Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report

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Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report is your new 7-minute or less podcast habit—Sip Sermons served with sharp wit, cultural clarity, and one takeaway worth toasting to. Hosted by STYLES, creator of the Brunch Behavior book series.

  1. Intermission On Lenox

    10H AGO

    Intermission On Lenox

    Send us a text Some seasons don’t feel like growth—they feel like life hit the brakes and forgot to tell you why. In this episode, we get honest about pressure, responsibility, and the quiet seasons that look like delays but are really training. Harlem-born actor and writer Jelani pulls up to talk about chasing a creative dream while life handed him grown-up duties early—and how that so-called “intermission” built patience, discipline, and clarity he couldn’t skip even if he wanted to. We paint the picture of “Joe”—up before sunrise, scrolling past opportunities he can’t touch yet, wondering if his moment already passed. But under the doubt, Joe is in the gym of life: showing up, staying consistent, building strength in reliability, resilience, and self-trust. This conversation reframes success, hustle, and progress. It’s not just about big wins and viral moments—it’s about roots before fruit, the unseen work, the off-camera years, and why the quiet grind is what makes the comeback real. To make it hit different, we pour a drink called “Intermission on Lenox”—a cocktail inspired by rebuild seasons and reset energy. Cold brew for the long mornings, lemon for the sting of reality, vanilla for hope, and just enough bite to remind you to keep moving. It becomes the perfect metaphor for seasons of rebuilding, self-development, delayed dreams, and personal growth. The lessons are clear: a dream delayed is a dream being built, not buried. Responsibility isn’t the villain—it’s the training camp. And the consistency you practice now becomes the confidence you stand on later. We close by teasing what came next for Jelani—fatherhood—and how becoming a parent changes timelines without canceling purpose. If you’ve ever felt stuck, behind, or paused, this episode is for you. Tap in for real talk about growth, hustle, patience, purpose, discipline, and believing in your season. Subscribe, leave a review, and share this with someone carrying weight. Your quiet season might be louder than you think. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    6 min
  2. Love Is Beautiful. The Tab Is Aggressive.

    2D AGO

    Love Is Beautiful. The Tab Is Aggressive.

    Send us a text Love doesn’t start expensive—it gets that way once you stay. In this episode of Brunch Behavior, we retire the fairy tale that “love don’t cost a thing” and pull out the real receipt on modern relationships. Because while the spark feels free, the follow-up charges hit different: time, money, emotional labor, patience, compromise, and the quiet tax on your pride. Joined by Big Smash from I’ll Explain All This Later, we break down the real cost of love across every phase—dating, commitment, and the long haul. From late-night calls, fresh fits, and spontaneous dates, to shared bills, bruised egos, kids, mortgages, and emotional maintenance nobody warned you about. Love doesn’t drain you all at once—it compounds, especially when you ignore the balance. To make it plain, we pour the lesson into a glass. Prosecco for the honeymoon glow. Orange juice for sweetness. Cranberry for the arguments that bite back. Triple sec for the depth you didn’t see coming. Just like a brunch cocktail, love looks light, goes down smooth, and still finds a way to hit harder than expected. The shift happens when you stop paying blindly and start paying with intention. When your partner matches your pour, the cost stops feeling like a loss and starts looking like an investment—trust, peace, rhythm, and shared meaning. This episode is for anyone questioning what love is really asking of them and whether the return is worth it. Tap in, subscribe, and share this with someone who still thinks love is free. And if this hit home, check out the Free Pour Pack—five drinks, five sermons, zero fluff—or grab the Brunch Behavior: Summer Pack for deeper pours and real-life relationship wisdom. Drop your biggest “cost of love” moment in the reviews. Let’s talk receipts. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    5 min
  3. Power, Purpose, And The Pour

