EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY

Dani & Ally
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Welcome to EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY—a podcast built for clinicians who believe healing starts with connection. Hosted by Dani in Ontario, Canada, and Ally in Texas, this dynamic duo brings their global training experience and grounded EMDR expertise straight to your ears.  Whether you're a seasoned therapist or just beginning your EMDR journey, this space offers collaborative consultation, practical insights, and a supportive vibe that feels like walking alongside trusted colleagues. No need to travel thousands of miles—just tune in, connect, and grow.  Because here, it’s not just about technique—it’s about community, confidence, and walking the path of healing together.       To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit:  https://www.DaniandAlly.com  EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY  254-230-4994 

Episodes

  1. 1D AGO

    Healing Pathways: EMDR’s Role in Emotional Regulation

    What’s The Connection Between EMDR And Emotional Regulation? What if your emotions stopped hijacking your day and started guiding it? We take a grounded look at how EMDR builds real emotional regulation, not by erasing memories, but by calming the nervous system so you can remember without reliving. From amygdala overdrive to prefrontal clarity, we unpack the brain mechanics that keep people stuck in fight, flight, or freeze—and how targeted resourcing and memory reprocessing reduce the “charge” that fuels anxiety, anger, and shutdown. We walk through phase 2 strategies that help clients notice activation early, pair it with simple resources, and practice skills they can use between sessions. Then we dig into phase 4, where bilateral stimulation integrates affect, body sensation, and meaning, moving experiences from the “unsafe and urgent” pile into a properly filed memory that no longer runs the show. You’ll hear real-world shifts clients report, like visiting a parent without bracing for conflict or feeling a steady baseline even when life stays messy. Along the way, we challenge the myth that emotions are the enemy. Emotions are a compass—signals that help you orient, choose, and connect. With EMDR, anxiety can nudge preparation rather than avoidance, and anger can support a boundary rather than trigger a spiral. We share practical tools clinicians can teach—orienting, bilateral tapping with breath, sensation-first tracking, and brief future templates—so progress shows up beyond the therapy room, during holidays, hard talks, and everyday stress. If this conversation helps you see regulation in a new light, share it with a colleague, subscribe for future episodes, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. Your feedback helps more clinicians and clients find the skills that lead to steadier days and stronger relationships. To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit: https://www.DaniandAlly.com EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY 254-230-4994

    11 min

  2. DEC 17

    From Stuck to Progress: Clinician Strategies in Phase 4 Reprocessing

    What Happens During Phase 4 Reprocessing And How Do Clinicians Handle "Stuck Points"? Phase 4 is where EMDR gets real—breakthroughs, body shifts, and sometimes, brick walls. We pull back the curtain on reprocessing so you can recognize the difference between genuine relief and a protector slamming the brakes. From setting clean baselines to closing sessions with solid stabilization, we map the decision points that keep clients safe and moving forward. We start with the nuts and bolts of assessment—image, negative and positive beliefs, SUDS, VOC, emotion, and body sensations—then show how those baselines guide bilateral stimulation. Not every client thrives with a light bar; some regulate best with therapist-guided eye movements, tappers, or even rhythmic walking. The aim isn’t novelty, it’s fit. You’ll hear how we choose first targets to build confidence, why a mid-range SUDS can be wiser than the “big 1,” and how to pace reprocessing across sessions without leaving a client activated. When progress stalls, we trace the common culprits: looping, network overload, and the classic too-fast drop from 10 to 0. We use parts work to befriend protectors, negotiate permission, and avoid power struggles with the nervous system. If a blocking belief is in the way—“If I heal, it didn’t happen,” “If I let go, I’ll lose control”—we briefly integrate cognitive work to clear the path and return to sets. For newer clinicians, we underline the core truth: phases 1 and 2 are EMDR. Relationship, resourcing, and case conceptualization are not detours; they are the road. With clear frameworks and flexible tools, phase 4 becomes less about forcing change and more about guiding the system toward adaptive resolution. If you’re ready to sharpen your reprocessing skills, get practical with stuck points, and help clients leave sessions grounded, this conversation will meet you where you work—moment by moment, set by set. Subscribe, share with a colleague, and leave a review with your favorite takeaway so we can keep building smarter care together. To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit: https://www.DaniandAlly.com EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY 254-230-4994

