Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC!

TQ

A book and podcast to help late-diagnosed/identified Autistic and ADHD 2SLGBTQIA+ people of color feel seen, supported, and less alone while living in multiple margins. Support our project at https://rewilding.cc/book - funds go toward our interviewees, the Autistic People of Color Mutual Aid Fund, and my disabled friend Nara, a mother of 2 living with multiple sclerosis and pancreatic cancer. *Important Note: The Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! podcast acknowledges that the Big Tech companies that host and distribute our podcast content, such as Apple, Spotify, Meta (Instagram), TikTok, and Google (YouTube) are complicit in global human rights abuses, wars, genocides, unethical sourcing of minerals, data mining/surveillance, and censorship. We know we can't make everyone happy with our decision to distribute this podcast via these Big Tech channels. Ultimately, our independent podcast strives to make our content as accessible to as many queer autistic and ADHD people of color as possible. We refuse to subscribe to a purity politic that demands every aspect of this project to be ethically "pure," which would just allow white supremacy culture to co-opt and effectively "censor" this podcast altogether. TLDR; Big Tech is terrible, but we need our audience to be able to find our much-needed content. Of course, if you have any ideas or suggestions, please contact us here.

  1. TQ on Growing Up in Conformist Environments & the Real Costs of Living in Multiple Margins

    JAN 6

    TQ on Growing Up in Conformist Environments & the Real Costs of Living in Multiple Margins

    Support the book and podcast by pre-ordering Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! at https://rewilding.cc/book CW: child physical abuse, brief mentions of s*icidal ideation, and SA. Please use the timestamps below to skip potentially triggering content. In this episode: 00:40: I, TQ (they/them), introduce my identities, chronic illnesses, neurodivergences, and privileges as the host of Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! 02:40: My AuDHD journey - starting with early difficulties with socialization, rigid behavior, and autistic burnout (CW: child physical abuse). 05:10: How being a public high school teacher led to my ADHD diagnosis 07:40: Why I continued to struggle after my ADHD diagnosis 09:35: The pros and cons of my autism evaluation and diagnosis experience 13:10: The AuDHD contradictions I experience - especially on top of other neurodivergences and chronic illnesess  16:40: How physical disabilities, transness, queerness, and chronic illness overlap with my AuDHD traits (CW: brief mentions of s*icidal ideation) 21:30: The real violence and financial costs I’ve faced living in the multiple margins of queerness, being negatively racialized, and autistic (CW: SA) 23:40: Immigration as both a challenge and an access need  25:40: Moving from self-care to collective care - what’s helped me most 30:30: Unabashed joy in echolalia and Special Interests 32:35: My message to other queer AuDHD folks who might feel like they’re “too much” for the people and environments they’re in 34:15: What I urgently want therapists, healthcare professionals, Singaporean policymakers, and Singaporean teachers to know about serving multiply-marginalized autistic people of color  35:40: What the Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! book covers and how you can support us at https://rewilding.cc/book - which is also how you can join my free newsletter, hire me for peer support, and participate in our community events. Access the full transcript in our upcoming Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! book by pre-ordering a copy at https:///rewilding.cc/book #autistic #actuallyautistic #adhd #audhd #queeraudhdbipoc #audhdbipoc #qtibipoc #bipoc #neurodivergence #neurodiversity