    12/31/2025

    Power, Purpose, And The Pour

    Send us a text The countdown season loves theatrics—new mantras, loud goals, recycled pressure. We’re not doing that. This episode flips the script and talks about what power actually looks like before the applause shows up. No permission slips. No waiting on the algorithm to validate the vision. Just intention, alignment, and choosing your people while the work is still delicate. Brooklyn Rayne pulls up to break down how one honest reach-out to Styles turned into real momentum—not because the numbers said yes, but because belief did. We unpack the psychology of validation, how algorithms quietly tax your confidence, and the daily decisions that put power back where it belongs: with people, not platforms. Support isn’t a feeling—it’s a choice made early. Styles brings the lesson to the glass with a pour inspired by the Brunch Behavior Summer Pack: dark rum for earned depth, lime for clarity under pressure, brown sugar syrup for truth with no aftertaste, ginger beer for forward motion, and an orange peel for the part of the story you can actually see. Timing matters—but belief moves faster. This drink becomes a ritual: stop asking if it’s your turn and start moving like it is. We also draw a clear line between support and speculation. If you only invest when the return is guaranteed, that’s not support—that’s hedging. Community runs on risk, not receipts. Confidence is the starter fluid for collective wins. As midnight hits and a new project drops, the invitation is simple: use the same power you’ve always had—just use it on purpose. If this conversation hit, tap follow, share it with someone who needs the push, and leave a review so the circle gets louder. Then press play on the drop and tell us—whose work are you backing before it’s big? Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    6 min
  4. Year In Clarity

    12/28/2025

    Year In Clarity

    Send us a text The last Sunday of the year doesn’t need fireworks—it needs honesty. This episode is what happens when the noise dies down and the truth finally gets a mic. No highlight reels. No fake reflections. Just a clear-eyed breakdown of what actually mattered this year: the real cost of saying how you feel, the underrated power of restraint, and why your circle says more about you than any caption ever could. Consider this a year-end reset for people who grew up, not just leveled up. We kick things off with a Sip Sermon about expression—because yes, speaking your truth can come with a bill, but staying silent long enough will overcharge you too. From there, we step into a mirror moment: reaching out to someone from the past who’s doing well now, watching the conversation take an unexpected turn, and choosing not to turn tension into content. No subtweets. No think pieces. Just a trusted phone call, a private resolution, and a lesson that didn’t need an audience. Turns out, consistency and clean work attract opportunities louder than clout-chasing ever could. Then we talk about “representatives”—those polished first impressions that clock out once the real person shows up. Misalignment isn’t messy; it’s information. This episode breaks down why curating your tribe is strategy, not ego, and how being selective with your energy keeps your peace intact and your momentum real. We also tease what’s coming next: Afterpool vibes—mixing drinks, breaking down life, and letting the ice set the pace. The takeaway is simple but grown: move smarter, not louder. Stay grounded. Stay grateful. And be intentional about where you stand—and who’s standing next to you. If this hit, subscribe, leave a review, and send it to someone who needs a clear-headed year-end reset without the motivational yelling. Grab the Free Pour Pack at siphappens.info (type “free pour” in the message), and pull back up ready for the full experience. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    7 min
  5. Auntie’s Press Conference And The Art Of Saying “I’m Good”

    12/26/2025

    Auntie’s Press Conference And The Art Of Saying “I’m Good”

    Send us a text Holiday tables can feel less like reunions and more like press conferences, complete with folding chairs and unsolicited metrics. We dive into the subtle ways family turns small talk into inventory—career, relationships, money—and how to keep your peace without performing. Styles calls it out with humor and heart, then shows a calmer way through: clear boundaries, short truths, and a ritual that keeps you steady when the questions get sharp. We start by naming the pattern of “memory hoarding,” where relatives hold onto an old version of you and compare it to who you are now. That mismatch fuels questions that sound polite but carry pressure: “What’s next for you?” We unpack why those prompts sting, why some people don’t want updates so much as reassurance, and how to respond without shrinking. You’ll hear simple, repeatable phrases that close the door softly—“I’m good,” “Still cooking on that,” “Not ready to share”—and learn how to redirect to safer ground like recipes, music, or shared laughs. To anchor the mindset, Styles pours the “Mind Your Plate” cocktail: bourbon for steadiness, ginger syrup for warm boundaries, club soda to keep things light, and a lemon peel for a clean, conversation-ending finish. It’s a small, intentional ritual that helps you stay composed and present, so you can enjoy your plate without turning your life into a slide deck. The big takeaway: you don’t owe a timeline; you owe yourself composure. Protecting your peace doesn’t require performance—just clarity, consistency, and a little humor. If this resonated, grab the free pour pack at siphappens.info, try the cocktail, and share your best boundary phrase with us. Subscribe, leave a review, and pass this along to someone who needs a calmer seat at the table. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    5 min
  6. Consistency Isn’t Sexy—Until It Pays Off