    15 min

  3. NOV 26

    Building Confidence And Connection For EMDR Clinicians Worldwide

    How Do Dani & Ally Foster Growth In Their Global Clinician Community? Ready to trade solo trial-and-error for a supportive EMDR community that actually fits your schedule and clinical style? We sit down to unpack how a cross-border partnership—Canada to Texas—helps clinicians build confidence, adapt EMDR with intention, and grow faster through collective wisdom. From our origin story to practical frameworks, you’ll hear how two consultants balance structure and creativity so therapists can do their best work with complex cases. We map out clear pathways for growth: certification groups that blend individual and group hours, a consultant-in-training track that teaches consultation of consultation with ethics and clarity, and a flexible subscription model with first and third Friday drop-ins. These spaces make it simple to bring real cases, get timely feedback, and hear multiple perspectives—from newly trained clinicians to seasoned consultants. The goal is steady, reliable support that fits across time zones and honors cultural differences without watering down the work. You’ll also learn how we approach challenging presentations, like OCD features nested within complex trauma. Our guiding principle is straightforward: adapt EMDR to the client, not the client to EMDR. That can mean extended preparation, robust resourcing, targeted interweaves, or integrating behavioral strategies and psychoeducation alongside reprocessing. We share how this client-first lens lowers symptom spikes, preserves therapeutic trust, and builds momentum session by session. Along the way, we offer simple steps for expanding your professional reach: move before you feel ready, invite feedback, and partner with people whose strengths complement your own. If you’re seeking a welcoming, high-skill community to sharpen your EMDR practice—without losing your weekends—this conversation gives you the map and the mile markers. Subscribe for more clinician-centered insights, share this with a colleague who might need the nudge, and leave a review to tell us what topic you want next. To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit: https://www.DaniandAlly.com EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY 254-230-4994

    12 min

  4. NOV 20

    Prep 1 Vs. Reprocessing 4 In EMDR: Knowing The Difference

    What’s The Difference Between Phase 1 Prep And Phase 4 Reprocessing? Think EMDR is all about the tapping? We pull back the curtain on the real engine of change: strong history taking, clear treatment planning, and robust resourcing that make reprocessing possible and safe. We unpack the essential differences between phase one history, phase two preparation, and phase four desensitization, and we share how to tell when a client is truly ready to move forward. We start with common misconceptions—like the idea that EMDR only starts when bilateral stimulation begins—and explain how the adaptive information processing model relies on linking left-brain understanding with right-brain emotion. Then we get practical. You’ll hear how we build readiness through safe or calm place imagery, container work, breath training, body awareness, and boundary-setting. We also walk through refining treatment targets, deciding when to pause reprocessing, and returning to preparation without losing momentum. For clinicians working with complex trauma, we talk about extended resourcing and the cycle of strengthening, testing, and strengthening again. We explore how to identify the client’s real support network versus their social circle for fun—because the people who can sit with trauma disclosures are often a different set. Throughout, we emphasize clinical judgment, trusting your gut, and leaning on consultation to keep cases moving without rushing the nervous system. If you’re a therapist wondering when to press forward and when to build more capacity, this conversation offers concrete cues, clear language for explaining the work to clients, and strategies you can use in your next session. Subscribe, share this episode with a colleague, and leave a review with the one resourcing tool you find most reliable—what should every new EMDR clinician master first? To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit: https://www.DaniandAlly.com EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY 254-230-4994

