Shine AF

Nicole

  Shine...AF with Nicole Gray is your unapologetic audio espresso shot, part motivation, part real talk, and part reminder that your mess doesn’t cancel your magic.   Hosted by Nicole Gray, Confidence Coach, Bullsh*t Slayer, and certified Shine Strategist, this short-form podcast is for women who are tired of shrinking, done playing small, and ready to show up as their bold, brilliant selves.  From corporate chaos to confidence glow-ups, Nicole brings the truth with humor, heart, and a signature Shine Challenge to kickstart your week. Whether you’re in transition, feeling invisible, or just over it, this show reminds you that you don’t need permission to be powerful.  No filters. No fluff. Just real talk, real confidence, and real shine...AF. 

  1. JAN 20

    Laughter Is the Best Medicine

    Life can be heavy. The headlines, the stress, the expectations - it all adds up. In this episode of Shine…AF, we’re talking about something simple but powerful: laughter.  Not the fake “I’m fine” kind - the real, belly-laugh, breathe-again kind. The kind that reminds you you’re still human, still here, and still capable of joy even when things aren’t perfect.  We’re unpacking why laughter isn’t a distraction from real life - it’s a tool for surviving it. How finding moments of humor can help you release stress, reconnect with yourself, and show up with more ease and perspective.  Sometimes healing doesn’t look like fixing everything. Sometimes it looks like laughing through it and letting that be enough for today.  Press play, take a breath, and let this episode be your reminder that joy still has a place - even in the middle of the mess.  Thanks for tuning in to Shine...AF with Nicole Gray Confidence hits different over here. If this episode fired you up, made you laugh, or reminded you of who the hell you are, do me a solid: ✅ Leave a review – It helps more folks find the show (and get their shine on). ✅ Follow the podcast – https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535447 🌐 Explore more Shine AF magic: Website → www.thenicolegray.com Instagram → @the.nicolegray LinkedIn → Nicole Gray on LinkedIn Want me to speak at your next event, lead a workshop, or coach your team? Let’s talk: thenicolegray.com Produced by: Nicole Gray Edited by: Adrianne Ruthhart https://acrventures.com/

    8 min
  2. 12/16/2025

    Not All Confidence = Arrogance

    Somewhere along the way, confidence got a bad reputation - like knowing your worth automatically makes you arrogant. Spoiler: it doesn’t. In this episode of Shine…AF, we’re breaking down the real difference between confidence and arrogance, and why people who benefit from you staying small often confuse the two on purpose.  If you’ve ever dimmed your light so someone else could feel comfortable… or questioned whether taking up space makes you “too much,” this one’s your wake-up call.  Confidence is grounded. Arrogance is inflated. Confidence invites. Arrogance dominates. Confidence says, “I belong here.” Arrogance says, “Only I belong here.”  Your power doesn’t make you a problem - but shrinking yourself absolutely does.  Tune in, get reminded of who you are, and let’s rewrite the narrative around what healthy, grounded confidence really looks like.  Thanks for tuning in to Shine...AF with Nicole Gray Confidence hits different over here. If this episode fired you up, made you laugh, or reminded you of who the hell you are, do me a solid: ✅ Leave a review – It helps more folks find the show (and get their shine on). ✅ Follow the podcast – https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535447 🌐 Explore more Shine AF magic: Website → www.thenicolegray.com Instagram → @the.nicolegray LinkedIn → Nicole Gray on LinkedIn Want me to speak at your next event, lead a workshop, or coach your team? Let’s talk: thenicolegray.com Produced by: Nicole Gray Edited by: Adrianne Ruthhart https://acrventures.com/

    10 min

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  Shine...AF with Nicole Gray is your unapologetic audio espresso shot, part motivation, part real talk, and part reminder that your mess doesn’t cancel your magic.   Hosted by Nicole Gray, Confidence Coach, Bullsh*t Slayer, and certified Shine Strategist, this short-form podcast is for women who are tired of shrinking, done playing small, and ready to show up as their bold, brilliant selves.  From corporate chaos to confidence glow-ups, Nicole brings the truth with humor, heart, and a signature Shine Challenge to kickstart your week. Whether you’re in transition, feeling invisible, or just over it, this show reminds you that you don’t need permission to be powerful.  No filters. No fluff. Just real talk, real confidence, and real shine...AF.