    12/24/2025

    Consistency Isn’t Sexy—Until It Pays Off

    Send us a text What if the grind only feels endless because you never stop long enough to clock the progress? In this episode, I crack open a different kind of momentum—the kind that knows when to move fast and when to sit still without spiraling. We talk through a four-episodes-a-week cadence, the real craft behind short-form podcast episodes, and the invisible labor nobody applauds: recording, listening back, tightening the message, and actually engaging your audience without leading with ego. No hacks. No microwave motivation. Just intentional reps and clean communication. With 39 consecutive releases on the board, we get into why consistency rarely gets love in real time—and how to keep showing up anyway. Water makes a surprise appearance on Christmas Eve, not as a flex but as a ritual for clarity, emotional regulation, and self-respect. Because sometimes you don’t need something stronger—you need something cleaner. We also shut down the lazy take that “scripted” means less skilled, pulling receipts from multiple seasons, a live tour, and a proven format to remind folks: structure isn’t a downgrade, it’s a delivery system. At the core of this conversation is humility without self-erasure—being proud of the build without letting it rewrite who you are. We talk real boundaries in outreach, why direct feedback beats applause, and how discipline with direction will always outperform loud-but-lost energy. If you’ve been moving so fast you forgot to look back, this episode is your pause—not to panic, but to breathe, acknowledge the work, and step back in with purpose. Tap in. Follow the show. Share it with someone who needs a clean reset. And if you’re feeling generous, leave a review with your biggest takeaway—because your words don’t just help the algorithm, they help somebody else slow down without guilt. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    5 min
  7. Silent Nightcap: Choosing Peace Over Holiday Hype

    12/22/2025

    Silent Nightcap: Choosing Peace Over Holiday Hype

    Send us a text When the music fades, the group chats go quiet, and the house finally exhales… that’s usually when it hits. The holiday hangover. Not the fun kind—the emotional one. In this episode of Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report, I’m talking about what happens after the lights come down, when the expectations are gone but the feelings are still sitting on the couch with you. We get honest about the gap between picture-perfect holidays and real life. The grief that shows up in crowded rooms. The money stress hiding under wrapping paper. The family dynamics that drain more than they pour back in. I introduce the Silent Nightcap—a calm, no-frills pour with bourbon, apple cider, cranberry, cinnamon, and a touch of orange. Nothing fancy. No performance. Just peace on ice. A ritual that says you’re allowed to slow your breathing and stop explaining yourself. We also break down boundaries without guilt—skipping the invite, leaving early, protecting your energy, and redefining what a “good” holiday actually looks like when joy and heaviness sit at the same table. This isn’t about forcing cheer or fixing every feeling. It’s about nervous system care, emotional recovery, and choosing rest without apology. If you’ve ever felt low after the celebration… if you’ve smiled through the season and crashed once it was quiet… this episode is for you. Tap in, breathe with me for a minute, and let’s talk about choosing calm on purpose—long after the decorations come down. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    4 min
  8. Toxic Generosity: Gifts, Control, and Emotional Manipulation

    12/21/2025

    Toxic Generosity: Gifts, Control, and Emotional Manipulation

    Send us a text Let’s be honest—some gifts aren’t gifts. They’re invoices with ribbon. In this episode, I get a little messy about gifting etiquette, unspoken expectations, and that awkward energy when a present comes with strings, subtext, and a quiet countdown to reciprocity. We talk about why intention matters more than price, how generosity turns toxic when it’s used as leverage, and why “I thought of you” hits harder than “I spent a lot on you.” This is about gifts, power dynamics, emotional manipulation, and the weird math people do when generosity turns into scorekeeping. We break down the real rule nobody says out loud: if your gift shifts the balance of power, it was never generous—it was strategic. I walk through the familiar motives we all recognize—giving to connect, giving to impress, giving to control—and how each one lands in real life. To ground it, we build an intentional Old Fashioned that tells the truth: bourbon for honesty, brown sugar syrup for depth, bitters for structure, orange for restraint. It looks familiar, but it drinks intentional—just like a clean gesture should. No theatrics. No emotional debt. The takeaway is simple and uncomfortable: don’t give above the relationship, don’t give below your sincerity, and don’t give hoping it changes how someone feels about you. Spend less. Pay attention more. Choose gifts that fit the moment, the person, and the actual state of the relationship—not the version you wish you were in. When generosity is clean, nobody owes anybody anything, and connection gets to breathe without pressure. If this made you shift in your seat, share it with someone who needs gifting clarity. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us the most thoughtful gift you’ve ever received—no dollar amounts, just impact. Then grab the Free Pour Pack at siphappens.info (type “free pour”), and when you’re ready, tap into Brunch Behavior: The Summer Pack, available now on Amazon. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    5 min
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Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report is your new 7-minute or less podcast habit—Sip Sermons served with sharp wit, cultural clarity, and one takeaway worth toasting to. Hosted by STYLES, creator of the Brunch Behavior book series.

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