Mila Smith is a certified relationship and dating coach with more than 25 years' experience in relationship management, helping people understand themselves, choose better partners and build healthier, lasting relationships. What happens when AI starts filling the spaces that used to belong to other people? In F&T66, Mila and I talk about AI companions, dating apps and the loneliness epidemic — but the conversation quickly becomes much bigger than technology. We get into what human relationships give us that AI can't, why connection and community matter for wellbeing, and whether becoming increasingly self-sufficient has actually made us less connected to one another. Mila explains the six key life values that can shape long-term compatibility, why shared hobbies and interests may matter less than we assume, and why trust and constructive conflict are much more important. We also talk about attachment styles, confirmation bias, first impressions, dating intentionally, how dating apps can be better used (and understood), as well as how to build a life that doesn't depend on one person to fulfil every need.And perhaps the simplest question underneath all of this is: if we're surrounded by people, why are so many of us still lonely? More from Mila https://www.single-to-couple.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/mila-smith-relationship-dating-coach/ Keep exploring Fitness & Thinking If this conversation got you thinking about relationships, connection and what actually makes a good life, there are a few places to go next: F&T61 | Your Relationships Will Struggle Without This A reflection on relationships through the lens of everything we've discussed across the F&T archive — including connection, identity, expectations and the ways our physical and emotional lives overlap. F&T43 | Beth Kirkbride — Moving In, Moving On & Moving Out A much more personal conversation about relationships, breakups, space, boundaries and what it actually takes to move on when a relationship changes. F&T31 | 10 Painful Lessons From 2025 A solo reflection on community, purpose, the people around us and some of the lessons that emerged from the first 30 episodes of F&T. Fitness & Thinking explores the physical, mental, social, emotional, spiritual and financial sides of what it means to live well — and the strange territory between achieving what you thought you wanted and figuring out what comes next. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe to Fitness & Thinking on YouTube and leave a comment with the relationship, idea or question that got you thinking. New episodes every week. Follow F&T https://www.instagram.com/fitnessandthinking/ https://fitnessandthinking.substack.com/ Want to work with Jack on your own physical and wider wellbeing? Email: coachjackmann@gmail.com Guest ideas, collaborations or questions? Email: fitnessandthinking@gmail.com