The Jo Ellis Effect

Jo Ellis

Jo Ellis is what happens when a Black Hawk pilot, a homeschooled Christian kid, a trans woman, and a stand-up comic walk into the same person. A 16-year Army combat vet who is being discharged because of President Trump's Trans military ban. In 2025, she became the target of a viral far-right conspiracy falsely accusing her of causing the DC plane crash . She's now a standup comedian and advocate for pragmatic trans policy. If you like unapologetic honesty, fearless humor, and conversations that hit as hard as they land, you’re in the right place. Follow Jo on socials and YT: @JoEllisReally

  1. Aug 15

    Why I Disagree With the Trans Community on These 4 Issues

    In this episode of The Jo Ellis Effect, I lay out four positions I hold on transgender issues that tend to upset people on both sides: trans women in women's sports, whether gender dysphoria is a mental illness, whether trans women are the same as women, and medical gender-affirming care for minors.These are my views as they stand today. I'm open to changing my mind when better evidence or arguments come along, but I also don't think being trans requires me to agree with every position associated with the trans community.I also get into the controversy surrounding former NBA players Royce White, Enes Kanter, declaring for the WNBA draft, why I think both sides of the culture war get parts of the trans debate wrong, and why I think we need to be willing to scrutinize arguments from our own "side."Then, some life updates: I'm hitting the road for more dates with Jason Ellis, heading to Denver, New York, Arizona, Sacramento and Detroit, Friendly Fire is moving to Saturdays, I've got new merch, and Dani brought me back my favorite Irish whiskey from Ireland.CHAPTERS00:00 4 Controversial Things I Believe About Trans Issues00:37 Why I’m Talking About This04:11 My 4 Positions on Trans Issues04:52 Gender-Affirming Care for Minors09:11 Is Gender Dysphoria a Mental Illness?14:08 Is Transition “Affirming a Delusion”?15:26 Trans Women Are Not the Same as Women17:18 Trans Women in Women’s Sports20:20 The WNBA Trans Eligibility Controversy27:06 What It’s Like Being in the Middle27:20 Touring With Jason Ellis + New Dates29:43 Friendly Fire Is Moving to Saturdays30:35 Building Toward a 45-Minute Headlining Set33:00 New Jo Ellis Merch34:21 Recent Podcasts + Going Viral35:02 Why I Question My Own Side36:13 My Problems With WPATH37:40 Why Trans Military Is Different39:35 Being Trans and Politically Homeless41:59 The Mystery Bruise43:22 Dani Brought Me My Favorite Irish Whiskey44:10 Closing + Upcoming ShowsFind tour dates, merch and more at joellisreally.com

    Why I Disagree With the Trans Community on These 4 Issues
  2. Jul 14

    Robert Kelly & Big Jay Oakerson Talked About Me... Here's What Happened | EP16

    Robert Kelly unexpectedly talked about me on The Bonfire with Big Jay Oakerson... and it turned into one of the coolest moments of my comedy career.In this episode, I react to the SiriusXM segment, talk about meeting Robert Kelly after his Austin show, and explain why I've chosen comedy as my way of telling the story of trans military service.I also share updates on:• Robert Kelly & Big Jay Oakerson's comments about me• Why I defended Tony Hinchcliffe and Kill Tony• The Daily Stoic podcast with Ryan Holiday• Filming the Fighting Forward documentary• Building a comedy career in Austin• My journey from Black Hawk pilot to stand-up comedian• Friendly Fire with Jo Ellis• Upcoming comedy showsMy goal has never been to brow beat. It's to have conversations with people who might never otherwise hear the story of trans military service. If comedy can open that door, it's worth pursuing.Upcoming Shows• July 16 – Friendly Fire with Jo Ellis (Austin, TX)• July 22 – Featuring for Jason Ellis (Plano, TX)Follow for more stand-up, podcast clips, and behind-the-scenes updates as I continue this journey.00:00 Intro00:32 Defending Kill Tony & Tony Hinchcliffe01:22 Robert Kelly Reaches Out01:50 Meeting Robert Kelly in Austin04:01 My History with Big Jay Oakerson05:27 Robert Kelly & Big Jay Oakerson Talk About Me10:27 Discovering The Bonfire Shoutout11:09 Why Their Comments Meant So Much11:56 From Black Hawk Pilot to Comedian13:40 Why I Came to Austin and the Rogansphere15:33 Why I Want to Talk to Trump, Hegseth & Rogan15:59 The Reality of the Trans Military Ban19:26 The Daily Stoic with Ryan Holiday21:05 Fighting Forward Documentary Update21:32 Why I Enter Uncomfortable Rooms23:47 Being Trans and Visible in Texas25:26 The Pressure of Always Being “On”27:17 Everything That Changed in Three Years30:45 The Legacy I Want to Leave32:20 Friendly Fire with Jo Ellis Updates34:53 Featuring for Jason Ellis in Plano36:15 Upcoming Travel and Comedy Plans37:00 Documentary Filming in Austin38:36 Documentary and Memoir Updates39:05 Building My First 20 Minutes of Stand-Up40:25 Upcoming Shows & Outro#StandUpComedy #RobertKelly #BigJayOakerson #KillTony #TonyHinchcliffe #AustinComedy #TransMilitary #Veteran #BlackHawkPilot #JoEllis

    Robert Kelly & Big Jay Oakerson Talked About Me... Here's What Happened | EP16
  3. Jun 3

    I Quit My Job for Comedy (Now What?)

