Premeditated Opinions

Josh & Pamela

Some thoughts are premeditated. These are worse. Join Pamela & Josh for a fun-filled, highly opinionated spiral through what it means to live in today's world.

  1. Sep 9

    It’s Giving, A Year of Weaponized Opinions

    One year. 36 episodes. 42 countries. 200 cities. And somehow, no one has taken our microphones away yet. This week, Premeditated Opinions turns ONE, so we're looking back at the first year of the podcast, the episodes we're proud of, the guests we loved, the things that absolutely did not go according to plan, and everything we've learned since two elder millennials sitting in a pool said the four most dangerous words in modern adulthood: “We should start a podcast.” But before we celebrate, we have to talk about Dolly. The news of Dolly Parton's death hit us harder than we expected, and we spend some time talking about celebrity grief, why losing someone you've never actually met can still feel deeply personal, and what made Dolly such a rare kind of public figure. From her music and movies to her generosity, humility, and the stories of kindness that followed her throughout her career, the world genuinely feels a little less bright without her. And yes, Pamela made her entire work team observe a moment of silence for Dolly over Zoom. Everyone complied. As they should. Then, we're raising a glass to one year of Premeditated Opinions and revisiting some of our favorite moments: - The early episodes we absolutely do NOT recommend going back and watching  - Our wildly ambitious, absolutely-no-budget Christmas special - The time Josh got stranded in St. Thomas and we figured out remote recording - The incredible friends and guests who've let us tell their stories - Real estate advice, modern dating, LGBTQ+ Outdoors, AI, memory champions, games, relationships, and all the other places these conversations somehow took us -  The surprise of discovering that people have listened to us in 42 countries and roughly 200 cities - And the very humbling realization that recording a podcast is actually the easy part. Marketing one? Apparently a full-time job. Mostly, though, we're talking about what this little experiment has become. We started Premeditated Opinions because we thought it would be fun to sit down, turn on some microphones, and talk about whatever was on our minds. A year later, some of our favorite moments have come from getting to step into other people's worlds, share the stories of people we love, have conversations we didn't expect, and occasionally say something insightful completely by accident. We're still figuring it out. We're still balancing day jobs, families, broken air conditioning, travel, sick days, barking dogs, and whatever else life decides to throw at the recording schedule. But we're still here. And so are you. Cheers to one year of Premeditated Opinions.  Thank you for letting us into your ear holes. We understand that real estate is at a premium. 🎧 Listen now, then come find us on Instagram and YouTube and tell us: What was your favorite episode, guest, or moment from our first year? And if you've been here since the beginning, first of all: we love you. Second: please don't go watch Episode 1. We've grown. Support the show Stay Connected with us on these platforms: Website: https://www.premeditatedopinions.com Youtube: https://youtube.com/@premeditatedopinionspodcast Substack: https://substack.com/@premeditatedopinions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/premeditated_opinions/ Threads: https://www.threads.com/@premeditated_opinions And don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share us with your friends and family!

    It’s Giving, A Year of Weaponized Opinions
  2. Jul 31

    It's Giving, 1900s Summer

    Summer is winding down, parents are running on fumes, and somewhere in America another kid just announced, "I'm boooooored." This week on Premeditated Opinions, we're diving into one of modern parenting's biggest debates: How much screen time is too much? Is five hours outrageous? Are iPads ruining childhood? Should we feel guilty every time our kids fire up Roblox or the Xbox... or are we all just trying to answer work emails before someone asks for another snack? We talk through our own family's screen-time experiment, why we've started putting more intentional limits around devices, and what happened when boredom was no longer solved by another episode or another scroll. (Spoiler: the kids eventually started hanging out with each other. Wild concept.) Of course, because this is us, the conversation immediately detours into growing up in the 1900s—when entertainment looked a little different. Along the way, we also talk about: - Riding bikes until the streetlights came on - GoldenEye, Halo, Counter-Strike, and legendary LAN parties - Questionable amounts of Mountain Dew... and apparently caffeine pills in Louisville - Why "go play outside" isn't as simple as it used to be - The difference between entertaining your kids and raising resilient ones - Why Lindsey Stirling might be one of the most underrated live performers touring today (and why our daughters may have been permanently spoiled for future concerts) At the end of the day, this isn't really an episode about screens. It's about parenting without a playbook, giving yourself a little grace, and remembering that none of us are getting this perfectly right. We're just trying to raise good humans... one negotiated hour of screen time at a time. Support the show Stay Connected with us on these platforms: Website: https://www.premeditatedopinions.com Youtube: https://youtube.com/@premeditatedopinionspodcast Substack: https://substack.com/@premeditatedopinions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/premeditated_opinions/ Threads: https://www.threads.com/@premeditated_opinions And don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share us with your friends and family!