    38 min
  2. Supernova on Being a Deafblind, Plural & AuDHD Kashmiri Equestrian

    12/22/2025

    Supernova on Being a Deafblind, Plural & AuDHD Kashmiri Equestrian

    CW: Brief mentions of psychiatric abuse, plus descriptions of overt racism, ableism, genocide and s**cide by self-immolation. Please listen with care and use the timestamps to skip triggering content. Help us sustain the Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! project by pre-ordering a copy of your book at https://rewilding.cc/book In this episode: 00:30: Meet the Supernova system (they/them), a genderfluid, ace-spec, non-binary deafBlind Indigenous Kashmiri AuDHDer 02:30: Supernova talks about their complex journey of multiple diagnoses — including an ultra-rare disease diagnosis — at a young age. CW: brief mentions of psychiatric abuse. 07:00: What it’s like to have Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), be deafBlind, and navigate medium support needs 11:04: Supernova introduces their Special Interest in equestrianism - plus their ancestral ties to horses in Pakistan. 14:40: They talk about all the systemic barriers they face in the equestrian industry, including racism, ableism, and financial barriers 23:40: Supernova’s powerful message about claiming space as disabled BIPOC folks 28:40 How they navigate neurodivergence, high pressure, and performance at horse shows as a disabled Indigenous Kashmiri person 31:20: What Supernova urgently wants you to know about witnessing the Kashmir genocide in real-time. CW: mentions of s**cide and self-immolation. 35:10: Learn more about their experiences as “Patient Zero” with early-diagnosed JOAG (Juvenile Open Angle Glaucoma) - and how you can support them in finding a cure 36:40: How you can support Supernova through mutual aid and reposting their content on JOAG, Kashmir, and deafBlind life at https://www.instagram.com/angry_autist/ - Read Supernova’s posts about the Genocide of the Chitral, Pahtan, and Kashmir peoples: Part 1: https://www.instagram.com/p/DHJzF9jydEx/ Part 2: https://www.instagram.com/p/DHM9uhVxtMi/ Part 3: https://www.instagram.com/p/DHNCnbpRoZx/ Part 4: https://www.instagram.com/p/DHPwF_QM0L9/  - Read Supernova’s post about JOAG: https://www.instagram.com/p/DIzErB_xn3T/  Access the full transcript in our upcoming Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! book by pre-ordering a copy at https:///rewilding.cc/book #autistic #actuallyautistic #adhd #audhd #queeraudhdbipoc #audhdbipoc #qtibipoc #bipoc #neurodivergence #neurodiversity

    38 min
  3. Kaishawna on Black, DeafBlind, and Autistic Disability Advocacy

    12/16/2025

    Kaishawna on Black, DeafBlind, and Autistic Disability Advocacy

    -Hire Kaishawna to speak at your event: https://www.instagram.com/kaishawna_music/ -Send Kaishawna mutual aid @ Venmo: Kai_Music85; Paypal: kaish470; CashApp: $KaishawnaFleming -Help us sustain the Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! project by pre-ordering a copy of our book at https://rewilding.cc/book In this episode: 00:37: Meet Kaishawna (they/them), a 24-year-old Black medium to high support needs autistic deafBlind trans college student 01:06: How their hearing loss and perceived gender delayed their autism diagnosis till adulthood 01:48: How Blackness affects how Kaishawna’s multiple disabilities are perceived 02:17: What helps them navigate college as a multiply-disabled student 02:42: What it’s like living with fluctuating medium to high support needs 03:39: The difficulties that Kaishawna faces in receiving adequate accommodations for their multiple disabilities in college 05:14: The two biggest Special Interests that bring them joy 06:15: What it’s like to be Deaf and still sensitive to loud noises 06:47: What Kaishawna wants queer AuDHD BIPOC and the world to know - especially about Black and Brown disabled voices 07:54: How you can support Kaishawna through mutual aid and the educational services they offer as a Black deafBlind autistic college student Access the full transcript in our upcoming Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! book by pre-ordering a copy at https:///rewilding.cc/book #autistic #actuallyautistic #adhd #audhd #queeraudhdbipoc #audhdbipoc #qtibipoc #bipoc #neurodivergence #neurodiversity

    12 min
  4. Kantu on Indigenous Bolivian-Dominican Identity and Autonomy-Centered Care

    12/09/2025

    Kantu on Indigenous Bolivian-Dominican Identity and Autonomy-Centered Care

    -Follow Kantu/the Galaxy System, hire them for art commissions, and contribute to their mutual aid at https://www.instagram.com/angry_autist/ -Help us sustain the Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! project by pre-ordering a copy of your book at https://rewilding.cc/book In this episode: 00:25: Meet Kantu (all pronouns/they/them), a Bolivian-Dominican, genderqueer lesbian AuDHDer, and all their intersecting identities, disabilities, and chronic illnesses. 01:46: Their autism and ADHD diagnoses journey, and why they don’t really identify with early or late-diagnosed labels 04:00: What it’s like when their ADHD and autism pull them in opposite directions — plus how they overlap with major depressive disorder and dissociative identity disorder 07:00: Why growing up in Bolivian-Dominican communities that normalized their neurodivergent traits while still being conservative about queerness 10:22: The challenges and beauty of being “all of the above” — queer, disabled, neurodivergent, and racialized 13:05: Kantu shares how neurodivergence makes their workplace in the music industry more fun 15:18: How white-dominated neurodivergent spaces ignore intersectionality while profiting from representation 17:51: What “medium support needs” looks like at work and at home for Kantu 20:11: How crochet, composing, and performing music drive her lifelong joys and Special Interests 21:59: Why newly-diagnosed, questioning AuDHD folks shouldn’t fear the word “disability” 23:20: Kantu shares their workplace accommodations and encourages others to ask for what they need without guilt 26:35: “The dream model of psychiatric care” — a shoutout to their healthcare team and the self-advocacy it takes to seek autonomy-centered, transparent, and collaborative healthcare 29:23: Kantu’s closing message about autonomy for all healthcare professionals and policymakers 30:12: How to support Kantu’s content and art commissions Access the full transcript in our upcoming Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! book by pre-ordering a copy at https:///rewilding.cc/book #autistic #actuallyautistic #adhd #audhd #queeraudhdbipoc #audhdbipoc #qtibipoc #bipoc #neurodivergence #neurodiversity

