www.whoisyourhero.com.au

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Who Is Your Hero is an unapologetically real Australian podcast created and hosted by Matthew “Buzz” Fidler, built on one simple belief: 👉 Everyone has a story that can change someone’s life. Born from a personal journey through kidney failure, footy fields, PNG jungles, construction sites, and some of life’s toughest setbacks, Who Is Your Hero has become a national movement of resilience, mateship, truth-telling, and everyday heroes. Each episode dives deep into the lives of ordinary Australians doing extraordinary things — survivors, soldiers, footy legends, community leaders, domestic-violence warriors, tradies, battlers, advocates, and the quiet achievers who keep this country rolling. Buzz brings the raw honesty, humour, and heart Australians crave: Real talk without the polish Big laughs mixed with big truths Life lessons from people who’ve actually lived A platform for voices that deserve to be heard With conversations that hit like a beer-shed yarn, a hospital-bed reflection, and a campfire confession all in one, Who Is Your Hero isn’t just a podcast — it’s a movement. A movement that says: ➡️ Your story matters. ➡️ Your struggles can lift someone else. ➡️ Your heroes might be right beside you — not on a screen. From Townsville to Tassie, from veterans to young dads, from survivors to those still fighting — this is the podcast Australia needed. Real people. Real stories. Real heroes. Who Is Your Hero? Only one way to find out. 🎙️ Available on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & all major platforms. 🔥 Follow the movement at WhoIsYourHero.com.au #WhoIsYourHero #HeroUp #MensMentalHealth #RealTalk #AussiePride #BuzzTalk #TribeVsSystem #Resilience #Community #HealthWorthWhyWealth

  1. 1D AGO

    Episode 45: Part 2, Rock Bottom to Real Talk: Dane Miller — Pottsville

    Rock Bottom to Real Talk: Dane Miller (Part 2) — Pottsville Part 2 hits different, legends… this is where the story gets raw and a bit teary. Dane takes us back to the years after moving to Melbourne — the loneliness, the chronic depression he didn’t even recognise at first (sleeping 18 hours a day and thinking he was physically dying), and the way quick labels and quick fixes can numb a bloke instead of truly helping him heal. Then we get into the slippery slope: weekends, pubs, coke… and then the moment ice shows up — and how fast it goes from “sometimes” to “every day” and starts taking everything… money, relationships, identity… until Dane disappears for five years and his family doesn’t even know if he’s alive. And then comes the rock-bottom moment on a rooftop carpark in Chapel Street… hungry, homeless, carrying everything he owns in bags… and a strange “guardian angel” moment he still can’t explain. What saves him isn’t some Hollywood miracle — it’s one person. His mum. No judgement. No pressure. Just belief. A door left open. A second chance. We talk: Depression, identity, and the danger of being “labelled” Addiction creeping in quietly… then taking over Rock bottom, homelessness, and the moment you realise you can’t keep going The power of one person believing in you Cold turkey recovery, rebuilding life, and finding peace through fishing, health, and purpose Real strength, self-worth, and what being a hero actually means If you’ve ever felt lost… or you love someone who is… this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now — and if this hit home, share it with a mate who needs to hear it. #WhoIsYourHero #HeroUp #RealTalk #MensMentalHealth #AddictionRecovery #DepressionAwareness #SecondChances #Pottsville #SupportTheSupporters #Resilience #AussieStories ☕ Support the show: https://ko-fi.com/whoisyourhero ❤️ GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/a6e40c460

    41 min
  2. 3D AGO

    Episode 45: Rock Bottom to Real Talk: Dane Miller (Part 1)