    It's Giving, 1900s Summer
  3. Jul 15

    It's Giving, Brain Athlete

    Some people have impressive talents. Others use those talents to make a difference. This week on Premeditated Opinions, we're sitting down with two-time USA Memory Champion, Guinness World Record holder, and Brain Athlete Ron White, a longtime friend of Josh's whose life somehow manages to be even more fascinating than his résumé suggests.  Yes, Ron can memorize decks of cards in under two minutes. Yes, he can teach complete strangers to memorize the first digits of pi in just a few minutes. And yes... he'll casually memorize a 30-digit number you made up five seconds ago. But that's not why we wanted him on the show. We wanted to talk about what happens when an extraordinary skill meets extraordinary purpose. After serving in Afghanistan, Ron committed himself to memorizing the names of every American service member who died during the war—more than 2,400 names, in order. Today, he travels the country with a 52-foot memorial wall, hand-writing every one of those names entirely from memory to honor the families behind them. It's one of the most meaningful uses of a unique talent we've ever encountered.  In this episode, we talk about: - How memory actually works (spoiler: it's not photographic memory) - What it takes to become a two-time USA Memory Champion - Building a speaking career from free seminars to international stages - Going viral from 13,000 to 1.8 million Instagram followers in one year—completely organically - The Afghanistan Memory Wall and why honoring the fallen became Ron's life's mission - Live memory demonstrations that honestly made us question our own brains - The viral videos that changed everything—and why teaching people is far more rewarding than simply impressing them Along the way, Ron teaches us a memory technique you can try yourself... and somehow convinces Pamela & Josh to memorize more digits of pi than they ever planned on knowing. (Which, admittedly, isn't a very high bar.) This conversation is funny, inspiring, wildly educational, and a reminder that the coolest people aren't always the loudest—they're often the ones quietly using their gifts to serve others. 🧠 Learn more about Ron White and his work at Brain Athlete (www.brainaathlete.com), and be sure to follow him on social media if you'd like to learn how to remember names, speeches, numbers... or just finally stop walking into a room and forgetting why you went there. Ron White Memory Expert YouTube: https://youtube.com/@brainathlete?si=VIv4qCAa3lct5QCq @realbrainathlete on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@realbrainathlete?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Follow Premeditated Opinions on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you pretend you'll "listen later." Support the show Stay Connected with us on these platforms: Website: https://www.premeditatedopinions.com Youtube: https://youtube.com/@premeditatedopinionspodcast Substack: https://substack.com/@premeditatedopinions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/premeditated_opinions/ Threads: https://www.threads.com/@premeditated_opinions And don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share us with your friends and family!

