Unmother Me

Ky

Unmother Me is a reclamation, a raw, real, and radically honest podcast for high-achieving women who are ready to dismantle the identities that no longer serve them. This show is a safe and sacred space to unravel the roles we were taught to perform, good mother, good daughter, fixer, breadwinner, perfectionist, and to come home to the woman underneath. Whether you’re navigating a quiet identity crisis or burning it all down to build something more sovereign, Unmother Me is your call to return to your whole, magnetic self, one truth at a time.

Episodes

  1. 12/05/2025

    Outgrowing Your Success: When the Life You Built No Longer Fits

    If your career still looks impressive on the outside, but quietly feels too small on the inside, this episode is for you. In this intimate, honest conversation, we explore the moment when a high-achieving woman outgrows the identity that created her success—and what happens next. You’ll learn: The early signs you’ve outgrown your successWhy strategy no longer motivates youThe real reason your body is louder than your mindThe four pillars of identity that shape everythingHow your nervous system reveals what’s alignedWhy clarity disappears during transitionThe five-part Identity-to-Prosperity pathwayHow to move through the “unraveling” without fearWhether you’re a corporate leader, entrepreneur, or a woman who’s always carried more than most, this episode will feel like a deep exhale and a mirror. You’re not failing. You’re evolving.  And your next chapter is calling you home. Join the conversation, and explore tools + workshops at  Finesse Your Success™ on Skool. Ready for your next evolution? Join Finesse Your Success™, a private community for high-capacity women and leaders who’ve outgrown their old identity and want success that feels like home. Inside you’ll find: • Identity + nervous system tools • The Hell Yes Calendar™ • The Identity Blueprint™ • Prosperity & strategy workshops • A grounded space to reconnect to who you’re becoming Join the community + access free resources: https://www.skool.com/finesseyoursuccess/about Connect with Ky Kingsley: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kykingsley1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ky.align/ website: www.kykingsley.com You’re not losing your success, you’re aligning your identity with the next evolution of you!

    9 min
  2. 08/25/2025

    Break Free from Perfection: Self-Discovery & Identity Transformation

    Have you ever tried to earn love through perfection—doing everything “right” as a mother, a wife, or a woman—only to feel empty, burned out, and unseen? In this episode of Unmother Me, I share my story of chasing the “perfect life” and what it really cost me. This is a conversation about perfectionism recovery, healing from self-sacrifice, overcoming self-abandonment, and reclaiming your true identity. If you’ve ever felt trapped by unrealistic expectations, or believed that being “more perfect” would finally make you enough, this message is for you. Join me as I explore what it means to let go of perfection, embrace presence, and rediscover the power of being exactly who you are. You are not the sacrifice—you are the source. ✨ Listen in and share this with any woman in your life who’s ready to reclaim her power, break free from perfection, and step into her own becoming. Ready for your next evolution? Join Finesse Your Success™, a private community for high-capacity women and leaders who’ve outgrown their old identity and want success that feels like home. Inside you’ll find: • Identity + nervous system tools • The Hell Yes Calendar™ • The Identity Blueprint™ • Prosperity & strategy workshops • A grounded space to reconnect to who you’re becoming Join the community + access free resources: https://www.skool.com/finesseyoursuccess/about Connect with Ky Kingsley: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kykingsley1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ky.align/ website: www.kykingsley.com You’re not losing your success, you’re aligning your identity with the next evolution of you!

    8 min
  3. 08/25/2025

    The Lie That Almost Cost Me Everything

    In this episode of the Unmother Me Podcast, I share my I am not enough story—a deeply personal journey through loss, over-functioning, and finally discovering the truth that set me free. This is a women empowerment podcast conversation about overcoming self doubt, healing from burnout, and learning to end self sacrifice in order to reclaim your life. If you’ve ever felt like success was a mask, or that doing more and achieving more only left you feeling less, this episode is for you. Together we’ll explore female identity transformation, women reclaiming power, and the practices that supported my self discovery journey. From journaling for healing and a return to innocence, to building resilience and courage and cultivating self care for women leaders, this is an authentic storytelling podcast that invites you to release perfectionism, let go of overachieving, and begin healing family patterns. ✨ It’s time to rewrite your story and remember: you are the source, not the sacrifice. Ready for your next evolution? Join Finesse Your Success™, a private community for high-capacity women and leaders who’ve outgrown their old identity and want success that feels like home. Inside you’ll find: • Identity + nervous system tools • The Hell Yes Calendar™ • The Identity Blueprint™ • Prosperity & strategy workshops • A grounded space to reconnect to who you’re becoming Join the community + access free resources: https://www.skool.com/finesseyoursuccess/about Connect with Ky Kingsley: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kykingsley1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ky.align/ website: www.kykingsley.com You’re not losing your success, you’re aligning your identity with the next evolution of you!

    12 min
  4. 08/25/2025

    Overcoming Self-Doubt and Doing Hard Things

    Welcome to the Unmother Me Podcast — a women empowerment podcast designed for high-achievers, visionaries, and truth-seekers who are ready to reclaim themselves. In this episode, I share my own self discovery journey of overcoming self doubt, doing hard things, and finding the courage to embrace vulnerability as strength. We’ll talk about what it means to stop self sacrifice, end burnout for women, and step into your own identity transformation. Inspired by ideas like Brené Brown’s FFTs (First Time Experiences), I’ll explore how new beginnings, even when messy, can be the very moments that unlock growth, joy, and freedom. This episode is part story, part reflection — an authentic storytelling podcast moment — and an invitation to you: to practice self kindness, nurture your body, mind, and spirit, and integrate self care for entrepreneurs into your daily rhythm. Whether that looks like journaling for growth, mindfulness practices, or even Pilates for stress relief, you’ll find tools to support your resilience and becoming. ✨ If you’re a woman overachiever ready for more than success that looks good on the outside, join me here — because you’re not the sacrifice, you are the source. Ready for your next evolution? Join Finesse Your Success™, a private community for high-capacity women and leaders who’ve outgrown their old identity and want success that feels like home. Inside you’ll find: • Identity + nervous system tools • The Hell Yes Calendar™ • The Identity Blueprint™ • Prosperity & strategy workshops • A grounded space to reconnect to who you’re becoming Join the community + access free resources: https://www.skool.com/finesseyoursuccess/about Connect with Ky Kingsley: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kykingsley1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ky.align/ website: www.kykingsley.com You’re not losing your success, you’re aligning your identity with the next evolution of you!

    9 min

About

Unmother Me is a reclamation, a raw, real, and radically honest podcast for high-achieving women who are ready to dismantle the identities that no longer serve them. This show is a safe and sacred space to unravel the roles we were taught to perform, good mother, good daughter, fixer, breadwinner, perfectionist, and to come home to the woman underneath. Whether you’re navigating a quiet identity crisis or burning it all down to build something more sovereign, Unmother Me is your call to return to your whole, magnetic self, one truth at a time.