    33 min
  5. Lakan Ubaya Nagsalad on Ancestral Connection, Traditional Medicine, and Gender

    11/24/2025

    Lakan Ubaya Nagsalad on Ancestral Connection, Traditional Medicine, and Gender

    - Support Lakan Ubaya’s traditional medicine practice at https://www.the-atang.site/ - The BIPOC autistic evaluator he mentioned - the link no longer works sadly: https://www.breakingbarrierstogetherllc.org/ Help us sustain this project by contributing to our fundraiser: https://rewilding.cc/book In this episode: 00:42: Lakan Ubaya Nagsalad (he/it) introduces his Tagalog and Chinoy ancestry and the interconnectedness of his gender, queerness, and neurodivergence 01:33: How Lakan Ubaya’s couple’s therapy session led to an unexpected realization — and why it was difficult for it to see itself in the diagnostic criteria at first 05:35: The gift of being evaluated by an autistic BIPOC therapist 07:13: How an AuDHD diagnosis transformed his relationships and career 09:05: How Lakan Ubaya’s traditional Chinese medicine training influence his views on neurodivergence, autism, ADHD, and other common co-occurring health conditions 15:08: How whiteness, colonialism, and capitalism shape our views of neurodivergence 18:45: Lakan Ubaya’s gender identity journey — and looking beyond whitewashed, colonial concepts of gender 22:42: How traditional healers in the Philippines exist beyond colonial concepts of the gender binary and neurotypicality — and why seeking pre-colonial “authenticity” is a myth 26:59: “People just assume that I don’t struggle mentally as much as I actually do” — all the tools and scaffolds it relies on to survive 28:54: The financial, career, emotional, and energetic costs of being a multiply-disabled queer autigender Asian American person in a capitalist society 32:15: Food as a nonverbal, somatic way for Lakan Ubaya’s bicultural and possibly neurodivergent family members to communicate 33:42: We gushed about mooncake, Mid-Autumn Festival, and why some Asian autistics prefer it to Lunar New Year 35:28: “We have kindred spirits around us all the time” — on connecting with other autistic BIPOC and ancestral practices 38:19: How to support Lakan Ubaya’s practice in traditional medicine Access the transcript for this episode by supporting us at: https://rewilding.cc/book #autistic #actuallyautistic #adhd #audhd #queeraudhdbipoc #audhdbipoc #qtibipoc #bipoc #neurodivergence #neurodiversity

    40 min
  6. Charlotte Hunter Louttit-Kijekijik on Being Two-Spirit, Métis, and AuDHD

    11/18/2025

    Charlotte Hunter Louttit-Kijekijik on Being Two-Spirit, Métis, and AuDHD

    Hire Charlotte! https://www.charlottehunter.ca/ Support the Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! project by pre-ordering a copy of the book: https://rewilding.cc/book  00:43: Charlotte introduces her Métis, Two-Spirit, neurodivergent background 02:02: How working as a lawyer and moving back to her childhood home when the Covid pandemic began kickstarted her journeys into seeking an autism diagnosis and gender-affirming care 08:56: Charlotte unpacks neurodivergence and Two-Spirit identity in the maternal side of her family 11:35: How ADHD and other diagnoses didn’t explain everything for her before her autism diagnosis 14:13: How she sees gender-diverse and neurodivergent people in Métis culture express themselves as Two-Spirit 16:23: The difficulties she faced in unlearning internalized racism and ableism to access social assistance 18:51: The nuances of growing up with male-presenting, white-presenting privilege 20:11: Everything that Charlotte’s tried to helped and didn’t help her navigate the challenges of being AuDHD 24:48: On the challenges of self-advocacy at the doctor’s office with multiple health conditions 26:20: What brings Charlotte most joy in her forties with her family, community, nature, and ancestral reconnection 29:53: Charlotte’s biggest advice for newly-identified/diagnosed folks 33:43: The biggest thing she wants therapists and healthcare providers to know — especially about their hiring practices — in order to better support queer AuDHD BIPOC 37:06: How you can support Charlotte’s work in the Two-Spirit Council, Métis Nation of Ontario, and more Access the transcript in our upcoming book by pre-ordering here: https://rewilding.cc/book  #autistic #actuallyautistic #adhd #audhd #queeraudhdbipoc #audhdbipoc #qtibipoc #bipoc #neurodivergence #neurodiversity