    13 min

  5. OCT 29

    Anxiety, Boundaries, And EMDR: Learning How To Rewire The Threat

    How Can EMDR Support Clients With Anxiety And Boundary Issues? Anxiety isn’t just a feeling that shows up at work or at home—it’s often your nervous system replaying old rules that once kept you safe. We take you into the heart of how EMDR therapy transforms those rules, shifting the body from “I’m in danger” to “I’m safe now,” so boundaries stop feeling like conflict and start feeling like care. If a single email can spike your heart rate or a simple ask leaves you flooded with guilt, this conversation maps the link between past experiences and today’s panic, and shows how to rewrite it. We break down EMDR in plain language, focusing on two pivotal phases. First, resourcing: building a toolkit that actually calms your system—soothing playlists, bilateral tapping, breath pacing, and a real support map of people who can hold hard emotions. Then, reprocessing: identifying target memories that fuel current triggers and letting the brain integrate adaptive beliefs like “I can handle this” and “My needs matter.” Along the way, we explore how “toxic” environments can echo childhood dynamics, why over-functioning feels safer than saying no, and how identity work helps you stop earning worth by doing it all. You’ll hear practical boundary strategies you can practice today: short scripts, small safe experiments, and session-tested role-plays that make hard conversations easier. We also normalize the messy middle—where saying no feels unfamiliar—and show how to track body cues as proof that safety is growing. Expect fewer panic spirals, more clarity, and a steadier baseline that supports choices aligned with your values. If you’ve ever wondered why you keep saying yes when you mean no, or why the smallest request spikes your anxiety, this episode offers a grounded path forward. If this resonates, subscribe, share with a friend who needs sturdier boundaries, and leave a review with the one belief you’re ready to rewrite. Your feedback helps more listeners find tools that turn overwhelm into steady, sustainable change. To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit: https://www.DaniandAlly.com EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY 254-230-4994

    16 min

  6. OCT 24

    Practical Grounding For EMDR Clinicians: Breathing, Walking, And Support

    Therapists aren’t supposed to carry every story home, yet the body often tells on us—tight jaws, creeping headaches, short tempers after a stacked day of sessions. We open up about the small, repeatable habits that keep us steady while doing deep trauma work, and why modeling regulation is as therapeutic as any technique. From two‑minute breath resets to stepping outside for a quick hit of sun, we share the simple practices that restore presence between clients. We dig into the science‑meets‑practice sweet spot: walking as natural bilateral stimulation that helps the brain file what’s heavy and surface adaptive associations. You’ll hear how a therapy dog can become a co‑regulator, why a warm cup of tea or a shoulder stretch matters more than it seems, and how a humble notepad keeps working memory clear when to‑dos flood in. We also talk candidly about red flags—nighttime teeth grinding, tension headaches, and emotional spillover at home—and how to respond before burnout sets in with movement, boundaries, and selective rest. Community is the safety net. Supervision and peer consultation stop the echo chamber of self‑doubt and offer grounded strategies for stubborn EMDR targets. We make the case that vulnerability is a clinician’s superpower: name what isn’t working, get perspective, and protect your craft with scheduled consults that you don’t skip. Whether you’re new to EMDR or a seasoned therapist, you’ll leave with a clear pre‑session ritual, a reset plan between clients, and a shift from fixing to witnessing so you can stay effective without absorbing the load. If this conversation helped, follow the show, share it with a colleague who needs a reset, and leave a quick review—your words help more clinicians find tools that keep them well. To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit: https://www.DaniandAlly.com EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY 254-230-4994

    13 min

  7. SEP 19

    The Heart of Collaborative EMDR: How Two Consultants Facilitate Healing Together

    How Do Dani And Ally Define “Collaborative Consultation” In Real Life? Ever felt like professional consultation was just another clinical box to check? Dani and Ally are turning that notion on its head with their fresh, relationship-centered approach to EMDR consultation. Their journey began with a chance meeting and a walk to Starbucks in Seattle, where they discovered an instant connection that would evolve into a powerful professional partnership. Now, they're bringing that same spirit of authentic connection to EMDR therapists across the globe through their collaborative consultation model. What sets them apart? For starters, they work as a dynamic duo, offering clinicians the rare opportunity to learn from two consultants simultaneously. Dani brings her "P" energy while Ally complements with her "J" perspective (in Myers-Briggs terms), creating a consultation experience that celebrates different approaches to EMDR therapy. This diversity helps clinicians develop flexibility and confidence in their clinical judgment, recognizing there's rarely just one "right way" to work with clients. Their nine-month cohort model goes beyond skill-building to foster lasting relationships among participants. As they eloquently put it, "Trauma and EMDR therapy cannot be done in isolation and require the support of a community." By creating spaces where therapists can bring their vulnerabilities, questions, and unique strengths, Dani and Ally combat the professional isolation that so often leads to burnout. Perhaps most refreshingly, they infuse joy into the learning process. "If it's not fun, I'm not doing it," Dani shares, embodying their philosophy that professional growth should be engaging and energizing, not just another obligation. Ready to experience consultation that feels less like a clinical requirement and more like coming home to a supportive community? Visit online or call/text 254-230-4994 to discover if their collaborative approach might be the perfect fit for your EMDR journey. To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit: https://www.DaniandAlly.com EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY 254-230-4994

