Messy But Motivated

Melinda
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Messy But Motivated is where real life gets real talk. No sugar-coating, no filters—just honest conversations about the chaos, struggles, and lessons we all face. From everyday messes to deeper moments, I mix in humor and motivation, because life is way too messy to take too seriously. My motto? It’s okay to be messy as long as you stay motivated. If you’re looking for something relatable, raw, and a little funny—you’re in the right place. ✨ Real. Raw. Relatable. ✨

  1. 3d ago

    Ep 44 - Grief, Growth and Standing Ground

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Messy but Motivated, I’m sharing some raw life updates — the heartbreak of losing our dog after 11 faithful years, where things currently stand with our move, and a much-needed reminder for believers living in a world full of distraction and deception. With so much noise surrounding UFOs, UAPs, fear-driven headlines, and things designed to steal our focus, it’s important to remember this truth: as Christians, we already know who wins. The enemy thrives on confusion, fear, and distraction, but we are called to stand firm, keep our eyes on Christ, and not give attention to what pulls us away from His peace. No matter what’s happening around us, our foundation doesn’t change. This episode is about grief, trusting God through transition, and standing your ground in faith — because when you know the Author of the ending, you don’t have to fear the chaos in the middle. Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

    37 min

  2. May 8

    Ep 43 - What Social Media Didn’t Show: The Struggles That Strengthened Us

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Messy But Motivated, my husband Mike joins me for one of our most honest conversations yet. We’re pulling back the curtain on the parts of our story social media never showed—the depression, financial struggles, short sales, uncertainty, and the seasons where life felt heavier than we knew how to carry. From the outside, things can look polished and put together, but behind closed doors we were walking through battles that tested us in ways no post could ever capture. In this episode, we talk about the reality that things aren’t always what they seem online, the pressure of silent struggles, and how we made it through the hard seasons together. Through every setback, every hard conversation, and every storm, one thing never wavered: our marriage. This is a conversation about choosing commitment when life gets messy, leaning on faith when answers don’t come easy, and discovering that sometimes the hardest seasons produce the strongest foundations. If you’ve ever felt like everyone else has it together while you’re barely holding on, this episode is for you. Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe Email us your testimony, your story can change the outcome of someone future. 📧 Email your story to: Comeasyouare@mrsmotivated.com Or leave us a voicemail 📲 (641) 505-1558 Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

    36 min

  3. May 1

    Ep 42 - Stop Setting Yourself Up For Failure

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Messy but Motivated, I’m getting honest about something a lot of us don’t want to admit… sometimes we are the reason we feel like we’re failing. We set goals that look good, sound good, and might even work for someone else—but deep down, we know they don’t actually fit us. Then when we don’t follow through, we beat ourselves up like we lacked discipline… when really, we lacked alignment. Not everyone is called to the same rhythms. Some people thrive journaling every single day. Some don’t. Some people wake up at 5am ready to go. Some connect with God in the quiet moments later in the day. And that doesn’t make one better than the other. God didn’t create a copy-and-paste version of you. He created you on purpose, with intention. So why are we trying to force ourselves into someone else’s routine? In this episode, we’re talking about giving yourself permission to grow in a way that actually works for you—without guilt, without comparison, and without setting unrealistic expectations that lead to burnout. Because maybe the goal isn’t to do it perfectly…  maybe it’s to do it faithfully, in a way that’s sustainable for you. Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe Email us your testimony, your story can change the outcome of someone future. 📧 Email your story to: Comeasyouare@mrsmotivated.com Or leave us a voicemail 📲 (641) 505-1558 Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

    42 min

  4. Apr 24

    Ep 41- Tired Beyond Sleep

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Messy But Motivated, we’re getting real about a kind of exhaustion that sleep can’t fix. Because truthfully… most of us aren’t just physically tired. We’re mentally drained, emotionally stretched, and spiritually worn down. We’re carrying things no one else can see—  unspoken stress, silent battles, unanswered prayers, pressure to keep it all together.  Invisible weights that pile up day after day until even the smallest tasks feel heavy. In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to live under that kind of weight…  and more importantly, how to start laying it down. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, numb, or just off lately—this conversation is for you. You’re not alone in the heaviness… and you don’t have to carry it by yourself anymore. Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe Email us your testimony, your story can change the outcome of someone future. 📧 Email your story to: Comeasyouare@mrsmotivated.com Or leave us a voicemail 📲 (641) 505-1558 Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