    38 min
  7. Kristen on Growing Up Black, Southern, Queer & AuDHD

    11/11/2025

    Kristen on Growing Up Black, Southern, Queer & AuDHD

    Support Kristen at: - https://theblackurbanist.com (where you can pre-order the Defying Gentrification Playbook!) - https://theblackurbanist.substack.com/ - @blackurbanist and @kristpattern on socials Help fund and sustain the Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! book and podcast at https://rewilding.cc/book  Citations: - Sabrina Strings, Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fat Phobia - “That is how I learned that if I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive.” Quote from Audre Lorde, (1982) “Learning from the 60s.”: https://blackpast.org/african-american-history/1982-audre-lorde-learning-60s/  In this episode: 00:54: Kristen (she/they) introduces all her intersections as a 39-year-old disabled Black feminist urbanist, North Carolinan, AuDHDer, and non-binary pansexual person facing the civil rights pullback right now 06:32: How she struggled to recognize her AuDHD as a Black Southerner until seeing her friend’s struggles with access and ableism and her partner’s own ADHD diagnosis 10:33: The obstacles Kristen faced in obtaining an AuDHD diagnosis due to systemic barriers in US healthcare and health insurance 14:44: Why Kristen believes an early diagnosis can become an extra layer of discrimination for Black American kids — and how both the freedom and structure of the college environment helped her thrive 17:34: When she noticed her first moments of autistic burnout and meltdown and how she connected them to her possibly autistic father’s misdiagnosis of bipolar disorder 18:49: How Kristen’s conservative, religious upbringing shaped the ways in which she viewed social and communication difficulties, mental health, and therapy in college 20:22: Their rough transition to the workplace with high stakes and arbitrary rules — and why they want to run their own business instead, especially in the still ongoing Covid pandemic 26:49: “Sometimes as Black folks, we don’t even get to get through the door [of the clinic]” 27:58: “ Everybody doesn't need to be working as much” — are we showing ourselves enough grace and empathy and honoring ourselves? 31:04: How can we work towards balancing everyone’s access needs? 32:31: The no. 1 thing Kristen would say to her younger self and other queer AuDHD BIPOC to hold onto who you are and feel seen 37:21: If we had a more neurodivergent-friendly world, would we have to resort to hating someone else to get what we need? 38:48: Kristen’s support needs wishlist and how you can support all of their creative work — including their upcoming book, “The Defying Gentrification Playbook” Access the transcript in our upcoming book by pre-ordering here: https://rewilding.cc/book  #autistic #actuallyautistic #adhd #audhd #queeraudhdbipoc #audhdbipoc #qtibipoc #bipoc #neurodivergence #neurodiversity

    44 min

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A book and podcast to help late-diagnosed/identified Autistic and ADHD 2SLGBTQIA+ people of color feel seen, supported, and less alone while living in multiple margins. Support our project at https://rewilding.cc/book - funds go toward our interviewees, the Autistic People of Color Mutual Aid Fund, and my disabled friend Nara, a mother of 2 living with multiple sclerosis and pancreatic cancer. *Important Note: The Queer! AuDHD! BIPOC! podcast acknowledges that the Big Tech companies that host and distribute our podcast content, such as Apple, Spotify, Meta (Instagram), TikTok, and Google (YouTube) are complicit in global human rights abuses, wars, genocides, unethical sourcing of minerals, data mining/surveillance, and censorship. We know we can't make everyone happy with our decision to distribute this podcast via these Big Tech channels. Ultimately, our independent podcast strives to make our content as accessible to as many queer autistic and ADHD people of color as possible. We refuse to subscribe to a purity politic that demands every aspect of this project to be ethically "pure," which would just allow white supremacy culture to co-opt and effectively "censor" this podcast altogether. TLDR; Big Tech is terrible, but we need our audience to be able to find our much-needed content. Of course, if you have any ideas or suggestions, please contact us here.