    It's Giving, Brain Athlete
  4. Jul 1

    It's Giving, Choose What You Pay Attention To

    We're back after a brief hiatus, and apparently the news didn't get any less weird while we were gone. This week on Premeditated Opinions, we're catching up on life, talking through some of the headlines that made us laugh (because crying seemed less productive), and asking a question we've been wrestling with for a while: Can we stop making everything a culture war and start celebrating the things that actually bring us together? We get into:  The $16 million saga of the Lincoln Memorial Reflecting Pool (yes... that reflecting pool)  Why accountability feels harder than ever  Political campaigns built on ideas instead of insults (imagine that)  The World Cup, the Obama Presidential Center, and the kinds of stories that still make us proud to be Americans  Why Clarkson's Farm might be one of the best shows on television  Jeremy Clarkson's prostate cancer diagnosis, remission, and the reminder we all needed to stop putting off preventative healthcare Some episodes are about solving problems. This one is more about recognizing what's worth paying attention to. Because maybe the loudest stories aren't always the most important ones. Maybe the better stories are the ones that remind us who we are when we're at our best. 💙 A quick PSA: If you're due for a mammogram, colonoscopy, prostate screening, annual physical, or any other preventative care... schedule it. Future you (and the people who love you) will be glad you did. 🎙️ Coming Next: We're sitting down with Guinness World Record holder and memory expert Ron White for one of our favorite interviews we've recorded so far. Trust us—you won't want to miss it. Follow Premeditated Opinions on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Instagram for new episodes where we tackle the conversations that matter—with a little sarcasm, a little curiosity, and just enough optimism to keep coming back. Support the show Stay Connected with us on these platforms: Website: https://www.premeditatedopinions.com Youtube: https://youtube.com/@premeditatedopinionspodcast Substack: https://substack.com/@premeditatedopinions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/premeditated_opinions/ Threads: https://www.threads.com/@premeditated_opinions And don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share us with your friends and family!

    It's Giving, Choose What You Pay Attention To
  5. May 27

    It’s Giving Dating in 2026

    This week on Premeditated Opinions, we gathered a couple of our favorite people around the microphones to talk about one of the most confusing modern experiences imaginable: ✨ being single in your 40s ✨ And listen… this episode went from hilarious dating stories to purity culture trauma to AI matchmaking theories faster than anyone expected.  Joining us this week are Chrissie Rivers and Ariel Talitha, two smart, funny, brutally honest women sharing what it’s actually like navigating dating, relationships, divorce, healing, and companionship in 2026. And let’s just say: the apps are bleak, the vibes are confusing, and everybody needs therapy. In this episode, we talk about:  Dating apps in your 40s and why the vibes feel… off  Purity culture, marriage expectations, and growing up in high-control religious environments  Why so many women were taught that marriage = survival  Learning to exist outside the “wife as life goal” narrative  Dating after divorce, trauma, weight loss, and personal reinvention  The uniquely cursed experience of trying to date in Texas as a non-MAGA woman  Whether AI should screen potential partners before humans waste their time Because apparently the future of dating might just be: your chatbot talking to someone else’s chatbot while you sit there emotionally exhausted.  Also in this episode:  A man aggressively ignoring social cues at a karaoke bar  Josh accidentally volunteering to become a dating coach for men  Pamela trying to turn modern dating into a project management workflow  The phrase: “A man is not a retirement plan.”  A genuinely fascinating conversation about vulnerability, race, gender expectations, and modern companionship This episode is funny. It’s uncomfortable. It’s deeply honest. And honestly? It’s probably going to make at least one person text their therapist. If you’ve ever:  deleted and re-downloaded Hinge 14 times  wondered if healthy relationships are actually real  survived purity culture  or questioned whether modern dating is broken for everybody …this one’s for you. Support the show Stay Connected with us on these platforms: Website: https://www.premeditatedopinions.com Youtube: https://youtube.com/@premeditatedopinionspodcast Substack: https://substack.com/@premeditatedopinions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/premeditated_opinions/ Threads: https://www.threads.com/@premeditated_opinions And don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share us with your friends and family!

