Fashion is my Foreplay

Elizabeth Wolfe
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Clothes, sex, and oversharing… all in one place. Fashion Is My Foreplay is the podcast that explores fashion, identity, and sex positivity through an unapologetic lens. From runway to real life, it’s witty, raw, and a little chaotic, just how we like it. Expect bold opinions, therapy-level honesty, and plenty of “did she really just say that?” moments. Subscribe for weekly episodes and join the community @fashionismyforeplay.

  1. 1D AGO

    Painting Myself Green on a Construction Site (and Unlearning Masculinity) | Part 1

    This week on Fashion Is My Foreplay, I’m joined by Ruben, creative, designer, body-paint enthusiast and self-described fashion alien. I originally found him on Instagram after a Reel where he talked about working on a construction site while secretly listening to Drag Race in his headphones. Fast forward to painting himself green, building avant-garde queer fashion, and unlearning internalised homophobia, and I was obsessed. In Part 1 we talk about: • Being queer in hyper-masculine spaces (like building sites)• “Performing masculinity” vs performing authenticity• Growing up in a Steiner school (yes… eurythmy included)• Why lockdown changed everything• Drag Race, Bimini & Gottmik’s impact• Internalised homophobia & trying to be “palatable”• From furniture design to Berlin nightlife fashion• Making clothes for queer bodies , without formal fashion training This is about creativity, queerness, identity, fantasy, and the freedom that comes when you stop trying to be “normal.” This is Part 1 — Part 2 drops next week. Follow Ruben:Fashion: https://www.instagram.com/rubenbodower/Personal: https://www.instagram.com/rexyruben/ Follow the podcast:Host: @fashionismyforeplayEmail: fashionismyforeplay@gmail.com ⚠️ Content note: Discussion of mental health, internalised homophobia, queer identity, nightlife culture and brief mentions of anxiety/depression.

    36 min

  2. FEB 3

    Dirty Talk at CHALK: The New Queer Night You Need This Friday

    This week on Fashion Is My Foreplay, I’m joined by Ben, the creator of Brighton’s brand new monthly queer night: Dirty Talk  This episode is a little different, more of an event special, where we talk all about what Dirty Talk is, why Brighton needs more queer nightlife spaces, and what you can expect from the launch night this Friday 6th February at CHALK. We cover:– The vision behind Dirty Talk– Drag, pole, go-go dancers + runway moments– Building inclusive, accessible queer spaces– Brighton nightlife culture – What to wear, who it’s for, and why you should come dance Dirty Talk Launch Night📍 CHALK, Brighton🗓 Friday 6th February🎟 Tickets: https://www.fatsoma.com/e/cyajde51/dirty-talk-01 Follow the event: @dirtytalk.btnhttps://www.instagram.com/dirtytalk.btn Content Warnings:Adult themes, mild sexual humour/language, queer nightlife discussion. Follow the pod: @fashionismyforeplayGuest enquiries: fashionismyforeplay@gmail.com

    26 min

  3. JAN 20

    Politics, Protest & Gray Sexuality (with Violet) | PART 2

    PART 2 of my conversation with Violet (@imissviolet) goes deeper, into politics, protest culture, trans survival, sexuality, confidence, and what it actually means to build a livable future while you’re exhausted. We talk about: – Protest culture, burnout & why communities turn on themselves – ACT UP, AIDS history & what’s been erased from collective memory – Being trans in the current political climate – Experiencing hate crime & navigating safety – Gray sexuality, desire, communication & sex as “drag” – Confidence, self-love, affirmations & building yourself up – Foreplay as ritual, music, comfort & care This episode is raw, funny, heavy at times, and deeply human.  This is PART 2 of a two-part conversation. If you haven’t listened to PART 1 yet, start there first. Content Warnings (PART 2): Adult themes, sex & sexuality, gender identity & trans experience, hate crime discussion, political content, protest & activism, mental health, medical discussion (endometriosis, HPV), strong language. Follow us: Host: @fashionismyforeplay Guest: @imissviolet Listen on Spotify & watch on YouTube — search Fashion Is My Foreplay Guest enquiries: fashionismyforeplay@gmail.com

    31 min

  4. JAN 13

    One Boob, Open Relationships & London Fashion Week Chaos, with Violet | PART 1

    Welcome back to Fashion Is My Foreplay, and we’re kicking off with Violet (@imissviolet) for a chaotic, honest, hilarious conversation that covers everything from London Fashion Week shows to identity, hormones, dating, and why pretending to be “normal” is overrated. We talk about:– How we met through the Dr Noki /fashion show circuit– Modeling, TikTok, agencies & unexpected fashion moments– Burnout, politics, community, and creating more than you consume– Gender fluidity, pronouns, hormones & the reality of being perceived– ADHD/autism, oversharing, and being real online– Dating, falling fast, open relationships & communication This is PART 1 — PART 2 is coming next week! Content Warnings (PART 1):Adult themes, sex & relationships, gender identity / trans experience, body image, mental health, eating disorder mention, neurodiversity discussion, discussion of surgery (FFS), and some strong language. Follow us:Host: @fashionismyforeplayGuest: @imissviolet 🎧 Listen + watch: Spotify & YouTube (search Fashion Is My Foreplay)💌 Guest enquiries: fashionismyforeplay@gmail.com

