Send us a text In this episode Kathy Berner describes her path from tentative guest to club builder, explore how welcoming habits create durable communities, and discuss why in-person energy still trains the best speakers. Vulnerability, humor, and small nudges become the tools that fuel the transformative power of public speaking. • early Apex culture of warmth and mentoring • table topics anxiety, hacks, and exposure therapy • founding Fuquay-Varina Toastmasters: early meeting venues, spotty attendance, persistence • growth via hospitality, diversity through welcomeness • Compelling Speaking includes authenticity over polish; humor for cognitive resets • multiple icebreakers as layered self-knowledge • hybrid vs in-person and the “energy leak” • mentoring beyond Pathways; work presentations and life impact • retention through texts, invitations, and shared setup • discipline, ownership, and scheduling reps Apex Toastmasters is a President's distinguished club founded in 1996 and located in Apex, North Carolina, USA. We meet every Thursday night at 7:00 pm at the Apex Baptist Church and online. See club website for details. Apex Toastmasters Club Website: https://www.apextoastmasters.org/ Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=apex%20toastmasters Fuquay-Varina Toastmasters meets Monday nights at 7:00 pm at Ransdell Fellowship Hall building: 309 N. Ennis Street, Fuquay-Varina, NC 27526 Fuquay-Varina Toastmasters Club Website: https://fuquayvarina.toastmastersclubs.org/ If you enjoyed what you heard, please take a moment to like, share, rate, or review this podcast Apex Toastmasters is a President's distinguished club founded in 1996 and located in Apex, North Carolina, USA. We meet every Thursday night at 7:00 pm at the Apex Baptist Church and online. See club website for details. Apex Toastmasters Club Website: https://www.apextoastmasters.org/ Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=apex%20toastmasters If you enjoyed what you heard, please take a moment to like, share, rate, or review this podcast.