Authentic Leadership Podcast

Ivan Yeo

Every story shapes our shared history. Authenticity Studio is a storytelling and oral history platform dedicated to documenting the lived experiences of people and communities across Aotearoa New Zealand. Through meaningful conversations, we preserve stories of identity, culture, migration, resilience, leadership and transformation—one person, one community and one story at a time. Essence + Truth + Clarity = Authenticity Authenticity begins when we move beyond appearances and make space for the truth of who we are. Every story carries an essence. When that essence is expressed with truth and clarity, it allows people to be seen, heard and remembered. “The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” - Inspired by the work of Joseph Campbell and Carl Jung.

  1. 5d ago

    Coming Home to Ourselves: Because You Matter — A Conversation with Shelley Brunskill-Matson

    In this deeply moving episode, Ivan speaks with Shelley Brunskill-Matson about grief, suicide loss, purpose and our fundamental human need to know that we matter. Shelley was only 12 years old when her father, Tony, died by suicide. Decades later, that experience became part of a much larger mission: helping children, young people and families affected by suicide loss receive the care and support they genuinely need. Shelley shares what she learned through her PhD research with bereaved tamariki aged six to thirteen. Her central finding was powerful: children experience care as truly supportive when it reinforces that they matter. They need to be seen, heard, offered choices and recognised as active participants in their own grief—not simply have adults decide what is best for them. She also discusses the creation of Tony’s Place, its guardianship of the WAVES suicide-bereavement programme, and the development of MySpace, a new programme designed specifically for bereaved children. The conversation then opens into Shelley’s own new chapter following burnout and the sudden deaths of two close friends. She reflects on trusting herself, refusing to fit inside one box and finding the courage to pursue the work that has quietly been calling her. Ultimately, this is a conversation about turning grief into purpose, listening without assuming, and recognising how much it means when another person makes us feel truly seen and heard. Because whether we are six, thirty-six or eighty-six, we all need to know that we matter. Content note: This episode contains conversations about suicide loss and grief.

    Coming Home to Ourselves: Because You Matter — A Conversation with Shelley Brunskill-Matson
  2. Aug 9

    Choosing an Authentic Life: Yoga, Reiki, Travel and Spiritual Awakening With Katie Sterbens

    What happens when your inner voice becomes too loud to ignore? Katie left behind New York’s corporate fashion world to follow a very different path—one shaped by yoga, Reiki, Akashic Records, spiritual exploration and travel. Her journey took her from Peru and Hawaii to India, Bali and eventually New Zealand, where she discovered a community and way of living that allowed her to embrace who she truly is. In this heartfelt conversation, Katie shares how she became a 500-hour yoga teacher, Reiki Master and Akashic Records reader. She explains what the Akashic Records are, how Reiki works within her practice, and why listening to our intuition can open doors we never imagined. We also explore the courage required to choose an unconventional life when the people around us may not understand. Katie speaks honestly about burnout, family expectations, loneliness, failure and learning to trust herself—even when following her calling meant going against everything she had been taught. This conversation becomes especially personal as I share how Katie’s yoga classes offered me a place of grounding and comfort during one of the most difficult transitions of my life. Katie’s message to her younger self—and to anyone trying to follow their own path—is beautifully simple: “Don’t give up. Keep going, keep trying, keep failing, and have more fun with it. It always works out.”

    Choosing an Authentic Life: Yoga, Reiki, Travel and Spiritual Awakening With Katie Sterbens
  3. Aug 2

    Grassroots Leadership: What Real Community Change Looks Like | Eva Chen MNZM

    Some people build organisations. Others build communities. For more than two decades, Eva Chen MNZM has quietly stood alongside migrant and refugee families across Aotearoa New Zealand, creating spaces where people feel seen, supported and connected. In this conversation, Eva shares the untold stories behind Wellbeing Charitable Trust—from supporting new migrant mothers experiencing postnatal depression and family violence, to advocating for culturally appropriate services, coordinating emergency responses during natural disasters, and helping families through the COVID-19 pandemic. What makes Eva's story remarkable is not simply what she has achieved, but how she has achieved it. She reminds us that meaningful change rarely begins with large budgets or grand strategies. It begins by listening to one family, responding to one need, and earning the trust of a community. Throughout our conversation, we explore: • Building Wellbeing Charitable Trust from the ground up • Supporting Chinese migrant parents and families • The hidden realities of family violence in migrant communities • Why trust is the most valuable resource in community work • Grassroots leadership and advocacy • Cultural dignity during emergencies and disasters • Community mobilisation during COVID-19 • Why lasting social change happens through relationships, not systems alone Perhaps the greatest lesson from Eva is this: Communities are not built by organisations. They are built by ordinary people who choose to care for one another.