    Rock Bottom to Real Talk: Dane Miller (Part 1) When Drift Turns Into Decision There’s a moment in every man’s life where he either keeps drifting… or draws a line in the sand. Episode 45 of Who Is Your Hero isn’t about success. It’s about survival. It’s about how easy it is to lose direction when you’re young, adapting, trying to fit in, trying to belong — and sometimes rebelling against systems you don’t fully understand yet. And it’s about what happens when life starts looking like a dead end. From Byron Bay Roof Sheets to Pottsville Yarns I first met Dane Miller on the tools in Byron Bay. Roof sheets. Hard work. No pre-judgement. A mutual mate said, “Give this bloke a go.” That simple act — giving someone a go — is something we’ve lost a bit of in modern Australia. Later, life rolled on. I found myself in Pottsville, trying to get my own health back on track. Dane was working at a local bait and tackle shop. And what started as a quick stop-in turned into daily conversations. Out the front of that shop, people from all walks of life would stop and talk. Proper talk. No filters. No masks. Just real conversations about life, responsibility, resilience and truth. That’s where this episode lives. Rock Bottom: Bury You or Build You? In Part 1, we unpack the early foundations: Growing up moving towns and adapting constantly Bullying and the moment you decide to stand up Identity, belonging and rebellion The difference between comfort and complacency Why responsibility is power How hitting zero can reset your perspective There’s no victim narrative here. Dane owns his choices. He doesn’t blame the world. He doesn’t glorify bad decisions. He talks honestly about what it means to rebuild your worth before you rebuild your wealth. And that’s a message many people need to hear. Because here’s the truth: If your health isn’t right, you can’t help anyone. If your worth is broken, you’ll chase the wrong things. If you don’t find your why, you’ll drift again. Rock bottom can either bury you… or build you. The Bigger Conversation This episode also touches on themes that don’t get spoken about enough: Standing up for yourself. The danger of staying too comfortable. How judgement kills growth. Why some lessons only come through discomfort. It’s raw. It’s unscripted. And it’s only Part 1. Part 2 — Coming Soon In Part 2, we go deeper: The Melbourne chapter. The addiction spiral. The real turning points. And the reset that changed everything. If Part 1 is the foundation… Part 2 is where it gets real. Support Those Who Support the Tribe Massive thanks to Rob and Katie at The Townsville Hotel for backing this podcast and supporting real community conversations. If you’re in Townsville, get in there. Support the locals who support movements like this. This is Who Is Your Hero. Real people. Real turns. Real second chances. If this episode hit home — share it. Message a mate. Start a conversation. Because sometimes the hero isn’t the one who never fell… It’s the one who got back up. Hero up.

    37 min
  3. 5D AGO

    🐎 Episode 44 – kim daley - Horses Don’t Lie (Part 2)

    🐎 Episode 44 – Horses Don’t Lie (Part 2) Pause. Breath. Freedom. Part 2 of this conversation goes somewhere different. If Part 1 was about survival — anxiety, addiction, and the weight people carry quietly — Part 2 is about what comes after. What happens when you stop pushing, stop forcing, and finally learn to pause. In this episode, Buzz and Kim Daley explore freedom — not the loud, flashy kind, but the calm that comes from self-regulation, awareness, and letting go of the need to control everything. Kim speaks openly about: Surrender versus forcing outcomes Health before wealth — and why getting the order wrong costs everything Minimalism, freedom, and choosing enough Why horses don’t need to be “fixed” — and neither do people The power of pause, breath, and nervous system regulation Leadership without dominance Why horses are mirrors — not tools And how service, presence, and emotional intelligence raise consciousness more than success ever will This conversation also touches on equine therapy, meditation, breathwork, and why nature strips away the masks we’ve learned to wear in modern life. Horses don’t respond to pressure. They don’t care about status or story. They respond to authenticity, calm, and consistency. And so does life. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, or like you’re constantly white-knuckling your way through — this episode offers something rare: permission to slow down. 🎧 Episode 44 – Horses Don’t Lie (Part 2) Available now on Podbean, Spotify & Apple Podcasts. 📌 Who Is Your Hero — real stories, real lessons, no b******t.

    47 min

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Who Is Your Hero is an unapologetically real Australian podcast created and hosted by Matthew “Buzz” Fidler, built on one simple belief: 👉 Everyone has a story that can change someone’s life. Born from a personal journey through kidney failure, footy fields, PNG jungles, construction sites, and some of life’s toughest setbacks, Who Is Your Hero has become a national movement of resilience, mateship, truth-telling, and everyday heroes. Each episode dives deep into the lives of ordinary Australians doing extraordinary things — survivors, soldiers, footy legends, community leaders, domestic-violence warriors, tradies, battlers, advocates, and the quiet achievers who keep this country rolling. Buzz brings the raw honesty, humour, and heart Australians crave: Real talk without the polish Big laughs mixed with big truths Life lessons from people who’ve actually lived A platform for voices that deserve to be heard With conversations that hit like a beer-shed yarn, a hospital-bed reflection, and a campfire confession all in one, Who Is Your Hero isn’t just a podcast — it’s a movement. A movement that says: ➡️ Your story matters. ➡️ Your struggles can lift someone else. ➡️ Your heroes might be right beside you — not on a screen. From Townsville to Tassie, from veterans to young dads, from survivors to those still fighting — this is the podcast Australia needed. Real people. Real stories. Real heroes. Who Is Your Hero? Only one way to find out. 🎙️ Available on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & all major platforms. 🔥 Follow the movement at WhoIsYourHero.com.au #WhoIsYourHero #HeroUp #MensMentalHealth #RealTalk #AussiePride #BuzzTalk #TribeVsSystem #Resilience #Community #HealthWorthWhyWealth