Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report

Styles
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Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report is your new 7-minute or less podcast habit—Sip Sermons served with sharp wit, cultural clarity, and one takeaway worth toasting to. Hosted by STYLES, creator of the Brunch Behavior book series.

  1. Friends, Money, And The Fine Print

    1D AGO

    Friends, Money, And The Fine Print

    Send us a text We’ve all felt that spark: a shared idea with a close friend that sounds like destiny. The vibe is loyal, the energy is real, and momentum takes the wheel. But when trust runs on autopilot, it misses the potholes. Styles lays out a simple, memorable rule—love first, paperwork immediately after—and shows how the sweetest partnerships stay balanced when the recipe is written down. We explore why friendship often teaches us to smooth things over while business requires us to define things. That tension can either deepen the bond or drain it. You’ll hear how to set roles, track money without awkwardness, and make decisions together instead of assuming. Styles breaks the outcomes into three clear lanes: the good (clarity and confidence), the neutral (polite stagnation), and the bad (uneven effort and rising resentment). The lesson lands with a cocktail metaphor—Split The Equity—blending coconut rum, lime, pineapple, simple syrup, and bitters to mirror how sweetness needs structure, and honesty adds balance. You’ll also get a practical read on partner fit: Do they take ownership without reminders? Do they handle setbacks with curiosity or complaint? Business doesn’t invent character; it reveals patterns already there. If you’re thinking about building with a friend, this pour gives you the language and the steps to protect trust, keep momentum, and prevent silence from doing what money gets blamed for. Want to taste the full experience and put these ideas to work? Subscribe, share with a friend who’s your future cofounder, and leave a review with your biggest boundary you’ll put in writing. Then grab the free pour pack at siphappens.info—type “free pour” to get yours. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    5 min
  2. Black History, Immigration, And The Blur Of Power

    2D AGO

    Black History, Immigration, And The Blur Of Power

    Send us a text Something feels off right now. When rules stop being clear and start feeling like a mood, people notice—and that’s where this conversation begins. I start with a real moment of fear and pull the thread all the way back: how power has always been performed in this country, how conquest got dressed up as “law,” how the Constitution makes promises that don’t land evenly, and how enforcement today feels more discretionary than ever. Speaking from a Black New York perspective—rooted in immigrant-built neighborhoods—I connect what we’re seeing in the courts to what’s happening on the ground. Street tension, legal signals, and the lived reality of families being forced to make impossible decisions in seconds are all part of the same story. We break down recent court decisions that widen the lane for brief stops and questioning, even as lower courts continue to flag patterns tied to race, ethnicity, and accent. We talk about ICE, the difference between administrative warrants and judge-signed warrants, and why that distinction matters when someone is standing at your door. History shows us this isn’t new—slave codes, Jim Crow, redlining—all proof that the law can be sharpened into a weapon. That history isn’t behind us. It’s informing the moment we’re in right now. But this episode isn’t about panic—it’s about power. We build a practical playbook: how to stay informed without spiraling, why verification matters before sharing information, and how to create a real community plan that covers contacts, meeting points, childcare, documents, and transportation. We talk consent, warrants, and knowing your rights so paperwork doesn’t become a bluff. We also talk about protecting your energy—because exhaustion has always been part of the strategy. And we end with the question that matters most: when simply existing starts to look like probable cause, who gets questioned first—and what are we going to do about it together? If this episode hits home, subscribe to The Pour Report, share it with someone who needs clarity right now, and leave a review with one real step your block or community is taking. Your voice makes the plan stronger. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    8 min
  3. A Disclaimer Before Episode 54

    4D AGO

    A Disclaimer Before Episode 54

    Send us a text This isn’t a full episode—it’s a pause before the conversation. A moment to set the table. I didn’t start this platform to chase politics, outrage, or viral chaos. But when life starts pressing in on all of us, silence stops being neutral. This brief message is about why the next episode matters, how we’re approaching it, and what kind of space we’re holding—thoughtful, honest, and rooted in community, not conflict. Tomorrow’s episode drops during Black History Month, and it’s an intentional conversation about legacy, dignity, and how real life and policy quietly shape our daily experiences. No hot takes. No yelling. Just clarity, conscience, and respect for the people listening. If you’re ready for a grounded discussion that values nuance over noise and responsibility over reactions, you’re already in the room. The episode 54 follows tomorrow. Tap in, come prepared, and stay present. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    2 min
  4. Tip Fatigue, Plain And Simple

    5D AGO

    Tip Fatigue, Plain And Simple

    Send us a text The mood always changes when the bill hits—and this episode stops pretending it doesn’t. Styles breaks down why tip screens, auto-gratuity, delivery app fees, and so-called “convenience” charges have people fed up with modern tipping culture. What used to be a reward for good service now feels like a mandatory surcharge, and the math never quite adds up. We unpack how hidden fees, suggested tip percentages, and pre-tipping flip accountability on its head while service quality keeps getting murkier. The conversation starts with the fundamentals: tipping was meant to reflect professionalism after the service shows up. When servers disappear, runners handle everything, and a 22% prompt still glares back at you; that social contract is broken. If restaurants want guaranteed pay, bake it into the menu price and let tips return to what they were meant to be—optional and earned. From there, we dive into delivery apps, where pre-tipping turns service into a gamble. Bad weather deserves grace. A basic sidewalk drop-off on a clear day? That should still be performance-based. Pre-tipping rewards speed over care and undercuts the workers who actually go the extra mile. Then come the fees—service fees, app fees, processing fees—turning “BOGO deals” into full-price surprises before the tip even enters the chat. The solution isn’t complicated: transparent pricing, fair wages, and tips that mean something again. Along the way, Styles pours a summer-ready cocktail called Built Into the Price and shares practical ordering tips—from choosing drinks that survive delivery to spotting brands that package smart. If you’re searching for real talk on tipping etiquette, delivery app incentives, restaurant fees, and the ethics of modern dining, this episode is for you. Tap in, subscribe for more Brunch Behavior breakdowns, share this with someone tired of mystery math, and leave a review with your own tipping rule—because gratitude should be earned, not guilt-tripped. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    7 min
  5. FaceTime Isn’t A Hello, It’s A Doorbell

