Hot Ashes Podcast

Lee and TK

The Hot Ashes Podcast is where cigars, conversation, and camaraderie come together. Hosted by veterans and longtime friends, the show blends sharp humor, real talk, and storytelling straight from the cigar lounge. One week it’s swapping war stories, the next it’s debating music, movies, leadership, or life’s big questions—no script, no filters, just unfiltered conversation and good bourbon. Whether you’re lighting up a cigar or just looking for a seat at the table, Hot Ashes delivers laughs, insight, and the kind of banter you’d expect from a crew that’s seen a little of everything.

  1. 5d ago

    Episode 36 (Podcasting, Memorial Day, Guns)

    Send us Fan Mail We’re back inside the lounge for a Memorial Day episode of the Hot Ashes Podcast from Georgia’s Cigars in Swansboro, NC – tighter setup, cold AC, great cigars, and some heavy (and hilarious) conversations. In this episode, Lee, TK, Roger, Zach, and crew dive into: 🎙️ Podcasting & Content Creation Running a multi‑camera setup and the pain of audio drift and flaky editing tools YouTube Shorts, weird algorithm wins (15k views on a random clip!), and dealing with trolls Using AI tools for editing, thumbnails, and covers – and where it starts to get sketchy 🤖 AI, Deepfakes & Integrity AI‑generated videos and voices, fake “Meryl Streep” health rants, and why the inflection still sounds off College papers, doctors “cheating” with AI, tarot readers and horoscopes using ChatGPT Where we actually like AI (editing and polishing your own writing) vs. where it crosses the line 🎖️ Memorial Day, Service & Mortality The real difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day Remembering fallen friends, sudden loss, palliative care, and what it feels like to face the end Talking about regret, acceptance, DNRs, and how families remember their loved ones 📚 Leadership, the Marine Corps & Lee’s New Book Lee’s book: “Because I Said So, and Other Things Weak Leaders Say” (out June 2) Servant leadership, taking care of your people, and why “because I said so” is lazy leadership Bad bosses, good mentors, and how continuous learning changes how you lead 🔫 Concealed Carry, Holsters & Everyday Carry TK’s concealed carry class and the legal/moral weight of using a gun in self‑defense Carrying with one in the chamber, trusting your firearm, and holster choices (appendix vs. small-of-back, tier one, Alien, etc.) 1911s vs. modern carry guns, plus expensive Japanese pocket knives and sharpening gear 🎵 Community, Music & Local Life Seaside Arts Council and Swan Fest – free Sunday concerts in downtown Swansboro Playing live on the Pug Pavilion, Motown, The Temptations, and local bands Why local arts funding matters for keeping this stuff alive 🔔 If you dig cigars, real talk, and a cigar‑shop atmosphere in podcast form, hit Subscribe and turn on the bell so you don’t miss future episodes. 👍 Like the video if you enjoyed the conversation 💬 Drop a comment: What’s your take on AI in creative work? Do you carry? What’s your preferred EDC holster? Who are you remembering this Memorial Day? 📍 Recorded at: Georgia’s Cigars, Swansboro, North Carolina 🎧 Listen on audio: (add your platforms/links here) 📘 Lee’s book: “Because I Said So, and Other Things Weak Leaders Say” – available June 2 (add link when live) Support the show

    2h 5m
  2. May 18

    Episode 35 (Cody's retirement, Cigar family, Conspiracy talks)