    25 min

  5. JAN 6

    I’m Back: Sex, Saggy T**s, Manifesting & Why I Took a Break

    I’m back ✨ After a short (and very unplanned) break thanks to tech chaos, Christmas, and life doing its thing, I’m finally back behind the mic with a little welcome-back mini episode. In this solo chat, I catch you up on where I’ve been, what’s been going on in my life, why consistency sometimes disappears when you’re doing everything yourself, and what’s coming next for Fashion Is My Foreplay. We talk: – Taking breaks without guilt – Sex, confidence, exes (because of course) – Body image, saggy t**s & still feeling sexy – Manifesting, vision boards & New Year “resolutions” – Money, credit scores & getting your shit together (slowly) – Why the pod is my main focus this year This episode is messy, honest, funny, and very much a “hi, this is where I’m at” reset, and now that my laptop is fixed, you’ll be hearing a lot more from me very soon. If you’ve missed the pod, I’ve missed you xXx 🔗 WHERE TO FIND & FOLLOW ME Podcast: 🎧 Fashion Is My Foreplay — available on Spotify & YouTube Instagram: 📸 @fashionismyforeplay TikTok: 🎥 @fashionismyforeplay Email / Guest Enquiries: 💌 fashionismyforeplay@gmail.com DMs are open. Chaos is welcome. Stories encouraged.

    15 min

  6. 12/02/2025

    Sabry El Klifi | Fashion as Therapy, Confidence & Main Character Energy

    This week I’m joined by Sabry El Klifi (@sabryelklifi), Brighton-based fashion lover, model, stylist and content creator. To talk about style, confidence and why fashion is so much more than just clothes. We chat about how we met over those glasses, building a personal brand on Instagram, and the love, hate relationship with social media. Sabry opens up about growing up in France, moving to London and then Brighton, and how fashion became his daily therapy and creative outlet, helping him through low moments, breakups and rebuilding confidence. We talk about main character energy, compliments, not fitting in, buying with a vision, and why feeling sexy is an energy, not how much skin you show. And of course, we finish with my signature questions, including what makes him feel sexiest (spoiler: an oversized blazer). ⚠️ Content warning: Adult themes, sex and sexuality, body confidence, social media pressures. Follow Sabry: @sabryelklifi Follow the podcast: @fashionismyforeplay on Instagram & TikTok

    51 min

  7. 11/18/2025

    Katie France London | Iconic Heart Bags, Colour Confidence & Dopamine Dressing

    This week I’m joined by the incredible Katie France London, the designer behind the iconic heart bags you’ve seen all over Instagram, including my own blue & orange one-off piece. We talk about how her brand began with kids’ clothing, how inclusivity led her to designing bags, and why accessories were can be the first tool for confidence when clothing didn’t feel available. Katie opens up about imposter syndrome, the power of colour, building confidence through dopamine dressing, and how she grew her loyal community online. We also talk about content creation, small business collaboration, vintage fabric sourcing, and how her bags have found their way onto the runway at London Fashion Week. And of course, we finish with the classic questions. ⚠️ Content warning: Adult themes, discussions of body confidence and sexuality. 📌 Follow & Support Katie: Website: https://www.katiefrancelondon.co.uk/?srsltid=AfmBOortndBJznUtaLdtSjLF1m46UYwUpBdSeQOQB1SPhyrRxpSP2Rh0 Instagram: @katiefrance.london Follow the pod on Instagram & TikTok: @fashionismyforeplay

    38 min

  8. 11/11/2025

    Luke Haley | Finding Identity Through Dance, Fashion & the Queer Scene

    In this episode, I’m joined by dancer, fitness instructor, and Brighton icon Luke Haley, who opens up about finding their people through dance, discovering their identity, and building confidence through performance. We talk about Luke’s journey from growing up in a conservative area to training at the BRIT School and Laine Theatre Arts, coming to terms with being non-binary, and finding freedom in Brighton’s queer scene. From go-go dancing and thrifted fashion to sex, self-expression, and body confidence, Luke embodies what Fashion Is My Foreplay is all about: owning who you are and turning it into art. Follow Luke - @lukey_haley https://www.instagram.com/lukey_haley?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== ⚠️ Content warning: Discussions of gender identity, sexuality, and adult themes.

    36 min
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Clothes, sex, and oversharing… all in one place. Fashion Is My Foreplay is the podcast that explores fashion, identity, and sex positivity through an unapologetic lens. From runway to real life, it’s witty, raw, and a little chaotic, just how we like it. Expect bold opinions, therapy-level honesty, and plenty of “did she really just say that?” moments. Subscribe for weekly episodes and join the community @fashionismyforeplay.

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  • Creator
    Elizabeth Wolfe
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Elizabeth Wolfe
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    Fashion is my Foreplay