    It’s Giving Dating in 2026
  6. May 13

    It’s Giving Right to Repair… Now What? (Part 2)

    We’re back with Part 2 of our Right to Repair conversation, and if you were hoping for a clean answer… Yeah. No. In this follow-up, we go beyond the basics and get into the part of this conversation that actually makes people uncomfortable: 👉 There is no clear “right” answer here. We’re joined again by: Scott Blair — career technician, 20+ years in the field, friend of the pod Josh Thomas — Pamela’s husband (yes, still two Joshes, still thriving) And this time, we’re digging into the gray areas: 🔍 In Part 2, we unpack:  Why software—not hardware—is the real battleground Intellectual property, security risks, and “keys to the kingdom” access  What happens when the wrong person has the right tools The reality of modern vehicles: over-the-air updates, remote access, and full system integration  Why diagnosing problems is becoming “replace this part… then this part…” instead of actual expertise  How cost, trust, and risk all collide when choosing where to repair Because here’s the tension: We want people to fix their own stuff. We want independent shops to compete. …but we also don’t want:  hacked vehicles  unsafe repairs  or entire systems getting compromised Small ask. 🤝 Also in this episode:  Why farmers are some of the most impacted by Right to Repair  A surprisingly passionate recommendation for Clarkson’s Farm Why “doing the right thing” depends on who you ask (and how much money they have)  The uncomfortable reality that we may just have to live in the tension This episode doesn’t wrap things up neatly. It does something better: It shows you why it’s messy. And maybe that’s the point. If you’ve ever:  assumed this was a simple “consumer vs corporation” issue  wondered why repairs feel harder (and more expensive) than they should  or realized that “ownership” doesn’t mean what it used to …this one’s for you. Support the show Stay Connected with us on these platforms: Website: https://www.premeditatedopinions.com Youtube: https://youtube.com/@premeditatedopinionspodcast Substack: https://substack.com/@premeditatedopinions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/premeditated_opinions/ Threads: https://www.threads.com/@premeditated_opinions And don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share us with your friends and family!

    It’s Giving Right to Repair… Now What? (Part 2)
  7. Apr 29

    It’s Giving Right to Repair... Kind Of (Part 1)

    This week on Premeditated Opinions, we’re kicking off a two-part conversation on something that sounds niche… until you realize it affects literally everything you own: Right to Repair. From cars to phones to tractors, the question is simple:  👉 If you bought it… do you actually own it? To help us unpack it, we brought in people who actually live this world: Scott Blair — longtime friend of Josh and Pamela Thomas, career technician with 20+ years of experience Josh Thomas — Pamela’s husband (yes, there are two Joshes in her daily life, and no, it’s not confusing at all… we’re doing great) Together, we get into what this looks like in the real world, not just headlines and hot takes. 🔧 In Part 1, we break down:  What “Right to Repair” actually means (and why it’s trending)  How modern vehicles are built to require manufacturer access to function  The growing role of software, programming, and proprietary systems  Why a “simple fix” can turn into a dealership-only situation  The tension between consumer rights, safety, and corporate control Because here’s where it gets frustrating: You can replace the part. You can install it perfectly. …and your car still won’t work without access to the right software.  🔍 Also in this episode:  A casual story about someone being on fire (as one does)  The difference between knowing how to fix something and being allowed to  The Dunning-Kruger effect, but make it mechanical  Why EVs and high-voltage systems raise the stakes significantly  The reality of dealerships vs independent shops vs DIY This isn’t a rant. It’s not a takedown. It’s a real conversation about a system that’s evolving fast—and the trade-offs most people don’t see until they’re stuck in it. Part 2 drops in two weeks. If you’ve ever:  tried to fix something and hit a wall  questioned why everything requires special access  or just want to understand how ownership actually works in 2026 …this one’s for you. Support the show Stay Connected with us on these platforms: Website: https://www.premeditatedopinions.com Youtube: https://youtube.com/@premeditatedopinionspodcast Substack: https://substack.com/@premeditatedopinions Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/premeditated_opinions/ Threads: https://www.threads.com/@premeditated_opinions And don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share us with your friends and family!

    It’s Giving Right to Repair... Kind Of (Part 1)
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Some thoughts are premeditated. These are worse. Join Pamela & Josh for a fun-filled, highly opinionated spiral through what it means to live in today's world.