    27 min

  5. Apr 17

    Ep 40 - Drowning Out the Noise & Fixing My Eyes on Him

    Send us Fan Mail Life has been loud lately… and not just in the world around me, but in my mind, my circumstances, and honestly, my heart too. In this week’s episode of Messy but Motivated, I’m getting real about what it looks like to live in the middle of chaos, between sickness, life updates, and even the unexpected stress of animal chaos (because… of course 😅). It’s been one of those seasons where everything feels overwhelming, and the noise just won’t stop. But in the middle of all that, God has been reminding me of something simple, but powerful: you don’t need less noise, you need a stronger focus. I talk about how easy it is to feel like Peter, stepping out in faith but quickly getting distracted by the wind and waves… and how the only way to stay above it all is to keep our eyes locked on Jesus. If you’ve been feeling distracted, discouraged, or just spiritually drained, this episode is for you. It’s a reminder that even in the mess, even in the noise, His voice is still there, you just have to tune back in. Let’s quiet the chaos together and refocus where it matters most. Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe Email us your testimony, your story can change the outcome of someone future. 📧 Email your story to: Comeasyouare@mrsmotivated.com Or leave us a voicemail 📲 (641) 505-1558 Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

    41 min

  6. Apr 6

    Ep 39 - It’s Not a Time Problem—It’s a Priority Problem

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Messy But Motivated 🎙️ I’m getting real about something a lot of us don’t want to admit… 👉 We don’t have a time problem—we have a priority problem. We say we’re too busy. Too tired. Too overwhelmed. But if we’re honest? We make time for what matters most to us. In this episode, I’m diving into: Why “I don’t have time” might not actually be trueThe hard truth about what we’re putting before God, growth, and what really mattersHow small daily choices are shaping the life we say we want And I’m also sharing something close to my heart ❤️ I talk about what I believe is helping shape my kids into genuinely good humans—not perfect, but kind, respectful, and grounded. This one is honest, a little convicting, and hopefully the push we all need to realign what actually matters. Because at the end of the day… we always have time for what we prioritize. 🛎️Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

    30 min

  7. Mar 27

    Ep 38 - Teaching Truth in a Confusing World

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Messy But Motivated, I’m diving into the recent craziness surrounding NeeDoh’s and using it as a real-life example of how quickly culture can influence what we normalize—especially for our kids. As Christians, we’re called to be different, not to blend in. I share my heart on what that actually looks like in today’s world and how I’ve been having honest, age-appropriate conversations with the youth in our ministry about some tough topics. If you’ve ever struggled with how to explain hard truths while still leading with love, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about raising and guiding the next generation to stand firm in their faith—even when it’s not popular.  Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe Email us your testimony, your story can change the outcome of someone future. 📧 Email your story to: Comeasyouare@mrsmotivated.com Or leave us a voicemail 📲 (641) 505-1558 Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

    34 min

  8. Mar 20

    Ep 37 - Discernment: Real Faith vs Empty Words

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Messy but Motivated, we’re diving into the topic of discernment—how to recognize the difference between someone who claims to follow Christ and someone who truly lives it out. I’m sharing three key things I’ve learned in seminary this semester that have challenged the way I see faith, people, and spiritual authenticity. We’ll also talk about what it really means to be “good” people—not by the world’s standards, but through a biblical lens. This conversation is real, honest, and meant to encourage you to grow in wisdom, stand firm in your faith, and ask the hard questions when it comes to what you believe and who you’re surrounding yourself with. If you’ve ever struggled with knowing what’s genuine or just want to deepen your understanding of discernment, this episode is for you. Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

    45 min
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Messy But Motivated is where real life gets real talk. No sugar-coating, no filters—just honest conversations about the chaos, struggles, and lessons we all face. From everyday messes to deeper moments, I mix in humor and motivation, because life is way too messy to take too seriously. My motto? It’s okay to be messy as long as you stay motivated. If you’re looking for something relatable, raw, and a little funny—you’re in the right place. ✨ Real. Raw. Relatable. ✨

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  • Creator
    Melinda
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    43
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Messy But Motivated
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