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of the Hot Ashes Podcast, Lee, TK, Amy, Dakota, and Roger light up some great sticks, pour serious bourbon, and dive into one of the most emotional and unfiltered conversations yet. We kick things off recapping our brother Cody’s retirement from the Marine Corps after 27 years of service — from Lee putting the uniform back on and giving a heartfelt speech, to the powerful moments with Cody’s kids and the community that showed up for him. We talk about what it really feels like to take the uniform off for the last time, the struggle of transition, and what “thank you for your service” means from both sides of the table. From there we get into: The cigar-shop family vibe: how this crew always shows up for each other — moving houses, honoring friends we’ve lost, and throwing a retirement party that went way too late.Cody’s insane bourbon haul and everyone’s drinks & smokes for the night (My Father Blue, Drew Estate Sweet Jane, George’s box-pressed, Basil Hayden, Eagle Rare, Jefferson’s Ocean, and more).A sobering moment about a neighbor collapsing while breaking up a dog fight and how fast life can change.Then the conversation takes a hard turn into: 9/11, NASA, the moon landing, aliens, and flat earth–adjacent theoriesMoney, power, and why celebrities and politicians drive us crazyThe NFL, college football, NIL money, and why pro athletes make more than the people we send to warIt’s raw, it’s honest, it’s emotional, and it’s absolutely not scripted. As always, this is entertainment and opinion, not “official” anything — just a group of friends around a table, cigars in hand, talking about life, service, and the crazy world we’re living in. ⏱ Chapters (suggested): 0:00 – Lighting up & drink/cigar roll call 1:00 – Cody’s Marine Corps retirement & Lee back in uniform 6:30 – Gifts, plaques, and emotional moments at the ceremony 10:00 – The party recap: cigars, bourbon, and 4 a.m. bedtimes 14:30 – A neighbor collapses breaking up a dog fight 18:00 – Cigar shop “family” and how the crew always shows up 22:30 – Amy’s COVID-era retirement with no proper ceremony 27:00 – What “thank you for your service” really means 35:00 – Veterans, Vietnam stories, and perspective on hardship 39:00 – 9/11 questions, Building 7, and conspiracy talk 43:00 – Did we go to the moon? NASA, Artemis, and space skepticism 50:00 – NFL scripts, team names, and the Redskins/Commanders rant 1:00:00 – College football, NIL, and money in sports 1:15:00 – Politics, term limits, and the “world is a stage” 1:25:00 – Closing thoughts & switching back to cigars 💨 Featured Cigars: My Father BlueGeorge’s box-pressed (and torpedo)Drew Estate Sweet JaneRed Meat Lovers (Tatuaje collab) …and more we probably shouldn’t smoke all in one weekend.🥃 Featured Spirits: Tennessee Standard blended bourbon (Kings Family Distillery)Mictors 10Eagle Rare, Buffalo Trace, Basil HaydenRussell’s single barrel & 10-yearJefferson’s OceanE.H. Taylor small batch and other heaters from Cody’s new shelfIf you’re into cigars, bourbon, veterans’ stories, and unfiltered barbershop-level conversation, you’re in the right place. Like, subscribe, and drop a comment: What’s your go-to cigar & pour?Are you a vet? Tell us where you served and how your transition went.Which topic in this episode hit you hardest?#HotAshesPodcast #Cigars #Bourbon #Veterans #MarineCorps #MilitaryRetirement #ConspiracyTalk #NFL #CollegeFootball Support the show

    2h 20m
  3. May 11

    Episode 34 (Dakota's Back, Overseas Travel, George Strait)

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to the Hot Ashes Podcast! In this episode, Lee, TK, and the crew welcome back a returning guest fresh from a 7‑month contractor stint in the Middle East. We fire up some premium sticks, pour some top‑shelf bourbon, and dive into stories that range from hilarious to hair‑raising. In this episode: Deep dive into cigars: Perdomo Legacy, Herrera Estelí, Leather Rose, Rocky Patel 60, Cuban classics, and more Pairing cigars with bourbon, beer, coffee, and chai (including “poor man’s Pappy”) Wild flight stories: drunk passengers, Dubai airport drama, and life in an ABC state Life as a civilian contractor in the Middle East: deployment getting extended when conflict kicks off, mail stopping, and trying to keep morale up with cigars and memes The guest’s first‑ever concert: George Strait at Clemson (Death Valley) with Cody Johnson and Wyatt Flores — tailgating, 90,000+ fans, LED wristbands, and a truly patriotic show Tech & gear talk: 3D printers, laser engravers, Apple vs PC, gaming rigs, and more random shop talk If you’re into cigars, bourbon, country music, veteran stories, and unapologetic bar‑stool conversations, this one’s for you. 🔔 Subscribe for more episodes of the Hot Ashes Podcast 👍 Like, comment, and tell us: Your go‑to cigar and drink pairing The best concert you’ve ever been to #podcast #cigars #bourbon #GeorgeStrait #CodyJohnson #WyattFlores #veteran #MiddleEast #contractor #countrymusic #tailgating Support the show

    2h 14m
  4. Apr 27

    Episode 32 (Kentucky trip, Cody's retirement, Injuries)