    8 min

  8. SEP 12

    Rewiring the Brain: How EMDR Therapy Transforms Trauma

    What Exactly Is EMDR—and Why Does It Work So Well For Trauma? Ever wondered how some therapies seem to help people move beyond trauma without constantly reliving the painful details? EMDR therapy stands apart in its approach to healing, and in this episode, Dani and Ally break down exactly why this powerful method works so effectively. We explore the fascinating science behind EMDR therapy, starting with Dr. Francine Shapiro's accidental discovery in the late 1980s that led to this revolutionary approach. Your hosts explain how the brain's natural healing mechanisms can become blocked during trauma and how EMDR helps reopen those pathways. You'll learn about the three key brain regions involved in processing traumatic experiences – the amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex – and how bilateral stimulation helps these systems work together more effectively. What makes this episode particularly valuable is the clear distinction between common misconceptions and the reality of EMDR therapy. Dani and Ally emphasize that clients remain fully conscious and in control throughout the process (unlike hypnosis), and they walk through what actually happens during different phases of treatment. The hosts share how they establish safety and build resources with clients before beginning memory processing work, addressing the nervousness many people feel about trying a new therapeutic approach. Perhaps most powerfully, they explain how EMDR doesn't erase difficult memories but transforms how they're stored and experienced – "the memory stays, but the weight of it lifts." If you're curious about how therapy can help someone carry their past differently while living more fully in the present, this episode provides valuable insights whether you're a clinician or someone considering this approach for your own healing journey. Ready to learn more about this evidence-based approach to trauma healing? Visit online or reach out directly at 254-230-4994 to connect with Dani and Ally for more resources, training opportunities, or to ask questions about implementing EMDR in your practice. To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit: https://www.DaniandAlly.com EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY 254-230-4994

    11 min

  9. AUG 21

    Lighting Up Dark Places Through EMDR: Meet Dani & Ally

    Introducing Your Hosts: Meet Dani and Ally, two EMDR therapists whose chance encounter during a lost walk to Starbucks in Seattle sparked a powerful professional partnership that transcends geographical boundaries. Dani, a social worker and psychotherapist from Ontario with deep expertise in trauma, and Ally, the founder of Firefly Counseling in Texas with a mission to "light up dark places," have joined forces to support fellow clinicians through collaborative consultation. Their journeys to becoming trauma specialists were deeply personal, both motivated by witnessing trauma's impact on family and friends. This shared foundation drives their commitment not only to help clients heal but also to mentor other clinicians in becoming effective trauma therapists. While maintaining their individual practices—Dani in Ancaster, Ontario, and Ally across two Texas locations—they've created a supportive community for EMDR practitioners seeking growth and connection. What makes their approach unique is their holistic vision of trauma healing. Beyond traditional therapy, they partner with various healthcare providers—from psychiatrists to trauma-informed massage therapists—recognizing that effective trauma work requires comprehensive care. Their collaborative model exemplifies their belief that the best healing starts with connection, whether between therapist and client or among professionals supporting each other. They're working toward becoming EMDR basic training trainers, further extending their impact on the field. Ready to connect with Dani and Ally? Whether you're a seasoned EMDR therapist seeking consultation or just beginning your journey into trauma work, they offer resources, training, and community that bridges distances and creates belonging.  To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit: https://www.DaniandAlly.com EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY 254-230-4994

    8 min
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Welcome to EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY—a podcast built for clinicians who believe healing starts with connection. Hosted by Dani in Ontario, Canada, and Ally in Texas, this dynamic duo brings their global training experience and grounded EMDR expertise straight to your ears.  Whether you're a seasoned therapist or just beginning your EMDR journey, this space offers collaborative consultation, practical insights, and a supportive vibe that feels like walking alongside trusted colleagues. No need to travel thousands of miles—just tune in, connect, and grow.  Because here, it’s not just about technique—it’s about community, confidence, and walking the path of healing together.       To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit:  https://www.DaniandAlly.com  EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY  254-230-4994 

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