Don’t F*kn Shrink

Daffney Allwein

You know that voice in your head that whispers “play it safe, stay small, don’t rock the boat”? Yeah… we’re not listening to that here. Welcome to Don’t F*kn Shrink, the podcast for high achievers, entrepreneurs, and leaders who are ready to stop holding back, build unshakable confidence, and show up fully in their lives. I’m Daffney Allwein,  performance coach, athlete, and unapologetic believer that you were never meant to shrink yourself to fit. For nearly two decades, I’ve helped elite performers, from pro athletes to top-level executives, rebuild their bodies, strengthen their mindset, and rise higher than they thought possible. On this show, you’ll get: Unfiltered conversations with people who’ve faced setbacks, reinvented themselves, and refused to quitMindset strategies to push past fear, self-doubt, and perfectionismPerformance habits that fuel success without burnoutReal talk on leadership, resilience, and personal growth, the kind nobody puts in their highlight reel This isn’t fluff. This isn’t fake inspiration. This is the place to get tools, truth, and a powerful reminder that you were made to take up space. So if you’re ready to stop shrinking, break through your limits, and create a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside… hit that follow button. Because the journey starts now. 

  1. MAR 20

    29: Running Toward Responsibility When Life Demands More

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when you realize no one else is coming and it has to be you? At 29, Elizabeth Dempsey Beggs is a mom of four, a military veteran, and stepping into one of the biggest leadership roles of her life. But this is not a political conversation. It is about what it looks like to step up when life demands more from you. In this episode, Elizabeth shares her perspective on leadership, responsibility, and showing up when the stakes are high, even when you are already carrying a lot. If you have ever felt the pull to do more but questioned whether you actually have the capacity, this conversation will challenge you to move forward anyway. Not just for yourself, but for the future you are shaping. (Note: This episode includes a brief discussion of abortion as part of a broader conversation around reproductive health.) Connect with Elizabeth Dempsey Beggs: elizabethforvirginia.com In This Episode: (02:15) Meet Elizabeth Dempsey Beggs(04:15) What the military taught her about leadership(09:05) Listening to people, not just leading them(16:00) Education, socialism, capitalism(25:00) Why people feel disconnected and overwhelmed(33:25) What needs to change for the next generation(39:40) How to support Connect with Daffney: The Game-Changer Consult → This 60 min deep dive offers you clarity and insight into what’s possible for your next 60 days. Leave this consult feeling full of possibility and with the energy of purpose! liftprowellness.com Instagram | YouTube | Merch

    43 min
  2. FEB 13

    24: Why You Crave Sugar, The New Food Pyramid 2026, and Healthy Pantry Staples

    Send us Fan Mail You’ve seen the headlines about the New Food Pyramid 2026. More protein. Fewer grains. Whole foods. Less processed food. But what does that actually mean for how you eat every day? Registered Dietitian Maria Sylvester Terry returns to break down what the new food pyramid gets right, what people are misunderstanding, and why this conversation isn’t about dieting at all. It’s about understanding processed vs ultra processed foods, why you crave sugar, and how to stock your pantry so your body and brain stop running on short-term fuel. You’ll learn why blood sugar crashes happen, what to eat when you’re tired, and the healthy pantry staples that keep you full, focused, and energized. If you’re wondering why you’re always reaching for sugar, what the difference is between processed and ultra processed foods, or how to build a healthier pantry with simple foods that work, this episode is for you! Connect with Maria Sylvester Terry: mariaterrynutrition.com instagram.com/vitamin_ri In This Episode: (00:50) Why the food pyramid isn’t actually “new” for dietitians(06:10) Why most Americans don’t follow dietary guidelines anyway(09:30) The protein, fat, and fiber snack swap that changes everything(12:10) How to stock your pantry for storms, snow days, and busy weeks(16:00) Pasta, rice, and affordable pantry carbs without guilt(21:20) Long carbs vs short carbs and eating for long lasting energy Connect with Daffney: The Game-Changer Consult → This 60 min deep dive offers you clarity and insight into what’s possible for your next 60 days. Leave this consult feeling full of possibility and with the energy of purpose! liftprowellness.com Instagram | YouTube | Merch

    23 min
5
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6 Ratings

About

You know that voice in your head that whispers “play it safe, stay small, don’t rock the boat”? Yeah… we’re not listening to that here. Welcome to Don’t F*kn Shrink, the podcast for high achievers, entrepreneurs, and leaders who are ready to stop holding back, build unshakable confidence, and show up fully in their lives. I’m Daffney Allwein,  performance coach, athlete, and unapologetic believer that you were never meant to shrink yourself to fit. For nearly two decades, I’ve helped elite performers, from pro athletes to top-level executives, rebuild their bodies, strengthen their mindset, and rise higher than they thought possible. On this show, you’ll get: Unfiltered conversations with people who’ve faced setbacks, reinvented themselves, and refused to quitMindset strategies to push past fear, self-doubt, and perfectionismPerformance habits that fuel success without burnoutReal talk on leadership, resilience, and personal growth, the kind nobody puts in their highlight reel This isn’t fluff. This isn’t fake inspiration. This is the place to get tools, truth, and a powerful reminder that you were made to take up space. So if you’re ready to stop shrinking, break through your limits, and create a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside… hit that follow button. Because the journey starts now. 

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