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to the Hot Ashes Podcast – TK is off getting married, so Lee is holding it down at George’s Cigar Shop in Swansboro, NC with Cody, Chris, Roger, and Solange. In this episode, we light up some great sticks, crack a few cold ones, and go down a bunch of hilarious rabbit holes: In this episode: Bourbon & Distillery Adventures: Roger breaks down his bucket list trip to Kentucky – Buffalo Trace, Jim Beam, Heaven Hill, tasting straight from the barrel, bourbon history, and the wild economics of Pappy Van Winkle.New Orleans Stories: Chris talks about his work trip to New Orleans – WWII Museum, Jazz Fest, crawfish, gumbo, jambalaya, and why Bourbon Street is “the funner parts of hell.”Cigars & Drinks of the Night: The crew shares what they’re smoking and drinking, from George’s house cigars to Guinness, Four Roses Single Barrel, and even nicotine-free pouches.Tesla, Trucks & Road Trips: Real talk on Teslas, range anxiety, self‑driving, charging times, old trucks, gas prices, and why some of us just aren’t sold on EV road trips yet.DIY & Dumb Injury Confessions: Power tools while drinking, garage projects gone wrong, childhood BMX and BB gun disasters, eyeball mishaps, and why you probably should wear safety gear.Hospitals, Surgeons & Anesthesia: A serious detour into a wild case of a surgeon removing the wrong organ, how that can even happen, anesthetic horror/funny stories, colonoscopies, concussions, and psych/brain treatments.Random Shenanigans: TK’s wedding, retirement plans, kayaks, Ironman training, cold plunges, generational differences, and growing up pre‑smartphone.If you like cigars, bourbon, dark humor, military stories, and absolutely unfiltered conversation, you’re in the right place. 🔥 Hit like, subscribe, and drop a comment about: Your favorite bourbon or cigarThe dumbest injury you’ve ever hadWhether you’d actually trust full self‑driving on a road trip Support the show

    2h 8m
  5. Apr 20

    Episode 31 (Dr. Death, Customer service, Deployments)

    Send us Fan Mail On this episode of the Hot Ashes Podcast from Georgia Cigars in Swansboro, NC, Lee and TK are joined by Evan for cigars, bourbon, and some wild conversations. We kick things off with what we’re smoking and drinking, then dive into: TK’s upcoming wedding – planning stress, pre‑game jitters, and why he’s giving his fiancée 100% of the credit Evan’s first Marine Corps deployment and homecoming – forgetting to call his parents, UTV horror stories, and what he missed most while overseas The insane story of a Florida doctor indicted for second‑degree manslaughter after removing the wrong organ in surgery, and a heated talk about medical accountability and malpractice Customer service rants – from VA phone hell to fast‑food attitudes and why good service feels rare these days A surprisingly deep (and funny) debate on showers, bar soap vs. loofahs, and hygiene Gym etiquette & fashion trends we hate – broccoli hair, mullets, massive eyelashes, and the “influencer” gym crowd Swimming, Marine water survival, and pool stories – underwater games, CWS quals, AMP training, and overcoming fear of the water Future travel and family trip plans, plus thoughts on fatherhood, aging, and making time for the people who matter If you like cigars, real talk, dark humor, and unfiltered opinions, you’re in the right place. Hit like, subscribe, and drop a comment with: Your take on the Florida doc story Your biggest customer service horror story Where you stand on the great bar‑soap vs. loofah debate Timestamps (you can tweak these to your actual edit): 0:00 – Intro, cigars & drinks 2:30 – TK’s wedding countdown 6:30 – Evan’s deployment & homecoming 12:00 – The Florida “wrong organ” doctor story 36:00 – VA & customer service rants 50:00 – Bar soap vs. loofah, hygiene talk 58:00 – Fashion trends and gym etiquette 1:15:00 – Swimming, Marine stories & AMP 1:30:00 – Travel, family, and wrapping up Support the show

    2 hr
  6. Apr 13

    Episode 30 (Drinks, Guns, Movies)