    Grassroots Leadership: What Real Community Change Looks Like | Eva Chen MNZM
  4. Jul 19

    1.5-Generation Korean New Zealander | Continuing to Thrive Through Tears and Laughter | Helen Lee

    Behind every migrant family is a story of sacrifice, resilience, and love that often goes untold. In this deeply personal conversation, Helen Lee shares her journey as a 1.5-generation Korean New Zealander—growing up between two cultures, rediscovering her Korean identity, and finding purpose through community service. Helen reflects on the extraordinary courage of her parents, who left South Korea to build a new life in New Zealand, the profound impact of losing her father at just 19 years old, and how grief transformed the way she saw her mother—not only as a parent, but as a woman navigating her own loss. Together, we explore identity, belonging, volunteering, intergenerational change, migrant family life, and the quiet strength that shapes the next generation. This is more than a conversation about migration. It is about the people who came before us, the legacy they leave behind, and how love continues through the lives we choose to live. In this episode, we discuss: • Growing up as a 1.5-Generation Korean New Zealander • The untold sacrifices of migrant parents • Reconnecting with cultural identity • Losing a parent at a young age • Grief, resilience and healing • Community, volunteering and public service • Health equity and public policy • Why belonging matters • Carrying a parent's legacy into the future If this conversation resonates with you, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Every story reminds us that none of us walks this journey alone.

    1.5-Generation Korean New Zealander | Continuing to Thrive Through Tears and Laughter | Helen Lee
  5. Jul 12

    The LGBTQ+ Elders Who Paved the Way — Are We Forgetting Them? Conversation with Mark Maple

    What does it mean to grow up openly gay in the conservative American South during the 1960s and 70s? In this deeply moving conversation, Mark shares an extraordinary life shaped by courage, resilience, heartbreak, faith, and hope. From surviving hate crimes, sexual assault, addiction, and the HIV/AIDS epidemic, to rebuilding his life while living with Parkinson's disease, Mark reflects on nearly seven decades of lived experience with remarkable honesty. Now living in a nursing home in Colorado, Mark speaks openly about loneliness, ageing within the LGBTQ+ community, and why so many older queer people feel forgotten. Following a simple act of kindness on social media that connected him with people around the world, he reminds us how even the smallest gesture can create a ripple effect that changes someone's life. Together we explore: • Growing up openly gay in conservative America • Living through the HIV/AIDS epidemic • Recovery from addiction and finding hope again • Living with Parkinson's disease • Loneliness and ageing in the LGBTQ+ community • Faith, resilience and finding purpose • Why we must remember and honour the generation that paved the way for LGBTQ+ rights • The power of kindness, connection and human dignity This is more than one man's story. It is a reminder that behind every freedom we enjoy today are people whose lives were shaped by courage, sacrifice and perseverance. If Mark's story touched you, please consider liking this video, subscribing to the channel, and sharing it with others. Together, we can ensure that the voices of LGBTQ+ elders continue to be heard and remembered.

    The LGBTQ+ Elders Who Paved the Way — Are We Forgetting Them? Conversation with Mark Maple

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Every story shapes our shared history. Authenticity Studio is a storytelling and oral history platform dedicated to documenting the lived experiences of people and communities across Aotearoa New Zealand. Through meaningful conversations, we preserve stories of identity, culture, migration, resilience, leadership and transformation—one person, one community and one story at a time. Essence + Truth + Clarity = Authenticity Authenticity begins when we move beyond appearances and make space for the truth of who we are. Every story carries an essence. When that essence is expressed with truth and clarity, it allows people to be seen, heard and remembered. “The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” - Inspired by the work of Joseph Campbell and Carl Jung.