your Career Path: https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Connect with Roberta on LinkedIn If this episode sparked new insight, please consider rating, following, or reviewing the show. It’s the best way to help more people find and benefit from these vital conversations. Thanks for listening!

    49 min
  5. Ep 20 | The Hidden Cost of High Achievement with Dr. Alessandra Wall

    FEB 10

    Ep 20 | The Hidden Cost of High Achievement with Dr. Alessandra Wall

    Send a text In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Alessandra Wall, psychologist, author, and CEO of Noteworthy for a candid conversation about evolution, ambition, and what it actually takes to build a life that can hold your success. Dr. Wall shares her path from child psychology to adult therapy, then into coaching and leadership advisory work, including the real fear (and financial risk) that came with changing direction more than once. We talk about how success isn’t just revenue or titles. It’s also white space on the calendar, the quality of the clients and leaders you choose to support, and the ability to stay in the work without sacrificing your health, relationships, or sense of self. We also explore loneliness at the top, the “deservingness” patterns that show up for high achievers, and why so many women struggle to answer the simplest question: what would I do with three hours to myself? Topics Discussed in This Episode Career pivots and changing valuesFrom therapy to coaching to advisory workRedefining success beyond moneyLoneliness at the top and finding communityDeservingness, burnout, and spaciousnessAbout Dr. Alessandra Wall At the highest levels of success and leadership, being the one with the vision and the responsibility to drive change is, in the best of times, exhilarating, but also often lonely and exhausting work. For over 20 years, Dr. Alessandra Wall, psychologist, author, and CEO of Noteworthy, has served as a trusted advisor to leaders, founders, and exceptional women, helping them make better decisions at every level of their career and life so they can maintain the drive, desire, bandwidth, and fulfillment they need to change the world for the better. Her work shapes leaders and organizations across industries, from start-ups to the Fortune 100. Connect with Dr. Alessandra Wall LinkedIn linkedin.com/in/dralessandrawall Website: Noteworthyinc.co Newsletter: https://noteworthy-inc.kit.com/newsletter Season 2 reflection exercises https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Grab Consciously Crafting Your Career Path: https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Connect with Roberta on LinkedIn If this episode sparked new insight, please consider rating, following, or reviewing the show. It’s the best way to help more people find and benefit from these vital conversations. Thanks for listening!

    42 min
  6. Ep 19 | Navigating the Strong Woman Archetype with Christian Sismone

    FEB 3

    Ep 19 | Navigating the Strong Woman Archetype with Christian Sismone

    Send a text In this episode, I sit down with Christian Simone, feminine strategist, project manager, podcast host, and Master of Social Work student, for a grounded conversation about ambition, softness, and what it really means to be “the strong one.” Christian shares how her background in tech shaped her views on strategy, and why she’s now pursuing macro social work to build systems that support women more sustainably. We explore the emotional and physical cost of constantly performing strength, especially for women who’ve been conditioned to suppress their needs. Christian breaks down how “soft life” isn’t about opting out, but instead it’s about integrating structure and self-possession, learning to receive support, and creating a life you can actually enjoy after the work gets done. Topics Discussed in This Episode Redefining strategy beyond capitalism: efficiency, wellbeing, and life after workChristian’s transition from tech to macro social work and systems-level changeThe burden of being “the strong one,” including burnout, grief, and suppressed needsReceiving support as a practice: deservingness, boundaries, and self-compassionWhat “soft life” means in practice: integrating masculine structure with feminine sustainabilityAbout Christian Sismone: Christian Sismone is a feminine strategist, project manager, podcast host, and MSW student helping ambitious women 35+ navigate the “messy middle” with more truth, softness, and self-possession. Blending psychological insight with refined feminine wisdom, she guides women who are rebuilding their identity, shedding the strong-woman armor, reclaiming their presence, and stepping into power that doesn’t require burnout or bravado. Known for her warm clarity and incisive storytelling, Christian speaks on mindset, soulful structure, and embodied evolution, bringing a resonance that invites women to rise without hardening and return to themselves without losing their edge. Connect with Christian: ChristianSismone.com Linkedin.com/in/christian-ohonba https://cohonba1.systeme.io/softpivot Season 2 reflection exercises https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Grab Consciously Crafting Your Career Path: https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Connect with Roberta on LinkedIn If this episode sparked new insight, please consider rating, following, or reviewing the show. It’s the best way to help more people find and benefit from these vital conversations. Thanks for listening!

    36 min
  7. Ep 18 | Exploring your relationship to work with Roberta Dombrowski

    JAN 26

    Ep 18 | Exploring your relationship to work with Roberta Dombrowski

    Send a text In this solo episode, I open season two of In Her Words by reflecting on the growing sense of disappointment and disillusionment many of us are experiencing at work. With layoffs continuing to rise, particularly impacting women, I explore how these moments often force us into deeper inflection points around identity, meaning, and alignment. I share my own experience of being laid off in 2023 and what it revealed about how tightly my sense of self had become intertwined with my job. From there, I invite you to pause and examine your own relationship to work—how it fits into the broader context of your life, what needs it’s fulfilling, and where it may no longer be serving you. Drawing on frameworks like Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and the idea of vocation as calling, this episode sets the foundation for the season ahead as we begin to question not just what we do for work, but why we do it. Topics Discussed in This Episode The current state of work and the emotional impact of widespread layoffsHow work shapes identity, self-worth, and belongingReflective questions to explore who you are beyond your jobApplying Maslow’s hierarchy of needs to motivation and fulfillment at workReimagining work as a calling rather than an obligationLinks & Resources: Season 2 reflection exercises https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Grab Consciously Crafting Your Career Path: https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Connect with Roberta on LinkedIn  Season 2 reflection exercises https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Grab Consciously Crafting Your Career Path: https://www.learnmindfully.co/store Connect with Roberta on LinkedIn If this episode sparked new insight, please consider rating, following, or reviewing the show. It’s the best way to help more people find and benefit from these vital conversations. Thanks for listening!

    9 min

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In Her Words is a podcast for women navigating life’s turning points—with clarity, heart, and a little bit of mess. Hosted by Roberta Dombrowski, each episode features honest reflections and grounded conversations about career shifts, motherhood, identity, and ambition. Whether you're stepping into a new role at work, preparing for a baby, or just figuring out what’s next, this show offers a place to feel seen, supported, and inspired. You don’t need to have it all figured out to begin—just start here.

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