Everyday Life:Conversations Over Coffee

Jen & Dagda

 We have been the best of friends for 15 years (whether he  likes it or not..lol).  Sometimes it's not what you say but how you say it! Come and laugh with us at our quirky, weird brains as we navigate this thing called "podcasting". We truly are just a couple of smart asses with diverse interests who need jobs to make an income. Since we couldn't find that in the "normal" world, we came here to give it a go! We truly are grateful you are here to support us on our journey. If you would like to help us along, we accept one time (or reoccurring) donations thru paypal! ** paypal.me/ELConversations2025 ** Please be sure to check us out on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Patreon and Discord!! Sound Clips:Dagda_Ra Music:DELOSound **New episodes drop on Monday and Wednesdays.** ** Be sure to check out our other podcast:  Everyday Life: After Dark  for a more NSFW look into our previous careers **

  1. Politicized Pizza

    3D AGO

    Politicized Pizza

    Send us Fan Mail What starts as a sleepy, bathroom-emergency kind of morning turns into a surprisingly deep dive into war, politics, privilege, and pizza. Jen and Dagda begin with: Late-night work, 2 a.m. stomach issues, long walks to the bathroom, and way too much information about trash cans that are the “perfect height.”Moody Washington weather and YouTube fatigue, with commentary on Abba & Preach, Asmongold, and political burnout.Then things get heavier: Current conflicts, oil and money, terrorism, and how US interventions can be both strategic and morally muddy.Iran, Venezuela, shifting stories about WMDs, and memories of Desert Storm/Desert Shield and the Iraq WMD fiasco.A “high school” analogy for modern politics—smart kids, lazy kids, and rumor-mill mean girls running government narratives.Jen’s resistance to picking a political “supreme leader,” guided instead by veterans, a POW grandfather, and her own moral compass.They also unpack: Being slightly left-of-center while still holding nuance and respecting both sides’ humanity.A conversation with a young, very far-left person who says they “hate America,” and why that hits Jen as both offensive and heartbreaking.Global realities like FGM, stoning LGBTQ+ people, and child slavery—why, despite its flaws, the US is still a place with people actively fighting for better policies and protections.Cancel culture, how any statement about Trump/Biden/“the other side” can get you labeled and ostracized, and why they usually avoid political talk on-mic.To cool things down, they pivot to: Cooking YouTube, The Steak & Butter Gal’s carnivore pizza crust (cottage cheese, egg white powder, mozzarella), weird marshmallow made from bean liquid, and gumbo history, okra slime, and sassafras/root beer nostalgia.Jen’s real “job”: human connection—compliments, kindness, making people feel seen, instead of trying to fix geopolitics.If you’ve ever felt politically homeless, exhausted by news, but still obsessed with food videos, this episode might feel uncomfortably relatable. Artwork:MoroccanSansit #podcast #GenX #politics #leftofcenter #politicallyexhausted #wargames #humanconnection #ProundtobeAmerican Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    48 min
  2. Gnome Your Garden

    5D AGO

    Gnome Your Garden

    Send us Fan Mail Jen and Dagda start with sleepless nights, Ozempic side effects, and lingering fear of another painful sleep paralysis “demon”—then pivot into something surprisingly grounding: gardening, homesteading, and knowing where your food comes from. In this episode, they chat about:Ozempic, broken sleep, sinus “glue,” and why Jen is exhausted and on edge, Viral kid classics (“Listen, Linda,” the corn kid who loves that it’s “got juice”) and a corn-obsessed cat named Tom. Generational food memories: German dill pickles loaded with garlic and flowering dill, strawberry and raspberry jams, and crying over the last cherished jars. The fantasy vs. reality of going off-grid: constant chores, aging bodies, and why homesteading is not a vacation. Creative ways to grow food—raised beds, microgreens, potato towers, small greenhouses, balcony buckets, and windowsill herb kits. Heirloom and heritage seeds, raccoons and possums stealing tomatoes, and which staple crops matter most when the world feels a little apocalyptic. How gardening builds plant identification skills and basic resilience in a world where disaster (or supply chain chaos) can hit at any time. It’s part cozy nostalgia, part gentle survival wake-up call—and a reminder that gnoming your garden might be one of the most empowering skills you can learn. #podcast #genx #gardening #survivalskills #selfsufficient #food #plantergarden #organicgrown #homegrown #themoreyouknow Artwork: jcoope12 Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    47 min
  3. Darkly Dreaming Demon

    APR 1

    Darkly Dreaming Demon

    Send us Fan Mail Jen and Dagda crack open one of the most unsettling sleep experiences out there: sleep paralysis—the kind where you wake up, can’t move, and swear a demon is sitting on your chest. In this episode, they explore  Jen’s most recent paralysis episode: being pinned by an eight-foot “demon,” feeling hooves kicking her legs, and waking up with very real bruises! Dagda’s own demon and mist-entity encounters before he knew what sleep paralysis was. How core emotions and “resting anger” can shape how we react to fear and stress. Why our brains can create real pain, welts, and marks from dreams and hallucinations. Grounding strategies like “making rocks grow” and drawing strength from a stuffed-husky guardian named Bernard How aging, hormone changes, and REM sleep behavior disorders can ramp up vivid dreams and sleep disturbances. Anchored in humor, science, and a lot of “you don’t have permission to be here,” this conversation is for anyone who’s ever woken up frozen, terrified, and wondering if they’re the only one. Artwork: jcoope12 Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    41 min
  4. Artificially Animated

