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A Little Throuple Tea is a gay throuple podcast where love, chaos, and laughter collide. Join real-life LGBTQ throuple William, Caleb, and Daniel as they share stories from their unconventional relationship — from wild nights and friendship drama to navigating polyamory, pop culture, and everyday life as a committed three-person partnership. Nothing is off limits. Relationships, identity, family dynamics, queer culture, and the messy moments in between. Equal parts heart and humor, this is your weekly sip of throuple life that proves love doesn’t fit in a box.

  1. 1d ago

    The Gay Bucket List | S2 Ep31

    What exactly belongs on the ultimate Gay Bucket List?This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we’re going through the gay experiences, destinations, milestones, events, and ridiculous adventures the internet says every gay should experience at least once.We’re talking our favorite Pride memories, the cities we still want to experience Pride in, Fire Island, Palm Springs, Key West, Puerto Vallarta, gay cruises, circuit parties, drag brunches, gay ski weeks, concerts, chosen family, holding hands in public, supporting LGBTQ+ businesses, and finding places where you can actually feel completely comfortable being yourself.Of course, because it’s us, that somehow turns into Daniel needing to plan something for once, disappearing on vacation, straight boys, bathhouses, robot fantasies, gay milestones, planning a giant house party and a conversation about whether straight men actually wash their buttholes.Yes. It goes very far off the rails.We also get into the more meaningful side of the Gay Bucket List — finding your chosen family, experiencing Pride, falling in love, supporting your community and finding that sense of belonging that so many LGBTQ+ people spend years looking for.Plus, we play Chaos Bowl directly from the Throuple Tea app again, this time with Most Likely To prompts, Mature Mode, Wild Mode and Slay Cards. And apparently the app knows us a little too well.Also in this episode:- The ultimate Gay Bucket List- Our favorite Pride memories and dream Pride destinations- Gay experiences we’ve somehow never had- Chaos Bowl: Most Likely To + Wild + Slay Cards- Two real Throuple Hotline questions- A completely unnecessary investigation into straight men's hygiene- Sassy Astrology for August 21–27- Daniel’s Dad Joke- And several conversations that absolutely were NOT on the Gay Bucket ListIf you’ve already crossed half of these off your list, congratulations. If you haven’t… apparently we all have some work to do.Tell us: What’s one gay experience you think EVERYONE should have at least once? And what’s still sitting on your Gay Bucket List?Submit your questions, stories, shady neighborhood tea, relationship chaos, confessions, or whatever else you need three gay men to have an opinion about through the Throuple Hotline.Download the FREE Throuple Tea app now on Apple AND Android. Listen and watch the podcast, play Chaos Bowl, send us a Throuple Hotline message, enter Win a Book Wednesday giveaways, and keep up with everything Throuple Tea in one place.Visit ThroupleTea.comAnd don’t forget to read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.Follow, subscribe, rate, review and share the show with someone whose Gay Bucket List could use a few more questionable additions.Throuple life. It doesn’t suck.

    The Gay Bucket List | S2 Ep31
  2. Aug 14

    40 Episodes Later: We Still Have Too Much to Say | S2 Ep30

    Somehow… we made it to Episode 30 of Season 2 — which means this is officially our 40th episode of A Little Throuple Tea. And honestly, we’re just as surprised as you are that we still have this much to talk about. This week, we’re looking back at what’s changed since we first sat down behind the microphones, what we were nervous to talk about in the beginning, the running jokes that somehow became part of the show, what we’ve learned about each other after 40 episodes, and where we want to take this thing next. Of course, because it’s us, that quickly turns into mosquito nets, Daniel “kneading,” crusty blankets, hot vampire brothers, blown-out holes, travel disasters and several conversations that probably explain why our show is marked explicit. We also talk about some pretty huge milestones for A Little Throuple Tea — including our new partnership with the Los Angeles Blade and the launch of the official Throuple Tea app on BOTH Apple and Android! Plus, for the first time on the podcast, we ditch the physical slips of paper and play Chaos Bowl directly from the new app, using Classic Mode on Wild with Slay Cards. Things get weird immediately. Also in this episode: Chaos Bowl: Wild + Slay Cards Two Throuple Hotline messages Our goals for the next 40 episodes Who we’d love to have as our first podcast guest Sassy Astrology for August 14–21 Daniel’s Dad Joke And approximately 47 conversations we absolutely did not plan on having If you’ve been listening since Episode 1, THANK YOU. And if you somehow found us at Episode 40… welcome. You have a lot of questionable material to catch up on. Tell us: What’s been your favorite Throuple Tea moment, running joke, or episode so far? And what do you want to hear from us in the next 40? Submit your questions, stories, shady neighborhood tea, relationship chaos, or whatever else you need three gay men to have an opinion about through the Throuple Hotline. Download the FREE Throuple Tea app now on Apple AND Android. Listen and watch the podcast, play Chaos Bowl, send us a Throuple Hotline message, enter Win a Book Wednesday giveaways, and keep up with everything Throuple Tea in one place. Visit ThroupleTea.com And don’t forget to read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade. Follow, subscribe, rate, review and share the show with someone who could use a little more tea in their life. Throuple life. It doesn’t suck.