    6D AGO

    FaceTime Isn’t A Hello, It’s A Doorbell

    Send us a text Just because you can reach me doesn’t mean you’re supposed to. This week on Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report, Styles dives into modern phone etiquette, digital boundaries, and the entitlement that came with constant access. From missed calls in the payphone era to unannounced FaceTimes and “I know you saw my call” energy, this episode breaks down when access is earned—and when it’s not. Guest host Barbie from the Leventy Touch podcast steps in to unpack texting vs. calling, why FaceTime is a request (not a greeting), and how availability is information—not an obligation. Together, they explore how communication, respect, and boundaries should actually work in the digital age. The featured drink, “No Voicemail, No Access,” sets the tone for a conversation about protecting your time, your space, and your peace. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    7 min
  6. Call Your Mother

    JAN 30

    Call Your Mother

    Send us a text One phone call can reset a whole day—ten seconds, real love, no script. This episode opens with a live check-in that proves presence still works, then digs into the invisible work mothers carry every single day. From the grit of a teen mom figuring it out in public to the quiet mastery of knowing when to call in backup, this pour is about leverage, prevention, and the steady hands that keep a home from rattling. We talk about the roles that rarely get applause—planner, protector, emotional thermostat—and why prevention never trends even though it’s the backbone of peace. Solo moms stretching time and money get their flowers, and we don’t pretend two-parent homes cancel the pressure. Same weight, different math. We stir all of that into The Quiet Backbone—lychee, lemon, vodka, finished with honey or agave—balanced, intentional, never loud. There’s a playful prompt woven through the gratitude: what do you actually have your mother saved as in your phone? Mom, Ma, Mommy, an emoji, her first name? That tiny label says a lot about history, distance, and what a simple habit—calling, texting, checking in—can still heal. Give the flowers while they can be heard. If this hits, grab the Free Pour Pack—five signature drinks, five stories with the same heartbeat—or step into Brunch Behavior: The Summer Pack for the full menu. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs the nudge to call home, and leave a review with the name you’ve saved for your mom. What’s she listed as in your phone? Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    6 min
  7. The Real Price Of Going Viral: Ownership, Control, And The Algorithm

    JAN 28

    The Real Price Of Going Viral: Ownership, Control, And The Algorithm

    Send us a text In this episode of Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report, Styles breaks down how platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube turned visibility into a pay-to-play system — and what creators quietly give up in the process. From content ownership and algorithm “learning phases” to boosted posts that don’t convert into real community, this conversation challenges the idea that more reach automatically means more value. With sarcasm, real-life brunch scenarios, and straight talk about advertising, this episode explores why likes feel good but don’t always build loyalty, how engagement can distract from control, and why understanding the fine print matters more than ever. If you create, market, or build a personal brand online, this episode is a reminder to pause before you post — and ask who really benefits. Sip Happens. Every SIP tells a story. Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    8 min
  8. The Uptown Renaissance

    JAN 26

    The Uptown Renaissance

    Send us a text Comebacks always look cinematic after the credits roll. What you don’t see is the quiet grind—the pauses, the restraint, the moments where you decide depth matters more than noise. In the final chapter of The Uptown Renaissance, we sit with Jelani as he talks about evolving from creating to be seen to creating with purpose, context, and backbone. Fatherhood slowed the pace, responsibility tightened the craft, and memory stopped being baggage and started becoming source material. Same talent—just seasoned properly. We get into why alignment beats busy every time, why clarity has a longer shelf life than hype, and what it actually looks like to build meaning instead of chasing moments. Jelani keeps it real about the day-to-day renaissance: writing after the house finally goes quiet, choosing depth over speed, passing on shiny offers that don’t fit, and protecting a voice that knows exactly what it wants to say. Naturally, we toast it all with the Uptown Return—a rye-forward situation that’s layered, intentional, and earned. No shortcuts. No gimmicks. The convo widens to what’s next and what’s been revived: music that reignited his love for writing, and a book and show concept pulled from his years as a Rikers Island officer. He shines a light where most people don’t—on the emotional and moral toll officers carry—and turns lived experience into narrative with weight. The takeaway is simple: your comeback doesn’t need permission. It needs honesty, patience, and alignment so the work can speak without yelling. This is the final installment of a three-part series with Jelani, and if this kind of quiet momentum resonates, do the right thing: follow him and support the work at www.nylifeontheisland.com  Subscribe, leave a review so the algorithm can mind its business in our favor, and tell us—what are you done rushing so your work can finally go deeper? Support the show ✨ Tap Into the Brunch Behavior: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok → @siphappens.series Ready to sip with intention? Grab your copy of the Brunch Behavior Book series—bold drinks, wild sermons, no chaser. Grab your Paperback copy here! Not quite ready for the full pour? Start with the Free Pour Pack—5 cocktails, 5 sermons, all vibe. 📘 Grab your Free Pour Pack or the full book at www.SipHappens.info Drop your name, email, and type “Free Pour” to get your exclusive 5-drink, 5-sermon eBook straight to your inbox.

    9 min
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Brunch Behavior: The Pour Report is your new 7-minute or less podcast habit—Sip Sermons served with sharp wit, cultural clarity, and one takeaway worth toasting to. Hosted by STYLES, creator of the Brunch Behavior book series.

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