    MAR 30

    Artificially Animated

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Jen and Dagda go deep on the weird, messy intersection of AI, animation, and aging. They start with a hilariously horrifying detour into Urban Dictionary and pumpkin carving, then shift into Dagda’s AI coursework, buggy learning platforms, and how people use AI for résumés and job hunting. From there they break down AI-generated music videos, voice cloning, deepfakes, and what it means when you can resurrect actors, de-age Arnold, or bring back beloved animated characters after their voice actors have died. Along the way, they unpack why some adults avoid “kids’” animation, celebrate icons like Robin Williams and Alan Tudyk, swap anime recommendations, and wrestle with the ethics of AI taking jobs from animators and voice actors—while also creating wild new opportunities. It’s part media-ethics roundtable, part love letter to animation, and part raw reflection on mortality, legacy, and what it means to be “artificially animated” in every sense. #ConversationsOverCoffee #ArtificiallyAnimated #Podcast #Animation #Anime #AI #VoiceActing #Deepfake #KingOfTheHill #Archer #RobinWilliams #AlanTudyk #EverydayLife #GenX #PNW Artwork: EdenMoon Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    1h 8m
  5. Twelve Months

    MAR 23

    Twelve Months

    Send us Fan Mail Major spoilers for the entire Dresden Files series, especially "Twelve Months" and "Battle Ground." Join Jen and Dagda as they dive deep into Jim Butcher's latest Dresden Files novel, "Twelve Months." In this  episode, the hosts provide an in-depth, spoiler-filled discussion of Harry Dresden's year-long mourning period following the devastating Battle of Chicago and the loss of Karrin Murphy. From analyzing Harry's emotional growth and healing process to exploring the magical castle with gargoyles, the hosts cover every major plot point and character development. They discuss Thomas's heartbreaking situation, Lara Raith's surprising vulnerability, Mab's hidden depths, and the shocking revelation about White Court demons being connected to outsiders. The conversation also includes fun speculation about dream casting for a potential TV adaptation (Jacob Elordi or Charlie Hunnam as Harry Dresden?), comparisons to other fantasy series, and excitement about upcoming books including "Mirror Mirror" and the "Outlaw" short story. Whether you're a longtime Dresden Files fan or curious about the series, this episode offers thoughtful analysis, passionate fandom, and plenty of laughs.  Major spoilers for the entire Dresden Files series, especially "Twelve Months" and "Battle Ground."  #DresdenFiles #JimButcher #TwelveMonths #BookDiscussion #UrbanFantasy #GenX #podcast #longlivetheZaLord #MajorGeneralTootTootRules Artwork: DavidGallie Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    1h 16m
  6. Casting Dresden PT 3

    MAR 18

    Casting Dresden PT 3

    Send us Fan Mail Jen and Dagda conclude their epic three-part dream casting series for The Dresden Files! In this final installment, they tackle the remaining major characters including Mab, the Leanansidhe, Donald Morgan, Mac McAnally, John Marcone, Hendricks, and Jared Kincaid. The debate gets heated as they discuss whether Charlize Theron should play multiple roles, why Bill Skarsgård is perfect for Marcone, and how Chris Hemsworth would nail Kincaid. They also explore the potential for Dresden Files to become the next Game of Thrones or Stranger Things, discussing what it would take to make the series successful. Packed with passionate opinions, hilarious tangents, and genuine love for Jim Butcher's urban fantasy world, this episode is a must-listen for Dresden Files fans and anyone who loves fantasy casting debates!  #DresdenFiles #DreamCasting #FantasyCasting #JimButcher #ConversationsOverCoffee #PodcastLife #UrbanFantasy #BookToScreen #PNW #podcast #GenX Artwork:Kiberstalker Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    50 min
  7. What we do After Dark

    MAR 16

    What we do After Dark

    Send us Fan Mail Join Jen and Dagda as they pull back the curtain on their companion podcast, "After Dark." In this  episode, the hosts explain what After Dark is all about—sexual health, wellness history, and sex-positive conversations delivered with humor and honesty. From discussing their favorite After Dark episodes (including the infamous Three Widows story and their upcoming four-part BDSM series) to paying tribute to civil rights leader Jesse Jackson, this episode covers a wide range of topics. The hosts share behind-the-scenes insights into their research process, talk about why sexual wellness history matters, and emphasize the importance of understanding our past to shape our future. Whether you're curious about what happens on After Dark or just want to hear two friends have an honest, unfiltered conversation about life, history, and everything in between, this episode delivers laughs, learning, and a whole lot of tangents.  #ExplicitContent #AfterDark #SexPositive #PodcastLife #GenX #PNW #EverydayLife:AfterDarkpodcast Artwork:Artieblur Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    47 min

About

 We have been the best of friends for 15 years (whether he  likes it or not..lol).  Sometimes it's not what you say but how you say it! Come and laugh with us at our quirky, weird brains as we navigate this thing called "podcasting". We truly are just a couple of smart asses with diverse interests who need jobs to make an income. Since we couldn't find that in the "normal" world, we came here to give it a go! We truly are grateful you are here to support us on our journey. If you would like to help us along, we accept one time (or reoccurring) donations thru paypal! ** paypal.me/ELConversations2025 ** Please be sure to check us out on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Patreon and Discord!! Sound Clips:Dagda_Ra Music:DELOSound **New episodes drop on Monday and Wednesdays.** ** Be sure to check out our other podcast:  Everyday Life: After Dark  for a more NSFW look into our previous careers **