    40 Episodes Later: We Still Have Too Much to Say | S2 Ep30
  3. Aug 7

    Can a Throuple Actually Get Married?!? | S2 Ep29

    Can a throuple actually get legally married? 🤔🌈This week on A Little Throuple Tea, what started as a boring morning of estate planning quickly turned into a legal rabbit hole we never expected.After trying to create a joint living trust, we discovered that even after nearly 15 years as California Registered Domestic Partners, the system still didn't recognize our relationship the way we thought it would. That sent us down a Google-fueled spiral asking one simple question...Can a throuple actually get married anywhere in the world?Along the way we talk about:✨ Domestic Partnerships vs. Marriage✨ Living Trusts & Estate Planning✨ Why relationship laws still have catching up to do✨ The irony of reality TV celebrating unconventional relationships while the legal system often doesn't✨ And of course... complete wedding chaos, groomzillas, honeymoon debates, and who would absolutely forget the marriage license. 😂We also celebrate some HUGE news—A Little Throuple Tea has officially been syndicated by the Los Angeles Blade! Thank you to everyone at LA Blade for believing in our little show. Be sure to check out our weekly companion article on their website after listening!Plus:🎲 Bowl of Chaos: Wedding Edition☎️ Throuple Hotline🔮 Sassy Astrology😑 Daniel's Dad JokeIf you've ever wondered how nontraditional relationships navigate marriage, legal paperwork, and commitment—or if you just enjoy listening to three idiots make each other laugh—this episode is for you.👇 We'd love to hear from you!Would you get married if three-person marriage became legal tomorrow?How do you introduce your relationship? Partners? Spouses? Domestic partners? Something else?Leave us a comment!📲 Download the NEW Throuple Tea app!Now available on Apple App Store, with Android coming soon!🎙️ Follow us everywhere you listen to podcasts.🌴 Visit: ThroupleTea.com📰 Read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.☎️ Submit your questions to the Throuple Hotline—your story could be featured in a future episode!

    Can a Throuple Actually Get Married?!? | S2 Ep29
  4. Jul 31

    Things That Instantly Make Someone Attractive | S2 Ep28

    This week, we’re talking about the little things that can instantly make someone more attractive—and the equally small things that can ruin it the second they open their mouth.From humor, intelligence, curiosity, and being good with animals to hygiene, trustworthiness, adventurousness, and simply making someone feel safe, we’re breaking down the qualities that matter more than just being hot.We also talk about whether attraction can grow over time, the difference between attraction and compatibility, what first attracted us to each other, and what we appreciate more after years together.Naturally, the conversation goes completely off the rails when Will’s white mustache makes another appearance, Caleb tries to defend Chuck Norris jokes, Daniel’s home-reorganizing habits start a full household argument, and one innocent Bowl of Chaos answer almost turns us into Joe Rogan.Then the shots start flowing, a six-pound dildo becomes a home-security weapon, someone goes down the “wrong throat,” and we discover that Throat Goat may actually be living among us.We also catch up on the never-ending heat, the chaos of running DCW Grows, our weekly signed book giveaway, and how close Book Two of Tres Amigos, Una Vida is getting to completion.Plus, we answer new Throuple Hotline submissions involving facial-hair requests, unexpected porn-star potential, and the celebrity hall passes we apparently never discussed as a throuple.📞 Should Daniel grow a thick mustache, shave the goatee, and explore his alleged porn-star potential?📞 Do we have celebrity hall passes—and who would make the list?Plus:🔥 First Impressions vs. Reality😂 Why Humor Is So Attractive🐶 Being Good with Animals🧠 Intelligence, Curiosity & Flat-Earth Gemini🧼 Hygiene, Bad Breath & White Tongues🚩 Attraction vs. Compatibility❤️ What First Attracted Us to Each Other🏠 The Great Household Rearranging Fight🚦 Bowl of Chaos: Green Flag, Red Flag or We’ll Survive🍆 The Six-Pound Dildo Story☎️ Throuple Hotline🔮 Sassy Astrology🌭 Dad Joke of the WeekThank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you’re driving to work, trying to survive the summer heat, reorganizing a room nobody asked you to touch, or realizing someone became hotter simply because they made you laugh, we appreciate every single one of you.🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: throupletea.com📚 Sign up for push notifications at ThroupleTea.com for your chance to win a signed copy of Tres Amigos, Una Vida: A Throuple Love Story.