    After years in the military, a viral misinformation campaign, and a career outside entertainment, I've officially gone all in on comedy.In this episode, I talk about leaving my day job, selling my Virginia house, and betting on stand-up comedy full-time. I also share updates on my new late-night style comedy show Friendly Fire, opening for Sam Tripoli, featuring for Jason Ellis in Texas, Tony Hinchcliffe's upcoming Netflix special, the latest developments in the transgender military ban, and a UFO disclosure inspired lipstick ad that caught the attention of Christina P. Topics: Why I quit my jobMoving to Austin and going all-in on comedyFriendly Fire becomes a monthly showOpening for Sam TripoliFeaturing for Jason EllisTony Hinchcliffe's Netflix specialTrans military ban court updatesChristina P cosmetics collaborationUFO disclosure, aliens, and lipstickNew merch and website updatesSubscribe for more clips, sets, and other things Join my mailing list for show dates, new things, and other updates. No spam—just occasional drops. https://joellishq.joellisreally.com Website: https://joellisreally.comInstagram: https://instagram.com/joellisreallyX: https://x.com/JoEllisReally Christina P lipstick - https://christinap.com/products/christina-ps-atomic-red-lipstick Joe DeRosa's podcast | Vile and Horrendous https://youtu.be/GAxzqXyLPDw?si=LrrWwl_SDWQDSioc #StandUpComedy #AustinComedy #TonyHinchcliffe #KillTony #TransMilitary #JasonEllis #SamTripoli #ComedyPodcast #JoEllis #FriendlyFire

    I Quit My Job for Comedy (Now What?)
  4. Mar 31

    Jo Ellis No Kings Austin Speech | Trans Black Hawk Pilot Turned Comedian

    Jo Ellis delivers a historic comedy-meets-rally speech at the No Kings protest in Austin, Texas—mixing stand-up comedy with a message about freedom, disagreement, and democracy. A former U.S. Army Black Hawk pilot with 16 years of service, Jo shares the surreal story of being fired from the military for being transgender, being falsely accused online of causing a deadly helicopter crash, and somehow ending up doing stand-up comedy in Austin. In this set, Jo blends jokes about Texas laws, religion, dating, and identity with a serious reminder of what “No Kings” means: a country where the Constitution matters, disagreements can coexist with decency, and ordinary people hold power—not kings. The result is something unusual: a protest speech that’s also a stand-up set. Topics include: Being a trans Black Hawk pilot Moving to Austin and the Texas culture shock Converting to Judaism Internet conspiracies and being falsely blamed for a crash ating, family, and coming out Why humor can still exist in serious political moments Recorded live in Austin, Texas March 28th, 2026.Jo Ellis is a former Army National Guard Black Hawk pilot turned comedian, writer, and public speaker. She uses comedy to talk about identity, service, resilience, and the strange moments where politics and real life collide. More about Jo: https://joellisreally.com No Kings 3 was organized by Hands Off Central Texas  @HandsOffCentralTexas  https://www.handsoffcentraltx.org/events/nokings3

    Jo Ellis No Kings Austin Speech | Trans Black Hawk Pilot Turned Comedian
  5. 12/22/2025

    Six Months In Rogansphere: The Austin Comedy Grind, The Setbacks, The Wins

    If you’re into stand-up, behind-the-scenes comedy life, or stories about resilience after going viral for all the wrong reasons — you’re in the right place.Like, subscribe, and drop a comment with what you want Jo to talk about next. In this episode, Jo Ellis reflects on a whirlwind month in Austin as she continues her transition from Black Hawk pilot to full-time stand-up comic. She opens up about audience feedback on her podcast energy, her push to bring more personality to the mic, and how comedy has become both a mission and a coping tool after the viral conspiracy that upended her life. Jo shares behind-the-scenes stories from the Austin comedy scene — including last-minute spots, barking crowds into clubs, and memorable encounters with comics at Joe Rogan & Friends at the Comedy Mothership. She recounts standing up during Rogan’s Q&A to ask about AI, misinformation, and free speech, tying it back to the online rumor that put her family in danger. The episode also dives into Jo’s creative process: experimenting with new material about trans identity, religion, and visibility; drawing inspiration from storytellers like Steve Martin, Dane Cook, and Mike Birbiglia; and balancing humor with a deeper “why” behind her comedy. Beyond the stage, Jo talks candidly about setbacks — from blowing a tire before a long-anticipated track day at Circuit of the Americas to navigating the realities of grinding in a new city — while still finding joy in the journey. A major highlight: Jo announces and details her new late-night style show, “Friendly Fire with Jo Ellis,” debuting January 26 at Creek & the Cave. She outlines the format, guest plans, and her commitment to running it professionally by paying comics, promoting hard, and building something different. The episode closes with Jo’s unfiltered take on comedy show culture — why low-attendance rooms still deserve full effort, why bad mouthing audiences kills the vibe, and why every set should be treated like there are 100 people watching. It’s a rallying cry for professionalism, hustle, and respect for the craft.

    Six Months In Rogansphere: The Austin Comedy Grind, The Setbacks, The Wins

About

Jo Ellis is what happens when a Black Hawk pilot, a homeschooled Christian kid, a trans woman, and a stand-up comic walk into the same person. A 16-year Army combat vet who is being discharged because of President Trump's Trans military ban. In 2025, she became the target of a viral far-right conspiracy falsely accusing her of causing the DC plane crash . She's now a standup comedian and advocate for pragmatic trans policy. If you like unapologetic honesty, fearless humor, and conversations that hit as hard as they land, you’re in the right place. Follow Jo on socials and YT: @JoEllisReally