    Send us Fan Mail We’re back at Georgia Cigar Shop in Swansboro, NC for Episode 30 of the Hot Ashes Podcast. Lee, TK, Ed, and Roger light up and settle in for a long-form hang that covers way more than just cigars. In this episode: What we’re smoking & drinking Avo Caribe, George’s Nicaraguan special blend, Fat Bottom Betty Yingling, Schweppes ginger ale, vodka + ginger ale, Negroni, Old Fashioned, Manhattans, mojitos, rum & Coke, red blends & more Guns, training & raffles Glocks, 1911s, Canik TTI, AR vs. AK, .22s, compensators, dry-fire systems Range stories, safety, and Masonic/Shriner gun raffles (plus winning streaks and fundraising for kids’ hospitals) Movies, sequels & shows Spaceballs (and fears about Spaceballs 2), History of the World Part II, Superman movies, John Wick, Urban Cowboy, Jerry Maguire, The Pit, Lord of the Rings Dogs, deployments & family Ed’s son coming home from deployment, homecoming plans, dogs reuniting with their owners, Great Danes, boxers, golden retrievers Nostalgia: games, books & arcades NES/SNES, Duck Hunt, Time Crisis, DDR, book fairs, Saturday morning cartoons, newspaper comics (Calvin & Hobbes, The Far Side, etc.) Small-town life & Georgia Cigar Shop vibes How the shop looks like a house, regulars at the table, welcoming new people, and Penny the shop pup roaming around If you like cigars, good drinks, guns, movies, and old-school nostalgia with a laid-back shop-table vibe, this one’s for you. Timestamps (approx): 0:00 – Intro, what we’re smoking & drinking 2:30 – Ed’s son’s deployment & dog reunion stories 9:00 – Mixed drinks, beer, wine, and changing tastes 25:00 – Sequels, remakes & movie rants (Spaceballs, Superman, etc.) 31:00 – Guns, training, dry fire systems & range talk 46:00 – Raffles, Shriners, fundraising & kids’ hospitals 54:00 – Western wear, weddings & small-town Swansboro 1:01:00 – Books, cartoons & 80s/90s nostalgia 1:18:00 – Golf, simulators & the love–hate relationship with the game 1:20:00 – Classic games, NES/SNES, Duck Hunt & VR Connect with us: Drop your favorite cigar + drink pairing in the comments Tell us your all-time favorite old-school video game or 80s/90s movie  #HotAshesPodcast #Cigars #CigarLoungeTalk #WhiskeyAndCigars #GunTalk #MovieTalk #Nostalgia #SwansboroNC #GeorgiaCigarShop Support the show

    2h 1m
  7. Mar 30

    Episode 28 (Liquor, fast food, TV shows)

    Send us Fan Mail We’re back at Cedro de Azmar / George’s Cigars in Swansboro, North Carolina, doing what we do best: sitting in a cigar shop talking about everything and nothing at the same time. On this episode of the Hot Ashes Podcast: Cigars & drinks on the table San Cristobal, George’s box-press Maduro, EP Carrillo Encore, plus Old Forester 1920, Minor Case rye, and more.Whiskey, bourbon, and Scotch talk Old Forester vs. Knob Creek vs. Woodford, Johnny Walker Black vs. Blue, Jameson, peat vs. smooth, and how to figure out what flavor profile you actually like (including a quick breakdown of Scotch regions like Islay and Highland).Fast food & comfort food debates Bojangles vs. Red Lobster, Bo-Berry Biscuits vs. Cheddar Bay biscuits, McDonald’s hotcakes and McGriddles, Chick-fil-A, Dunkin sweet tea, and some unholy “cheat code” breakfast combos.Smoking culture & etiquette From smoking/non-smoking sections in the 90s to modern cigar bars, being considerate with cigars and cigarettes, and the people who wander into cigar-friendly spaces and get mad about smoke.Medicine & residency stories Roger talks about his time on transplant surgery at UCLA—flying out on jets and helicopters for organ procurement, holding a liver in place during transplant, and what residency really does to your sleep and sanity.Pull up a chair, light a cigar, pour a drink, and hang out with us for a laid-back Sunday in Swansboro. Question of the episode: Are you Team Bo-Berry Biscuit or Team Cheddar Bay—and what’s your go-to cigar + whiskey combo? Support the show

    2h 34m

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The Hot Ashes Podcast is where cigars, conversation, and camaraderie come together. Hosted by veterans and longtime friends, the show blends sharp humor, real talk, and storytelling straight from the cigar lounge. One week it’s swapping war stories, the next it’s debating music, movies, leadership, or life’s big questions—no script, no filters, just unfiltered conversation and good bourbon. Whether you’re lighting up a cigar or just looking for a seat at the table, Hot Ashes delivers laughs, insight, and the kind of banter you’d expect from a crew that’s seen a little of everything.