    Things That Instantly Make Someone Attractive | S2 Ep28
  5. Jul 24

    Things We Thought Meant You Were RICH Growing Up 😂 | S2 Ep27

    This week we're talking about all the random things we were convinced meant someone was rich growing up... and looking back, we couldn't have been more wrong. From two-story houses and homemade lemonade to Gateway computers, deli meat from the grocery store, and Sleep Number beds, we're reminiscing about the childhood "luxuries" that made us think someone had officially made it. Naturally, the conversation goes completely off the rails when Daniel accidentally says "Poke Your Anus" instead of Pocahontas, Will pretends to know what Cap Rock is, and somehow decides they're the hottest accessory of the season. We also catch up on Daniel becoming a Reiki Master, the launch of our new website, this weekend's Out at the Fair® at the Orange County Fair, and our signed book giveaway. Plus, we answer new Throuple Hotline questions from listeners navigating relationship drama, family obligations, and protecting your own peace. 📞 How many times can your friends break up before you stop pretending to be surprised? 📞 Is it selfish to skip family events when your social battery is completely drained? Plus: 🏡 Things We Thought Meant You Were Rich 🍋 Homemade Lemonade Memories 💻 Gateway Computers 🥪 The Deli Meat Upgrade 🛏️ Sleep Number Beds & Aging 😂 "Poke Your Anus" 🪨 Cap Rocks Are Apparently In Style 🦴 Bowl of Chaos ☎️ Throuple Hotline 🔮 Sassy Astrology 😂 Dad Joke of the Week Thank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you're driving to work, hiding from the summer heat, reminiscing about your childhood, or still convinced a two-story house means someone's rich, we appreciate every single one of you. 🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube 🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts 📲 Instagram: @throupletea 🌴 Website: throupletea.com 📚 Sign up for push notifications at ThroupleTea.com for your chance to win a signed copy of Tres Amigos, Una Vida: A Throuple Love Story.

    Things We Thought Meant You Were RICH Growing Up 😂 | S2 Ep27
  6. Jul 17

    🌈 The Gay Rulebook We Never Received | S2 Ep26

    This week we're diving into The Gay Rulebook We Never Received — the completely unofficial handbook that apparently every gay person got except us. After a listener asked if they've broken a gay rule by never watching RuPaul's Drag Race, we started wondering: is there actually a list of rules we're all supposed to know? From gym culture and drag shows to Palm Springs, circuit parties, fashion, hookups, and stereotypes, we're unpacking the gay expectations we never signed up for. We also talk about selling the Out at the Fair trailer, saying goodbye to a huge chapter of our lives, whether Caleb should grow a skullet, and why body hair deserves a little more respect. Plus, we answer multiple Throuple Hotline questions from listeners navigating relationships, age gaps, friendship dynamics, and life as a throuple. 📞 Is it a gay crime to never watch RuPaul's Drag Race?📞 How do you handle judgment as a throuple with a large age gap?📞 What happens when a potential third starts pulling away? Plus: 🌈 The Gay Rulebook We Never Received🏳️‍🌈 Gay culture stereotypes💪 Gym culture & body image👠 Drag culture & representation🎧 Circuit parties & Palm Springs📱 Hookup culture & dating apps🦴 The Bowl of Chaos☎️ Throuple Hotline🔮 Sassy Astrology😂 Dad Joke of the Week Thank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you're driving to work, hiding from the summer heat, scrolling through Instagram instead of going to the gym, or wondering if your gay card is still valid, we appreciate every single one of you. 🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: ⁠throupletea.com⁠📚 Sign up for notifications at ⁠ThroupleTea.com⁠ for your chance to win a signed copy of Tres Amigos, Una Vida: A Throuple Love Story

    🌈 The Gay Rulebook We Never Received | S2 Ep26
  7. Jul 10

    🌲 Tahoe, Reno & We Froze Tequila | S2 Ep25

    We finally escaped for a much-needed vacation to Lake Tahoe and Reno… and honestly, it was exactly what we needed. This week we’re breaking down our entire Tahoe trip, from beautiful hikes and lake days to family time, casino adventures, Lime scooter rides, giant pine trees, and the reason we ended up extending the vacation instead of coming home. We talk about what surprised us most about Tahoe, why Reno felt different this time, our favorite meals, favorite memories, and why this may have been one of the most relaxing trips we’ve taken in years. We also answer a new Throuple Hotline question from a listener in Montreal: 📞 Have any of you ever second-guessed becoming a throuple? 📞 And does Daniel really wear socks during sex? Plus: 🌲 Lake Tahoe adventures🏡 Airbnb review🥾 Hiking with Rigsby & Zoey🎰 Reno recap👨‍👩‍👧 Family birthday memories📚 Book 2 update🎲 Tahoe Bowl of Chaos☎️ Throuple Hotline🔮 Sassy Astrology😂 Dad Joke of the Week Thank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you’re listening on a road trip, planning your next vacation, hiking a trail, or recovering from your own Fourth of July tequila decisions, we appreciate every single one of you. 🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: throupletea.com 📚 Sign up for notifications at ThroupleTea.com for your chance to win a signed copy of Tres Amigos, Una Vida: A Throuple Love Story

    🌲 Tahoe, Reno & We Froze Tequila | S2 Ep25

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A Little Throuple Tea is a gay throuple podcast where love, chaos, and laughter collide. Join real-life LGBTQ throuple William, Caleb, and Daniel as they share stories from their unconventional relationship — from wild nights and friendship drama to navigating polyamory, pop culture, and everyday life as a committed three-person partnership. Nothing is off limits. Relationships, identity, family dynamics, queer culture, and the messy moments in between. Equal parts heart and humor, this is your weekly sip of throuple life that proves love doesn’t fit in a box.

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